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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He goes to sleep after oral sex and leaves me all worked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend gets so tired after I give him oral sex to a point that he actually goes right to sleep. Although I am pleased at the fact that I do this to him, I get really turned on when I do it and have to go to sleep all worked up. Is this normal? Has anyone else e... (77 words)

Sometimes I want to be with him forever and other times I'm so mean to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. so most people would love to have the relationship i have. it's all perfect. minus the fights. but we're so close and stuff. sometimes i feel like i wanna be with him forever but other times i'm so mean to him and i just don't want to be with him anymore. we've been ... (111 words)

Does my vagina smell fishy because I eat lots of fish?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear ? I am wondering why my vagina smells? My boyfriend says it is because i eat lots of fish and I would like to know if this is true?? In anticiapaitonm, T... (36 words)

I need some conversation tips for a relationship that has run out of things to talk about!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ive been in a relationship for some time no but i think its got to a stage where we have run out of things to talk about... before we used to talk for hours on end and i think its now got to a point where we have run out of things to say.. i rellii love him but not sure ... (70 words)

Sex doesn't feel good no matter what position he tries. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i'm almost 15 and my bf's almost 16. we've had sex about 9 times. the first time we did it it really hurt. and since then it always hurts in the beginning. then when it's all the way in it doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either. he tries so many positions and ... (119 words)

Do I choose my ex or meet my online friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i have broke up with my boyfriend who i loved and adored sooo much, but i finished him... i bet your wunderin why, well because i started seaking to a guy on the internet and really fell for him the thing is hes older than i am.. my boyfriend has asked me to go b... (101 words)

I like an older guy, how can I make my family and friends see it the way I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like an older guy and I think age is just a number..but how can I make my family and friends see it the way that I do?? I really need help!... (32 words)

Is it wise to be thinking of having a relationship with a man that is divorced twice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - is it wise to be thinking of having a relationship with a man that is divorced twice?... (17 words)

His sister moved in with us and strained our relationship. Can it be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost 2 years and I bought a house together 4 months ago. Things were going really well for us when we decided to do it. We are both in our early 30's and we have both been married and are now divorced. The problem started when his older sister moved in with ... (260 words)

I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have taken part in other sexual ... (250 words)

Why do I always get paranoid about my girlfriend cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. This question is to do with my paranoid. The only time I ever get paranoid is during a relationship situation. I mostly get paranoid about the other person cheating on me. An example is the other week I got paranoid and checked my GFs text messages and I saw one from a guy ... (303 words)

The distance between me and my parnter is making me crazy. How do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi their just a quick question, i have great relationship and i trust my partner but the distance is making me crazy but its not too bad..but i have had so many problems in the past with cheaters or people hurting me that its really hard not to be insecure.my bf would do anyt... (162 words)

I'm like a boat with no rudder adrift on a stormy ocean. I'll never understand women. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age - I will never understand women!!!!!! However, I would like to...... maybe First, I was a workaholic who made lots of money but she wanted me to spend time with her. Lost this one. Second I stop being a workaholic thanks in part to three accidents that leave me disabled f... (1029 words)

How do I bring up the subject of marriage? Is this just a short-term relationship for him? I need to know.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age - I have been involved with my boyfriend for approximately 6 months. We were friends prior to dating, and we have known each other for for over 18 months. We saw each other for a month in the beginning, and because things were going so fast, he broke things off. That only ... (249 words)

I found out my wife is smoking weed behind my back before she goes to work. I don't know how to handle this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age - My wife has been hiding the fact that she has been smoking weed daily.This is before she goes to work. Behind my back.Now we do smoke daily when the day is over and on weekends.But she has been buying behind my back and using before she goes to work.It's a fiancial issue a... (83 words)

The man I met on holiday said he doesn't want to take it any further. Why? It was good.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age - I had a few dances with this guy I met on holiday but didnt have sex. When we got back we e mailed a few times but he got funny when I told him I liked him which is fair enough as it wasnt long-then he emailed and said I msutnt take it as a slight on me that he didnt want to... (185 words)

