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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell him to treat me as his equal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have met this wonderful guy last year and he asked me to move in with him. I gave it some thought and and said yes! Now, he asked me to get a full-time job where it would not affect my schoolwork. I agreed that it was cool enough to not depend on my daddy anymore. The problem ... (121 words)

My wife wants to keep in touch with her ex, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 10 years now, and i really love my wife. I can leave pass relationships in the pass no problem. my wife was in a sexual relationship for 3 years, and says that he really undersatnded her. I knew him as well, and he cheated on her many times (she knows ... (285 words)

I fell for the guy my friend likes while she was on vacation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i really need some help/ my best friend is in mexico and she has been gone for 3 months and she will return on sunday... and while she was gone i fell for the guy she likes!!! and im not suppost to i know if i told her it would really hurt her + .....he told me he likes ... (225 words)

I have a "pinch the nipple" fetish! How will I know if he likes it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Um right. I have been with my boyfriend for a while now, he is two years older than me and understands that i am not sure if i am 'ready'. We do sexual acts i will spare details. The only thing is i have a rather large fetish. I have a fetish for chests and especially... (129 words)

Have I lost my V-card?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This is very important to me so I hope I get some answers soon. I have been with my boyfriend for about eight months now. We are very much dedicated and in love with one another. Not too long ago, he inserted the TIP of his penis inside my vagina for the first time. We did not ... (211 words)

Are we too young to have a baby even though I'd drop out of school to support her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (?) age 16-17 - Hey i am 15 and my gf is 14. The other day my girlfriend said she wanted a baby. I was shocked at this but also happy because it means she loves me enough to wants kids. We spoke about this some more ans she is serious. She also says that a child would bring us closer to... (199 words)

I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown and I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there.. I have some issues and I would like some advise as my friends aren't any help.. lol.. I left my ex about 7 months ago. He cheated on me last year and we went thru a very bad year, I took his deception so badly that I ended up in the hospital with a bacterial infe... (298 words)

Pregnant and I'm not sure if my boyfriend has accepted it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 23 weeks pregnant and actually just found out 2 weeks ago (I had no symptoms, period was normal...so had no clue..but the baby is healthy!) Once I found out from the OBGYN, my boyfriend was not too thrilled about it. We both just started our careers and this was something ... (229 words)

Can someone put me in the right direction when it comes to girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, i am 21, i have a real problem that i need help with. Im a virgin and i have real girl problems, when i was 16,17 and 18 i wasnt really that nervous or shy around girls but every girl i liked i had my heart set on them and they said they liked me but they all just knocked... (479 words)

I want to leave my husband over his constant complaining!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always puts down me and my three children (teenagers). I remarried 3 years ago and my teenage stepson moved in with us one year ago. My husband is always complaining that I hardly do anything around the house. If everything is caught up inside the house, I should be ... (449 words)

Why does my 7yr old step daughter masturbate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a step daughter who is now 7 years old. The problem is that she has been grinding her legs togather since about 9 months old. She has been to a doc that said it is a form of masterbation. We have taken her to counsuling they say if is a way for her to be safe.. She does ... (137 words)

My ex is in love with me but says he doesn't want a relationship so I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My was in a deep relationship with a guy for 3 yrs and we broke up about 5 months ago. We keep in contact with each other every day. Lately, we were having all sorts of dreams about each other and we had both admitted our feelings for each other. The other day we performed ... (118 words)

Won't she be really hurt when he leaves her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - one of my close friends that as been there for me the past 5 months has finally met a guy. she's been single for a year and abit and i was always worried that maybe she wasn't happy and would become easy with guys to get attention from them. alot of guys in my year notice how ... (333 words)

Why does my boyfriend betray me by masturbating? I want to end it!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid , I just caught my boyfriend masterbating I feel like if he has betrayed me. I ask him if he doesnt like our sex but he answers that he does. So why does he do it. It makes me feel like i dont mean nothing to him. do you think that its because he is not satisfie... (74 words)

