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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): I would txt her or call her up and tell her you need to talk. that its very important, that you have something very important news that she needs to no about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): You should tell the other woman the truth. id txt her or call her and tell her that you two need to talk seriously about something. that way she will no that something is really going on now. and he wont be able to lie his way out of this. not this time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): So, did you tell this woman that your pregnant yet? keep us all informed, id really like to no what happens. because my best friend is going through something simular. and she really needs some advice and help to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Im curious to no what happens with your sittuation. write back and let us no what happens.im sure youd like 2 make a comit about all the responses u have gotten.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): If this other woman knows that you to had sex. why didnt you come clean when she asked you if you were pregnant? do you and this man still talk and see each other,since his g/f found out about the two of you? if i was her id be really upset.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Does this guy no that you are pregnant? if he does maybe that why he isnt telling his g/f the truth. and expecially if he already has kids with his g/f. id come clean asap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Does this man have kids? do you have to work with her or see her at all? if you do she deserves to no the truth. before she makes a mistake to.this woman brobally wouldnt stay with him if she knows the whole truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): Hi
Yes i would tell the other woman but for the RIGHT REASONS..not malice. The man is trying to deny he has a child. The woman needs to KNOW so she can decide what she wants to do with this situation. She may want to leave the relationship or she may want to stay, if she chooses to stay then this possibly enables the child to have a dad and step mum and siblings.
Always FACE RESPONSIBILITY AND TRUTH ...but deliver the truth carefully thinking of the childs interests.
via con dios.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (6 April 2009):
 You are in a difficult position right now. If the girlfriend knows that you are seeing her b/f, whether or not he slept with you is less of an issue for her than his infidelity.However, what you need to do is to get a paternity test on him once the baby is born to establish the evidence that you will need when you seek financial support for the baby. With this evidence on hand, he cannot avoid the responsibility, and you need not be involved in the ensuing "discussion" between him and his g/f.I hope you are keeping yourself and the baby safe and healthy. Cat
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (6 April 2009):
 Yes, you should tell the gf about the baby. Baby is going to need financial support and your bf is going to have to contribute. What sort of excuse will he use then when he has to pay maintenance???
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