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Big Questions: Help and advice

He still wants to see me after breaking up and calling me by the wrong name??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello all I was in a relationship with a guy for about 8 months. We met off a dating site. He seemed to be an exhibitionist which I gathered quickly early on. Still I thought well let's give it a go because he was a nice guy to me. We dated...

How can I keep myself out of awkward situations??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - Does anyone else go through this? It's driving me crazy Case senario: I was buying something and the clerk asked me for my CVS membership card, and I said "can I give you my phone number"? Obviously I wasn't thinking when I said that, and he start...

Is he really interested in me or using me to make his ex jealous??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a new relationship type of problem and it's gonna take a bit of explaining so if anyone has the time to read and offer their opinion I'd be most grateful. So. Bit of background first - I've been single for for the last 18+ months ...

Is his behavior normal or creepy??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I have been good friends with this girl for a couple months, we are practically inseparable. Lately I have been spending a lot of time at her house and meeting her family. Her mom is nothing but a sweet heart, and her dad was nothing but awesome ...

Need good advice on how to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - So its been a month that my exboyfriend broke up with me and im still having the hardest time to get over him. We dated for a 1year nd 2months. So for me its so hard to let go of wat we went through. I already tried talkn to him. I sed i was sorry ...

He cheated on me before we broke up, should I treat him on his birthday??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - What should I do? is my friend right about this? My ex boyfriend broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me is cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is why he couldn't brea...

Should I just ask her out or what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I think im in love with a girl in the year above at my school, she's leaving in a few months. I really want to do something like ask her out, but i have no guts, we aren't really in the same circle of friends, but she and I have so much in common ...

Would this be alright to do with him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Honest question here, I used to like this guy i'm friends with and he used to like me (well he said he still does)... I'm seeing him next weekend on a night out with both our mutual friends, which will be the first time in a few months. Anyways, ...

Do you think we have to worry about this issue??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - hi all, its been allong time since i wrote on here but i am extreemly worried. also please excuse my english as i am dislexic... basicly last night me and my gf had sex we used as a condom as we ALWAYS do and all went well but after i took it...

Should I move out and give him his space as he wants??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - i have been dateing my bf for 4 years now i have been staying at his house for couple months bt now he says he doesnt know what to do hes asking for space so i sed is it that u want to break up n he says no that he loves me im so attached to him ...

Should I end the relationship, it's too much for me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I am not sure shall I send a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. During the past two years, both of us had experienced a lot of things. We started from nothing to friends and then to closest friend. Later, she invited me to her home to have dinner ...

My husband and I cannot agree on socializing. He wants to and I do not. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My husband is extremely sociable and I am quite a withdrawn insular person. I work as a Consultant at a teaching hospital and deal with patients, friends, relatives and staff all day long and when I am at home I do not particularly want to go out, ...

Husband wants to buy the team name. I don't agree. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I am a 29 year old female and a mother of a 4 year old son. My husband was a member of a successful amateur teenage bowling team when he was a kid. This team won 16 league championships. To know my husband is to know about those 16 titles. H...

Why is it that men need more than one special person to satisfy their needs when women don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I'm a woman and for some reason, when I have a boyfriend, he's enough for me and is all I need. It has happened to me that when I have a boyfriend I stop fantasizing about other guys, I even stop looking at other guys, it's not something forced, it ...

Am I being naive? Or is my husband upto something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been on a rocky road for quite some time now and we are currently in counseling. I lost trust in him a almost 2 years ago when he started texting girls. He stops texting one girl but then starts up with a new one. Right no...

I'm useless with women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - I've just turned 22 and never had a girlfriend, it's made me realise I'm actually useless with women. I've had a few drunken one night stands (Protected of course) but never experienced a relationship with a girl. It's easy enough going clubbing and ...

Does my drunk neighbor owe me an apology?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I sought advice about a relationship issue last week and received wonderful thoughtful advice from the people who responded. Their advice was taken, and it helped immensely. I showed my wife their comments, and I believe an unbiased ,anonymous ...

I like cross dressing...how do I get my partner to accept this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - my fem name is clare,and i often wear my partners clothes of a day and night. i hate the body im in and dream of becomming a woman.is it right of me to ask my partner to become a lesbian? and how do i ask her?...

How do gay/bi people approach each other? Especially when they're not sure of their sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - If you're gay or bisexual, but not openly so, how do you approach members of the same sex? Especially when you're not sure of their sexuality. Like, how do you go about it, without going to a gay club or something....

Is it normal to masturbate just because you're bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Is it normal what I do here...whenever Im bored and cant think of anything to do or look up online I masturbate. Sometimes I just lie and think thoughts of me and my bf and it all comes or sometimes if I cant quite get myself in the mood I watch...

Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...

After all this time, is it normal to feel so lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I am having problems coping with the breakup of my marriage, and am worried that I still can't get over her completely. She was my best friend above all else, and it was a tremendous loss. It has been a year since we broke up and while I feel out ...

She wont tell anyone we are together, after 4 years! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Been with my girlfriend 4 years, and she still wont tell anyone about us. She says people know because they are not stupid and they guessed about us, but when they ask her about me she denies we are dating. All my family and friends know abo...

She was unfaithful and has been with the new guy for 2 months, but I still cant shake the feeling that we are meant to be together.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - This is my story. I am not sure exactly which questions I would like to ask, perhaps they will emerge during my writing. I was/am together with my partner for one year. She is 39 and I am 41. I have a child from a previous marriage, a love...

