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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it right to bring a baby into the world when the father is a herion addict?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I've just found out I'm pregnant with my first baby The baby wasn't planned but my husband and I have been married for two years and I have openly wanted kids.... anyway... there's one small problem... my husband is a heroin addict... it all...

"Relationship crossroads:Approach of College"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Alright This is going to be a bit of a long post, this is a big deal for me so try to bear with me through it. In September I started seeing a wonderful girl in the grade below me (shes a junior/I a senior), but of the same age as me (17, I'm v...

How can I get my boyfriend to ask his friend to join us in our threesome?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend has brought up the idea of a three some i am down with it i ask my friend and she is down with it why wont my boyfriend ask his friend to join us in a three some and how can i get him to ask him ...

There is no reason for my children to have these problems. Where can I go that someone will understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I feel so alone with my problems. I feel there is no one else on the world who is going thru the same tragedy as me, or in the same way. I have tried to get help before from counselors and support groups, but i felt very misunderstood, and that the...

His parents won't accept the union and I am heartbroken. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I'm madly in love with this guy, but we can't marry because our parents wont accept the union, it's more his parents. He's not even allowed to have female friends, if they found out about me, they'd disown him. We've broken up lots of times bu...

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

How do I ask, "Are we in a relationship?" without him feeling pressured.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - How do i ask him if we are in a relationship without him feeling i am pressuring him. I have been dating this guy for a month now and we get on really well. we text everyday but sometimes when he feels awkward he will ignore me for days. we met...

Is he talking of marriage just because I am planning to leave?

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5 April 2011 (F) - I dont think he will be moving on too for his Msc. I think he will settle for a job in Mauritius. Besides he changes ideas quite quickly. i wonder if the fact that am going is making him say all the sweet words and plans of marriage...thanks for ...

My life is upside down and my parents don't treat me fairly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I'm an 18 years old male in south Africa. my problem is my parents treat me less important that my other two brothers, they don't want to accept my girlfriend and they say I'm taking drugs. I'm also repeating grade 11 and they keep saying I'm ...

Do I have anxiety disorder ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - hello everyone i had some physical problem so my family doctor prescribed me the urine and blood test which also included the HIV test. Although the reports are negative but i am deeply worried whether the lady in the pathology changed the syringe ...

I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she...

My girfriend may be dying, why don't I care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Im really stuck here. My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with viral encephalitis which is irritation and swelling of the brain. She had it before and nearly died from it but recovered. I have felt that the relationship has been over for a ...

My son will only get financial help for college if I remain umarried for 2 years, but when my fiance found out he took the ring back and demands I marry him next year and leave my son alone in my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid , hope someone can help me. i was planing on marrying this july. well my son got full fiancial aid for college books . everything . well i cant marry for 2 years now, they go by your income. i asked my guy to wait and he got mad. too...

She is always sick, is she the right person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - She is always sick of malaria and worms. I have spent lots of money on her treatment since I got her. She has tested for other diseases like HIV but we are all negative. Will she be the right person for me?...

Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Last night my fiancee got really drunk. Later that night he called me another woman's name right before we passed out. He called me a mutual friends name, who was his roommate for a year and like a sister to him, nothing happened between them ever. ...

When I move away for university we will be long distance, and it will last for 6 years! How do we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - hi.. I am 20 and my boyfriend 23. we have been dating sice i was 16 but take several pauses off. but last year when i entered university, we again became close to each other dated for about a year. then litle problems crop up like he leave me unatt...

I'm jealous of all my friends who have relationships! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Hey there... I'm 21 years of age.i wanna tell you my problem here we go... I don't have any relationship and contact ever in my life time, even i didn't kiss lip, this makes me anxious and strange. where comes these problem? I don't know... When i ...

Why don't I think about my girlfriend when masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Here's my story. I have this great woman who I love so much. I would feel dead inside without her, that's how much I love her. BUT, why can't I fantasize about her when I masterbate? I think about younger girls and their cute small breasts or past ...

I'm not cut out for FWB relationships, can I get my new guy to change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hey, I've never done this before, but I just have a question. I've recently "split up" with my fuck buddy, and it broke my heart, because I started being in love with him, and as soon as I told him, he started withdrawing and not returning my cal...

Is it normal to act crazily for love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I am always a man who fall deep in love, and once I get somebody I love I feel like running crazy for the person. I do all sorts of things in my capacity to make my partner happy. I can call her 10 times a day just to tell her I miss her and hear ...

I can't initiate sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I joined this place after googling 'sex makes me feel guilty' and an answer from here came up. The question I read though was vague and although there were good answers they weren't foe me...so I'll say a bit more I am a female and I have a fem...

