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writes:Hello there,Me and my GF are both 18 and we had sex the other day and the condom split and I 'cummed' in her. She is worried now and so am I about her being pregnant. She tells me that she is bleeding downstairrs and she always feels sick in the moirnings. We had sex around last week and I keep telling her not to worry I know its hard but I'll always be ehre for you and I'm really scared that she is pregnant becuase her mum will go up the wall and try and kill me (this is no joke she will).I bought her the Clear Blue test earlier and she is taken it later on...I'm just so worried she is! I've got plenty of money and so has she but just the fact of her telling her mum really does scare me. I've got a little sister who is 2 so I know how to handle babies and everything about them.I researched online earlier about pregnancy signs are most of them that are on the list relate to what she is doing at the moment, i.e breasts getting big, urine frequently, morning sickness.What should I do!!I just don't know if Im ready for a baby yet =(
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reader, betty_black +, writes (15 July 2009):
 My morning sickness didn't occur til the sixth week, and is it bleeding like a period or spotting? I have heard some women feel symptoms from the moment of conception, every woman is completely different. You cant expect the test to give an accurate answer unless she has already missed her period. Early response ones can detect a few days before the period but aren't completely accurate. She needs to wait until her period has skipped then test. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): Well if yall just had sex. She wouldnt be experiencing any of the symptoms yet.
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reader, ugh101  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 If it was less thn 72 hour you can get Plan B. Google it and see what u think. But hurry u only have a certian time that it would work.
You will have to wait a while to see if she is preg it wnt show up for a while..
Best of LuckXX
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 July 2009):
 My, my!! Well, if you only had this slip up the other day, I doubt very much that she would be showing symptoms by now! So don't get yourself worried - she is probably stressing as much as you are, hence the sick feelings in the morning. As for bleeding downstairs, does she have her period? Maybe she's just getting sick from that!
Anyhow, you bought her a Clear Blue test and for now, that's all you can do. Get the results, you may be worrying for nothing. But in the case that she is pregnant, before you talk to her parents perhaps it would be a good idea to go to a Planned Parenthood and talk about your options. They can help you figure out what is the best solution for you two - termination and adoption are out there too - and if you decide to keep the baby, the ins and outs of that decision. They can also help you figure out how best to tell your parents (they might have pamphlets or other useful material), and how to get your lives ready to include a child. At least you'll go to her parents and yours informed and looking a little more responsible. She may still freak out (she is a parent), but you'll at least have done your homework and have answers for her. I assure you, she won't kill you - especially if you are intending to be a good father and partner to her little girl and new grandchild.
If she is not pregnant, go to Planned Parenthood ANYWAY and talk to them about other birth control options so that you can avoid this issue in the future. She could go on birth control and with use of a condom, you'll be much safer. A back up plan is always a good idea.
You'll be okay. Just wait until you get those results. First things first, second things second.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (13 July 2009):
 well i think its a bit too late to take the morning after pill...
i think u need to wait it out til her next period is due, if she misses her period she needs to do a test and if she is pregnant u need to decide whether to keep it and have her mum find out or abortion in which case u can choose to tell her mum or not.
ultimately its a waiting game now im afraid til u do know for sure.
good luck!
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