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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you know how to say 'a good looking guy' in french?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - do you know how to say a good looking guy in french? when i went to quebec with my school, i learned it but didnt know how to spell it. me and my friend tried to spell it, so maybe you can get it with this. we spelled it mesho pater'?... (51 words)

We have been together 4 months, when is the right time to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I was wondering when is the right moment to have sex or if we should wait a little bit longer?... (32 words)

He can be hilariously funny but other times acts like he cannot stand me. When I ask what's going on he changes the subject!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so short backgroud story and question. There is this guy i know, i've known him for about a year. Sometimes we get on great, he has a very sarcastic manner, but it suits him if you know what i mean. He can be hilariously funny and really cheers me up. But then sometime... (143 words)

My husband looks at other women and we have not had sex in years because, he says, I fight too much. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband is extremely interested in looking at other pretty women even in my presence. . He is very interested to listen anything about them through me.[innocently i used to say about them.] it was so apparent that he would show no interest to know about other women who are ... (138 words)

I wish to turn this "gorgeous" guy from a total stranger into a "boyfriend", only I'm not confident at all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - soo here goes....well ive seen this guy around my local village he doesnt know me i dont know him but i know where he hangs out with his group of friends and i do recognize him as he has very goood looks! anway im not confident at all and his friends seem intimidating...probz ... (108 words)

Love my boyfriend, yet feel like I need time away to party and meet others, BUT what if he finds someone else in the meantime?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All. i just need some help. i am 19, and for the last 3 years i have been in a relationship with a WONDERFUL man who i love to pieces. lately i feel like i want to go out and meet new people and just have fun and be 'single' i have been in this relationship since i was 16 ... (271 words)

Should I tell my step brother that I love him? Would it ruin everything? Our parents are by now divorced.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK... here goes nothing... When I was little, my mother began dating a man who was about 12 years older than her. Her being 30, and him in his 40's, the difference in age wasn't that bad. I was three when they really got together and he's slowly become a father to me. Th... (259 words)

My sister had a bad experience, with a guy from an on-line dating service, how do I protect my self, if I decide to meet this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently joined an on-line dating site and have started chatting to this guy who lives in the same area as me. We haven't been chatting too long, but I rather like the guy so far. He recently asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink or a movie. I declined the off... (217 words)

We are both in committed relationships, but for four years, as we work together, we have flirted, chatted, and she had begun to literally chase me, so I asked her out, via e-mail, she rejected me and completely turned off, I am confused, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I've been attracted to this woman at work for nearly 4 years. During this time we've both been in committed relationships. Recently my 'will power' has started ebbing away. I can safely say that we like each other and are friendly towards each other but are not friends as ... (413 words)

I have been seeing this guy for eight years, now we broke up once, got back together, he will not take me around our town, if we go out, what is the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been seeing a guy for 8 years now, we've had our ups and downs as all couples do. He did cheat on me once and I broke it off but we got back together. Why after all this time wont he been seen with me around town, when I mention it he kicks off and has so far given every ... (66 words)

I have not taken the pill for two weeks, for the necessary break, is it safe to use the pull out method to avoid pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, im 20 years old and have been on the pill for 4 years, i had my 7 week break and then i had to go on anti biotics, so i decided that i wouldnt go back on the pill until i had finished the course of anti biotics. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have ... (154 words)

I love being sexually active but my husband is the opposite, although he tries to keep up with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i have been married 10 months, and the biggest problem so far in the relationship is our sex life. i love being sexually active but my husband is the opposite. sometimes we dont have sex in a week or more and when we finally do, he reaches orgasm just before i do... (127 words)

I really, really like this girl, but I am unable to speak up and ask her out, please tell me how to go about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a bit long, sorry. So, there's this girl I know, and I really, -really- like her. We first started talking in one of our classes that was had together for half a school year. So each day, for a period in the day, we would sit together and talk. She never seemed ... (260 words)

My question is more for my mother than me,please read.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello My question is more for my mother then me. She has dating 2`men for over 2 almost 3 years and now it is starting to come apart on her and she is really depressed and she dont know what to do. /One of her bfs is 65 and he is financially stable but he is really controling ... (106 words)

Is he becoming bored? After two years of sex with just me, is he losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

