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Big Questions: Help and advice

My boyfriend is booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer, and I'm NOT happy about it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Urgh. I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and a half, and am having huge issues with him booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer. I can sense your eyes rolling, and I’m sorry :( I’m 24 and he’s 32, so far our relationships be...

When is it okay to ask someone to hang out if you've only met them once?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Im really just curious, when would you all consider it okay to ask someone to hang out if you've only met them once, and whether that be friendship or a dating relationship....

Am I too old fashioned about sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

18 April 2011 (?) - It seems everyone is having sex these days. I'm only fifteen but I believe in 'no sex before marriage', I don't know why I believe in this because none of my family do. Everyone at school says I should try having sex with someone, I'm not at all ...

How can I get enough protein on a vegetarian diet?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I'm a strict vegetarian (been brought up this way) so I don't eat fish, eggs or anything animal based. Anyways I really really need protein in my diet! But I can't think of what foods to have as I'm really limited for choice... I can have dairy but ...

Should I be worried about his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi, my husband's sister's friend came to live with her for three weeks. Currently, me and my husband too are in his parent's house because I am due to deliver next month and will be staying there till I give birth. I don't want to be sad but I think ...

It has been seven years and I still think about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I keep dreaming of a certain guy I used to see at church 7 years ago. We never dated but we used to act when we saw one another. I left church because always I was dreaming of him but he never came to me by then. Its been 7 years and I'm now married ...

What if she is genuine and it is just the way she is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Okay.. here is my question following up to my previous one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-she-avoiding-having-me-meet-her.html My girlfriend and I had been together for 7 months now and she had recently left to the UK for work experie...

Can a counsellor really help save our marriage? Will she still maintain she wants an open marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I am in the depths of despair and hopelessness right now and I could really use some feedback from others who have been here. I have found out my wife of 16 years is cheating on me. To give some background, I was her first lover (and first...

We broke up because he said we had lost the 'connection' but he is still talking to me and wanting to be in my life! Does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - What should I do about my ex boyfriend? am so confused:(? My ex boyfriend and broke up nearly 2months ago, he wasn't just my bf when we were together, he was my special friend as well and we did everything together and now I miss him so much...

How can I get him to see that I really love him and I have no interest in any other man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi i hope you will be able to give me some advise. I have been with my bf for just over a year now. He went through quite a nasty break up with his wife of 25years, she came home one day and told him that by the end of the month he must move out...

Should we have a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I am happily married for 12 years and sex is great.me and my husband fantasies lately of getting a man in and the thought arouse both of us but I am unsure.we have been kinky before but never had intercourse with someone else.we also are more ...

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to ...

How can I accomplish being 'cool' at this party when I have no self-esteem or confidence? And all this without making a fool of myself...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I am at a new school this year and I really want to be well liked. I am a loser, I am really shy and not at all attractive. I have heard from 'friends' that there are parties during the weekend and one friend offered to take me to one this w...

He told me he enjoys staring at sexy girls, is this normal or is he doing this because he is bored of us? Or is he just trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 motnhs.i and my bf love each other like hell.recently my bf has gone to a new place to travel and to give exams with his friends.yesterday night he told that he enjoyed roaming at the malls and ...

If he is not interested in me, why does he make such efforts with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I just turned 30 and am very attracted to a man who is 46. I am in the US from a different country originally and am still closeted. This guy knows that I like him and we spend all our time together - we laugh, joke and discuss history ...

I want him to spend more time with me and have more sex, but he says I am just spoiled! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - my african boyfriend say im spoiled and want everything my way cause i asked him to spend more time with me and have sex. we dont live together, he visits every two weeks and have sex 1 time a month, what should i do im pissed?...

I don't want to go out to have drinks/dinner alone on my birthday and end up looking like a total loser to everyone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hello all.. I'll be turning 22 in a few days and I'm not sure what to do. I've been in a pretty low place in my life lately. I don't socialize at all, I barely talk to anyone except for my bf who lives 3hrs away. I was hoping to be able to spend...

Who do I pick when I want a child so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Ok, I don't know what to do, obviously. So my question is, who do I pick? There is a really nice girl that says she loves me, and there is a girl I like a lot that also says she loves me, me and her have been dating for 4 months (on and off) and we ...

I lied about NOT being virgin to GF. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Okay so im deeply in love with this girl for 6months (me 19, she 21) Just in early march we came to the subject of our 'first time' agewise. I felt insecure and said 18, and she said 20. Cool thought that was that... Then late march she asked how ...

Why don't guys ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - hi, I get told by many people that im beautiful looking and they seem shocked when I say I'm single. The problem is guys never seem to approach or ask me out, even at bars. I feel really self conscious about it because I always have my hair , ...