She won't take the risk for me but she says she needs me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ok so i fell in love with this girl.. shes 19 and lives in tx, still with her parents and im 14 and live in illinois.. we met online, not looking for relationships or anything, i was bi curious and she was just straight. so we talked for awhile, we started talking on the phone ... (518 words)

He has a girlfriend but he loves me more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - A few years ago i fell for this guy who is my friend and i love him. He is a year older and for a while i thought he liked me too. He started to ignore me when he found out i liked him and in May my friend * Hannah sorted things out between us. A few weeks ago my friend * ... (144 words)

Is he playing me for a fool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Am i being used?? There is this amazing guy that i work with who is 25 im 21 and i really really really REALLY like him! I have felt this way for a while now! it all came out in work about how i felt about him because i told someone i though i could trust but then found out i... (676 words)

We met in a bar and kissed! Why is he not responding to me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - A guy who is a couple of years younger than me chatted me up in a bar a few days ago.He told me he lives in the same town as me but is going away to another town soon to study.It's the town he's originally from.We spoke abit and later he said to me that he wanted to kiss me ... (232 words)

Will I be judged for being scared to sleep with the guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - the furtherest i have gone with a guy is sexual contact... will i be judged for being scared to sleep with the guy... will i be judged if i get pregnant... will i be judged if i go on the pill...? the frightening thing is if the condom splits... OMG this is so scary...!... (64 words)

Has anyone gone through such turmoil in life?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been into an arranged marriage for last 7 years, having 2 beautiful daughters whom i love a lot. I always thought my wife was not the right choice for me by my parents, but eventually i just accepted it and was going on with life pretty well. 2 months back, on a ... (362 words)

Will my new boyfriend break up with me over sexual problems? This happened last time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my bf of two years and a half just broke up because he said we didnt have a great sexual relationship, i guess the blame is on me but i feel as though it was because i wasnt really sexually attracted to him. I really loved him though but since we never talked about our ... (98 words)

Help me label my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been in a relationship with a lovely guy for almost two years now, and although it's not perfect, I believe that we're doing just fine. We live far apart so it's very much a LDR, but we manage to do really well. My problem is that whenever anyone asks what my martial ... (247 words)

My girlfriend kissed two girls while drunk, how should I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - ok so my girlfriend went to a party got drunk and kissed two other girls, i dont know what to do about it, i just want to know what would you do if it was you in this situation ? please help me :(... (44 words)

Should we masturbate in between our visiting each other? We have agreed not to but I need this release...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiancee and i have been together for almost a year. we live apart and only see one another a couple times a month. recently we have been really wanting one another. we had an agreement to not masturbate between because we feel it builds up the tension and release factor ... (236 words)

Are my brother's friends really his friends...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - well i have a older bother and we were having a conversation or argument about who his freinds are i told them the meaning of having freinds well he said he has freinds who are his freinds but he does not know where they live there number and he has not seen them in the last ... (150 words)

Is my long distance boyfriend just giving me excuses?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has gone off to college and he is only an hour and a half away. my mom will not let me drive down there by myself at all. and there would be no point anyways because football is taking up everyday of the week. He has been there for a week now and he was calling ... (198 words)

I can’t decide if he is depressed, stressed or seeing someone else, or all three!!! Have not seen him in 3 weeks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know where I stand with my boyfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been going out just over a year. He told me when we first got together that he likes his own space and he finds talking about things difficult as he had a very overbearing ... (674 words)

The more times we kissed each other, the more distant he has become...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am best friends with this guy, he has told me before i am one of his best girl mates.. We have kissed each other (properly) when we were drinking quite a few times.. then we seem to go on as if nothing has happened until it happens again. Problem is now I can't get him ou... (133 words)

Poll: how long after initialising the break up, does a man make contact again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a simple question for statistical purposes to compare with the real life events around me: If a man initiated a break up, how long did it take for him to make contact again, if ever, to apologize, do the friends speech, get back together, etc. Thanks!... (54 words)