4 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have tons of questions going through my head! Ok, maybe just three or four, but it's driving me mad, I need guys help... So, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. He's been my first. I was his second, but almost like his first 'cos he had only had sex o... (338 words)

Out of nowhere... a liking for anal sex. Is it normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you all of a sudden start liking anal sex? out of now where My husband and i both have helped each other do this and we like it. is this a normal step in a marriage after 5 years? and, i have to stay sometimes its ok and sometimes I'm not relaxed enough is this common? ... (58 words)

I'm in love with my boss and it's driving me crazy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everybody, my question would seem very familiar to all of you, im in fact in love with my boss, and this is driving me crazy, i tried to approach him by sending him anonymous letters, he replied of course by curiousity...the story went more complicated ...he knows that its... (173 words)

My mum's very picky when it comes to the boys I date. How do I get her to like my BF, despite of the age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a while now. He is really great, and I love him. The only problem is our age difference. I have no problem with it, I think age is just a number when it comes to love. But my mom thinks otherwise. My mom does not know who my boyfriend is. She ... (157 words)

Is it normal to feel like you need to pee in the middle of sex even if you don't actually have to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal to feel like you need to pee in the middle of sex even if you dont actually have to go?... (23 words)

What can I do so that my girlfriend accepts she is beautiful?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Do girls and woman really judge themselves harshly on their own appearance? My girlfriend is absolutely gorgeous yet she is convinced that she is plain looking!!!! What can I do to get through to my g/f she is beautiful?! I keep telling her she is beautiful etc but she ignores ... (71 words)

Is it a good thing to have a man who loves you but does not always want you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Question: Is it a good thing to have a man who loves you but does not always want you? I am a newly wed woman, married for just one year.... (31 words)

Aren't there "rules" about dating exes' friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age - I am asking this question on behalf of my daughter who has found herself in a very tangled web. She was living with the love of her life for over 1 year, (they had been dating for 4 years) along with his brother and his best friend since college, they are now in their 30's. ... (367 words)

I realize I do miss my ex, but how can I trust him not to break my heart again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm having a problem with whether to give my ex a second chance. We got into a relationship about a year ago around this time. We had a great 4 months, everything was going amazing. Then one day, out of no where, he breaks up with me, telling me that he's been thinking ... (208 words)

I feel weird to know that someone I dated turned out to be bisexual... any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out that my ex-boyfriend is bi. I'm not saying this is a bad thing at all. I couldn't care less what sexual preference people have. I have three lesbian friends and it doesn't bother me. It's just that when I met my ex, he wasn't bisexual. When I met my lesb... (131 words)

Are there any Agony Aunts who speak French and wish to practice Spanish?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - This is not a relationship question. I was just wondering if there's an agony aunt who speaks French as a native speaker and wishes to practice Spanish. If there is anyone, would that person be willing to receive messages off and on, so that we could both perfect our language ... (53 words)

Should I try to save my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel my marriage is over but I am too scared to leave. I have been married for 9 years and he was my first ever boyfriend! We just no longer seem to get on. He shows no love or affection although he always tells me he loves me, he never shows it. We rarely sleep tog... (154 words)

How can I make my beautiful young sexy wife agree to have sex with my friends?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married since 3 years and have a 2 yr. old son. There is something going on inside me, which turns me on. My wife is very beautiful, young, sexy, but she is a homely girl. I want to see my wife having sex with 2-3 guys at a time in front of me. Whenever i have sex ... (151 words)

He still wants us to go on holiday at the end of the month but only after I grovelled!?? I don't know if he wants me or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age - been with my boyfriend for only 4 months but fell in love very quickly with him he dithered and on day out of the blue told me he loved me which made me very happy indeed i have a trust issue due to being abandoned 2 years ago by my husband and i think i may need help with this ... (272 words)

Are our birth signs compatible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with a scorpio guy for 5 months. I'm aquarian with scorpio rising. I'm in love with him and he told me he loves me also and asked me to marry him. Can it work out between us. Sometimes I don't understand him at all he gets in moods but I just want ... (61 words)

What exactly does 'Reach out' mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

- Hi Aunts, I've read a lot about people 'reaching' out or wanting to reach out to their ex. What exactly does this mean? Does it mean you call and say ' hello' and just be friendly or do you call and i say i still love you or miss you etc... (52 words)