What can I do to reduce the brightness of the colour my mother dyed my hair?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may not be a relevant question to this website, but i don't know where else to turn to! I allowed my mother to dye my hair a mohogany colour, previously to what i'd had a few months back, however this was a different brand and it's too red - it came in a mouuse... (135 words)

My girlfriend is 8 years younger than me and her mother found out. She told me to stay away. Should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well i've been seeing this girl for almost 6 months now, and well her mom found out bout us yesterday and told me to stay away from her and that i couldn't see or talk to her anymore. The good thing is, is me and her work together but then again its hard too cause we love ... (239 words)

My boyfriend just ended it, and he is going abroad. Should I just let him go totally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has just ended it as he is working away in new zealand as a snowboarder and i have been far too paranoid accusing him of things. he says nothing has gone on but cannot say whether something would if it arose. he thinks im getting too hurt and because he wants to do ... (165 words)

My ex girlfriend tried to sabotage my new relationship. Is she just being difficult, or does she want me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex-girlfriend called this girl im talking to saying that shes still sleeping with me even tho im not. and she called her friend. saying that shes with another guy. does she still like me or is she just trying to ruin my relationship.... (44 words)

I've discovered my friend isn't my friend, but she owes me money.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend. Well she is no longer my friend now. But anyway, when we were friends just a few days ago, she had a go at me for no reason and when i reproached her for it the next day, she pretended it hadnt happened, and when i told her exactly what she had said, she sort ... (380 words)

How do I get back into a real relationship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well to start off with i am 20yrs old and ever since my last girlfriend broke up with me(1 and a half years ago) ive kinda been on idle in the dating world. ive tried to get out and find someone else, but it feels like ive lost the touch of winning over the girls that i try to ... (115 words)

I'm in a great relationship, but I get a feeling I should still be "playing the field". How can I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for almost a year. I love her. We live together. I think she could be the one. But I don't feel like I've finished playing the field. I'm not looking for another relationship, just some physical fun. My girlfriend is not open to 3-somes and is ... (135 words)

I'm struggling with long-distance relationship. Could he be trying to keep me at arm's length?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really struggling in my relationship with my boyfriend. We are in a long distance relationship. I feel like our relationship is in serious trouble and I am not sure how to deal with it. We have been going out for a year and it feels like the honeymoon period is well and ... (582 words)

A bit off topic... but I'm doing an interview with a dentist who works with braces. What are the important questions to YOU that I should ask him? Thanks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, This Question may not concern sex and relationship. Since most of you are teenagers and adults I need your help. Im doing an interview with a dentist that works with braces, What do you think are intresting and important questions I can ask him? Just write down the ... (68 words)

I thought my financé loved me although it was to be an arranged marriage. Then he cheated with a prostitute. He doesn't see it as important. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have in my late teens and as according to my culture- in a semi-arranged type of marriage- have agreed to get married- to a guy that I absolutely adore- and whom I thought also loved me. As I was so young, and also due to the fact that he still lives in my country of origi... (423 words)

I recently discovered my husband has been going to adult websites. How do men really feel about sex with their mate? Is it meaningless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My hubby and I have been married almost 7 years. I recently discovered that he has been going to adult websites. Sharing myself with him means a lot to me and I almost feel betrayed. Plus, he's never told me he loves me while having sex with me. I'm very hurt and wonder how ... (77 words)

I left my girlfriend. When I kissed a girl 2 days later I felt really bad about doing it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i recentley left my girlfriend and two days later i kissed another girl passionatley, i feel bad about this, but im wondering should i be feeling as bad as i am about this ?... (34 words)

Why was my foreskin really tight and then suddenly it isn't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right this is a weird question but o well. my foreskin use to be really tight and i could never pull it back and today its really loose and can be pulled back i dont understand why its done this. i have had sex many times bfore with my girlfriend and its never done it so im ... (64 words)

His ex split us up - how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 33 year old female who's ex is 46. his ex always text and calls him even though he has told her to stop, she does for about 2 months and starts again he responds and is really mean to me, always starting a fight to have a reason to dumped me to go with her, telling me he ... (146 words)

