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I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

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Question - (24 January 2009) 42 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2012)
A male United States age 22-25, *oeizmex writes:

I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i will have to use a condomn, but how is with their pregnancy thing? I heared there are certain times guys can cum inside them and they won't get pregnant. We will also have sex without condomns after a while and i want to know when it's safe to do so, because i might cum inside her by accident... I don't want to leave everything up to her because she might make mistakes and she could get pregnant and stuff.

Thank you.

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A female reader, mayannacake United States +, writes (13 April 2012):

If you aren't ready to be a dad, you're not ready for sex. Nothing is 100%. My 1st baby took us 5 years to conceive, 2nd was 1 year to conceive, 3rd baby was the condom baby (he wore a condom and it didnt work) and the 4th baby is the birth control baby!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011):

hey...what is your question? how can you say that even u ejaculate inside her, she dont get pregnant. even ur pre cum can do the damage to her. Since you are only 18 now, enjoy sex with your GF as many times as you can without getting any complications(BABIES).

I and my GF also enjoying our sex with condom.we did it number of times without any fear of getting her pregnant.

Have a happy SEX life dude...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2011):

ok here is how biology works, a girl can ovulate at ANY time during her cycle, and believe it or not, sometimes while rarely the egg doesn't get flushed out. soooo their is NO safe time. just times its LESS likely for her to get pregnant. as far as those porn actresses, most of them are on birthcontrol, like the pill or nuva ring, or a diaphram. so to make things sort. if you want to cum inside, get her on birthcontrol, because if you try to calculate it, its like playing russian rulet, you never know when its loaded.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011):

@ Dr Vendetta

You stated, "There is NO method to calculating her ovulation times..."

That is not true...there are only two-three days out of the month that a woman is fertile. There is a way to calculate a woman's ovulation...it's called an ovulation test and you can buy them at any department store. It will tell you if your girl is ovulating or not. Also, if she has a white discard from her vagina that too can mean she is ovulating. This method is called family planning.

With all that...there still is a possibility she may get pregnant even when she isn't ovulating...here's why...if you cum in her today and she ovulates one-two days from now your sperm can live in her body for three-five days and it will wait for the egg. Best to use the tests and document it in a notebook (just like she does for her period).

If you do not want to cum in her, and want to pull out, that is perfectly safe. That being said YOU need to be sure you have enough self control to pull out before you cum. There is NO sperm in your pre-cum. Again, unless you just had sex then there are still traces in your urethra and the pre-cum will wash it out. Best to use the bathroom and piss and wash yourself off before having round 2.

DO NOT take my word as truth...go do your own research. I would suggest getting condoms and the ovulation tests. Make sure you understand what you are doing before you do it. Please also read a book called, "Birth Control for Christians". Do not be put off by the title, it gives great in depth information on all of the advice I posted above.

All in all...just use condoms. Cheap and they are easy to get and use.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011):

I'm a female. I just typed this question into google to find some answers and found you!

I completely agree that condoms suck horribly and even hurts the female at times. Even the pull out method sucks, messy and displeasing in my opinion. I want him to be able to just do it with no condom and no mess! But after reading some of these "facts" from responders I don't think I even want to try it. Seems very complicating and just as frightening(if not more so) then the pull out method.

I have tried just about every condom on the shelf and the most satisfying and pleasurable for both him and her in my opinion is Twisted by Trojan.

If you were to get the variety pack with Twisted condoms I would stay away from the Fire and Ice condom, unless of course you like your penis to burn as soon as you put it on..lol

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011):