My wife is infertile so I decided to divorce, as children are important to me. Your comments?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 31 yrs old and married some six years back. We did not have a child due to the infertility problem from my wife side. I am an assistant professor. I am the only kid for my family. I want to have kids.Therefore I decided to divorce. I need your comments. Thank u in adv... (60 words)

Is it over ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im old enough to know better but when it comes to love.. common sense goes out the window, I was with my boyfriend for a very intense 6 months, then he went to pakistan for family matters. Whilst out there he wrote text and rang me EVERY DAY telling me how how much he loved me ... (136 words)

HELP!! why is that I cannot feel when I am nearly cumming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why is that i cannot feel when i am nearly cumming? actually i never felt that since i started to have sex. I get wet and slippery sometimes and i got pregnant too but until now i still do not know if i finish or what. I already tried playing with myself but still no... (75 words)

Is she being too flirty with my hubby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age - I found an e-mail from my husband's receptionist saying 'Could you sign these reports or you won't get any chocolate cake'. I just found this to be very flirty. Would you agree or do you think I'm being paranoid?... (44 words)

I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm worried I will end up pushing her away and end up without a drinking buddy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently moved to a small village in the middle of nowhere and I really really like the barmaid who works in the local. After she finishes her shift she will sit with me and some of the others and have a laugh and get drunk together. I want to tell her how I feel, but ... (216 words)

Nice guys always finish last?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly romantic (in fact, quite unrom... (566 words)

I'm just not coming on my period! Am I pregnant or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i really need help im a 15 year old girl and i had sex on the 10th of july and me and my boyriend never used a condom,i was due on on the 27th of july but still havent come on!i have all the period pains but im just not coming on my period!am i pregnant or?please help and ... (84 words)

Should I give up and not lose someone who is good for me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, this is a long one, but I need some advice. I met this guy 8 years ago and I liked him straight away. I only knew him a while, but I felt this spark, or connection and even years later, if I heard his name or heard something that would relate to him I would think of h... (575 words)

Does anyone know what this testicle pain could be, or have had a similar problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, on Saturday after finishing my round of golf I came home and had a warm bath, just after coming out I sat down and noticed a slightly sore pain in my left testicle at the back. I thought that I had maybe sat on it so I left it for a while to see if the pain would ... (183 words)

How do I communicate to the my new guy that I need more time to reach climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about how to approach an issue - I recently started dating this guy that I'm not sure if I like or not, but I want to give him a chance. The problem is that it usually takes about 30 or so minutes for me to climax. My previous boyfriend, although he coul... (207 words)

We are in love, but he said he needs time, shall I wait or walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in love with my ex brother in law, we have known each other for 15 years and are really good friends. He went out with my sister 6 years ago and split up with her 2 years ago and they have a child together. There was always something there, it has been bubbling up for years. ... (152 words)

I wish I could make up my mind without being coerced. I want the good man to win.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids I have been dating this guy for 1 5months. Our relationship seems to be going backwards instead of forward. This guy is really secretive and closed. We are always together most of the time and we do not have a problem spending time. What i realise is that our ... (321 words)

Please help me to understand him, I'm about to give up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid! I am 46, and live with a man, 43 for almost 2 years now. We moved in together after 2 months of meeting each other. Money is not the reason why we decided to live together, but companionship and attractiveness were my reasons and his too (so he told me). He di... (186 words)

What are the possibilties of pregnancy when pills have been missed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not very clear on what to do when you miss a Pill. I am currently on the 1st week of the Pill which followed on from my 'break'. I missed a pill completely on Day 2 and I did not take that missed pill with the normal pill the day after. The pills i have subsequently taken ... (131 words)

I feel so empty inside, why should he be the one to decide when we are ready to have a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got married to my boyfriend of over eight and half years. I feel that I am ready to be a mom but my husband says that he is not ready and that this is not the right time either. I feel sad and empty inside that I eat to fill the emptiness. At times, I am mood... (107 words)

He's told me not to fall in love with him because he has to be single for a while. '?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (?) - I have become friends with a guy over the past year through work and have always liked. He has split from his girlfriend in the past 3 weeks (mutual break up). For about 2 months before they broke up he was calling and messaging me a few times a week to chat or catch up for ... (158 words)

