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writes: This question is strictly for the ladies, but guys can input on the matter if you'd like. My question to the ladies is... would you like a guy to have foreskin, in other words to be uncircumsized... cuz lately Iv'e been really insecure about that whole shibang, and guys who are uncircumsized, have you ever been rejected, or had any problems with a girl just because you were uncircumsized???I don't know, some people make it sound like guys who are circumsized are better in bed...So please help me/.. thxz
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reader, Marymagdalene  +, writes (18 May 2013):
The most important thing here is hygiene!!!! I am hoping I Marry a circumcised man because I have had boyfriends that even though they showered regularly when I went down on them I could taste a yucky taste that makes you want to never put your mouth there again! I really enjoy giving oral sex on a clean penis and I have found the nicest penis to put my mouth on is a circumcised one. I think if you are uncircumcised you just have to so so so sure that there is no Smegma under your foreskin because a little bit really is sooooooo detectable and really makes a woman gag! Same with a woman with an unclean nether region.For me it matters! I like a circumcised man more but if a guy is really clean and is uncircumcised obviously if you love him it doesn't matter but don't let her get a mouthful of filth cause she will instantly hate going there. The end :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): One way or another Circumcision is a Jewish tradition.
Medically there is really no usual reason for it to be removed (unless it's that condition where it is too tight and won't stretch around the head during an erection). Thre is the hygeine issue, but unless you live in a pool of sewage water, you aren't gonna get an infection or smell down there any more than anyone who has had the snip.
I mean assuming you shower regularly, I can't see why cut or not cut makes a difference to the guy.
So as far as I'm concerned the only reason to get the snip is if it won't stretch over the head during an erection or because of your religious traditions.
Flynn 24
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reader, silly sue  +, writes (25 January 2009):
To be brutally honest I had sex once with a circumcised guy and afterwards I just felt kind of sad. He was a very good lover and was able to give me a good time, but I felt kind of embarrassed when I realized that he has to use lotion each time he wants to masturbate. Somehow I had the feeling that he didn't get that much pleasure from the intercourse itself.
So to answer your question I don't think being circumcised makes any difference to ones skills as a lover, that has to do with personality and temperament.
But I get really angry when I hear ignorant people saying that "it is cleaner". Some cultures see vaginal moisture as "dirty" and "dry sex" is a practice which requires putting things like sand inside the vagina to make it dry. It makes sex for the woman difficult and painful. I would advise any female who says that uncircumcised men have dirty cocks to think twice and be grateful that they don't live in a culture that stigmatizes female signs of arousal as "dirty".
I think that every human has a right to have their genitals intact from birth on and circumcision is not a "hygiene" requirement but involuntary genital mutilation of men.
Female genital mutilation is already outlawed and as far as I know there is a motion to pass a bill against male mutilation in the US http://www.mgmbill.org/.
here is also a link to some resource if you are interested
http://www.nocirc.org/
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Circumsized guys generally last longer, but it doesn't mean they know what they're doing...
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reader, woeizmex  +, writes (24 January 2009):
For Cerberus how would u clean it 3 times a day? Take 3 showers? It sounds awkward lol i am uncircumcsed too btw.
And for you, the poster, i bet you weren't born in US. I live in US too but i was born somehwere else and i am uncircumcised too. I am a virgin and kinda scared of what american girls will think when they'll see an uncircumcised penis because they are used to the circumcised ones... Also the frenulum can you trouble if yo have one.
You can send me a message in the mailbox if you want to talk about it.
Peace
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeha, i keep my dick pretty clean....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question alright thxz every body..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Female anons boyfriend wasn't circumsized from birth so he still maintains much of his sensitivity, but she is wrong about it being cleaner, that's a myth.Uncircumsized guys do have to clean it more often (3 times a day) but that doesn't mean it's more dirty.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 January 2009):
 To be honest. once it's inside of you, there is really no difference in how it feels. Even when it's out and about, it's just a penis. So to a lady, a penis is a penis!! The only thing to make sure you're doing regularly is a thorough cleaning of yourself.
I think guys WITH foreskin get more pleasure because they have that layer of skin covering up the head, therefore lessening everyday rubbing which can lessen sensitivity. This is a very small margin of more pleasure/less pleasure, but I'm pretty sure that's what's up with that.
My fella is uncircumsized and he is a champion in bed, and I don't give out that honor to just anyone. And with only that information, I can safely say that uncircumsized men are the best lovers in the universe.
(you're totally normal and fine.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): thats alot of crap - my boyfriend doesn't have to use lube and he has no foreskin!!!!! it's cleaner to have none! my other half said he enjoys it more now, than what he did before being circumsized... but then i think it might just depend on the guy! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Yeah in porn hand jobs you'll notice that the women have to spit on it first, plus they have to work a lot harder due to lack of sensitivity.
A word of advice if you are dating a girl with no experience of uncircumsized guys show her how to handle it. It can be very painful if she does it wrong. I hear a lot of guys in America are circumsized so it's likely you will meet girl's like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): whether he is any good at what he does depends on the guy and his whole attitude to sex.. i find circumsized is cleaner and better for giving head... but i spent 3 and a half years playign the feild and the guy ive recently got seriously involved with, is uncircumsized.. not because its what i like, but because he is what i like...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question ohh so dats why those guys in the porn movies use lubricant...now i understand
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Yeah, all the most sensitive nerves are on the head of the penis, ours is covered and protected with our foreskin until it's time for use. Circumsized penises are less sensitive because those nerves are exposed and rub off pants etc. for years.
Plus circumsized men have to use some kind of lubricant to masterbate, lubricant to do the job that the foreskin normally does for us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso your saying that uncercumsized guys have more pleasure than circumsized guys??
and thx to who has answered so far
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): I'm Irish so no (we don't believe in mutilating babies here), so nearly all Irish guys are uncircumsized, so I've never been rejected for having a foreskin and really I can't see any but the most shallow women having a problem with it.
It has been shown that uncircumsized men have heightened pleasure too because the most sensitive parts of the penis are protected. So there are pretty much no advantages to being circumsized.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Apparently it is more pleasurable for the guy when the foreskin is removed.
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