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Archived questions from: 3 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have no regrets but she does! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hi all was at a convention and after a wild party a long time acquaintence and I both wound up together and had sex. I made sure that she understood that we where like 2 shops passing in the night, and nothing would come of this after. We are both ...

Don't I deserve to be cared about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - I've always felt "less than". I've never liked the way i like even though i've gotten complements plenty of times. The past two years, my self esteem has hit rock bottom. I got involved with a guy i shouldn't have and it didn't end well, well it's ...

I have had thoughts about girls. Am I going to turn into a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - HELP ME, im so scared and anxious. im not going to go into my crazy antics here, but i'm just gunna sum it up. i've loved boys forever. wanted to date them, be near them, impress them, make them like me. i formed friendships with guys based on th...

Is it rude to ask someone if they are in a bad mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Does anyone else hate this? Yesterday I was tired since I went hiking. So, my boyfriend was talking to me on the phone and asked if I was in a bad mood. I was only tired, but it put me in a bad mood when he asked if i was in a bad mood. Why do ...

Has anyone else felt like the ugliest, wherever they are?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I have always been the ugliest everywhere. In family, school, college, everywhere. Neither am I very intelligent. This has led to a low self esteem. I have made peace with the fact that I am really ugly. My question is has anyone ever been through ...

I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I ...

BF smoked weed before I took him to meet my parents. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend smokes weed. It doesn't bother me, but the other day he was gonna meet my parents for the first time, and he'd known this for a week beforehand, yet he still went over his friends and got high first. Is it just me being over sensitiv...

I need help telling my parents I am bisexual.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi. Here's the thing. I'm bisexual. I really like one of my girl friends, and she's bi too. she told me she liked me and now we are kind of going out. my parents/family dont know that I like girls and i am far too afraid to tell them because im ...

Is he just settling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - When I asked my bf why he liked me, the first thing he said was that he knew that I cared a lot about him and that I thought about him a lot. Is this normal? I feel like he's only with me now because he's settling and because he just wants someo...

What is the difference between like and love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - What is the difference between "like" and "love" in a relationship? Why does it start with like, and then it becomes love? And why do some love last and others don't?...

My friends put me down because I don't drive and I want it to stop.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I recently got together with a group of friends whom i haven't seen in months. We all were out and having a good time when one of my friends suggested we go somewhere that was kind of a far driving distance. My BEST friend goes oh no we cant go ...

I don't want to ruin her chance for happiness, nor do I want to her slip through my fingers. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hey. I've recently (three/four months ago) been through a rather violent breakup. A number of factors led to this; her grandmother died and she took it out on everyone else, we fell distant.. you know. The major factor - one that we had kept fro...

I found out, by snooping, that he is in tough financial shape. Could he be taking me for a ride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and it is great. I am 45 and cautious. I am at an impasse. I know this is crazy, i lent him some money, not a large sum. I had the opportunity to be alone in his house and went through some files. He told me he has had a tough ...

How can I track my boyfriend's online activity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - How can I track my boyfriend online to what sites he is on when we live separately?...

Why do these people have a problem with how little I drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'd like some opinions on this. Do you think there is anything wrong with not wanting to drink a lot of alcohol? There are a few people i know who have made comments on me either not drinking a lot of alcohol when i have been out, or not drinking ...

Boyfriend is completely insensitive about my health scare.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Is my boyfriend being completely insensitive? I've been having these mini-seizure things that my doctor has no idea what it is. Brain tumors run in my family, so she suggested I go to a neurologist in two weeks. I also have been having really bad ...

I want to see the prostitute again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I lost my virginity to a prostitution and feels like going to it again. Is it safe? But I feel guilty too. Please help me....

How do I start believing in myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I try so hard to have faith in myself as a person so that I can be confident, successful and have fun but I always fail. I don't know who I am and I can't connect well with the people who are in my life whether it be at work, my bf or my friends. I ...

I have rusty feelings...I'm not sure if this is love or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - okay so, its been a long time since ive really "LOVED" someone this girl i have my eye on has me confused. i really just don't know if its lust or love. its like when i think about her i can barely breath and i start to get that warm feeling of happ...

I was 23 a few months ago but can still very easily pass for a 14yr old!! Is there any way I can I make myself look older without making myself look cheap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My problem is that I look so young for my age. I was 23 a few months ago but can still very easily pass for a 14yr old. For example I always just get given a childs ticket for the bus/train without even having to ask, which you can only get if ...

Am I weird or is this a normal fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, I'm very new here and have always considered myself somewhat of a "freak" because of this. Ever since I was young when I had an operation and was put to sleep, I find myself aroused when I see pictures of myself asleep and even now I g...

My boyfriend has women's underwear in his drawer that could belong to his ex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has intimate womens clothing that probably belongs to his ex? So a few days ago I went through a drawer of my boyfriend (he let me do this, he was there). It was a joke as he has a pantihose fetish so he let me have a look at them. H...

I love the perfect guy...but he has a girlfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - So , I may be young and naive , and people may tell me I don't know what love is yet or haven't experienced anything close to it , but how do they know , right? I have been working at a fast food place for a year or so now , part-time , while ...

How do I come out if I am gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Hello.I am 13 years old and I know im gay, but how do I come out? I have a boyfriend but we don't show our love at school because we are scared of being teased by other students. My parents don't know either. The only time we hold hands or kiss is ...

Ex-flame. Sparks evident. But I have a loving girlfriend. Is the next field always greener?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 21 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a gorgeous woman for a year and a half. As far as I am aware, I am in love. Tonight, I bumped into a girl who I spent the night with (no sex) four years ago, and we disc...

I want to reopen the lines of communication with him, should I send him a birthday text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My bf and I split up 7 months ago after a 3 month relationship. I told him I was happy to remain friends, and a few texts went back and forth afterwards (all friendly - I never sent any begging letters, never let him know how hurt I was, etc), but ...