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I'm a virgin but don't want to be!

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Question - (24 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So, im sixteen and a virgin. I really really dont want to be. Im totally ready but im not sure how to make it happpen. Im not one of those girls who makes a big deal but it just hasnt happened. I don't have a boyfriend and when i do, it usually doesnt last that long. I go to parties and everything but i don't wanna be drunk just so i know whats going on and make him use a condom. What do i dooo??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

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yeah i guess yall are rightt.... actually last night i was at a party and was about to and this is kinda embarrasing but i told him i had to throw up, jumped up and just kinda left... i mean i had just met him that night soo i fiured i could afford to wait 4 a guy thats lasts for more than a fer weeks.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2009):

Dr Vendetta agony aunti feel i need to ask the obverious, Why do you want to lose it. what are you expecting will happen once you do?

guys are usually assholes and won't use condoms even if they're sober.. just look around this board at all the under age kids who are pregnant because of this.

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A female reader, Angel15 United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2009):

Stop stressing you are still so young to be worrying about things like this... I know everyone will say the same but waiting till the right guy does come along will make the first time so much better... You have a whole life ahead of you and if you rush things you will regret it... Look after yourself and just have fun till the right time x

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