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I kissed my best friend, I love her - we're ignoring our feelings!!

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9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My best friend and I made out once and since then I cant stop thinking about her and I love her. We spend a lot of time together and there is some kind of tension that make us nervous and aware of certain feelings but we dont act on it or talk about it. Should I bring it up? ... (69 words

Did I ruin my chances by jumping into bed with my online lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok so i decided to try internet dating about 3 months ago, after coming out of a long term relationship which ended very badly (a year ago). anyway i've met this guy who i really like.. the problem is i cant tell how much he likes me. at the beginning (3 months ago) we spoke fo... (539 words

How can I move foward after his cheating ?Help me...

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9 August 2008 (F age - When I was married my husband cheated on me and I was deployed for 6mo and he brought her to live in our home.. After I found out I divorced him and of course apart of me still loves him. Im tortured by images of him and her on my bed. I wonder why cant I have my happy family ... (116 words

He tells me he likes me.but he loves his gf as well!

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello im 16 and having problems with boys. there this boy who i really like and maybe even love. we were seeing eachover on and off for nearly 2 years. i liked him and i think he liked me. During that 2 years he went out with another girl and we flirted but nothing ever hap... (151 words

Any men who can help with cross dressing problems?

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9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - my husband also cross dresses and at first i was like ok as long as it stayed between us in the bedroom but it got to where he wanted to every day all day and even with the kids awake and around i made it clear i diddnt want it around the kids and he went behined my back. now ... (220 words

Could those be signs of pregnancy?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay heres my problem. The last time i had sex was around 3 weeks ago and i used a condom. After me and my babe did it I didnt check the condom so I don't know if it broke. So this past week i've been noticing that my breast have been tender and I've had really bad indigestion ... (114 words

My boyfriend is having pain after sex - he won't see a doctor!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend who just turned 40 recently has been complaining about a problem he is having during sex. When he starts to cum, instead of enjoying it, he says it hurts more then anything....like the during/after effect. He later has really bad headaches and feels very fatigue. ... (79 words

I found porn on my dads computer - help!

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9 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - i found pornography on my dads computer a couple of days ago. i have always been sensitive and an only child and led a very sheltered life. i know hardly anything about sexual things or anything like that and find porn quite revolting myself. I dont know how to react to what i ... (84 words

Why are guys so sex obsessed?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I mean its fun and feels really good but girls can live without it. Girls like it a lot too but dont want to sleep with almost ever guy they see, unlike guys. I really dont understand why a guy will also lie or do anything just to get sex. I heard that its the man's duty to ... (86 words

What is normal breast size for my age?

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9 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - is this bad im 13 and i wear a 34C cup size in my bra im just wonderin is there any other 13 or 14 year olds who also wear a 34C or higher... (34 words

Periods and Pregnancies

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am just wondering, so please dont judge me or anything but; this might sound very stupid, but, is it possible to be pregnant and still get your regular periods? it would be really helpful for advice back. thankyou x... (47 words

If you love somebody - should you let them know?!

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I'm just after a general piece of advice. If you love somebody, should you let them know. Even if It could result in lost friendships and other complications? Thanks in advance, Best Wishes.... (42 words

He keeps breaking my heart, but I cant seem to let him go. please help..

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9 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - im still seeing my ex man. He had a girlfriend, but they broke up, but he recently moved back in with her for personal reasons, but i think they are still together, i saw them together 3 different occasions, so i told him i dont want to see him anymore, but he still calls me ... (77 words

I love him but I have to act like I know nothing-help!!

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9 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - 4 years ago ( when i was 10) i fell for someone who i though of as a friend and i fancied him for most of primary 6. After the summer when i went into p.7 and him 1st year of high school i thought i would get over him. I was wrong. In my last week of p.7 i started to fall for ... (320 words

I'm scared about my future...I saw my other friends having so much fun

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i left school this year n have kept in touch with only 3 friends. going on the other friends myspaces n readin how they all have had so much fun this summer angered me. im never guna see them again but i just felt so angry that im not part of that anymore. im a bit of a hermi... (115 words

How can I get the love of my life back in my life?? Help!