Help! My parents are splitting up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Help my mum and dad are splitting up. Dad lost his job and things have gone down the hill since. They have no savings cos theyve been spending it on stuff they don't really need. Thats all they think about, what they can have next and what the people across the road have got... (76 words)

She was recently diagnosed with a disease and we've been on a break for 2 weeks. I love her and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for over three years now, latley she has been very quiet and not her self, for example one day shes fine, the next shes really quiet. about 3 weeks ago we had a silly argument cuz she wudent tell me whats wrong, and she said she dusent know if she ... (231 words)

Do I go out with my exboyfriend to get over my feelings for my best female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, About 3 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend after we had sex for the first time. We were (and still are) 15, and I felt it was too much too young. I also had another worry, as I was completely in love with my best female friend. She knows how I feel, but our relation... (195 words)

While he was in jail, I found out that he lied about his age! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. we fell in love during the first month of our relationship. I have loved him ever since and believed he loved me too, but lately things have been a little rocky. There has been a lot of breaking up and making up but we ... (236 words)

Are porn watchers just peeping toms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Are porn watchers no more than peeping toms. Watch couples copulate whilst masterbating? What do you think?... (18 words)

I want a baby but I'm concerned about giving it a good life. I'm thinking maybe we should live off state benefits. Am I being naive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 22, and happily married. Been married for a year, We both work full time, rent a lovely house and love each other very much. My problem is that at the moment, i can't stop thinking about having a baby! At the moment, we could afford a baby (just about) but i couldn... (277 words)

I'm in a new relationship and it's great but I'm not sexually attracted to him. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and was in a long term relationship which ended about 1.5 years ago very suddenly as my partner walked out on me and had a new girlfiend a week later.I have met somebody else and I think the world of him, he is a great man and I really hoped it would work for ... (128 words)

Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, were do i start. i did the most stupid thing ever. I was on the pill but came off in june becasue i ran out and was too busy, to go and get some more. i had a random period which start early on the 14th of july, which was not normal for me and i came off on the 19th of ... (207 words)

My husband won't go near me because I have spots...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband doesn't want sex with me anymore but I know he is getting off on his own it in the bathroom or watching porn. We have been married for 18 month and it started only a few months after we got married. We had sex only when I initiated and then it got to a point where ... (165 words)

Question about fingering and needing to pee.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - please help while my boyfriend fingerd me yesterday i felt like i needed 2 pee n held it is this normal or was i having an orgasm?? ... (32 words)

Underwater sex - how safe is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

- Me and my fella want to have sex in an unheated outdoor pool. One thing I'm worried about is pregnancy. I know that the chlorine won't stop me getting pregnant, so we would definately use a condom. I don't like the idea of taking the pill for various reasons, so that's not ... (189 words)

I need cancer advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - yes i have cancer i move to spain i am married whith a navy mam becuse may cancer he is in california i am in spain becuse i need heelp and i would like to have supoort went we are together again .i do not know what to do to get informations a bout may conditions please i ... (77 words)

My controlling husband has decided to change only now that I want to leave, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for ten years. I have three children from a previous relationship, now adults and one from this one. At the start we were very happy. Gradually, he became more controlling and insisted on everything being done his way. As a result of this level of ... (136 words)

We broke up because of my young age, should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - do i wait? i recently split up with my boyfriend and he said he would wait till i was 16 because of the age what should i do? ... (34 words)

He said he loves me - but denied it later, while sober. What am I to understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend was drunk and said he loves me even though he shouldnt. when he was sober he said he didnt mean it. he is not the type to show his feelings he is 23 and i am 34. does he love me? ... (43 words)

How can I help my girlfriend so it won't hurt her so much the next time we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i had sex together for the first time. We did it twice and she bled both times. The first time she bled more than the second (the 2nd was only a little bit) She was in some pain and it was hard for me to go inside her because she's a virgin. She was worried ... (111 words)

My long distance lover wants me to move in with him, but I'm worried, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we have been long distance the entire time. I live in Indianapolis, IN and he lives in Nashville, TN. I know that we both love each other dearly but lately things have gotten so crazy. We fight all the time, he wants me to ... (335 words)