I can't compare with this 'famous pin-up star' that she slept with in the past.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello. i have been with my girlfriend now for almost a yr, we have slept with the same amount of people in the past before we met and have both been relatively unlucky in past relationships. i love her to bits and she loves me the same. we have amazing sex together and she is e... (198 words)

Should I leave my boyfreind or forget my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship already since last 2 years, but a few days back i had a clash with my ex, and due to some mutual feelings - till now we had physical stuff. i have started loving him again. i dont know how to overcome this situation. should i leave my boyfreind or forg... (79 words)

Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend? Was I wrong to tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I foolishly risked my friendship with my one and only friend because I love her too much. Now she's not talking to me. Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend? Did I do any wrong telling her how I feel about her?... (46 words)

Torn between the man who broke my heart and the man who put it back together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my long-term boyfriend a week ago. He was my first love, but it wasn't working as he was clingy and obsessive. It hurt every day afterwards. Fortunately I had a good guy friend to help put it all back together. I fell for him along the way, and we both admitted ... (400 words)

And yet another break-up! I'm going crazy!! Someone help me out here please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I was dumped again last night. My g/f's cousin and brother are in town. He was here for a wedding and she agreed before he arrived that she would watch his 2 year old son last night. Friday night her and I went out partying with her friends. Her cousin came along, a... (1235 words)

What does it mean when your bf doesn't seem keen to see you or call you??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, My question is what to do when your boyfriend: doesnt seem too keen to meet you? doesnt seem to keen to reply or call you? doesnt admire you as much as before? but still says he loves you? Please, really need some advice here. Thank you so much!!... (65 words)

When my wife pees she pees blood...what is causing this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age - Hi i would just like to as a question about my wife, and i know she should go to the doctor but she says she is too bizzy. 2 weeks ago when she pee-ed she pee-ed blood, she did it several time that day and for the next few days. she is late 40, had no pain or anything like... (152 words)

I think I'm in love with two people and I don't know what to do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with two people, and I don't want to do something drastic and ruin both of the relationships for good. Im 19 and engaged to my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He has a house and a business and I know I'm going to be financially set. But lately I'm having ... (180 words)

Do guys like short girls?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys like short girls? im only 5ft but the guy i like is about 6ft, do you think he would like me even though im small?... (27 words)

Is he still thinking about his ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for a guy who recently broke up wih his girlfriend bcos she cheated on him, to go out with his ex- girlfriends group of friends and sister on a holiday. I like this guy but i think his behaviour is weird, is he still thinking about her? ... (50 words)

I am worried about a piercing I had done, does anyone know whether what I did is alright, please advise?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i had a auricle piercing its about an inch up from my lobe so quite low. i got it pierced at a professional tatoo, hairdressing and piercing place but pierced it with a piercing gun and have got a stud in it. i was wondering weather it should have been pierced with a n... (82 words)

Laid my soul bare, told him I love him, he is not sure he loves me, should I continue in this relationship, when he doesn't love me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my boyfriend of a year and half that I loved him the other night. We have always got along very well and I thought he felt the same way too. But he replied that he doesn't know if he loves me or not. I don't really know what to make of it. Of course I don't want to b... (143 words)

I am having a difficult time choosing between two men, I love, how do I make up my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have to choose between two men who i love but i am unsure which one to choose can anyone help with this ?... (24 words)

I stopped to ask my soon to be ex-husband, about divorce papers, he was with a woman and was verbally abusive to me, I think he feels I care, I don't, and I feel stupid, how do I feel better about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel so stupid now because yesterday i saw my soon to be ex husband, he was verbally abusive, cruel and sometimes physically abusive towards me and the children (all 3 dislike him and dont see him, they are all teenagers) i had not seen him since dec when he had damaged my ... (470 words)

She is with her ex, while we are having a long distance relationship, she is drifting, and I am wondering, is she tired of me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my gf 1 year ago. At first, I am sure she is very interested in me. She called and text me a lot everyday and stayed up late, waiting for me come back from work so that we can talk online. I love her more and more because the way she is for me. She said she will be very... (492 words)

I am a bit chubby and my body image is not what I would want it to be, is this a big deal with guys, any

