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writes:Me and my bf of two years and a half just broke up because he said we didnt have a great sexual relationship, i guess the blame is on me but i feel as though it was because i wasnt really sexually attracted to him. I really loved him though but since we never talked about our sexual problems it just got worse. now i have a hard time having sex with my new boyfriend because im self-concious of whether im good enough. and i fear he will leave me for the same reasons. wat should i do???
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Lonelybutnotalone is right. Besides, if you think you could use a little learning, I can tell you that learning this kind of lessons is a very pleasurable thing to do.
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (19 August 2008):
 At least in my experience, a man's definition of a "bad sexual relationship" is not having enough sex or having a partner that seems to "enjoy having sex."
If you can attribute both of those to the fact that you were not attracted to the man you were with, then I would not worry about it with the new one.
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