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writes:Ive met a girl that I really really like. and she has also fallen for me to. She has left her boyfriend of six years for me. Anyway, this might sound very stupid but please take it seriousely as it is getting to me. She is under the impression that I have a really big penis. She thinks this because me and my friends got naked for charity once and one of her friends saw my manhood and kept telling people how big it was. i dont know why, maybe I just got lucky on that day.lol or that girl has only ever seen very small ones.lol. also a video of me on a phone leaked due to an ex and that showed me at a very good angle which made it look much bigger. I know how this must make me sound but im not some kind of weirdo!lolanyway, I know that all that group of girls think im very well endowed and they have mentioned it jokingly when im there aswell. The thing is im so worried that when the time comes to sleep with this girl and she sees it that she is going to be very dissapointed.she isnt at all shallow so it wouldnt bother her as far as going out with me I dont think but im so worried that when she sees it shes going to dissapointed. i think secretly she is quite excited about sleeping with me and is turned on by the thought of me having such a big one.It is 6 inches long and 5 and a half inches around, so i am average but is that gonna seem really small if shes expecting something much bigger?this is probably one for the girls.im worried to that she might regret finishing with her ex for me cos of it.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (13 July 2009):
 I doubt she left an ex of 6 years for a big cock. I don't think ANY women would do that. There is a little more to us females then the WANT for well hung men.
However I'm sure there are females who think the bigger the better. If she is one of those I'm pretty sure she would have taken you for a "test ride" before breaking up with her ex.
Like Satindesire wrote - if you can please a women the size doesn't matter. It's not the size of the boat it how you rock the ocean with your motion :)
Tell her, say hey you know people keep saying I'm huge, but really I'm not. That way she is forewarned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): Here is an article on penis size and the results of a study. You are a bit longer than average, but 5 1/2 inches around puts you in the top 10%. If she is not happy with that then you probably don't want her as a girlfriend anyway. Since girth is more important than length to what feels good for most women, you are just about perfect. Much bigger around and it would be uncomfortable for many women.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_length
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reader, Tan +, writes (13 July 2009):
She was with her ex for six years. Do you think she left all of that because her friends told her you had a large penis? No.
She likes you. And when you like someone it doesn't matter how average their body is, it's perfect because it's theirs. Do consider that she may not be so excited about sleeping with you because of your penis? You already said she isn't shallow. Are you excited about sleeping with her? Is that because of one particular characteristic she has? There's so much more to sex than just body parts, and you know that.
Just relax and take the compliment. If you are really worried she'll be dissapointed then just tell her you're worried about her being dissapointed. She'll probably think that's really sweet. But don't go on about it too much :)
Good luck!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): everyone who says 5.5 is massive do u know that around not across?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): thanks for all your replies and not just telling me its a stupid question!lol I read that 5 and a half inches around is average, it doesn't look all that big to me. thanks though! lol
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reader, newbern +, writes (13 July 2009):
"I'm just worried about her initial feeling when she first sees it."
Are you joking? I actually checked online and your girth is absolutely massive! Luckily this place is anonymous, but let's just say I'd be well pleased if my boyfriend was even remotely as big as you. Hope this helps!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): I really really think she will pleased with your dick, trust me! I would!
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (13 July 2009):
 I think from the size you have described she will be more than happy with what she sees ; ) 5 and a half inches around is pretty wide (wider than average I would say) and often the width gives more pleasure than the length!
A woman is only disappointed in bed when a man has no idea what he is doing and when he has no idea how to please a woman!
I think you need to try and relax, if you get stressed out over this then when the time comes to sleep with her then you might struggle to perform! The first time you two sleep together will be special and you should just make the most of it, she wont be thinking about the size of your manhood she will just be excited to be taking your relationship to the next level (and she will be excited to see her gorgeous boyfriend's body!).
I am certain that she wont regret finishing her ex for you, she will have done that because she has such strong feelings for you. She finished him before sex even came into your relationship - therefore sex wont be a reason for her to go back to him!
As baby duck says, large penises often hurt and they are more of a spectacle rather than something a girl wants her boyfriend to have! Just be proud of what you have, it is more than enough to pleasure a girl! Take your time with her when you do sleep with her, put in some time making sure she enjoys herself with the foreplay and I am sure she will be more than happy with you!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, newbern +, writes (13 July 2009):
Dear male,she will not be disappointed. You actually sound slightly above average lengthwise, but really very big in terms of circumference.So, mark my words, no worries on that front. Size matters, however, don't forget that it's how you use it that counts. I've been with really massive people who didn't have a clue!
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (13 July 2009):
 To be honest it doesn't really matter if you are 'big' as most of the nerves in the vagina are located at the beginning of it so it honestly doesn't matter!And 6 inches is not small, its the top end of average, less than 15% of men have a penis over 7 inches and only 3% have one more than 8 inches so I wouldn't say your that disadvantaged that she'd be disappointed..Why don't you come clean to her and say that people were exaggerating about your size? If she really loves you she'll understand and love you anyway.Hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): I'm not really worried about pleasuring her I know I'll be fine in that department when we're actually having sex. I'm just worried about her initial feeling when she first sees it.
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