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Big Questions: Help and advice

I've started to have feelings for a close friend, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, Recently, I've begun to have strong feelings for a really close female friend that I've known for years - I'd go as far as to say that she's one of my best friends. But now that I feel more strongly about her, it's going to make things more dif...

I'm confused, am I bi or gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - 3 years ago when i was 13 i discoverd i liked men and now im 15 i still like men but im not sure about girls anymore, im really confused right now so can i just have some advice please?...

Is it wrong of me not to be happy that my married lover had a baby with his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My lover just had another baby with his wife. I am very sad and disappointed about this. Is this normal? I love the guy so much and he loves me too. We have been together for two years and has been married for three years. I have always respected ...

What do you think of this guy? How do we go back to having original, striking conversations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been on four dates with this one guy. He is a gentleman, makes me laugh uncontrollably and I am attracted to him. On our first date,we had a nice conversation,about the concentration camps in Germany, other political matters...

I am upset with my cousin for not telling me she was pregnant before we had unprotected sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my ...

Trying to rekindle. We are giving homemade gifts. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I are going away for the weekend to try and rekindle the relationship. We would like to exchange a small token of our love for each other. However, we don't have a lot of extra money so we decided to do homemade gifts. Any ideas?...

We hardly ever have sex anymore. I'd like this other man on the side. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i'm 42 yrs old and my husband is 52. i'm happily married and do not want to leave or lose my husband, but we hardly ever have sex. well a month ago i went on a little vacation and i met another man and yes, we did it 1 time, and it felt sooo good ...

Reasons BF gave me for breaking up with me are preposterous. I am heartbroken.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently broken up with me. We were in a relationship for more than 4 years, this being the 5th year. (Additional Info:- He was my first ever boyfriend and he said I was his first too. At the beginning we had a wonderful relation...

Passion returns after 25 years. We're both married. How do I handle it?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Do I say something? I'm 40 years old. I'm divorced. I have 2 awesome kids, and despite being single, I am relatively happy. When I was young and dumb (15) I fell for the 'love of my life' hard. I was consumed with her. I had seriously intens...

Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a ...

Sex was good in our marriage, but husband has no interest for the past 3 years. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - What can be the cause when a man does not want any sex with his wife? Is this possible,that he doesn't know why? What can you do,if he says he loves you,but he never wants sex, ever, for years. He never looks at me naked, or touches me. I as...

I threw myself at him, Did he lose respect for me? Is there a chance of turning this around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - dated this guy I work w/ for a while, it was steady, intense and consistent. Then I pulled away bc he wasn't spending enough time w/ me. I had hoped he would try to work it out w/ me, but he didn't..he just let me go. I mean, canceled our weekend ...

Is he still attracted to me, or is it really nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - It may be a tad long but i just came on here for some advice or insight please! Anything that will help make sense!? Here goes, call me stupid or naive since i know you don't know the guy or me, but if you can make out these actions.. Great!...

He has lied to make himself seem cooler. Should I forgive these kinds of lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Ok let's see... Well a couple months ago I met an awesome person online. Like I've seriously never met anyone like him before... it started out casually talking and over a few weeks we talked more then decided to call each other a couple. Thing is ...

She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up think...

He walks all over me. I want him to respect me. How do I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have low self esteem. My boyfriend senses this so he feels that things are super "safe" with me because I will never leave him. So sometimes he enjoys driving me up the wall and rarely apologizes anymore. Most days he's sweet but some...

He'll never be anything more than a liar. We had 2 weeks planned. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in long distance relationship for almost two years now. We see each other every weekend, and yesterday he arrived here and is going to stay with me for 3 weeks (we did this before, in August last year and it was grea...

I know now that childcare is not what I want to do. Need help with career choice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hey, a quick question, how do you know what you want to do in life if you have no ambitions and no idea on a career path? I had to quit college because i became pregnant, yes it was planned but it happened sooner then planned. The college cou...

GF is a workalcoholic. We are to be married in 3 months. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - I dont know who else to turn to. Its really getting to the point where I dont know what to do. sorry if its long, but yeah. My Fiancee and I are getting married in about 3 months. For the last year, she has been doing freelance work to save up ...

My sister is a squatter. How can my parents get her to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My sister got pregnant and my parents let her stay at home. now that the child is 1 year old now they want her to leave and get a house of her own. they have constantly told her to go cause all she does is causes hassle and fights with everyone. She ...

Is he really is having his cake and eating it by living rent free at his mums and at mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Please help me I'm very confused about my relationship of 15 months. He has two kids from his prev relationship of 8 years. We don't live together but he is at my place every night. For majority of the time we get along good and I really love hi...

He is avoiding telling his mum that we are getting engaged, is he having second thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were supposed to tell his mum that we were getting engaged and then at the last minute wanted to tell her another day, this then made me wonder if he even wanted to be engaged at all?...