I am 40 years old and also hate rubbers. I am going to tell you how I did it for more than 12 years, cumming inside her everyday and never got her pregnant. You have to know her exact date of her periods and how many days the periods last on average. (Example): If her periods last 6 days you can fuck her all 6 days while on her period. A girl can't get pregnant on her period. Lets say her period will be on Oct 15, that means her period will be over around Oct 21. Now take the date right on the middle of her period which is Oct 18. I would start fucking her 7 days before Oct 18 (middle of period) and 7 days after Oct 18 (middle of period), but would always give her a spermicide ovule so she would put in her vagina about 15 minutes before sex. So that's how I did it for so many years. So from the middle of her period you got 7 days before and 7 days after to cum inside her with a spermicide ovule for better assurance and the rest of the days I would still fuck her with no rubber but I would always use the spermicide ovule and cum outside, but don't risk yourself to almost explode in her vagina, get out a few seconds later and wack it off. I hope this helps you. Be careful

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011):

here's the thing: she can get pregnant while on the pill, with a male or a female condom, and even more likely if you just pull out becuase the precum which will be inside her contains sperm and although it's highly unlikely she will get pregnant it's a risk. Also, although this too is highly unlikely, she can get pregnant from anal (deviated rectum). your best bet is to wait and once you two are ready and sure get her on the pill and wear a rubber

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (9 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntI think you're refering to what some call the rythen method...certain "safe" days in the cycle--don't trust it.it's too complicated

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010):

ok look bro. I get where ur comin from i hate using condoms they absolutely suck. I mean the thing that most girls agree with eventually is you pulling out. Now this has worked for me since for 8 years now. No pregnancy. Although its not the best we also use spremicides and in your case look into womens condoms. That way you both get what you want the pleasure and no kid tell her 2 get that. Simple solution.

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A male reader, Lavitz United States +, writes (5 March 2010):

Oh lord... I didn't wear a condom when my fiancé made love, and when she went to visit her mother, all I could think about was what if I got her pregnant. I kept kicking myself in the ass for taking such a risk, in the end everything ended ok. But I would have hated to have been a twenty year old father, and I wouldn't be able to live happy knowing I fucked up her life. Condoms may be uncomfortable, but what really matters? Your sexual pleasure and comfort, or both of your futures? And for the comfort, condoms are comfortable on some occasions, you just need to find a brand that suits you. Durex, Trojan, or Lifestyles. If all else fails check to see if they have spermicide lube. Just play it safe. I hope this helped, and didn't make me sound like a complete retard. Stay frosty

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010):

okay, if you know this little about sex, you shouldn't even be having sex. there is never, and i can't stress this enough, NEVER a good time to "cum" in your girlfriend.

There will always be a chance that she'll get pregnant. If you really want to "cum" inside her, then you have to talk to her about getting on the pill, and even then, it's not 100% that she wont get pregnant.

Just use a condom.

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A female reader, ashni Guam +, writes (22 February 2010):

You can cum inside a girl within 3 DAYS after she ended her period. My boyfriend and i have done this and it works. Meaning i DID NOT get pregnant

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009):

Any time a guy cums inside you there is a good chance of you getting preganant. bc cum is sperm you know! and when a guy shoots his cum into u ur sperm swims upstream to try to reach ur eggs and ferterlize them. So Any time is a good chance.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

wear a condom. i got pregnant because of my boyfriend doing what you are about to do. you two both arent very experienced, just get rubbers. thats the best way to go.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

dont be a leafhead. use a rubber. having a kid can cost you up to $150,000 and more a year! you're a kid, i doubt you have that much money.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

To anonymous on December 4:

The porno actresses in the creampie bits you've seen are on hormonal birth control, which has a success rate exceeding 95% when used correctly but still isn't perfect.

If you want to ejaculate in your girlfriend and REDUCE the chance she might get pregnant, ask her if she'd consider going on the pill, but know that it's not perfect and there will still be a chance of her getting pregnant.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

Use a condom - simple

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009):

Nine of every ten physicians say that stupid, young men cumming *inside* their young bimbo girlfriends may significantly increase the risk associated with pregnancy, including, but not limited to: her obesity, her justifiably angry parents, increased economic burden and/or unwanted children.

If you or a loved one are thinking about cumming *inside* the bimbo girlfriend and you concerned about the possible side effects, please consult your physician beforehand.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009):

Hi. I've read all the answers to this question. However, it was not exactly what I was looking for. I'll make my questions, now.

