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writes:Hi. So I've been masterbating for years now, and able to orgasm, usually with a pillow. But I can't orgasm any other way. I recently started having sex and can't orgasm and it's beginning to get frustrating. Any help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): 77% of women CAN'T have vaginal orgasms during sex…that dry humping…that would cause a clitoral orgasm…try oral sex, or when he fingers you, he should pay attention to your clit…buy a sex toy! buy a vibrating egg…esp. if you get one that has two attached…one for your pussy, one for your clit…plus really hot alone, or if you get your man to use it on you AMAAAZING lol
http://ww2.pureromance.com/PublicStore/product/Double-Trouble-Ring,333,152.aspx
also try THIS position…it's normally the easiest position for me to orgasm in…have him in a sitting position…sitting up…and you sit down on it and just ride it…it helps if he puts his hands on waist/ass/fingers in ass…soooo freakin' good
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Did you try oral sex ? Usually it works when you are used to your pillow. Have him go down there :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): i too have the same problem. i started masturbating at a young age by dry humping a pillow and i would orgasm every time. ever since i began having sex i can't orgasm! i recall having only 1 or maybe 2 orgasms during sex and i've been having sex for almost 9 years. i've never once came (gotten a burst of wetness, squirted, etc.) at all and although i don't masturbate anymore i'm kind of curious if i could even have an orgasm this way anymore.
i think what you should try is clitoral stimulation during sex. have your partner rub on your clit during vaginal intercourse and this may solve your problem. if not, have sex laying on your back, with your partner on his side and his leg intertwined between your legs. rub your vagina on his leg while doing this, like you do on the pillow, or switch off by rubbing his leg and you or your partner rubbing your clit. this may help. have you ever had any procedures or operations (including child birth or an abortion)? it's possible that something may have been damaged? it's very odd that we both have the same issue, i've always been curious about it so i hope someone has a better answer!
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