Would a guy who is not interested in a girl behave this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I just wanna get some opinions on this. Will a guy who's not interested in a girl romantically bother pouring sauce in her dish, opening doors etc? i mean opening doors is fine but are pouring sauce and taking food also considered gent...

My 8 year old daughter is telling people she has a brother when she is an only child, how do I deal with this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I have just got back from having a chat with my daughters teacher.My daughter is 8yrs old.The teacher had mentioned about my daughter being tierd one particular day.She had told her teacher that her young brother had kept her awake most the night. I...

Advice on helping my boyfriend maintain his erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My bf has trouble maintaining an erection when we're having sex, and I'd like some advice on how to help him. He says the problem is that he starts worrying that he's not pleasing me, and that makes him loose his erection. We've been together 7 ...

I am too attached to my lover, but I want to lead a normal life with my husband now he wants a baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - hi i am 27/ f/ married for 5 years. I have been involved with lots of guys in my life physically and this continued even after marriage as my husband is not a interested in sex, its been almost 3 years we made love, he is fine with it as he is not ...

Pregnant by an ex lover when I was supposed to be working on my marriage with my husband....what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Well please dont judge me, I made an horrible bad decision, and im hurting trendmendously. Separated from husband over an year ago. Had sex with and ex lover and now Im pregnant. Husband and I were suppose to be working on us and I sliped up bad, ...

How do I tell my son this man wont be his dad anymore, without him thinking I have a problem with men?

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5 April 2011 (F) - i met a wonderful man 3 years ago and we had a wonderful relationship, we had agreed to start marriage proceedings in december 2010,i n the african setting this is done by first seeking parents approval, they all knew him, i must say i didn't know ...

Weird dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - i keep having weird dreams.. i constantly dream of a goat with brown eyes,a womans upper body and a mans lower body and its always asking me about my relationship and when ever i try to look into its eyes it feels like my heart is stopping it hurt...

He has not had a job in the 9 years we have been together! Will he ever change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 years, he never had a job in 9 years, only 2 times he had a job for like a month each job.. I m a dancer so more money is not necesary to live well, but it is necesary because all he cares about is to play ...

He really likes me and doesn't want to lose me, but now his ex is back in the picture. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - ok so i met this guy im seeing a week ago.. yeah we havent known each other long at all, but we had instant chemistry.. he has been coming to my house every morning when he gets off work and he crawls in my bed and holds me, its like we have known ...

How do I make my husband believe I wont leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I got legally married 6 months ago. My parents nor my husband's parents are aware of the wedding. Since we belong to different communities it took some time to get my husband's family to accept me. Now a social wedding is being planned for the month ...

What are your views on Cuddle Buddies? (Kiss, snuggle, cuddle, make out, no sex, no emotional feelings). Does it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I want to know what your views are on cuddle buddies. Cuddle buddy is similar with friends with benefits but without the sex. Cuddle buddies do kiss, snuggle, cuddle, make out and many more. However, the feeling of love is just a detachment. Th...

Husband cant satisfy me because of premature ejaculation.... perhaps I need to have my physical needs met elsewhere?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I love my husband very much. We did not have a lot of sex before we married, so it wasn't until after our wedding that I confirmed that he has premature ejaculation. This has effected every single time we have had sex for the past two years, without ...

Boyfriend is in jail for violating probation, I'm doing all I can to help, but apparently I'm the "heartless evil bit*h". Why is he doing this to me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was sentenced to jail for 30 days for violating probation. His urine came up diluted, which means there was low levels of the natural substances in pee, indicating he added water to his pee sample. however, he swears he did nothing to ...

Do you think we can feel when others are thinking of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - So, this probably sounds a bit weird, and I mean, it is, but I'm just wondering; do any of you believe that we can sense, or feel, when somebody is thinking about us? Like, I don't know...it's just that I sometimes randomly get this really intense ...

Solo travelling - with a girlfriend back home. How do you approach the issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Hi guys, I want to go on a solo backpack tour around America in August. I haven't been travelling on my own for years, and just desperarately want to get some time off for myself - off from uni, work, friends, family. I have been in a healthy ...

Do you think not talking to him will change his mind about how he's acting and he'l come chasing after me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Lately, me and my now ex boyfriend have been haveing relationship problems... we have had a rough year, from cheating, lying, breaking up, losing babies... and it seems right when we get to the point where our relationship is healing... he breaks up ...

Which ex should I choose now that they both want me back? The hot and sweet one who lives far away or the funny one who lives close by but is a big flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I can't choose between these two guys. I used to date both of them at seperate times of course and now they both want me back. One is way hot and sweet and I know he loves me but he lives far away so I barely get to see him. Also he's broken u...