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Archived questions from: 20 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are all the ways to stop feeling nervous and develop my confidence in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4755 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I've been able to make friends, but I struggle to form close friendships with people... when I wrote for advice about this, the advice that I got was really GOOD. People have told me that I need to work on my self-confidence and overcome the anx...

Whats happening to this generation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Lately I been thinking a lot about the teens now days. I myself am a young 16 year old. I been seeing many teens throw there lives away for drugs,sex,love ect. Many have the pressure of fitting in with everyone else, that if you don't have the ...

How do I develop better self-confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I currently work for an agency as a healthcare assistant,i go to the local hospitals in the community. I do lack confidence and i find that i dont deal to well with authority,in the sense that i get really nervous and stupid around ppl who i...

I've been flirting with this guy I work with, who doesn't know I have a boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - What the hell is wrong with me? I have been with the same guy for 3 years. He's really nice and buys me cool stuff when I need it. I can't complain much. The only thing that has always been a concern is that he can be cold towards me physically. ...

It physically hurts when my boyfriend and I have sex, and I don't like his reactions to this. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) - when my boyfriend and i have sex, he is really big and it hurts. it hurts so much that i often scream quite loud during sex. its painful and worrying but its what he does which is also worrying. when i am screaming he either puts his hand over my ...

My new wife wants nothing to do with my kids. How can I help everyone reach a compromise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I have been married for a couple of years to a very attractive and intelligent woman who holds down a good job and earns a lot of money. She is a wonderful woman but although she knew I had children before we married she now won't have anything to ...

I'm facing all kinds of peer pressure...I definitely need help dealing with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I'm feeling really pressurized to be 'normal' at the moment. I don't understand why I'm being treated like a freak just because my interests are a bit different from other people I know and I didn't even think they were that weird. For example I ...

I'm engaged, he's married, but we've both confessed feelings for each other. How can we deal with this without it affecting our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - My coworker and I have feelings for each other. The problems are he's married and I'm engaged. He admitted to me that he's attracted to me. I admitted that I like him, too. We had a talk. It was a talk about not crossing the line and we are not ...

I think I'm in love with him, and I don't want to regret keeping it a secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - There's this guy that goes to my school and I'm falling for him. He's not in my class and I'm only going to see him for one more month and I don't want to think about what will happen if I never tell him how I feel. A few weeks ago, one of my c...

Why does she want to marry me when she doesn't want to be with my physically?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - hi guys and galls. I was just hoping for some views on my situation. I an due to be married next year after 5 years in this relationship. Over the part 8 months me and my future wife have had sex 5 times. This is not normal for any relationship ...

Can't get over my ex wife, even though I know we were not meant to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - My divorce from my 20 year partner became official yesterday. I am very sobered and even sad about it. It was not a divorce I wanted, but we became too disconnected to reconcile. I left because of the arguements, and that made her spiteful and ...

I'm only 16 and I think this 36 year old likes me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, i need some help..so i'm 16 and i'm pretty sure that my 'ex' neighbour at 36 (who i've had a crush on for a LONG time) is coming on to me. He used to live across the road from me with his partner and their daughter at 3 years old. I'v...

Do you need to have sex to love somebody?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am a virgin. My boyfriend of 22 months is not. I love him to bits but he has said he cant love me until we have sex. He says theres an emotional connection there for him when it happens. I have always wanted to wait til i was married but he tells ...

Are these guys actually single? When I have a boyfriend, will he do the same things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am really curious about this because it makes me wonder what kind of guys these are or whether most guys do this and we're naive to notice. Basically when i go out on nights or just shopping during the day i'll see guys look at me even when the...

Is he hiding me from other people, or is he the one hiding something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - hi i've been seeing my man for 9 months now but he wont tell his family about me or meet up with any of mine, including my older children who dont live with me. He's met my youngest whose still at home and they get on well together but wants to...

Guys: Do you all want a younger woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Guys, tell the truth, do you REALLY want a younger woman than the one you are with now? I am in a relationship with a man 15 years my senior. The other day I asked him if he woud date a woman in her 40s he said no, in her 30s he said no (even...

Why is he behaving like this? Does he have low self esteem? Is he gay? Does he care about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - We have been in love for past 2 years and had not met each other.It was this month that we met .He seems smitten during the first meeting and in the second meeting insisted on sex.(we did have phone sex before several times and we were online ...

Why did my ex's new girlfriend believe him? How can he get away so easily with being dishonest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Okay after a couple of years after my break up I feel almost like I have closure. (My ex cheated on me after 5 years and had been seeing his mistress for the last 4 1/2 months. I outed him and tried to talk with her)The one thing that still bothers ...

How do I tell my fiance I am bi-curious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I have never been with a Female before but i am Bi Curious but my problem is i have a fiance and i would never tell him about me liking females because i am Jealous when it comes to him and other females. My Question is what can i do to make myself ...

How do I stop being so shy and meet more people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Well to start off im a very shy person and its hard for me to meet new people. This being said the only women i end up talking to is my friends girlfriends. The problem is i end up falling for them and it never ends up bad. So my question is how do ...

I have tried talking to him about the lack of sex in our relationship but it is not working! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I feel like i am in a sexless relationship but i am in Love with him so i don't know where to turn, I have tryed talking to him about it but that hasn't solved nothing, it is sort of like he don't care when and how often i want to have sex, it is ...

How can I stop loving her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4757 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I've been seeing a co-worker for the last few months and things were going really well. She was supposed to have moved in with me last week and we'd booked appointments to look at local schools for her children. Instead we had a massive row about ...

Is it ok for us to still be bf and gf even though we don't live together anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4757 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hello.. I need unbiased advice.. My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. We have been together for a little over 2 years now. After a year of dating we decided to move in together. At first we had a lot of problems but eventually we start...

Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4757 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - i am in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 9 months.its been more than 1 month that my bf has stopped caring the way he used to.now he never texts me,in the whole day he wont text me at all.at the night he will text or call for 2 min, ...

How can you tell when a guy is being genuine???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - How can you tell if a guy is feeding you lines, or is actually interested??? I'm talking about when you first meet someone, not while you are dating someone. ...

To everyone I'm the stuck up pretty girl with a perfect life, but really I'm a mess inside. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Im a huge mess right now so please I just need some helpful advice...I feel overwhelmed with everything going on right now..I'm literally busy 24-7 to keep my parents satisfied..I get strait a's I take college classes don't party or do anything bad. ...

The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts....and I think I somehow fell in love with a guy there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts. I'm not a counselor, and I don't talk to them about their problems or issues or anything, but even with my job I have to remember my boundaries, at least for a certain length of time. ...

Why does my married employer keep bringing up his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I have known a certain MARRIED man for the last eight to nine months. I met him at my workplace, as I look after his son. This man has been giving me lifts home from my workplace when he comes to pick his son up quite often. We get on re...