We have a very troubled past, are we meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We moved in within a week and i lived at his parents house with him up untill a week ago. Things were fine we had slight problems such as i wasnt really allowed out drinking with my friends too much as he felt every guy in the ... (396 words)

Why do I get so jealous over these girls!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm having a really huge problem, everytime I'm with my boyfriend and we see a good looking woman, I immediately think that my boyfriend likes her, and thinks that she's better than me. I know it's ridiculous, but my jealousy is ruining our relationship, and I've ... (70 words)

Is this really the behaviour of a best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My best girlfriend, who I have known for about 15 years, has just moved in with her latest man (after 3 failed marriages). She is an attractive woman who men seem drawn to, but over the years I have had some issues with her over her need to be the centre of attention. ... (360 words)

I am falling for a married man. I need to break away.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid? im writin to say that i have fallin for a married man who gives me the feelings of love an happyness iv never had or felt.it all started through a drivin course when he taught me how to drive, at first it was laughs an jokes then became very flirty.we started ... (186 words)

I'm not sure about sex with him, but since we did it he became very nice to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sad to admit that I am a victim like in that book, "He's just not that into you". I met this guy in early June that I've been dating since. At first he was putting a lot of pressure on me to be in a sexual relationship with him but I didn't feel comfortable so I... (243 words)

Should I worry? Or am I just being too critical?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months. But the other day I found out that she has slept with another man after we were together. It was about a month into our relationship. And it was when I was out of town and some guy she had had encounters with before called ... (125 words)

Should I leave from this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 13 years and through our marriage my husband had an affair. We made through it but, our love making has declined drastically. I caught him masturbating several times and looking into porn. He's making me feel unattractive and ugly. I love him very much ... (69 words)

Should I not give up on my plans just to make things easier for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and once we go to college next year it will be 3. I love him and he loves and cares about me so much. The thing is ive heard how hard it is to keep a relationship with your highschool boyfriend because people change and ever... (161 words)

Should I really wait for him to make up his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Posting again to see if I can get some advice/answers =[ This is a follow up to this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-know-if-he-does-decide.html Ok I spent all of Monday with him....we even ended up having sex on the back porch...... (576 words)

How can I trust my boyfriend around his best mate when his best mate is a chick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my boyfriend a year or so ago and he has a best friend, but his best friend is a chick. thats totally cool. one of my friends decided to have a camping wk end nd i went, so did my not at that time boyfriend did go as well. he arrived with this chick, because they r best ... (325 words)

I want sex and my boyfriend doesn't. He doesn't seem to understand how I feel.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a bind and feel as though I am starting not to cope with things. I feel stupid writing this but the problem is I just want sex and my boyfriend doesn't. I can deal with that for a few days but beyond that it just makes me feel so down and low. I talk to my boyfriend and ... (101 words)

Would it be safe for us to have sex without a condom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are both 17 nd have only started having sex the last year or so. he's in the army and i want to finish my year 12 HSC first before i move away with him. he is totally cool with that. but he keeps asking me everytime we go to have sex if he could not wear a ... (120 words)

What can I do to last longer when I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i cum so early when i'm having sex or masterbating.please tell me what i can do to keep me erected for a lond period of time.... (27 words)

I started my periods and I don't know how to tell my mum.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello erm i dont really know how to put this but i started my periods. and i really dont know how to tell me mum! like she has a draw full of black pants and pads and things and i put on some of the black pants and put a pad on and yes im basically sorted and im not bothered ... (137 words)

She was gving me the wrong signals. How do you fall out of love with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm crazy about this young lady, I told her how I feel, but she told me that she only wants to be friends. I really thought she had feelings for me as well, but it turns out that she was giving me wrong signals. I'm now left feeling very sad and empty, I can't do my job ... (126 words)

I know he cares but why does he want to play the field?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try and keep this as concise as I can. I was with my ex boyfriends for 9 months, we were very happy together, fell in love quickly and it just felt 'right'. We split up because he became distant, I thought it was him falling out of love but it turned out he felt ... (672 words)