I know that it's extremely neccessary to wear a condom in order not to make a girl pregnant. Though, it's possible to ejaculate inside of her without getting the job done. My problem is that wearing a condom is very uncomfortable, I'm afraid, and I would have a lot more pleasure ejaculating inside of her, just like she would. I've seen porn videos were he came inside of her (the so called creampies) and the video ended. I don't believe those women would risk theirselves getting pregnant of a man they probably didn't even know. So, well, I have a lot of attention for my girlfriend and I'm very concerned about her (I don't want to turn her into another "16 and pregnant"), but at the same time, I'd like to feel the sex without a condom. You see, the condom takes away all the sensibility and like I said before, it's very uncomfortable, at least for me, so what do I do to be able to ejaculate inside of my girlfriend all I want without getting her pregnant?

Thank you for your patience and time.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009):

ok weeelll ive been having sex with my girl for some time and if you read up on this crap you would know that its really stupid for you not to use a condom or have her on a pill or something like that. come on dude common sense haven't you ever seen the trojan commercials?? my girl is getting on the pill and im still gonna use a condom! jeez it really isn't that hard just slip the damn thing on!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009):

well tbh ive had experience and the girl i did it with have used the pill so i didnt use a condom, do not attempt to cum inside her without a condom unless you wanta baby if you want it to feel better but not her to get pregnant then make her take the pills and she must take them everyday and properly hope this helped.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009):

well i have a question.the question is can your gf get pregnant if she just got off her period and yall had sex the next day and you ejualted in her and her stomach was hurting the next day.does that mean she is pregnant or what does it mean?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009):

Kids these days! You could just as easily go onto any of the thousands of teen sex information sites out there and educate yourself. Find a biology book. Ask your mom. I think more than anything you need to learn a few things about sex and this "pregnancy thing" before you even touch your girlfriend.

If you want to have sex without condoms, then have her go on the pill. If you know so little about menstrual cycles and semen and how pregnancy actually works, then trying to figure out when you can and cannot take the risk is going to be asking for trouble.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009):

Just to let you know, I had sex with only one other guy before i married my husband.. when we first started dating, we decided to have sex (we were going out for about three months) ... Within 5 weeks I found out i was pregnant, with twins. To make the situation even better, he never even came.. So its true pre cum can get you pregnant.. so ALWAYS wear a condom unless you want a little one (or two) running around.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009):

Take my advice kid. Always were a condom. Even if you don't come in her there is always a sleight chance she can get pregenant from pre-come. I'm no doctor, but i've been reading that a girl can even get pregnant any time of the month, even on her period because the sperm can remain alive insider her for up to five days. Some girls can occassionally have there periods a day or two late, this is normal. But if you had unprotected sex in that month, waiting for her period can be very nerve recking, and can be potentially harmful to the relationship. Always were a condom

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A female reader, chibi vampire United States +, writes (27 January 2009):

chibi vampire agony auntwell dear mister virgin, i think that if u have sex with out a condom u will get her pregnant, if u don't wear the condom their are some condom for girl, but their kind of weird to put on. the condom for girl is like a uva ring. if u have sex with her with out a condom thier a big risk that u will get her pregnant, every girl has a different body.

some may not get pregnant during their first time but many people do. if i where u, just to be sure i will use a condom or ask her to take pregnancy pills. make sure to ask doctor or ur own school nurse cause they give them to u.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

Ok girls have menstrual periods at these times they are more likely to get pregnant, That's every month around the same times its best to have sex around those times tho i think you should make it a habit of wearing a condom

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A female reader, :)31215 United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2009):

:)31215 agony auntif your GF is getting into the make out sesh then she will most probably be wet down there, but it isn't a bad thing! My boyfriend loves it!

As long as you GF has good hygiene then it should be fine!