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently lost about 60lbs now my chest has gotten a bit saggy is it that big a deal if the girls arent so perky? but thats not whats really bothering me my issue is with my vagina not my actual vagina itself im totally happy with that part but i havee like i dont know chub i ... (108 words)

I do not like alcohol, she drinks, and it bothers me, I want her to stop, if she doesn't, should that be the end of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am in a great relationship right now and have been for almost 7 months now. We get along great and love each other dearly, and it is very happy relationship. However, we recently came to a rather large bump in the road, and I don't think it is such a common problem. I am ... (506 words)

In a four year relationship with kids, very unhappy, went back to work, met a guy I like, torn between keeping my family together and developing a relationship with this guy, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

4 August 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Ok,Im in a relationship and have been for 4 years, recently we have had a few issues and we have tried desparately to correct them but unfortunately the result will last a few weeks and then he slips back to his old ways. I always thought this would be it, we have children ... (288 words)

Little bumps on the interior of my labia, they appear once in a while randomly, right know I have only one and it's worrying me!!

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a problem "down there". once in a while, i get these little bumps inside the lips of my private. right now i have one little bump. its like a tiny piece of skin stickng up it's tiny. but it stings. when i go to the bathroom, whipe up, or do anything that has to do ... (131 words)

Married to a gay man - do I stay with him for the sake of the children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married with two children. Three years ago I found out my husband was having an affair with another man. He still lives at home and continues his relationship with this man. I don't have it in me to throw him out and get on with my life. I am afraid to bring up two ... (162 words)

Have recently been having erotic dreams and can't tell what they mean...

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've had some intimate dreams. I had this dream where my sister and I were watching a straight couple have sex. I pretended to be grossed out by it, but truthfully, I wasn't. It made me curious (I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on changing that status anytime soon) ... (97 words)

We broke up before unexpectedly, now that we are together again I have big doubts and sometimes don't understand him!

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now. He told me he loved me really quick in the relationship. But we also were very close friends on and off through out 3 or 4 years. Then we hung out one day and it was like an automatic spark. He broke up with me ... (267 words)

Why can't I simply keep my word?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and my EXboyfriend is 25. At first I thought it would never work but we ended up getting really serious. We had been dating for a few months and he started getting mad that I didnt "keep my word" about anything. Like if I said I was gonna clean MY house and I changed my ... (225 words)

She's a virgin and we can't have sex because it hurts her too much. Any tips?

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4 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Alright, so me and my girlfriend are getting hot and bothered and ready to have sex, catch is, she's a virgin. So I try to be gentle and all, because I hear it's sometimes really painful. I try, she says "OW!" really loud and I stop because I don't wanna hurt her and she's ... (108 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I'm a liar... I love him, what do I do?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here is my dilema..its been about a week since my bf broke up with me and its driving me crazy I can't seem 2 get over it. He broke up with because he said I lyed about something( so stupid may I add) and now he feels he can't trust me, he says if I lye then I will keep ... (208 words)

I had unprotected sex with her, cheated on her... now she's pregnant and wants money for an abortion!

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4 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i was talking to this girl for about a month. she REALY liked me. and i was really into her too. we had sex a few times and we didnt use a condom one time. i ended up cheating on her with another girl. and the girl i was talking to found out. than she tells me that shes ... (215 words)

How can I win back someone who is now married to some else?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I win back someone who is now married to some else?... (13 words)

Are women put off by skinny guys?

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4 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Are women put off dating skinny guys? Is the build and muscles of a man overly important for a woman?... (23 words)

We are young and long distance... can it work?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and i have been dating this guy for almost 2 yr. but then this summer he moved away. we are still together and have promise rings. He always says that its me or nobody,he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, i feel the same way. But we are young and long ... (92 words)

How can I stop the pain I feel because of my body issues? Girls in movies and magazines make me feel inadequate.

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4 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - What can I do to stop the hurt of body issues? Last night I was with my boyfriend watching one of these silly comedies, you know, a la American Pie. It wasn't Amreican Pie, but it was that style. You know, it wasn't even pornographic - but there were hot naked girls. And ... (357 words)

She dumped me because I wasn't ready for marriage/kids... now I am ready and she's moved on! Should I move on too?