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9 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - im jerrold and my girl friend and been knowing each other since pre-k and she broke up wit me for one of my best friends we havent talked for 3 mouths so how can i get the love of my life back in my life.... (45 words

I'm not even sure if she really loves me. Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - My trust issues are getting the way of my marriage. I'm 22 my wife is 28, she also has a 3 year old from another man.We got married after only a few months of knowing each other. When we met, she was in the biggest hurry to get married: She wanted to leave me when I told her we ... (195 words

My marriage of 22 years is in trouble! Can anyone help figure out my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for 22 years. It has been rocky. We have been through counseling, but I am realizing that all the things that were said by him were lies. He has been very distant. He continues to fantasize about women and "what they can do to him" to the point that I ... (375 words

I feel crushed and hurt...my best friend told me she doesn't trust me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Heyyyy So i have this girl problem... with my friend that is. we started being really close friends this year, sophomore year. we were always together and i considered her my best friend. i cared about her alot and i loved our friendship because we shared the same inter... (499 words

Confused about my sexuality..can you help me figure this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey ok since i was like 13 iv kissed girl mates i mean i was young u dunno what your doin and your confussed about everything but now there like 16 -19 with boyfriends and im 17 with no one iv tried to date guys but i always push them away iv watched porn but its doesnt turn me ... (169 words

She stuffs her bra!

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9 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - so my girlfriend and me were making out (going I'm to G rated for you a bit) and other "stuff". I found out she stuffs her bra. She ran out of the room when I say must have somethng imsensitive. Why is she being over sensitive and stuffing her bra when didnt need to? ... (54 words

Am I desperate to like someone? Is this why I have turned to this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey i'm sorry as this is my second question this month but i would really appreciate some advice. it's another long question (or equation lol spirit _of_iona!) but here goes. i have this guy friend who i've known for all my life as our fathers' our best friends. basically ... (470 words

It was great before we moved in together..now we fight all the time. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my boy friend for 2 years now and weve been living together for a yr. everything was really great before we moved in together. i dont kno what to do. we fight more than anything. like verbal fighting. for some reason i feel like we shouldnt be together but i ... (81 words

I go out of my way for guys I like and then they just dump me! It's happened 3 times--what is wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I don't seem to be finding the right guy. I'm always going out of my way for any guy I like, mind you they are always the ones chasing me at first, then when I get with them, they act like everything is fine and then just don't ever call again. It's happened three times which ... (277 words

Pimples down there! What is causing them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we started having sex 2 months ago. Since then I seem to be having a lot of problems. I had cystitis twice - obviously not his fault, came from too much sex, but I've only had it once before, 4 years ago! Then I had a boil on my ... (292 words

I want to fall out of love with my best friend - my other friends would hate me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i'm attracted to both females and male. i just can't control it. i wished i'm normal. and i kind of fell in love with one of my bestfriend. i wish i could tell someone about it. but in my country if you're a lesbian or a gay. you would be discriminated by your own friends ... (82 words

I think my boyfriend is disrespecting me--he says I'm being unreasonable. Help?

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9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. He cheated on me last winter with his ex girlfriend which i have never fully got over. He still wants to meet up with her(just to chat as friends) and often talks to girls in an unhealthy manner(e.g. calling them ... (97 words

Quick question on period masturbation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Can I use my vibrator during my period?... (8 words

How much should I support my depressed boyfriend?

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9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend (who has recently been treated for depression) who i live with has just returned from working overseas for a couple of weeks. He has really enjoyed this experience and it has boosted his self esteem at work. He is considering applying for a job at his work where he ... (346 words

Has anyone stayed friends with an ex?

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9 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi I would like to know of any success stories of keeping friends with an ex. Me and my ex wouldn't work and split a while ago. Its about as civilised as needs to be now i think, and we are both pretty much sorted as singletons and moving onto getting back into the dating ... (185 words

Why do I hate sex?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am so ashamed of this issue I have with sex that it ruins every relationship i have. I love being with the person doing things with him but i hate sex it makes me feel sick and i always want to cry. I love the idea of having sex then when we start i want it to stop i dont ... (105 words

How do I know if online guy is interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have been talking this guy online for about a month. we have never met but we have a few mutual friends and study at the same college institute. whilst we have been talking the conversation has been getting better in the conversation we are just trying to get to knw each ... (138 words

Need Birth Control Solutions--Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

9 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend finds it hard to use condoms because most of the time he loses his erection just after he puts one on. Because of this we tried me going the pill. However, four months ago while on the pill, I became pregnant and had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. I didn't know I wa... (226 words

Is she the right one for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, I have a question to ask and desperately need some suggestions! I have been dating this girl for 6 years now, yes that long and we have decided to move to another country to improve our standards in life. All is getting better and better here and we are starting to p... (218 words

I feel guilty about being the second man to leave my fiancee. Should I stay and try it?