We broke up and he went back to his drama queen, although he says he loves me... what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for 1 1/2 yrs.He is 40 I am 29.I knew him from having our horses at the same farm,never paid any attention to him as we were both in serious relationships when he moved out there. After some time I broke up with my boyfriend and was single for 1 yr.He ... (364 words)

I can't talk to people and I'm a loner... how can I change that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Well it's time to be honest....I'm 21 and am a loner. I have never had any real social life up till now nor experienced any type of meaningful youth. I stay in my room night after night and my mum is right when she says I don't know how to talk to people. Conversations wi... (160 words)

Can a UTI affect the outcome of a home pregnancy test? Can it make me miss my period? Does planned parenthood offer blood tests?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I hate conflicting symptoms. My period was supposed to start almost two weeks ago. I figured I might be pregnant-though I had absolutely NO pregnancy symptoms. I have taken two first response tests 5 days apart from each other. Both came out negative. However, after... (174 words)

He doesn’t appear to want sex and I am no longer attracted to him. Is my marriage of 13 years over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am thinking about my leaving my husband of 13 years. I am 42 and he is 52. I met him 2 years after I divorced my violent first husband. My current husband is not violent, but I think he is controlling; I had no self-confidence when I met him and I let him take charge of ... (306 words)

We don't see each other often due to our schedules, she's become distant and says it's depression. I don't know what to say, ask or do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, but this last month and a half she's been very distant. We've always been so close, very affectionate, had sex often... but now, it's almost like she doesn't even wanna be in the same room as me. We don't ... (421 words)

Has anyone ever found love outside their relationship and dumped their current ball-and-chain for the better woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (?) age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I'll do my best to make this short: Basically, guy of my dreams walks into my life three weeks ago. He's 29, lives in NYC but is freelancing in Boston for a few months. I am 22 and living/working full time in Boston. Unfortunately, he has a long term girlfriend ... (321 words)

Being in separate schools I'm afraid she will get feelings for someone else. What can I do to stop us getting too distant from each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I am a freshmen in college and my girlfriend is a freshmen in highschool. . my question is with me going away to school what can I do to help lower the risk of us breaking up or becoming too distant. I have already made up my mind that I don't want to be with anyone but her, ... (122 words)

What does he mean by "take things as they come"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

- Hi aunts and uncles... After nearly 6 months apart my ex boyf asked to meet him at the w/end cos even tho we broke up we were still friends and in contact with each other but just didn't see each other. We were a couple for over 2 years and pretty serious. I agreed to ... (116 words)

Met him online, I'm afraid I'm falling in love with him and I'm not sure if he is as serious as I am. Why am I so worried, and how can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a wonderful man for three months. He is 46 and I am 37, we are both divorced, and we each have a 10-year-old daughter. The sex is wonderful and we have a great time when we are together. Because of our work schedules, we only see each other about once a week, ... (231 words)

He sometimes rubs my stomach, but I don't really like him lifting my shirt up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months however, i am very self-conscious of my body, mostly my stomach. im not exactly fat but i do have red stretch marks on my stomach. he sometimes rubs my stomach but i dnt really like him lifting my shirt up. I am also afra... (117 words)

I don't want him to judge me, if I tell him the truth. I love him so much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid I was date-raped three years ago. All I remember about the incident is him saying he's clean and I should not worry about diseases, but I should get the morning after pill. Anyway, I fell pregnant, but aborted and went for every test on the face of the earth af... (104 words)

How long does an infatuation normally last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I just wanted to know how long an infatuation normally lasts. You see, I've liked this guy (by the way, he's a teacher) for four years, at first I thought it was just infatuation, but it's gone on for so long I don't know what to think anymore. I'm totally crazy about him ... (112 words)

My boyfriend politley asked me to give him a 'tit w**k'. I would love to, but don't know how!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hummm... i dont know how to put this in a... ummm good way i guess, like i dont know the technical word for it, but i have 34dd breats, and my b/f politley asked me to give him a 'tit wank'. I would love to give him one, i just dont know how to do it. help? thanks x... (60 words)