Should I move away in the hopes of finding a partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I have been single now for 18 months and I just don't meet any potential partners anywhere. I can't even get a date using online dating and with the net the rsponse is always because I don't want kids and there seem to be very few women in their ...

Why do all women shave down there?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - Why do all women, or almost all women shave down below? I read somewhere here on DC that even girls as young as 14 are doing this!...

He proposed but now is ignoring me, when I asked him why he said it was because he needs me to be slim and pretty before he wants to be seen with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - erm.. I saw this guy via a public media, seemed to be so understanding, matured and honestly said he diabetic but really wishes to be married to me. I took my time but found him charming enough to say a yes. Eversince, no phonecalls from me is ...

Should I keep up with the no contact until she comes crawling back? Will she even come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - what is the best thing to do here is my situation. I dated this girl for a short periods of time but i really put my heart into the relationship. I always sent her good morning text and sweet dreams texts. I would have eyes for her and her only. We ...

What are test tube babies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - hey what is the meaning of test-tube babies????i don't know about it..please give a description of it..........

Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...

Should my boyfriend be going to Goa with his friends? Is this fair on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Im in a committed ldr since 1 year 9months. my bf is going to the most romantic place (Goa) with his male friends in the month of may. Goa is famous for beaches and of course bikini babes. should my bf be going like this with his friends?? is it ok? ...

How can I overcome the hopelessness and low self-esteem I feel due to being called ugly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - How can I overcome with the hopelessness and low self-esteem I feel due to being called ugly? I remember being a very happy, confident and fun child growing up. However, everything started going downhill since grade 3. During grade 3 I moved to a ...

What is your opinion on my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - Well just recently maybe half a year ago a friend of mine had introduced me to her little brother and we had been talking ever since To be honest i just thought that he was another really hot guy that id never get the chance to be with but ive want...

Girlfriend's activities with other male friends upset me and I can't seem to fall in the whole "in the end she comes home to you" bit.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - We broke up two weeks ago after a year long relationship, and now are trying to talk things over, and one the the things we can't get passed is an apparent jealousy problem from my end. She considers it ok to spend movie nights at her house with o...

Am I slutty?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I want to know if I'm a drunk slut i'm 19 and In my sophomore year of college last year I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months but since we broke up... ive had 2 one night stands (full intercourse) given two blow jobs, and let one othe...

Hate my job, no money and single.....how do I stop feeling so down about life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm almost 31 and feel so down re life. I hate my job. As I changed careers last year but big mistake and now want my old career back. and constantly broke. I live in shared place with 2 friends and they seem happy, but I'm not. Everyon...

How can I give my wife loving input about our new baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - My wife and I have a newborn baby girl. We don't appreciate a lot of unsolicited advice from friends and family regarding how to nurture and raise the baby. However, I sometimes have opinions about the things she does, based on professional advice ...

Lost my my girlfriend and our 3 month old baby girl in a car accident...How can I get through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - So on January 10th of this year, I lost my girlfriend and our 3 month old baby girl in a car accident. At first it wasn't really effecting me that much, a few weeks went by and it finally hit. All I can think about is them. Today I saw this little ...

Why do I feel this way about relationships?

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4 April 2011 (M) - Ok, I know this is probably stupid of me for asking this, but I just have to know because I don't know the answer myself: I have only been in one relationship in my entire life. I want to get into another one but I don't want to be in one for the ...

I am hooking up with my ex's best mate, do I follow my heart and see where this goes or stop this because it will hurt so many people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend, John of 10 months, around 2 or so months ago. When we were together we used to hangaround as a group, with his best mate, Kyle and his friend with benefits, Jane who i became really good friends with. It took me awh...

Does my friend father want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I just met my good friends family and lately I have been spending a lot of time at her house. The first time I was there I met her dad and it was fine nothing weird, only when I left he was staring at me it was really odd. So last night I spent. The ...

Do I have a reason to be mad at my bestfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hey I have a question.. Sooo I don't have a car right now, I need one tho to start college. And now, I'm single. I've been single for almost a year. Meaning no dates no sex no talkin on the phone no nothing. But my best friend has because she has ...

First time mom, am I feeling my baby move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Is it possible for being 4 months pregnant and feeling my baby kick? When I put my hand on my right side I feel this weird flutter like I've never felt. I was wondering if the baby beings growing on one side of the uterus then eventually grows...

I just want him to be happy. I don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER...and im sorry if its lengthy. So ive been in a LDR for 2 and a half years now. Ive been to see him a couple of times usually for 2 sometimes 3 weeks in a row. He is the love of my life, I cant ever see myself without h...

I need some opinion on this guy I have been really good at holding mysef back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - We were dating for a little bit, and the guy told me about his past how he cheated on his ex but that he's not like that anymore...knowing myself having trust issues hearing that got me uneasy...I've been holding myself back but not entirely with ...

Am I making a mistake in getting married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Ok so this is going to be a long question and I really need your help. You can be as blunt as you want because I just want to know the truth so thanks in advance. I'd like to know if I am making a big mistake in getting married to my fiance. We met ...

Am I reading the signals wrong? Does he like me even though he has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Ugh. This is awful. And a long one. Sorry, but I've been desperate to vent to people who won't spread this around my sixth form There's this guy on the badminton team at school who is the year above me and we've known each other for five years, a...