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9 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - My fiancee and I are due to get married in 5 weeks, yet I have a gut feeling that it's not right. She is very sweet, but my feelings have changed the past year. I feel I may end it, but the same thing has happened to her before, where her fiancee left her before the wedding. ... (108 words

I'm not so clever as I used to be. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - hello fellows! I'm having a serious porblem at school. here it is,before I got in to my present school I use to be a clever student; even the teachers thanked me.But when I entered this school everything turned upsidedown.I tried to work hard and I did my best but I couldn't... (65 words

I'm scared about sex - I just feel so exposed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm a virgin and am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months, who isn't (and who's pretty experienced). I've watched a fair amount of pornography and read a lot about sex, so I'm pretty clued-up about it. But.. I'm really nervous about having sex! I'm ... (111 words

Why do I want to get pregnant again so badly?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is a stupid question but in January I found out I was pregnant, I told the bf at the time he finished with me and tried to make me have an abortion but at the end of February I had a miscarriage. I was 17 but turned 18 at the start of April. But because I don't know why... (323 words

What should I do?! We were perfect for each other...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a couple of weeks ago because he said he has been in relationships his whole life and just wants his independence. I was caught completely off guard because I had no idea he was feeling this way. Our relationship was close to ... (212 words

I'm confused about the relationship status with my ex. He seems so cold...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what my ex really wants anymore. I've never been so caught up with anyone before and it's a terrible first time. My ex is attached to this girl for about 10 months now and he is still in constant contact with me(We broke up in 2006 because of religious issues... (259 words

Online Banking Fraud - has this happened to anyone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F - Hi All I am seeking good advice regarding online banking fraud, I was unfortunate to be caught in this in June this yr by responding to an email ( I know!) anyway the bank have investigated they knew right away whare the money had went via telephone banking but they couldn'... (101 words

Why are horrible people happier?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - at school there is this one girl who is centre of attention. shes pretty and popular. however, she is downright mean. the other day she thought it would be funny to spill a cup of hot chocolate into my desk that had some of my belongings. i knwo she did it because she kept ... (121 words

How can I get life back on track and interesting again?

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9 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Any ideas how I can get my life back on track and a bit more exciting? Recently life has just sort of ground to a halt. I don't go out as much as I used to primarily because all my friends have moved on, meaning that I hardly have any friends around. I have no girlfriend an... (99 words

I've really screwed this up - please help, I want to fix this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have done something really bad and am regretting it deeply. my cousin wanted to create a fake profile on facebook so she could see what the profile of a guy she liked. but so it wouldnt seem too fake - we made 4 profile - she made 2 i made 2. she added my mate to look... (548 words

His ended his marriage - but won't move out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - i am madly in love with a married man who has young children, his marriage was on the rocks long before i came along we were friends to begin with and we had alot in common as well as mutual friends,. when i realised he had feeling for me i backed away knowing it wasnt right, ... (288 words

I'm in love with my stepmother. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi i am 19 and have been having a hidden relationship with my 38 year old step mom for almost 2 years. Sometime last year it turned sexual. Now she is divorced from my dad (since last week)and is waiting to move to an apartment with me (1 month). Both sides of my family know ... (159 words

For the past four years I've been in love with two men. I feel like 'Little Weed'. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, well see the thing is, i had a boyfriend (Ben) for about 6months, but we broke up. theni had a 2year relationship with my other ex boyfriend (Bill) , and we got on great, but then things between myself and Bill seemed to go down hill and we argued a lot and ... (342 words

My girl is about to embark on an arranged marriage to her cousin. Is there anything I can do to stop it happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been in serious situation right now..I am from asian origin..I used to date this girl for 2 yrs..She is 20 and im 25...we had lil ups and downs..nothin major in our relationship...Last month she went on vacation to california to visit her family...When she got back she ... (356 words

Why do I never get invited out on a second date?

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9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 35yrs old I am fairly secure with myself I am confident of my self worth, my life, friends, personality etc but since spliting with my LT boyfriend 6yrs ago I have had only one boyfriend which lasted 6 months last year (2007) and around 10 flings. So if I am this great ... (365 words

Is there an alternative?