Is it over before it really began??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Please help me. I have just been seeing a wicked guy for about a few weeks now. We have met up a few times and have discovered that we really get on. He used to text me all the time and we spoke on the phone for hours. He kept telling me how he wants to make me... (576 words)

How do I get over these nerves and just enjoy the new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been really good friends with my friend *Rupert* for years now. When we're together I just feel completely relaxed and at ease and he's always the first person I go to when I am upset. Somehow whatever else is going on in my life, when I go to him it's like the curtain ... (190 words)

Could it be posible that 2 people love each other but one absolutely repulses the other sexually??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 30 , found the love of my life 8 months ago, i never imagined any 2 could be that compatible, we totally understand each other, and she is the joy of my life! The sole problem is: I am not physicaly attracted to her at all! When we get together i keep on trying to convi... (231 words)

How can I be happy for my friends when they move on and I don't yet because I'm younger?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm the baby of my group of friends and am a year behind them school (bar two others) We all get on extremely well and are pretty close, a family of our own. All of them have finished school and got their college entrance exams results back the other day. While I am absolute... (384 words)

I confronted my partner about Adult Friendfinder. Does his behaviour show guilt and embarrassment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night i confronted my partner about this adult friend finder account that i had come across. Saying it looks like he could have written (by the way i know itt was his) it. His reaction was instant denial then angry. I asked him to look at it with me and he refused.... (243 words)

My soulmate married someone else. Do you think he will divorce like he told me? Can it work between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please. Please can someone give me some advice, as I feel like I am going insane and cannot cope anymore I met this man (my soulmate) 8 years ago and, and It was love (or a connection) at first sight, I remember sitting in the pub and being introduced to him and thinking thi... (1693 words)

What has he told his work mates? I feel so humiliated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy who works in the same building as me for a few weeks, we met up in a hotel and at his place and also at lunch times. These meetings became just for sex for him. We decided that after a certain week end we would leave it so no one got hurt because he ... (176 words)

I keep dreaming about I girl I used to love

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. This is not exactly a problem but just something that I am interested in. Lately I have been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. We never got together but are still friends now. We don't talk or see each other much but when we do ... (260 words)

How do I deal with my husband's mood swings?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My husband has happy days where he is nice to me and other days where he is so critical and calls me lazy and horrible names. Extreme mood swings. We are married 2 years since yesterday. I have a 2.5 year old, 14 month old and I'm 16 weeks pregnant. I had ectopic ... (124 words)

Says he's too busy to meet... so sad

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi.. I have a text/phone call/IM relationship going on with a guy who says he has feelings for me. Trouble, he says he works 7 days a week and long hours and don't have the time to meet. I asked him once if he could just meet me for 10 mins.. and at first he said "yes" and then ... (109 words)

Was it an affair or a case of sexual harassment?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Was it an affair or a case of sexual harassment? My privious post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-was-working-as-a-nanny-but-was.html Here’s my story: I was interviewed and hired by the wife. I never met the husband before I started working for them. The couples a... (430 words)

I think I'm pregnant but I'm not sure I need advice??

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem. Recently I had sex with my lover and we were stupid enough not to use a condom but he managed to ejaculate away from me and not inside my vagina. Now ive missed my period and im showing some early signs of pregnancy. Im worried and I really dont want to be ... (75 words)

I've never been jealous, but this just crosses the line for me. What should I do?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost two years now. It's been very serious, and I have chosen to love her with all of my heart. She claims the same. My girlfriend happens to be bipolar. Things have been going great until very recently. She has been acting ... (235 words)

Because I was molested as a child do you think this is the reason why I can't hold a relationship?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was molested when I was around 10-11 years old by an older cousin. I've never really talked to anyone about it but now that I am older I am reading alot about molestation and rape. By the way I grew up in a third world country and didn't know anything about molestation. My ... (87 words)

Is this considered sexual assault?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I went on a date with this guy and he took me to dinner the first date. The second date we went dinner again. He keep asking me to go to his place after that. I didn't want to go but he said he's not going to do something that i don't like and that we are just going to watch ... (134 words)

I feel betrayed that husband socialises whith people who hatee me!

