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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why would she need a break from our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - We had a fight and it's a big one. We rarely have big fights, we had like 3 big fights within almost 3 years of our relationship. I was uneasy about something she has done. I was uneasy that she hangs out past 4am till like 6-7am in the morning with ...

Should I give this relationship time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I am very in love with my boyfriend of 3yrs, we have been off and on but for the most part on. Lately we have been arguing over things that dont even matter to me like him not working and me making money and not wanting to spend it on us, which is ...

How can I turn around our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. We have known each other for a few years prior to us hooking up. She is really sweet and kind towards me, and i love her to bits. She has spent quite a lot on me this Christmas, as i have ...

How can I find interesting things to talk about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My fiance told me yesterday and reminded me today that he no longer has anything interesting to say to me. He was acting really clingy the last week and then all of a sudden this happened. How can I bring something of interest to the conversation? ...

I honestly believe him with all my heart, should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating for about 3 months and things were going great like we never got into one fight or anything. But about a week ago i hear things going around that he wants to break up with me and im so upset because i dont understand ...

Whenever we break up he flirts with this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - im havin this problem with my bf lately there's this girl who he chats to on the internet and whenever we break up he ends up flirting with her. Telling her how he has these feelings for her and it bugs me a little sometimes but what really g...

Am I being manipulated or is he truly sorry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were in an on again off again relationship for three months, breaking up twice during the relationship until this third time when I ended it for good. The first time we broke up because he was talking about getting back together ...

I'm worried I will lose my boyfriend after my drunken flirting with another man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend (not real names) Lenny has a best friend named kate. kate has a brother- Nico who came for a visit in the country. we all arranged to go out with 2 other friends as well on friday night. however Lenny did not show up. they played so...

My boyfriend frequents dating websites, how do I learn to accept this and not let it bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - well.been with my bf for more than a year. i will try keeping it short. he goes on dating website and send request to women. and i dnt know how far it goes with them but i check his phone and i have his password as well which he does not know.I also ...

How do I convince her that I am the best option for her? I cant stand to see her get back with her abusive ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - I have a pretty big problem. Im in love with the most beautiful, smart, funny, amazingly fun to be around girl in the world. My friends loved her, she loved my friends, our parents are friends, they adore me and my parents adore her. When we first ...

Is this wrong? That I asked her for a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - If you ask a girl if you could kiss her and see where it'd would go. Is that rude? I thought this girl was going to end up giving me another chance to be with her.. So when I dropped her home.. I gave her a hug, and very gentleman like, grabbed ...

Can someone stay 30 minutes before he cum during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - dear cupid, i want to ask this question because am not comfortable with it. i had phone sex with my girl friend who i met on the internet. we shared pictures and known each other well but we haven't see face to face. she's not a virgin and also am ...

Women who need to take control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - Hello all RAINORFIRE here, OK Thanks to the Blizzard of "09" i had time to write this. The topic is Women who need to take control. There are many post on here where Females are telling the tail of the jerk boyfriend or husband whose ...

Failure and weak men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - Well hello all Its RAINORFIRE, I felt it is about time I jump into the mix. I have something to talk about, Men who are weak Cheating seems to be a huge issue it always has in relationships then there's the porn, post after post wives ...

I don't know how to be assertive without being an ass!

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21 December 2009 (M) - Well I've been hanging out with this girl for a while now and I know for sure that I like her. I actually think that I might and could develop some deep feelings for her. The problem is that I actually haven't seen her in exactly a month. We've been ...

Our bickering and insulting have become ingrained habits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Lately, I just can't stop fighting with my boyfriend! We've been together just over a year, and we used to get along so well. But for the past few months, we've both been under alot of stress, and take it out on each other. I feel like everything I ...

How come they cant see past the little inperfections and see ME!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Oh boy, I am lost. I'm 16 and have never had a boy friend nor have I ever been what the idiot guys at school call "Fuckable." Which is being #1 Skinny. #2 wear 3lbs of makeup that makes you look like some cliche teeny bopper popstar. and #3 have ...

To scared of being hurt again to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - i was in a serious relationship of 6years with the father of my 2year old son then he decided to just move on with his life because i did not agree to move in with him and he knows that im a christian i cannot live with him because we not ...

I have no answers to my emails from USA boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - last month i have met a guy from U.S, he is such a sweet guy to me, i confront that i like him so much, i love the way that he talk, i like the way that he smile at me,i think that i really fall in love with him and it seems to me that he also likes ...

Was it all a big hoax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - my bf and I have been dating for almost four years. We used to be so amazing together, we had so much fun, and hemade me feel like the most beautiful girl ever. I was so secure in myself and him. Now things are SO different. We have lived together ...