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9 August 2008 (M age - I am suffering from premature ejaculation and because of this ,I cannot satisfy my wife. So she wants to go out and have sex with someone else to get satisfied. Is that an alternative?... (34 words

Why am I so unlucky in life?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Why is it that one cannot forget one's first relationship? I am right now experiencing this similar mode in my life....Its almost 3 and a half months since my breakup but still i cannot forget him . he's always on my mind 24x7...Everytime i try forgetting him... an inner voice ... (243 words

I've loved my brother in law since I was six years old, I don't want to destroy my family - so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age - I was raised without my 3 sisters. My mother had another family before us and left them to be raised with their father and grandmother - then she had us with our father. Then he died. I was not raised with my other siblings. One half sister eventually came back first before ... (448 words

Does he hate me? Am I kidding myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was dating a guy for 9 months. He has just come out of an on off 2 year relationship with a girl who tried every trick in the book to get him back. He ended up sleeping with her a number of times when we were seeing each other, but each time, told me it was a mistake he did ... (292 words

Should I have touched him intimately?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - There is a gentleman that I've been dating on and off for about a year and a half now. I saw him tonight (he came over) for the first time in about 5 months and we made out. I let him touch my breasts, but I did not touch his penis. I just didn't think I should since it's been ... (134 words

What signs should I look for that would tell me I'm pregnant?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok im 15 and i had un protectedsex about 4 times and i dont know if im pregant i wanna know how do u know if ur pregant when u have sex like every day what sign should i look for right now im so stupid i just need help and with my mom moving out of state with her ex who abused ... (84 words

My ex got together with a good friend of mine but now he sends me a message saying he misses me!?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend recently got together with a good friend of mine but now sends me an email saying he misses me. what should i say? ... (26 words

Does this guy like me more than just a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i've known this guy since kindergarten and we are the best of friends but i liked him since the day we met cos he's so sweet to me. He goes all out of his way to help me. All his friends tease me cos i like him and among his friends is my ex who teases me all the more. Another ... (227 words

He wants to have sex, but I feel unready. The very thought of sex freaks me out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 19 and have been dating my 23 year old boyfriend for 2 years. he wants to have sex, but i just feel that i am not ready. the very thought of sex just freaks me out. i feel i'm letting him down, he tells me he ubderstands but i know he is lying. please help me... (59 words

My boyfriend has a porn addiction. He does't seem to find me sexually attractive.

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem and I really don't even know what to think of it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He's kind, intelligent, gentle, loving, and generally amazing to me. The only problem is that he has a porn addiction. He's had it for a few years now. ... (521 words

Have strong feelings for a married women, her husband knows we hang out and "do stuff together." What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hello All, I am a single male and have been for several years and enjoy being single. Howwever, someone (a female of 25) has come into my life. We have a lot of things in common.We have been friends for 10 months. The problem is she is 'married' There is no secrecy he... (210 words

Oral Sex Phobia? What's his problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex at least 5 times a week. He has never performed it on me and when ever I ask him, he doesn't give me an answer as to way he won't perform on me. He has never given oral sex to any of his ex-girlfriends as ... (95 words

I am an attractive 32 year old, he's 60 but I feel so insecure. Is he going through that phase where he feels trapped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with a man (who is separated) for 2 years now. It is an official separation, I know his wife and son, family and we all get along very well. My man and I have had an incredible relationship filled with chemistry, great sex, communication, etc, but for the last 3 ... (348 words

If anything were to happen it would have to be initiated on my side, as he has a GF. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - So, I've been working alongside my colleague for a year. He has a lovely girlfriend and I'm sure he's very happy with her. However recently I have come to realise that there is something more there. He knows everything about me, and I about him (result of working together so ... (146 words

I had a short relationship with my also bisexual friend; I loved her but never told her, what can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Just to make things clear, I consider myself bicurious, and I came to be okay with that when I fell for a friend of mine. She's also bisexual. She's someone that hasn't had a lot of people truly care about her, so I was kind of a new thing to her. We were together for 2 m... (168 words

I'm worried I might have a disease. I don't know what to do.