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just got married last year August 2007 and my husband and i lived with his family for couple of months until things went wrong his sister does'nt like me beause my husband had a relationship before me and a child,now my sister inlaw thinks a snitch my husband from his... (410 words)

Do you believe in fate?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When we were together, things just too strange would happen. We would think of each other at the exact same time, reach for the phone and get a text or phone call from each other. I would think of him and our song would play. The same thing happened for him. On an ipod out of ... (246 words)

Ex-girlfriend pushing me away, is she right?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, It's been a month and a half since my gf and I broke up after 9 months. We were friends before we dated. We're still in contact but it feels like she's pushing me away. Whenever i text her i'll get short, vague replies if she replies. I've invited her to go with m... (180 words)

I feel that he leave me and go to her!-Help!!!

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - iv been with my boyfriend which is now my husband for 2months before marrying him 2weeks before i came to know he was having an affair with a lady older than him there relationship was for 8 years and i knew him just for 1 year and marreid him..as he told me he loves truely ... (117 words)

I'm so confused with his quick change of heart. -Your comments?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i've been in love with this guy for 5 years. We have dated for 2 years broke up, dated another year and broke up. He broke up with me both times. We've been broken up for almost 10 months and earlier this summer things started again with us but we realized we couldnt be in ... (198 words)

I want to convince her that the distance is something easily overcome, but I don't know what to tell her other than what I already have said!

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So i met this girl over the summer at a camp, and we hit it off right from the start, and we've just been talking non-stop for the past month and a half, and she does have a boyfriend, but she says she sees a longer lasting and more fulfilling relationship with me. The one t... (264 words)

How can I deal with my ex's lies?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - need help my ex girlfrend is lying to my girlfrend that we had sex but i did not and she lying.my girlfrend has left me and i what her back in my life ... (33 words)

Can someone give me advice on how I can stop these feelings for him, or am I going to have to relocate?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve had a crush on a guy that lives in my neighborhood for about eight years. Actually he lives in the building right next to mine, and we’ve never said a word to one another but when we walk by each other we almost always make eye contact. So I sometimes feel maybe he may ... (200 words)

I need space but I'm afraid he might self-harm to get me back

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. so i been going out with my boyfreind for 2 months but been together for awhile. i love him and hes so sweet to me. for my birthday he got me the nicest necklace and everything.. the other night he was at a party and did something horrible that made him loook stupid ... (180 words)

I miss my best friend, will this affect my relationship?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years through my ex best friend. When my boyfriend and I got together my ex best friend seem pleased..when we became serious my ex bestfriend became distant and angry. My ex best friend and I had feelings for eachother for a while and for 3 years ... (152 words)

Is there any chance to get pregnant when he has a low sperm count?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i got married 10 months back. Me and my husband plan to get a baby but initially my husband had ED problem and we undergone sex therapy and it was cured,and at that time my husband sperm count was 25 million /ml and 40 % motile in 1/2 hr and 20 % motile after 2 hrs. later ... (158 words)

It's hard for me to have an orgasm-Any suggestions?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, me again. Things have improved since last time I wrote. Now we have encountered a new problem. It's hard for me to have an orgasm. This upsets him and frustrates me. What can we do? The only time I'm able to get off is if he goes down on me, or it's hard and fast, but ... (73 words)

Talk is going round school about me having sex with my friend-what do I do?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 13 and i have already had gay sex 9 times. i was making out with my boyfriend at his house and one of my classmates saw us through the window and is spreading it around. what do i do?... (40 words)

How do I handle a friend who has a crush on me and is being incredibly needy?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend (Pal) who has become increasingly needy over the past few weeks. He calls me everyday, and always expects a long conversation. He asks my advice on everything, from whether it is ethical to become involved with someone if you don’t see yourselves together for ... (518 words)

I'm thinking of emigrating to Australia, is this a fantasy or..?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I went to Melbourne Oz for a couple of months earlier this year and I loved it so much now I'm back in England I feel so depressed and the idea of emigrating there is building up in my head. I am excited by this but think its such a big step. I want to study ... (124 words)