Just had a baby and not feeling too great about my body, and now I find out my boyfriend is watching porn! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I've just had a baby so am not really comfy with my body at the minute, but I've just recently found out that my boyfriend and my babies dad has been watching porn on the internet and Im not sure how to feel or what I should do about it?...

Is it possible to get the relationship back? I'm ready to marry her now but she wants space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - I have dated a girl for about 6 years. Ive always loved her and she has been awesome in the realtionshiop. We went to different schools and for the past 3 years Ive worked in London and she lives in Texas and has a great job there. Ive alwyas ...

How do you say "How are you?" in Chinese and German?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - what is "how are you" in chinese and german...

Should I move on because knowing that she is happy, I should be happy for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - This girl I dated back in high school (two years ago) is happy with another guy. I broke up with her because I "knew" I wouldnt amount to anything, and though I'd always be a nobody... To this day (two years and four months later) not a day goes by ...

Pregnant by my ex who has another girlfriend, and I'm only 14! Should I keep it or give it up for adoption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - ok so, i was with my ex for a year and 2 months, he currently has a new gf because hes 'trying to get over me' we had sex a couple weeks ago (yea i know im such a horrible person letting him cheat on her like that, blah blah blah) but the condom ...

Why would he even ask if I want to have sex with other men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have always been happy and very much in love. My boyfriend is very protective which makes me feel special enough for him to care how other boys act around me. He has always told me he would hate ...

He heard lies from someone else about me and now calls me a prostitute! To make it worse, I am pregnant with his baby and he wants to take it away from me.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi friends , I am a 24yrs old university graduate, and 6 months pregnant, but the father of my baby has left me, he broke up with me over the phone and called me all sort of names. he even calls me a prostitute,..the relationship was a very smooth ...

Whatever happened to love conquers all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi all I'm recently feeling vexed over a guy! He's been courting me for a few months and even though initially I wasn't interested, I was finally beginning to be touched by his words. And for a moment, I really considered his friend's advise on ...

Was it my penis size that did not satisfy her sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - i have a girlfriend. i had sex for first time but she was not so much satisfied. my penis size is 5.5" is it normal? and i ejaculate early. so natural ways to stop my early ejaculation?...

Fallen for my doctor - if I tell him how I feel, what would be the consequences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I’ve been this doctor’s patient for about 10 months now.i see him every 2 month. i’m in my early 20's. For all these months, I never showed my feelings to him. I never even asked him about his personal life other than medical-related questions(I ...

Does anyone else ever feel this way? Are there any good people out there left in the world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I need to vent. Does anyone else ever feel like the world is just full of corrupt, crooked, lying people who care about nothing else but money or power or even BOTH? I'm in my late twenties. To think that five years ago I actually looked at the...

I thought having a baby would bring us closer but he has left and now he has a new girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My ex and I were having problems, I thought having a baby would bring us closer together, instead we broke up and he is with a new girl. Our baby is only 3 months and I'm struggling to raise a baby on my own as well as deal with a broken heart. He ...

Am I sending the wrong message?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I’m 33 years old woman and always dress up even on Sundays when I want to go out to have a cup of coffee, I m not originally from the USA. I see here women go out with pajama to be honest at the beginning I was amazed how they can go to university ...

I miss my ex! Should I contact him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - So this guy and I broke up 6 months ago I still haven't gotten over him sadly...i miss him. The break up was really bad it was mostly my fault..but I really want to talk to him. He deleted me off Facebook back when we split. Is adding him again like ...

Do long distance relationships ever work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i really like this guy but we are both afraid of becoming too close due to our distance. do long distance relationships ever really work? in this case both people would be as devoted as possible....

How can a boy like a girl and suddenly change their mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - how can a boy like a girl and suddenly cnage their mind for no reason?...

How do I disappear with my little one so he can't find us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - hi everyone i need some help and some of you might think i'm a cow. but here it goes i have a 3 week old baby that the dad only saw 3 times since her birth. to me i think he is a dick he can't see her beacuse its messing with his new relationship...

Was I wrong to contact his mother? I haven't heard from her since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - was i wrong for contacting his mum? in a LDR and ive met his mother and mailed her on facebook a couple of times. my boyfriend has recently got a severe case of depression and last night I have never been so terrified, i made myself physica...

Not sure what to do about lecturer who is jealous when I get male attention.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...

Depressed husband and unsatisfied wife. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been married for almost 8 years now and it feels like a vicious cycle. my husband is on meds for adhd and clinical depression and still won't get help. my patience and epathy are almost wearing out. I have developed panic disorder ...

Am I tricking myself into thinking I'm still pregnant, or did the abortion fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - in september when i was 2 months pregnant, i was more or less forced into having an abortion. ever since then i have still been having symptoms and every since the abortion i have regretted it and hated myself for it. i know its stupid, but i feel ...