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - So i have brown discharge and i have had sex with a few people and one was unprotected i just got put on birth control but i didnt even wanna do that cuz in 2 months i gotta get a pap-smear and i dont want the doctor looking down there i know she has seen a million vaginas but ... (124 words

I have a white bump near the shaft of my penis ~ Is there a way I can remove it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have noticed for a while that there is a white bump near the shaft of my penis. I have read up on it a little and it isn't an STD, but is there a way i can remove it ?... (43 words

Who should I believe? My BF who says he loves me or his friend who said he's been cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - alright so i have been on here in a while so i have one huge question .... about a week ago my bf was gone for a week and he barely calld me he called me probably twice a day and when he came back thngs were fine we had a great time i made him birthday dinner and a cake and we ... (224 words

Three years ago we were "friends with benefits" and he wanted nothing to do with me or our child; we're back together and I constantly worry about him cheating now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months..officially. Three years ago we were "friends with benefits" and nothing more. Out of that came a child. He wanted nothing to do with me or our child. Despite my attempts to contact him he completely disappeared and ... (144 words

Muslim and unsatisfied with how I am and what I do lately... I am in complete fiasco!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my problem is that i am big mouth,,i always say sth and i dont do it,,i am in relationship with someone ,,i dont know if i am in love with him or not,,i am still virgin but i hate that he kissed me or huged me,,i feel it is sin since i am muslim,,maybe i am complicated,,i used ... (187 words

I'm thinking about a baby. If I just stopped taking my pills without telling my boyfriend...?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years I am 22 and he's 21. We live together as well as his brother in a 2 bedroom apartment, but in about 2 months we will have an actual home. Their dad is buying it and we are renting it from him. my guy and I have had our ups and ... (240 words

Do you have or know any husband who can reform or change his unfaithful ways after 20 years of marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

9 August 2008 (F age - Do you have or know any husband who can reform or change his unfaithful ways after 20 years of marriage? My husband and I are very intimate even though he has to have his short outside affairs for years. He likes to play his little games of conquering a lot of women for his ... (357 words

I'm afraid that this girl is going to ruin my life, and there doesn't seem anything I can do to stop it! Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

9 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey all! Me and my girlfriend were going out for three months when i found out she was cheating on me. We talked it over and decided to stay together. We continued going out for another three months and then she dumped me for a different guy (not the one she cheated with ... (451 words

Any advice as to how I can ask this boy to go out with me?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok i need some love advice... Im 15. I have a friend, i want him as more than a friend though he is also 15. How do i get him to notice me? [he already talks to me as we hang out in the same group of friends, but i want him to notice me in a loving way as opposed to a jus... (96 words

Do you think he'll ever get over the fact that I slept with someone whilst we were not together?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and this guy were meeting up nearly everyday for a few weeks( we got very close in this time and he hinted on numerous occassions that he felt strongly towards me)and then he went on holiday and we simply cooled it all down when he got back ( not to my liking though). he... (356 words

What options do I have without feeling like I'm ripping her heart out?

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9 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now and she recently told me that she's feels that she's falling in love. This would usually be a positive thing in a relationship but I have been here before. All of my past girlfriends gave me the same talk at one point on h... (133 words

My boyfriend has threatened to upload videos of me on porn sites if I ever leave him...Please help!!

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - What do i do? My boyfriend has videos of me doing things, and he says if i leave him or don't take naughty pics for him - he's going to upload them to porn sites. If my family ever found out they'd be so mad :( I don't know what to do :( I'm only 16 :( Please help!... (63 words

He knows I don't want a friend with benefits, and if he doesn't want a relationship, why all the mixed signals?

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9 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - About two months ago, I made out with a friend of mine, whom I have known for more than 20 years, while we were abroad on holiday together. Before this happened, I had never thought of him as more than a friend. When we talked about it, he told me that he had always been ... (563 words

Has anyone ever heard of a father being jealous of his infant son, so he cheats on his wife?!

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9 August 2008 (F age - Has anyone ever heard of a father being jealous of his infant son, and because he's not getting enough attention from wife he goes out and cheats on her? Does anyone out there know someone like this? It sounds like it's quite common among husbands in today's world.... (51 words

He is a very good husband and I feel that I should be happy but I'm not. What do I do? Stay or go?

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9 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 4 years and have been married 2. He is a very good husband and I feel that I should be happy but I'm not. I used to be excited when he got home from work or if he called me but I'm not anymore. I feel like I should want him around like befo... (118 words

Is it true that larger girls are better in bed that skinny girls?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - A friend of mine (male) told me tonight that larger ladies are really good in bed, i've always been big and it's kinda made me feel good, haha.. His girlfriend is a larger girl although she is absolutly beautiful, he says they have the best sex life ever! We talk about th... (99 words

He kept putting his hand up my top! Is he just after sex?

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9 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was making out with my boyfriend, him lying on top of me between my legs, when he put his hand up my top and started slowly putting his hand further up my top. Does it seem to you like sex is all he is interested in? Or was i leading him on? I pulled his hand out of my top ... (70 words

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