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I'm worried I might have a disease but I'm scared to go and get it checked out.

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Question - (19 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi

i had sex 3 months ago

it was a one night stand

but stupidly he didnt use a condom

as we were both drunk

i took the morning after pill, so i know im not pregnant, and ive had regular periods

now im worried that i may have a disease or something

he told me that he had been checked out, and that he had nothing, but im worried as he had told me that he'd been with 15 girls

i know i should go and be checked out, but im scared to go on my own...

help?

x

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2008):

hlskitten agony auntMight be a good idea to get checked out, as a lot of diseases dont actually present with any symptoms, although this is more true of males.

Chances are you are fine though, but i think you're very sensible to want to get checked out, and good thinking about the morning after pill!

You can go through your doc or local gum clinic. Even the receptionist at your local surgery will give you the number for that, its usually at your local hospital, and all anon too.

Good luck. Bet you're going to be fine though.

c xxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008):

Go to your local GUM clinic. Its completely confidential and really easy. Just remember that the people working there deal with these things all day every day, they won't judge you and are generally really nice! I was scared the first time I went but really its fine, and you will feel so much better afterwards without the worry :)

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntIf you phone your local family planning centre, they will give you a number to call at your local hospital or clinic. Its all done very quick and easy, and nobody will even know you. And the relief when you find there is nothing wrong is amazing. But even if there was they can treat you without anyone finding out.

Please dont just leave it, and it goes without saying to be more carefull with yourself. Because your life is special.

XXX

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