Does it always have to be down to race?! Would we have still been together if we were of the same complexion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, There's this guy I know and have liked for three years now. We started off as acquaintances and gradually became friends. We would chill together and be completely be ok in each other's company. We have so much in common. He'd even hint as though he liked me and ... (338 words)

Are these pains the start of my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Hi, over the last month or so, I've had really bad stomach pains under my tummy button and at the sides a bit. I asked my mum and she said it might just be a tummy bug but I know it's not, i asked my cousin who's a girl and 15, and she said it's just a way of my body telling ... (108 words)

I want to make porn movies. How can I protect myself from diseases?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i am 19 years old girl and i am interested to join a porn movie making company. i like sex so much.i want to enjoy the sex with different male parterner in different style. but i do not have so much knowledge about the physical deseases generated during sexual relationship.and ... (78 words)

I'm worried I might have a disease but I'm scared to go and get it checked out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i had sex 3 months ago it was a one night stand but stupidly he didnt use a condom as we were both drunk i took the morning after pill, so i know im not pregnant, and ive had regular periods now im worried that i may have a disease or something he told me that he ... (111 words)

He chose me after a long open relationship. I don't feel I can trust him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i am slightly confused atm and am looking for some answers... i recently got together with a guy after a long winded journey... basically we were in a so called open relationship, something that i didnt wnt to be in but as i wnted to be with him i agreed with it... i then ... (366 words)

My soon-to-be-wife proposed a threesome... serious opinions please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, my gf and I enjoy our sex life and we r very experimental. We are normally a very private and intimate couple but we’re always open to try new things. (We r 28yrs old btw) Now which guy wouldn’t fancy a threesome? (of course FFM) but I never thought about it cuz I didn’t ... (323 words)

Have I blown it? I think she would have freaked out less if I had told her I had just run over her cat than telling her I fancy her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I need some advice from the female readers. I recently told a young lady that I had feelings for her, she texted back telling me that she had given the impression that she wanted to be more than friends, but all she actually wanted was to be friends. I told her that I would... (222 words)

I suffer from depression when I'm on my period

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, i suffer from depression when i'm on my period i should be going the doctors some time next week about it but what is there to stop it? i don't want to go on anti-depressents as i only have it when i go on my period any advice? thanks xx ... (63 words)

Is there a downside to taking the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, i was wondering is there any bad side effects from taking the pill? thanks xx... (22 words)

The love is too strong to handle. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi Andrew i have been touched by one of the mails which has a similar case lyk myn.m in love we have to kiss passionately and caress secretly we r both tryin not to do this bt the love is too strong to handle ...how do i go abt it plz tell me something workable ... ... (56 words)

Will the pill help stop discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey i was wondering does the pill help to stop discharge? as i have a lot of discharge and was wondering if the pill would help thanks xx... (36 words)

All I do is think of him now he has relocated. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The guy I've been dating relocated to another state. We are still together. All I do is think of him. How do I know if it is absentence makes the heart grow fonder or some attachment disorder?... (38 words)

He said he has committment issues, but I've fallen for him so hard. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so 9 month ago i met this guy, we started seeing each other, but it ended up lasting for 5 month until we actually made it official and whenever i told him to choose wheather he wanted me or not he would argue and tell me never to talk to him again, yet he'd always apologise ... (213 words)

I have an urge to explore and experiment, but I don't want to throw away my relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 21.I've been with my bf for 3.5 yrs now and have only ever slept with him. I have this urge to explore and experiment but i don wana throw this relationship away coz im the only girl he's ever slept with too. And he is 23 yrs old now; such guys are hard to come by. Also, ... (118 words)

I need a sex position that works for me (and doesn't involve me being bent over facing the floor!!)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 4 months now ( been together for 7) and as we got closer i explained that i only orgasm when my clitorios is rubbed etc.. so now my boyfriend has become obssesed with having sex doggy style as this means he can also rub my ... (135 words)

