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writes:i am a 26 years old unmarried guy. when i was in high school I was attracted to one girl ‘A’ (she was my school junior and thereafter my college junior) we were good friends and i always provoke her to have sex with me but she always denied as she have a boyfriend and she was very committed.when i was 20 I have my first sex with my girlfriend ‘B’(we have a distance relation), our relation was accepted .after that go for higher studies then we have some misunderstandings and finally she married another guy….i was into drugs then. After my family knows all about my happenings they gave me a real support. I then quit doping and thereafter another girl (my brother's staff younger sister) came in my life ‘C’ we had sex a lot as we live nearby. she was in living relation with another guy in her college days before meeting me (he fucked her and broke) I ignore that as she was committed to me we had a sound relation…. until one day my friend ‘A’ told me that she had broke with her boyfriend and she want to talk with me when we meet as usual i provoke her for sex and she quit to my seduction but before having sex she told me that she is not a virgin and had sex with her ex boyfriend. We do sex and i finally realized that this is the girl i want in my life although my present girlfriend ‘A’ didn’t insist me to broke my relationship with ‘B’, i broke with my girlfriend ‘B’ and started new relationship with my friend ‘A’...It’s been a year and we are happy, now i am feeling that i have done wrong by leaving my second girlfriend ‘B’. Although my present girlfriend ‘A’ loves me very much and i love her too and will definitely marry her but before that for one time i want to say sorry to my second girlfriend ‘B’, it’s not like that I want to keep any relation with her but i have a guilt that i left her ‘B’ without any reasons……So please tell me how should i erase my guilt??? i need real help and suggestions..please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): If you broke up with her (girlfriend B)in a civil manner and she knew you broke up with her, you don't need to give her any explanation of why you broke up with her, other than, she wasn't the girl for you. Although we women might want an explanation, and sometimes the men indulge (who knows if it's the truth), your reasons are your reasons.
don't feel bad for the past, look to and live for the future.
Good luck.
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