And in answer to the first question, talk to your GF about going on the pill. Not only will you be able to have sex without wearing a condom (if used correctly) butttt, she will thank you for being a caring BF by thinking and talking about contraception :)

Hope this helps, and memberrr

be safe :D

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A male reader, Cerberus Ireland +, writes (25 January 2009):

Cerberus agony auntNothing wierd about pre-cum it's part of being aroused.

Yeah she might get wet down there, depends on the girl and how aroused she is.

No the liquid down there shouldn't bother you, it arouses me, but you might be different I don't know. Unless of course she has poor hygiene.

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A male reader, woeizmex United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yeah i will and i didn't know precum can leave a woman pregnant... When im with her and make out i always precum and i hate it. It's just so weird.

I have another question: if i make out with a girl alot, will she get wet down there? I mean if i will give her oral will the liquid there bother me?

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A male reader, OmegaXF United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

OmegaXF agony auntA woman needs to keep track of her period. AND there is a certain time when she can have sex w/o a condom...but thats like saying you can take a bullet tot the head 10x over and over again. It's just to risky not to mention precum,and since your a virgin you will be doing that......Those condoms are like get out of jail free cards man. Abuse them. USE THE RUBBER!!!

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A male reader, woeizmex United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I didn't say i don't want to use condomns people. I DO want! But i was just curious and wondering if that's possible if i am not wearing it and DrVendetta dont call me a moron.

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A male reader, mrflip United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

So you don't want to wear condoms and you don't want to get her pregnant... There are a few of good options for you here. One is to go to Planned Parenthood and get some birth control pills prescribed to her. Other solutions include alternate means of having sex, such ass fellatio and anal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009):

Period or no period, so long as sperm get into that woman... there is a 50/50 chance she can become pregnant.

It's like playing Russian Roulette with half the bullet chambers empty and the other half loaded. And the gun is pointed at her. Wo you really want to risk it for what will probably turn out to be a few minutes of pleasureable sensations in your case?

Flynn 24

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2009):

Dr Vendetta agony auntIf you cum in side her with out : a condom, without her being on the pill SHE WILL get PREGNANT.

There is NO method to calculating her ovulation times because if you do.. you will have to explain to her mother and her dear ol'Daddy about why his little princess has a bun in the oven.

the only Mistake she is making is by letting you have sex with her because you're you're a moron.

WEAR A RUBBER OR ELSE.

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A male reader, agtorange United States +, writes (24 January 2009):

agtorange agony auntThere is a certain period of the month where a women can't get pregnant, but I still wouldn't advise cumming inside of her.

I would advise getting the pill, if used correctly you can cum inside of her all you want. It beats using a condom.

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A male reader, Cerberus Ireland +, writes (24 January 2009):

Cerberus agony auntGirls CAN get pregnant if you don't use a condom in ALL cases, whether she's on her period or whether you pull out before you ejaculate, pulling out is not a gaurantee because she can get pregnant from your pre-cum.

Girls don't always eject the egg during their period either, so if you don't use any contraception there IS a chance she will get pregnant.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

Theoretically a girl can't get pregnant when she's on her period, but even though unlikely, it's still possible. If you don't wanna use condoms then I suggest she goes on the pill, all it takes is one appointment with the nurse and 7 days of waiting and you can do it without condoms (although using both condoms and the pill is unregrettable.)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

Wear a condom all the time. Accidents happen, using a condom will make sure that it doesnt happen.

Even if you have sex without one and try the pull out before you cum technique, it isnt terribly effective.

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A male reader, woeizmex United States +, writes (24 January 2009):

woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the question

So if i cum inside her after her period was one is she going to be pregnant? What is the time her ovalating time is over?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

the only time a woman or girl gets pregnant is when she is ovalating, and that usually happens after a girl finishes her period, or if the woman is on some type of birth control then she wont get pregnant but you both have to be careful and always ALWAYS use a condom

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

if you don't want her to get pregnant then use a condom. and maybe even get her to go on birth control. there is no time where it is going to be 100% sure she's not going to be pregnant. she can get pregnant at any time. so use condoms every time. be safe, not stupid. take care.

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