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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend and my friend are fighting. Neither will tell me why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half, we see each other as much as possible but it's a LD relationship at the moment. He did get drunk and cheated once before therefore I'm always worried. Well while online I told a m...

He lied, I wasn't his first. Should that matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Well me and my fiance have been together for 10 years, I was 14 when we started him 18. Well when we first started he had told me he wasn't a virgin and had sex with his girlfriend before me, but then after we had sex he said he was lying. Off an on ...

Dysfunctional Relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - A couple of weeks ago, I was in a place some of you girls might be in right now. For about a year, I was placed in a dysfunctional relationship. Eventually, I got use to the abusive cycle and no matter how much I was exhausted, no matter how much I ...

How do I stop seeing my ex when my feelings for him won't die?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend because he was a cheater and my family did not approve of him because of what he was doing. So I jumped into a relationship to get over him but I was never over him. I have been with my current boyfriend going on ...

I want to forgive my ex, but my online guy says he's a total jerk. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I have been friends with my bf Ryan since we were like 5 yrs old. He asked me out on my first date a few days after my 16th bday and we have been together ever since. (WE ARE BOTH 20 NOW). We had a great relationship and just as much as best ...

My wife cheated and left me twice, and I have a GF who is hurt because I'm still married... what should I do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - Please I need help (tears). I'm shaking and crying writing this letter. Reader....Please take time to read this if you can. I have been married for 16 years. My wife is very controlling and is very jealous of me. A few years ago I was into modeling. ...

I need an opinion about what he wrote. (Short question!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Dear friends, I have come here in the past for your much needed advice and you have been so wonderful and thoughtful to respond each time. My question is in part short, it's something the man in my life emailed me a few days ago. This man wants t...

Should I give her another chance and play this stupid role forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - i knows it's a little long, i really want a different point of view. thanks in advance... i love this woman and her son (not mine) w/ all my heart. all my friends and my mother tell me to stay away from her. i try to stay away and its hard, be...

My parents are looking for another man for me, my guy he hasn't told his parents, and I am thinking of ending the relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Wanted to know i am working i hve boyfriend i have spoke to my parents abt our relationship but my parents are against our relationship and they r looking for another guy for me and the guy whom i love is not telling any thing to his parents i have ...

What can I do to make him pay more attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - What can I do to make him pay more attention? I've been in a relationship thats coming upto 3 years!! My bf's completely changed, doesn't make an effort with me, doesn't make time for me but when I suggest we should break up he can't say no, bu...

My mother is jealous and hurt because she thinks she's not involved enough with planning my wedding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I am getting married soon. And preparing for the wedding. Nothing has been really stressfull for me yet because it is a small wedding. My mother is upset at me because she says that I am not sharing anything with her and that when a daughter ...

Boyfriend wants to have sex with other girls!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend told me that he wants to experience having sex with other girls..quick info about us we've been dating for about 6 years now I was 15 he was 16 now (20 and 21) and we were each others first. I knew it would happen but didn't ...

Why did he change his mind about getting married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Both of us have been married twice, we have been together 2 yrs and known each other for 8+. When we first got together we both wanted the same thing to get married again one day but now 2 yrs later he is saying that he doesn't want to do it again. ...

Is he still pining for his ex wife or am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hi there I met this guy 2 years ago. At that time he broke up with his wife at her request. We moved in together at the begining of this year. Actually, i believe that he is still pinning for his wife; he's doing things for her, gives her money ev...

How can I rely on someone who acts like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - i've been in a relationship for the past 4 years and i try to make things work out, but now, i'm exhausted! Since my bf and I spent the hollidays with his family last year, we decided to go to my home town, and spend at least christmas with my mothe...

How do I get over him? I loved him more than I love myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - hey i had a bf. he was so nice n suit firstly. i loved him more than myself. but than he changed. it seemed like he didnt need me anymore, didnt want to be with me anymore, so i went far away from him. but whenever i remember him tears cum outa my ...

My boyfriend doesn't love m anymore, but he still cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. We became very close after about three months, I lost my virginity to him and he's the first guy I have actually sincerely loved. And he's different. He was the one that wanted to take everything ...

My husband's ex girlfriend is a psycho and horrible mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - The man I've been with for over 4 years has an ex that has a severe jealousy issue. She has hated everyone hes ever dated and hates me even more. This woman is in law enforcement and yet commits/gets away with some of the most unbelieveable things. ...

Why did he lie to me? And why is his ex more important than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hi Thanks your time. Dear, I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Switzerland guy, and I am Asian girl (Chinese). I just break up with my BF one month ago. Was 2 weeks before Is my birthda...

I felt guilty so I came on too strong. What can I do to fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - i met a girl about 2 1/2 weeks ago, we got to hang out a couple of times and i even went to her house once. She seemed to like me since she was always constantly calling me to do things together from going to the movies to going to parties and ...

Does moving on from my ex mean that I have to let go of my best friend too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - So after a year long dysfunctional relationship, I decided to put a stop to it once and for all. I am going sober from my ex boyfriend. Shortly after, me and my ex boyfriend broke up, a couple months back. I started dating my best friend (who has ...

He's gave me an STD and he's sleeping with a pregnant girl

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and i have recently been having sex with this guy who's 1 yr older than me and found out he gave me chlamydia when i confronted him about it he didn't really seem to be bothered (he knew he had it), worst thing is he was in a relationship ...

I'm afraid my husband is only with me because his ex is into women

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4 December 2009 (F) - I have a very strange situation, I met my now husband on match.com. We talked alot before meeting and he did tell me that he was still very close to his ex wife. He was married for 4 years and while he was gone on work she told him she was ...

He wants me but doesn't know if he wants a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I started dating my roommate recently. He used to have sex with women a lot but he doesn't make the first move with me and we've only had sex two times in 3 months. He was also very hesitant to actually "date" because he feels like I would move ...

He left his wife for me, but now he treats me badly

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been on here several times and I wanted to update my stories. I was seeing a married man for six years. His wife finally left him, and we moved in together. I thought things was really going to be okay, and that I was finally goin...

My boyfriend uses me for money

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: Age posted is incorrect] im 16 me and my bf have been pretty much been together for 2 years. we've had sex, quite alot and i fear that he will soon get tired of our relationship. we broke up earlier this year and he told me over ...

My fiance is convinced I'm cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, My fiance says that the reason why he is being so mean, acting out with so much animosity towards me is plainly because his mother is deceased (about 1 or 1 1/2 years ago). He constantly assumes that I have a dude coming over...

How to tell my LDR that I don't want to quit my job and move up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm new so please forgive me if I don't do this right. I've been dating my boyfriend long distance for about 9 months now, I am almost in my thirties and he is mid thirties. We were friends for 5 years when he lived nearby. He was with some...

How do we keep this a secret forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - I just know this post is going to be long winded because its such a difficult situation to explain. First of all I just want to say that I think that the problem is mine not my girlfriends, I just wondered if anybody had experienced similar emotions ...