She just broke up with a long term boyfriend but still talks to him on the phone and stuff. Should I make my move?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend or been kissed or even held a girls hand. I dont think im that bad looking, and i have plenty of good friends who are girls. Theres this one girl that i really like and we get on fine, but she just broke up with a long term boyfriend ... (90 words)

I had unprotected sex with an ex, how likely is it that I am pregnant?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old. i had sex a month ago with my ex bf which is 19 we had unprotected sex like 3 times and 2 weeks later i got a soar throat and went to the doctor and they thought it was strept throat but it wasnt she thought it was either mono or gono.. but anyways she gave me ... (171 words)

Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is bleeding normal the first two ... (66 words)

Our sex life has petered off a bit, how can I make him think I'm a sex goddess?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20yrs old, and I have been with my bf for 4 years now. We started our sex life 3 years ago when I turned 18. I have no complaints, I love it! He pleases me and I please him as well. Ok so we have INCREDIBLE sex, well we used to. Here's the problem, last year he joined t... (457 words)

My husband left me and moved in with another woman straight away. He can't seem to make up his mind. Help!

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, My husband left me and moved in with another women straight away that he had known for about 10 weeks. We have 2 children 7 and 8 years. He said at first he needed time to think, but now they have moved into another house together with her 5 kids aged 5 to 22 years. This ... (155 words)

My girlfriend and I fight all the time, but I don't want to dump her in case I regret it.

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. She's my first girlfriend. We fight almost everyday, and make up almost everyday. We talk about it all the time. But she still gets upset about the same things. Also she always wants me to hang out with her but a lot ... (197 words)

Why doesn't my girlfriend kiss me? I have to ask her to kiss me.

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend doesnt kiss me goodbye when we part for the night or day as a matter of fact. i have to tell her to give me a kiss. so in a way i feel like im baging for one when i think it should happen natualy.i dont know is it me tripping on this.we have been together for ... (94 words)

Should I take a chance and move with him, or stay and finish college?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is on a visa and in 11 months he must find a waiver job somewhere in the U.S. or he must go back to his home country. He has asked if I would move with him, but his options are limited.It is unlikely that he would be able ... (174 words)

How can I get over my dependence on pot?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - so i have a drug problem. i have smoked weed for 17 years on a constant basis. it has never interfered with anything. i have always held a higher up position at work and i never let it come in contact with my family or anything. basically, you wouldnt know i smoked it all day ... (371 words)

Did he ask me on a date or was he just being friendly?

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13 August 2008 (?) age 41-50 - We were standing on his driveway after dropping the rest of our friends off after a movie. We hugged for a long time as he offered to fix my car door because it's jammed shut. I mentioned that you could see stars really well from his yard, he mentioned that the backyard was ... (104 words)

How do I refuse his invitation to 'hang out'?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you politely refuse "hanging out" with someone who obviously wants to spend time with you for networking, or to otherwise further their personal goals? I'm an artist and there is a young male in the same field who has asked me to hang out to "compare notes." There has ... (275 words)

Did I mess up? Will she give me another chance?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ok, so ive been in what i think to be love with this girl for a few years now. weve been good freinds during, so a few months back, i completly open up to her but she says were just friends, i take it but i still loved her but kept quite. so a month after she tell me she like... (253 words)

He told me that he loves me but just wants to be friends! What do you think?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend, we meet at Church and all. We talk for a while on the phone, then he invited me over to his apartment we talk and learn about each other past relationship. He is single and so am I. We have been talking for some months now. SO, he told me that he love me first, ... (212 words)

How easy is it to kiss a friend who is drunk?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - never really got drunk, so wonderin at a club how easy is it to kiss a friend who is drunk? Nothing more just a nice kiss? :) coz i'm goin out soon. Thank you... (34 words)

My girlfriend is touching my penis in the cinema! How can I slow things down?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey Agony Aunt's Need your help sadly i am 15 and so is my girlfriend and we have been going out for about a year now and she is really only in to hugging and kissing but when we were in the cinema one day i got an erection while i was kissing her and she noticed it a... (164 words)

Should I tell my mom I heard a gunshot?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok ok heres my problem last night like august 11 2008 i heard a gunshot im pretty sure it was a gunshot im real scared like should i tell my mom what i heard or keep it to myself my bro told me not to worry but i cant help it what should i do?... (55 words)

Do guys ever have sex with girls they aren't attracted to?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Like if a really unattractive girl offered them sex, would they say no? Or will they have sex with just about anyone? Not counting if they are drunk of course.... (30 words)

Why is my little girl being left out?