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4 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was in a year long relationship that ended about 3 months ago when my girlfriend ended our relationship. The problem was that my ex-girlfriend, who lived with me, wants to have children and get married. I was married twice before and had always expressed that I was not ... (210 words)

Did he go behind my back with other women because of his young age? Has he truly changed now?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Jenny, marry and still not togehther. Can someone please tell me what they make of this Back in my country (in the caribbean) there was a boy way much younger then me, who swear one day i would be his wife, me and everyone else laught and found it cute. A few years letter... (661 words)

Do men prefer bad girls over good girls? What am I doing wrong?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do Men prefer Bad girls over good girl. I'm a pretty good girl, but I like to go out have fun, drink, smoke occassionally. I still know how to party and let my hair down. I think I'm a pretty good catch and don't have a problem attracting men. My problem is I find no matt... (290 words)

My main issue is that I'm rude and brutally honest... But I want to work someone else into my life. Any advice?

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4 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Lets see where to begin here. This is more like a feeler question. Im really looking for a good shot of advice here on this issue. I havent posted since last winterish, and still havent really been dating much at all. Havent really cared to. When I was forced out into ... (207 words)

I want to fight this guy who ruined the love of my life... what do you think?

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4 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i know many people will be against me in this but i need honest help please. Here's my story. Right i started liking a friend of mine and basically we are very close and 3years later i am absolutely crazy about her. I love our connection. Start of this year a boy joined o... (375 words)

All the guys I date move along after 3 months. Is it because I'm too independant?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't understand. Every guy I date, after about 3 months or so moves on and seems to find someone else. Starts off strong, they seem to really like me, constantly together and calling and then out of no where, the calls die down, they are "busy" and then I find out they are ... (148 words)

How can I motivate my boyfriend so that he wants to save money, and teach him to plan ahead?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, now. We both love each other very much. In the past, we've had problems because of what seemed to be a lack of passion on his part, but after I started growing interest in things other than him, he started showing ... (569 words)

I'm 18, seeing a 16 year old... is it wrong?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and i am seeing a 16 yr old he is 17 soon but my parents think this is wrong and make me look immature. i dont no what to do . we both really like each other. please help me . i cant let go of him . i need to no if i am in the wrong. ... (64 words)

This guy I know online calls me 2-4 times a day! How do I get him to go away?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there's this 17 year old guy who i've been regretably chatting to online, he lives local and is insanely obsessed with me! He knows my phone number and often rings (between 2 - 4 times per day) but i never answer as i don't want to encourage him! A few weeks back i told ... (211 words)

Why am I acting like a complete idiot?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I seriously need help. I have never been like this. This guy that I like, is in the same circle of friends that I am. I cannot for the life of me have an intelligent conversation with him and I've always been able to in the past. What's worse is the way I've been handling ... (129 words)

Did my fiance cheat on me at his friend's bachelor party?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance went to his good friend bachelor party last night. Later that night I called him and he told me to come pick him up, I went to guy's appartment but they weren't there. I tried to called his phone like 10 times but he keep hanging up on me, finally he picked up and ... (210 words)

He didn't call me, I'm in shock. Did I scare him off?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone for about 1.5 months,we immediately fell in love. Constantly calling and texting etc.. When we don't see each other its constant keeping in touch. He tells me how much he loves me, that he loves me more than anyone in his life and he can't imagine ... (216 words)

Could I have done more to help my friend when he was hurt by bullies?

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4 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My guy friend, Kyle (not his real name) is being picked on, I'm not sure why. But its getting of out hand. Today Kyle and me were talking at school, then it happened, those guys came up to him and pushed into a locker. He started bleeding, I didn't really know what do, then ... (123 words)

My boyfriend is a bad boy in public, but a sweetheart with me. His drinking habits make me worry... how do I deal with this?

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4 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello My boyfriend, (only just started daring him) - He's a bit wreckless and... well I guess you could call him a "bad boy". He told me that he uses this "bad boy image" as a kind of protective shield because he feels that everyone around him that he loves, leaves him, but... (393 words)

We're total opposites. Can it ever work?

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4 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm afraid it's another one of those opposite attraction questions. I don't really drink, smoke, swear, or get wasted too often, in fact, seldom ever; My interests include politics and history (boring I know). Yet I am completely transfixed by a girl who is a complete polar ... (159 words)