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writes:Im in a delema... Im deprived between 2 guys and i dont know what to do. It all started with my boyfriend, He was a great boyfriend and so sweet. But hes a virgin, and hes so nervous( which i do think is cute :) )... he always makes me happy, but there are times where i am so mad at him. Like when he lies to me about smoking and drugs, and when other girls try to get with him and he meats up with them. I know he wont do nothing to cheat or hurt me, but its so hard. But heres the problem. I have sorta had a little tiny crush on this guy and hes like my bestfriend! Ive liked him since i was 8 and i never thought nothing of it... about 2 months ago we started joking around. sexual jokes, and other stuff. Then we started talkin serious about a month ago. We had plans on having sex this summer. Thinking i was'nt going to be with my boyfriend of course. Last week i walked to the guys house and we got carried away in making out, then things led to one another and we had sex. Feeling a little guitly i told a couple of my friends. I forgot to add that this guy has a girlfriend also... Yesterday rumors got around that we had sex. Me and him denyed like crazy but my boyfriend beleived it and we broke up. Now i honestly dont know what to do. My ex told me hes so sorry and regrets breaking up with me and he doesnt care if it was true or not and shit like that. i told him i need time to think. But i want him back but i also want the other guy, and hes gunna break up with his girlfriend.. I dont know what to do can someone help me?
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reader, gymfreakuk  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 i think you are being completely unfair on your ex and need to tell him what really happened. If u dont get back with him then it doesnt matter that you told him but if you do then you'll always have that in the back of your mind.
Put yourself in the position of your ex, if he had cheated on you, how would you be feeling right now.
Dont get with either of them till you have made your mind up though or it will just end badly if u change your mind at a later point.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): Aight, I write my answer based on your title, "...the other guy, who's ready to break up with his ex for me." Don't you think that one day he will break up with you for his new gf? Im not saying your ex is better than this guy, just take your time and think about it.
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