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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Sister is having a party when my parents go away. She asked me if I wanted to drink too. Please advise.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Hey guys this isn't about relationships but this is now the only place I can get advice. My parents are going away for the weekend and my older sister is having people over. They are all gunna bring alcohol and some will bring fags. My sister asked ...

Do I confront him to what my psychic said or do I keep quiet and say nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - i am at my wits end. I just dont know how to go about this situation, i am hoping i get some advice on what to do here i go .. I saw a pyschic the other day, and he was spot on about a lot of things that he could not possibly know of. but the one ...

BF is a financial burden We are to be married. It's really getting me down. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm in bed today feeling pretty down. I'm in my 20's, engaged and feeling very stressed right now. I'm a medical professional, just decided to change employers from a stable community hospital to a prestigious teaching institution. ...

What do you think would help build my self confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hey. I’m 18 and have low self-esteem. I’d like some help. Over the last few years, I’ve suffered from very bad social anxiety. This has improved since going to uni but I still have self-esteem issues. I think this mainly comes from the way I look a...

She's wrong for me and I know it, but I am obsessed with her. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I have worked to keep a distance from a bad relationship. We broke up, I know it is right, she was sapping me of everything and I became very depressed, and still am. The thing is I have an unhealthy obsession with her. I have not contacted her fo...

How right is it to lie in order to meet your gf/bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - I am 22 years old. I have just finished college and now I'm back in my hometown. During my last year there, I got into a relationship with a guy who belongs to that city but is now doing an internship near to my hometown. He plans to visit me soon. ...

I'm beginning to hate her, why does she do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I know its very long but if you could please read and give me your opinions I would be most grateful!!! Ok so my mum...ever since I was little shes never really loved me like she should. She bought me plenty stuff and spoiled me rotten but this ...

Recently discovered my BF is looking to hook up with men. I don't know what to do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for quite some time.(3.5 years) Recently when i looked at the computers history I noticed he was looking at M4M ads on craigslist(maleformale) This disgusted me so much, but I was even more disgusted when I saw ...

Would a man, given the opportunity, cheat if he thought he could get away with it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Question for married men. Why do men cheat and want to talk online to other women when they say they are happily married? Would they really cheat or even flirt if they were that happy? Would a man given the opportunity actually cheat if he could ...

Do you believe in full disclosure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - This issue is really about how much someone should really share with their bf/gf. I'm not trying to be secretive for the sake of it. My boyfriend and I have had very, very different lives. His has been very normal and he hasn't gone through man...

I put up a fake profile to monitor my son, but now I've fallen in love and don't know how to get out of it.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I set up a social networkng acct only to keep an eye on my son. Since I was only there for that purpose I put in all wrong info and a pic that was not me. Age 20 years younger. Different state etc. The problem is that I accepted a friend request ...

He's a wonderful man, and loves me very much, but I've been faking it for four years. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem where I am not sexually attracted to my man... he is a very handsome man, very romantic, loving, respectful... he's the best boyfriend you could ever ask for. I often listen to woman who are just wishing for a man like I have. He is ...

How do I end my affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hi all, I am woman of 25 in a extramarital relation. I want to end this. please suggest me some way that I can be out of this. my husband will be heart broken and may be angry, if he finds this out. in fact I love this extra thing, but still I want...

Health problems, no intimacy or sex, a man who needs spcae.....this relationship is falling apart but I don't want to lose him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. When we met it was wonderful. He was so passionate and loving and giving he held me like I was someone special. When he kissed me I felt like a school girl and was on cloud nine. About 6 ...

My girlfriend of 8 years told me last week that she hasn't got the same feelings anymore. My life has come crashing down!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Please my girlfriend of 8 years last week told me she hasn't got the same feelings anymore. I always thought we were great together as does others Iam devastated sick everything you could think of we are both from different countries so I've ...

32 Year Old male virgin, no luck with girls, thinking of going to an escort. My religious side says no and my masculine side says hell yes!! Anyone in a similar situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I'm 32 and am a complete and utter disaster when it comes to relationships. I am good looking, I'm not obese or anything, I can approach girls and talk to them, but I seem to always say the wrong thing and turn them off. I have followed the advice ...

I'm almost 28, still never had an official relationship, obsessing over a loser I once dated briefly. I'm getting closer and closer to becoming that crazy cat lady!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Ok, here's the gist: I dated a guy for 9 months, but it wasn't ever serious. Then he moved away and that was that, and this was almost 2 years ago! We have remained in contact and I saw him twice after he left, and we hooked up both times. It'...

My life has been a roller coaster of ups and downs, and now I want to shed the inhibitions that stop me from doing what I want to do because of the paranoia I feel all the time...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I've just turned 29. I feel massively self conscious all the time. I feel and do stupid stuff like walking down the road, I dread when the lights turn red because people in cars are more likely to notice me. I lower my music in my car when I am...

Why does my BF deliberately shove me away from him after we experience something as intimate as making love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We love each other very much and we are even making plans for marriage after we are both done with school. Because we are both in college we tend to make love during the day between clas...

My 12 year cousin may be abusing her brother, what can I do, I am 14??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Please help this scenario isnt just wierd but im so conserned. well i have a cousin who is 12 years old ill call her Kim (not her real name.) My auntie got with her dad about 3 years ago and they are now married and she had a son with him who is now ...

Can you get pregnant if semen does not go inside the vagina??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - If cum gets on the outside lips or around my vagina can it go up into my vagina without being touched? Or does it have to be physically inserted for it to get in and pregnancy to happen?...

I fall, they leave, am I too nice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Why does this ALWAYS happens to me? what is wrong with me:(? i really dont know what is wrong with me but every time i fall for a guy tends to leave me:( it always starts off so great, so sweet then he'd get distant and leave. am not a horri...

He is verbally abusive and very controlling, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hi, im heather i jus turned 17 on monday. and ive been off and on with this guy who has jus turned 21 a few days before me since christmas. theres a few things that are really bothering me 7 i would jus likwe some insight on why hes treating me ...

Is he afraid of a relationship or does he just not like me? Whats with all the mixed signals??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - So I have had this guy friend, Alex, for a while and we never reall talked much at all until about a month ago. (we are both 16 by the way) He started texting me everyday for like a week and a half and then we kind of hung out. I just went with him ...

Had sex with a guy who has a GF, my ex got mad at me and we broke up; now he wants me back. I want him and also the other guy, who's ready to break up with his GF for me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Im in a delema... Im deprived between 2 guys and i dont know what to do. It all started with my boyfriend, He was a great boyfriend and so sweet. But hes a virgin, and hes so nervous( which i do think is cute :) )... he always makes me happy, but ...

Thinking of getting marriage annulled, any thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and myself just got back toghether. I found out information about him going out on a date the following weekend with someone else. Why couldn't he just tell me he went with this new person to dinner? This really both...