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I'd like my husband to masturbate in front of me

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Question - (17 January 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *haleen writes:

How can I work up the nerve to ask my husband to masturbate in front of me? I know he does it on his own, and I would like for him to do it with me. Would I disgust him by asking? Or do you think he'd be more than willing? I would like to get him to let me do it for him...I have no idea how to express this to him! Any ideas??

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A male reader, gjg United States +, writes (4 July 2010):

I WISH YOU WERE MY WIFE!!! I would LOVE to masturbate in front of her, but she thinks it is disgusting. I masturbated in the living room while she was sleeping (I thought), and she told me how gross I was. I wish she would like to watch me, and maybe even share it with her friends! I would masturbate in front of any woman who would like to watch me, am I weird?

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (27 January 2009):

glad it worked for you you should try a few more things it all help to keep the excitement there. let us know how you go

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

Happy for you two, wish that there was a forum like this when I had your age...:)

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A female reader, shaleen United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

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shaleen agony auntWow, well, success! It actually made his day. I ended up taking a shower with him, and proposed it to him that way. When we were out, he told me that was REALLY fun, and now he can't seem to keep his hands off. Lol, it's okay, that's what I was aiming for! Thank you guys for all of your advice! It really helped me to open up and be more outspoken about what I would like sexually. Hard to believe we've been together for two years, and JUST began being so open, huh?? Again, thanx sooo much! ;)

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A male reader, 17Irish17 United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

Listen to what DoubleM writes. He is very good. If I might add, a lot of men, me included enjoy masturbating in front of their female lover. Personally I like to ejaculate on her breasts or on her face and hair. So, if you are willing to do that, I am almost certain he would go along with it. Ive also done it where I layed on my back and masturbated. When finished she cleaned me up and that was a turn on too! Good luck!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntSome girls apparently like to see sperm begin to erupt from the urethra as a man starts to climax. If that is what you wish to see, tell him and he may indeed consider it to be quite a turn on. Some women enjoy this up close before an oral or facial finish.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009):

I guess that he will like it. You could tell him that you want him to cum on your body around your navel or on your breasts, depending on you. I guess he will easy follow your desires, he could be suprised about your request a bit, but he will be quickly get used to hear your fantasies and be happy to fulfill them.

Men has many fantasies, they are also depending on their spouses to make them come true. To give you an idea of just a few desires from other women: daily fellatio because sperma is healthy or ejaculate the sperm in the face or pie on her body (the last I refused).

Never be afraid to mention your fantasies, it will make him also come with new ideas and keeps your sexlife spicy.

Enjoy together

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (18 January 2009):

hi

its normal to do that and its always been a great turn on for my wife to see me do it. have you tried to do it to yourself during forplay and that may be the time you could ask him.

another time is if you whatch a movie together that could be a time. i say go for it and he will like what he see in you. let us know how you go

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

He wud probly be a little embrassed, but not disgusted it thrills me 2see my bf n vice versa. Tell him u wanta play, wot cud you do that turns him on but involves no touching of his penis? or give him a hand job n try with ur over hand to guide his hand down, when hes touching u lower your hand n touch urself. Let him no thats ok. Back off a little from him to watch let him no its getting u excited but unless ur talking dirty eg "Id love to see u cum 4 me" dont ask him out right. :)

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