How did I get myself into this? I have to choose between two women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone... I'm in this really, really bad situation. I have to choose between two women. Yes, I know...how did I get myself into this?? And to most of the women out there, their first thought...I'm a chauvinistic pig!! To tell you the truth...that's the way I feel a... (718 words)

I cant stop thinking about him! Is it because I finally found a good friend to laugh with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone. This may be a question none of you will be able to answer; but i would love it if you could try. You might think its just a teenage thing but... So here it goes. Well you know when you see someone walking down the street and they take your breath away. But only f... (219 words)

I don't know what's going on. Does he like me? Do I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hey im 13 ok well im not sure but my friend keeps on tellin me that this guy likes me but im not sure when ever something embarrassing happens 2me (but not on a high level) hes the loudest 1 2laugh even when its not really that funny. then i remembered the first time i saw him ... (263 words)

How can I get over this, or even him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and for the first few weeks he was just a bit of fun etc and he reguarly mentioned his ex gf by saying things such as 'she's so sleezy' 'i still care about her' etc and she used to ring him up when i was with him, trying to get him back! ... (316 words)

Should I go for it of leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone! So here's my question. A couple of months ago i heard from this childhood friend; lets call him Fred. Fred texts me saying we should meet. So i said sure. The first time he said im sorry i cant. So we arranged about a month later to meet up again. I was re... (224 words)

Can anything come from this after all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I am to scared to get excited. My boyfriend when I was 16 to 19 is coming to visit. We both have been married and lived and enjoyed life. However, we stayed in contact over the years. The odd phone call for a birthday or if something happened in either family. Like when his... (242 words)

Should I just let things be and move on with my life without seeing him one last time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - So I've been seeing this guy since January. We've had many ups and down in our "relationship." Basically, he's been too immature to carry on a full relationship, even though he has told me that he wants a relationship with me whenever he thought he was going to lose me. Yet, ... (325 words)

If I told her how I feel would it ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 15, and i absolutely love this girl i know! We are really good friends and get on fine, but I get the feeling she would never want to be with me. She just came out of a 2 year relationship, and still keeps good contact with her ex. I really want to tell her how i feel and ... (85 words)

Made a bad decision while drunk, will she give me another chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at work, we got on like house on fire...After knowing her for 2 weeks i took her out and it went well,really well. The following week my cousins were going out so i invited her to come with us and she brought a freind along. Again we all had a great time. I went ... (324 words)

Am I just her comfort until someone else comes along or does she secretly want me back and is scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

19 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok here we go i dated this girl for over a yr and a half before that we were friends but when she left me i was hurt bad since then she found another guy and i had moved on but neither of are relationships panned out now she has been texting me going to lunch and hanging out ... (265 words)

Do I stay in this unhappy marriage because of the kids? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 462 days ago

19 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband feels that more than being friends with his best friend was not the only thing that happened. he asks me if i fell in love him. but i would lie to him and say no , we were just close friends. when we become intimate he tells me to fantasize being with both him and ... (164 words)

Crazy in love but not with my husband!

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been married nearly 23 years now. i have five kids or which four are between ages 16 and 21. the youngest is six. about four months ago, i grew closer to my husband friend of 3 years whom also is the father of my oldest daughter's boyfriend of five years. my husband is ... (374 words)

Can we make this work around our busy schedules? How do I reassure her?

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19 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 months and were in love however were both going to be busy and it scares her (we live about 30 mins away and different colleges) also with our new schedules we meybe can spend one day a week? more less with eachother. in the ... (458 words)

Why does his liking for younger women arouse me?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel I have a problem. I'm not normal anymore and it started after knowing that my boyfriend had sexual affair with a very young woman. He was 47 and the girl was 21, I hate him so much after he told me. On the other hand it aroused me imagining how was it when they were ... (137 words)

My girlfriend's parents won't let me see her. What do I do?

