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How do I end my affair?

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Question - (14 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2011)
A female India age 36-40, *egha writes:

hi all,

I am woman of 25 in a extramarital relation. I want to end this. please suggest me some way that I can be out of this.

my husband will be heart broken and may be angry, if he finds this out. in fact I love this extra thing, but still I want to stop it for my family.

for last couple of weeks I am in big distress. I get angry unreasonably when I don't spend time with the other man(in fact this is my brother in law).

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A female reader, Regha India +, writes (2 May 2011):

Regha is verified as being by the original poster of the question

im carrying. I dont know

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011):

I don't know I'm not an expert ... but I do know this ... if you are with another man that means you don't love your husband ... and by the sound of it you seem to be enjoying sex with the other guy too ... this is important coz its your life

and you are going to have to live with this decision, ask yourself 1 question ....

are you going to be happy living with a man you don't love or should I be asking if you can live with a man when you know you cheated on him....

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A female reader, Love Mama Canada +, writes (14 April 2011):

Love Mama agony auntDear Runaround Sue,

Are you kidding me??? Your brother-in-law? Could you have chosen a WORSE person to cheat with? Cut it off immediately before anyone finds out. There are too many people's feelings at risk and it's certainly not worth your fleeting moments of pleasure.

Walk away! No...RUN!!!!

Love Mama

xoxo

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A male reader, macdubh712 United States +, writes (14 April 2011):

Well, you should tell him that it is wrong what you two are doing and that it must stop. What were you thinking getting involved with your bro-in-law? Is this your husband's brother? This could rip apart two different families if it is discovered. I won't tell you to divorce your husband over this because only you can decide what you must do about that but the affair must stop. If you really want it to stop then you must be honest with your other lover about it. I hope it doesn't blow up in your face; good luck with it.

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