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13 August 2008 (?) age 41-50 - please can anyone give me any advice 3 years ago i left my daugthers dad because he was very abuseive towards me, i knew that i and most importntly my little girl would be much happier,she now sees her dad every weekend and as he become a really good dad gives her lots of time ... (225 words)

Not knowing what to do is tearing me apart!!

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I love my ex-girlfriend so much and we're still friends and still sleep together occasionally. I know we probably shouldnt, but hey im a man and struggle to say no. I'm constantly thinking about her and yet ive had other girlfriends since i last went out with her, but its ... (150 words)

Will he be faithful if he decides I'm the one for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a follow up to this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-know-if-he-does-decide.html Ok I spent all of Monday with him....we even ended up having sex on the back porch...smh....but before and after any of that happened He way beyond sweet to me....an... (544 words)

What does it feel like to have a partner with a higher sex drive?

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13 August 2008 (M)

- Can someone tell me what it feels like to have a partner with a much higher sex drive / interest in sex, preferably from someone who has been in such a position. I have a higher sex drive than my bf. For the first 18 months I thought we had very similar sex drives as we see... (220 words)

Should I put her happiness above my own?

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I like this girl, have for months now. She keeps putting her self down, but to me she's beautiful, she's sweet, she makes me laugh and everytime I see her smile, it makes me feel so warm inside I'm not a virgin, although I've only done it once so I'm not complete... (322 words)

Lack of intimacy has made me attracted to a girl at work!

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, been with my gal for three months!!! im kind caring loving, not pressurising in anyway, but just latley im feeling more frustrrated with the lack of intimatcy!!! now i love my gal alot and want to take the next step in the relationship, the other problum is this girl at ... (152 words)

Should I participate in an orgy with my boyfriend and his 2 best friends?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i recently turned 16, so i wouldnt be doin anything illegal, and ive been sexually active with my boyfriend for over a year now, so i have nothing to lose, exept my pride? maybe? i just dunno!! my boyfriends friends and me were out in town on friday night and they were ... (204 words)

Will I lose her forever if I tell her I love her?

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13 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey i need a little help because recently i have fallen in love with my best friend and i wish i havent because she has been hurt too much recently by guys and i really dont want to say something and join they guys and loose her forever and tonight i told her how i felt and she ... (113 words)

Is the younger man I'm seeing playing a game?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age - I'm in love with a man who is forty years old and I am 60. I really don't look much older than late forties. We became very close last year, but then had a break up. We have now starting seeing each other occasionally again but there seems to be a barrier that wasn't there ... (185 words)

How do I trace the woman my husband met online and had an affair with?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age - Husband has had a affair for 4 months last year with a woman he met on the internet. He then went to Afghanistan and we are no further forward in repairing the marriage. He is on leave at the moment and i have said in order for me to believe what he is telling me he has to set ... (155 words)

I'm the one that loves the child and wishes he was mine!

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13 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel so jealous and left out I guess. I'm 6 years younger than my wife so i'm not as mature or experienced i guess. We're recently married. She has a 3 year old son from another guy. I'm the step-dad but he thinks i'm his real dad until otherwise. I love both of them. The ... (328 words)

What do you think, Is there ant hope for me?

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 4.5 years dumped me 2 weeks ago. He was acting distant and not really affectionate 3 weeks before we broke up. I knew he liked this younger girl at his job (we are only 21 yrs old btw and she just turned 17)... I kept asking and asking and he kept saying no no no ... (583 words)

Am I nuts to think there could be a future in this? After all it is at the moment all online.

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13 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have started chatting to a guy online. we are in different countries, he is in his early 40's and i am in my mid thirty's. we both have alot of relatinship experience behind us. we have been chatting every night and get on so well.....am i mad? should i continue this? It... (102 words)