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19 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Well ok here's my story: Ok im really in love with my girlfriend and i for real when say this we are going to be together for ever. But right now im in a situation where i really need help. My Gf's parents well they didn't like me from the start cuz im well mexic... (246 words)

Why do always have to pee after sex? Sometimes there's blood in it...

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - so i was just wondering, everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i have to pee after. but i dont actually have to pee like when i do pee after its not a lot. it just feels like i have to pee really bad. like today it was so bad i actually peed my pants a bit. like its like i ... (111 words)

None of my friends are in any of my classes this year, I don't know what to do!

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well today i started school. In all of my classes none of my friends were there. I don't have any friends in my classes. Now i'm all left alone with no one to talk to. Everyone seems to have their own friends. The students in all of my classes don't seem that they want to talk ... (166 words)

My boyfriend says he is a virgin, but then I found an old condom box and a condom wrapper in his closet. Could he be lying?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi there. I have a kind of wierd question, but I'm looking for some opinions. Alright, so i was with my boyfriend a few nights ago, and we were trying to find some movie in his closet. So we're looking and all of a sudden i find this box. Its little and when i look, its an ... (148 words)

How can I keep my boobs perky?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have a weird question, maybe some women can help.I am 30 and attractive with a good body and very firm breasts.In fact I have an obssession with them, i.e. I don't like saggy breasts, so I ALWAYS wear a bra, I avoid dresses and blouses, etc, where I can't wear a ... (118 words)

My boyfriend is still very close to his ex, and it upsets me.

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi...i am a 28 yr old, and in a new relationship with this great guy i met recently. he is everything you could want in a guy. we started dating a couple of months ago and so far things were good, until one day he asked me to check his email for him and i found out that the... (223 words)

I feel like my choices are to settle for a man I don't love, or be alone forever. Any advice?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 30-year-old professional woman and I am devasted because it's been a very long time since I have had any tangible dating prospects. I'd like any advice or feedback on how to best handle this incredibly and increasingly painful situation. Although I have dated men in t... (567 words)

Do pregnant women still get wet when they are aroused?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i was just wondering if you are pregnant, when u get aroused can u get wet ?... (17 words)

Is there a chance I could have HIV?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok i have just found out that my sexual partner is supposed to be hiv positive, the last time we had sex was on the 8 of this month and we used protection, could there be a chance of me having it, i also went to get my first pap smear on aug.14 and i wasn't pregnant or ... (72 words)

I'm pregnant, but my husband doesn't want another baby. I don't know what to do.

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Im 25 year old female married and have two beautiful children.Ive just found out that im pregant with our third,and my husband wants me to have an abortion. I want this baby but scared this baby may destroyed out marrige.I dont know what to do?... (46 words)

I feel like my new boyfriend still likes this other girl, and I'm afraid I can't compete.

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19 August 2008 (F)

- I have a problem... I have just started dating a guy I went to school with. He is really close friends with this other girl we went to school with and who I am still friends with. The problem is, they are so close and I am really jealous. Not only are they close, he used to ... (215 words)

He has a girlfriend, but he fools around with me. I know he won't leave her. What can I do?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - two years ago i had started my first job when i had met dave. as soon as i had seen him i was infatuated by him. within a couple of days knowing him i had made up my mind that i liked him, even though i knew he had been dating someone for a year and a half. as time went on ... (426 words)

How can I get my husband to give me the attention and affection that I need?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my man now for almost 1.5 years. normally we have a good relationship. we do argue fairly often but we always resolve it. we currently live with his parents in a retirement village and it's getting the best of me. i am always depressed that we are just not... (587 words)

Getting kicked in the balls - worse than rape?!

