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At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!

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Question - (13 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *arnes writes:

ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel uncomfortable do i break up with him or jus look past it ??? Please boys let me hear your opinions to please !!!!!

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (13 July 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntOne thing females seems to have a hard time to accept is that assholes KNOW that being an asshole does NOT get you into a girls pants. So they put on the charm at first, the girl thinks she found a real prince and then when she is all buttered up, he reveals his true colours.

Stay with him if you want to take hard in the ass. if not, dump him and learn this lesson:

The harder the sales pitch, the crappier the product.

No clowns giving away free baloons outside a 3 star restaurant.

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A male reader, Cale03 United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

Cale03 agony auntthis is hard to call because there are a couple types of guys (and this is in huge perseptive) he could just be trying to get you to laugh, or he could be being a total disrepective vulgar jerk, or he's saying it because he doesn't know what else to say you could make him shy and make him not know what to do so he saay that because he doesnt know what else to say and doesnt want to lose you... it all depends on how he says it i guess

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthe's a young male of course all he wants is sex from you he's young and horny.

i'd leave him he was sweet to begin with because he knew how to get you to go out with him.

if you want respect them respect yourself get out of that relationship and find someone who is worth your time and effort you want to find someone who will respect you for you and wait until you are ready to have sex.

sex isn't just sex it's something special that should be shared not just sex because its sex.

this is what people don't realise it should be something you both enjoy in a relationship it's to explore eachothers bodies knowing eachother physically and mentally and becoming closer.

he is just a horny young boy who wants sex from any girl he can get it from.

i'd do yourself a HUGE favor and get out of that relationship it's dead end before it's started.

hope this helps sweety message me you want to talk further :)

x ilovebowsandcherries x

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