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writes:im 16 and my boydrien is 20, we have been 2gtr for 7months should i have sex with him or wait longer?(im still a little scarde) In if so how much longer? Reply to this Question
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reader, kelpel +, writes (21 January 2009):
In my opinion, if you were ready, you wouldn't be asking for advice if you thought it was the right thing to do babe.
Sex / making love is a very special for a couple who love each other and both give their consent. Please don't do it if you are not 100% sure - and pleeeeeaaase don't do it if you are thinking that the amount of time you have been together without doing it is the reason that you should.
There is no set amount of time you should wait - just wait until you feel ready, and are happy about doing it. In fact - this way it will probably just happen naturally after a kiss and cuddle. You don't need to plan sex.
Good luck
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (21 January 2009):
 I think if you are still scared about the prospect of having sex then you aren't ready, which in turn mean wait.
there is no set time. Wait til you are ready to do it. NOT when a boy wants it. If he's waited 7 months he can wait longer, and if he can't well then it's sex he wants from you not a relationship. In my opinion.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 I cant give you the answer to that question, only you can answer that yourself.
If you still feel scared about the prospect of having sex then you probably are not ready yet. You should only have sex when you feel ready to, and if your boyfriend really loves you then he will respect that and give you all the time you need.
You will know when the time is right, just stay true to yourself and dont do something your not ready for just to please someone else.
Good luck!
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