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - K so on youtube today there was a guy who was convinced that getting kicked in the balls is worse (in both pain and adverse side effects) someone getting raped.. I dunno I just thought it's be interesting to get some opinions on this Also, how common would you say it was ... (76 words)

I get self concious about my height. How can I loosen up and approach the guy I like?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm sixteen and I feel like I don't fit in a lot. I'm 5'11 and most of the boys are shorter than me. I hate going to dances. I went to my semi and wore shoes that made me 6'2. I'm freakishly tall. I like this boy and I think he likes me. I feel too insecure and shy to talk to ... (77 words)

How can I help my lonely friend?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok i have a friend and she feels lonly inside she doesnt know what to do, she feels no one likes her and no one wants to be with her, how does she fix this problem and what can i do to help?... (44 words)

I'm insecure and I don't feel like I'm good enough for my new boyfriend.

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19 August 2008 (F)

- I constantly worry about my bf breaking up with me. Im 19 years old and havent yet had a 'successful' relationship. I know im young but I feel like there must be something wrong with me because my first bf was emotionally, physically and sexually abusive to me (i broke up with ... (319 words)

I like the same guy as my best friend, what do I do?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hey i need some help my best guy friend told me he liked me and i kinda like him to but im not suppost to like him cause my best friend does!!!! what should i do!!??... (36 words)

Should I meet my boyfriend's new female friend?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay my boyfriend has just went to college, I havent seen him in a week. I dont get to talk to him much because he plays football. Well, he meets this girl and talks to her and she says that she wants to meet me. He asks me and I dont know what to say because I feel that ... (107 words)

Why does my less attractive friend get all the girls?

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19 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Why is it that everytime we go out clubbin, my less atrractive overweight friend gets the girls at the end? Sure he settles for lesser than what I would but its not my standards thats the problem. Its happening continually. Im not a bad looking guy at all I dont get it, Im ... (116 words)

My alcoholism is driving away the man I love, help me!

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 yrs.. We get along great and love all the same things and the physical stuff is great. I am an alcoholic who is always stopping drinking. My binges have devastated him and my promises to stop are losing weight. I lost him this last ... (106 words)

Help - I'm stuck between my ex and the new girl!

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19 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey Aunts and Uncles. Sorry if this is a bit long but i want to give all the details. I'm a 19 year old guy from the UK and until recently, about 7 weeks ago, i had a girlfriend, let's call her Anne. She said that she needed some time to sort things out in her life and that ... (717 words)

We are first cousins, and I was told there's a huge possibility that we would have abnormal babies. Is this true?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi dear, I am in trouble and if anyone knows about this can you please reply to me back as soon as you can. My problem is that someone told me few days ago that if we marry our cousin (kids of two sisters) there is a huge possibility that we will get an abnormal babies. ... (164 words)

Are we too different for a permanent relationship?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating Marshall for three years. I enjoy his company, our love life, the way he thinks and our time together. There is very little we disagree on. I don't think we have ever really had an argument. I consider him my best friend. We are different in that I am very... (120 words)

Off topic, I know, but does anyone know how the Rubiks Cube works? I need to prove a point!

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a Rubiks Cube.... My cousin James spent the summer with the famiy and I. I was on the couch playing with the cube and i got frusterated with it and said "here james you figure it out!" (i was tired, and do things right when tired) he asked mom to log him on the comp... (134 words)

I know I'm only 13, but I've always wanted to go to medical school after what happened with my mom 8yrs ago. Any advice for me please?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I know im only 13 but i've always wanted to go to medical school after what happened with my mom 8yrs ago. I want to go to medical school after highschool. Does anyone know where the best collage would be for medical school, or would I be able to attend the college here in ... (81 words)

Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?

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19 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he blames it on the fact that i ... (1346 words)

Is it bad that we are having oral sex at our age?

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19 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about...5 months now, and the other day she gave me Oral, we were both fine with it, we didn't feel bad or anything. Is it bad that at my age I'm having oral sex? We've both discussed actual Sexual Intercourse, and have decided to ... (78 words)

Have any women had a pleasureable anal experience? My girlfriend wants to try it and I'm unsure.

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19 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, My girlfiend of almost 2 years is getting curious about anal penetration. I,ve read some pretty horrible female accounts of anal. I know it might not be all that pleasurable the first time, but i wanna know that it can get better. I would appreciate an account from a ... (62 words)