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writes:Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and he wants me to give him a hand job. Im ok with the idea its just that whenever i go to his house, his parents are there and they sometimes come into his room to “check on us”. I dont know how I can do this without getting caught... any ideas?
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (17 January 2009):
double M is right. if you are between 18-21 then you should beable to do whatever you want. i suggest he gets a lock or you go to your house? however if you are under 18-21, then i understand why they would be worried.
if you are over 18 i think you need to get him to sit down with them and explain that he needs his privacy and that he is an adult now and can do what he wants.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 January 2009):
 If you are actually in the 18 to 21 age group and living in the United States of America, you should have the freedom as legal adults, and the resourcefulness, to accomplish such a minor task. Do neither of you drive or have access to an automobile? Can you not arrange to attend a movie theater and sit in the balcony? Can you not take a walk in the woods?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): I think that the answer to this question is pretty much simple. It is his parents house and you really have to think about what they would think if they "walked in" on you doing it. I think if anything it is a matter of respect for your boyfriends parents, your boyfriend and most of all yourself! just think about it...if you did decide to do it and then got caught there are going to be a lot of respect boundries that are broken not only between you and your boyfriend but between his parents too! Broken boundries usually ends up with a lot of complication and then break-up! It really is your call but if you break-up would you want to live with yourself knowing that you did that with someone you arent going to spend the rest of your life with?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (17 January 2009):
 I think it's not really a good idea. It can be a show of disrespect for his parents. If you get caught it will certainly lessen the respect that they have for you. RESPECT YOURSELF AND JUST DON'T GO THERE. Tell you boyfriend that's it inappropriate to do this in their home.
I know you are old enough to carry on but if you are going to, then you should RESPECT his parents and their house enough to not do anything pertaining to sex there.
Walk in the SPIRIT and YOU WILL FIND that waiting for marriage is better than a roll in the hay. My best to you and I PRAY that you two can see and know the difference and allow yourselves time before you approach any sexual activity. Especially in a PARENT'S Home, his or yours.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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