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writes:Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me.a month later he called me and told me he was falling in love with me and he would never use me and he was so mad that I thought he used me.and right after that conversation he ask me to have sex with him again knowing that I already have a boyfriend.I told him off and he said well its fine if we could be friends and I said well that's fine with me and we started talking like we was friends again after that day.my question is do you think he's using me?and do you think I should still talk to him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 The guy is plain and simple using you.
He got into you pants and wanted to try again
Stick with your bf, this guys not to be trusted
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reader, ellababesx +, writes (31 January 2009):
 The main thing for you to do is to stick with your current boyfriend.
I think this guy was using you, from my view.
It is good of you for being civil, and wanting to be friends, but you have to promise yourself that this is all you two will be... for now anyway.
You need to ask him why he had ignored you after having sex. You need to find out what the real reason was... Tell him that he can be honest. Let him know that he can tell you anything as you and him are no longer going out.
Tell him how upset it had made you feel to give him the message why you thought you were being used. It's important to tell a guy this stuff incase he ever does it again.
Thanks for being brave and make sure you think clearly before doing anything like you did again.
Have fun! :)
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reader, lestatmighty +, writes (31 January 2009):
yes hes using you for sex.
sorry to put it so bluntly but by what youve told us that what it sounds like, and if you have a good thing with your bf dont ruin it for him. think about it he has sex with you, dodnt tlk untill he wants it again...
stick with ur bf, and gd luck;)
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