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writes:I'm 15, and i absolutely love this girl i know! We are really good friends and get on fine, but I get the feeling she would never want to be with me. She just came out of a 2 year relationship, and still keeps good contact with her ex. I really want to tell her how i feel and how much i love her, but i think that would creep her out or create awkardnes between us and ruin our friendship. What should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Well, young friend...I would advise to just stay available as a good friend, right now. She is probably still a little "bummed out" by somebody who said they 'loved her'. At your age, and I assume her age is the same, the word 'love' is thrown around a lot with not too much understanding of what it really means. Love can be expressed in many ways. If you love her as you say, then be a friend right now. Don't push for more or make her think your friendship is dependent on 'more'. Do you follow me? I know, it is difficult, sometimes, when we have strong feelings for someone. But, we can communicate those feelings without scaring the other person off. Best wishes, Tom
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