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Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?

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Question - (21 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *itty_3 writes:

Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep but to no avail. have you ever tried? steps to walk me through would be great!

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

kitty_3 agony auntthat's the thing. at least half the time i am somewhat aware that i'm dreaming and i can manipulate actions and outcomes, etc. but i can't just change the dream.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

Most people will realise they are in a dream at some point. Usually only once, maybe twice in a lifetime. And almost always by accident.

But controlling a dream from within is, as the previous poster said, LUCID DREAMING. And it can be learned.

But like hypnosis, how long and how easily you learn and even IF you learn, will be determined on your susceptibility and willingness to let your mind open. Some have enormous trouble with this.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

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kitty_3 agony auntyes. i've heard of this. can someone explain it to me?

any other ideas?

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (21 January 2009):

Plexi agony aunti know that what you think about during the day will affect what you dream about. Lucid dreaming teaches you how to completely control your dreams. Check it out online or better yet buy a book on lucid dreaming:)

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