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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does my husband want to live like a real couple? He's in another country...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - we are together more than 6 years i met him somewhere in indonesia i am western. i bring him to my country 1 and a half year ago and we married but no job for him there because of the language. we started fighting until the day my mother told him to leave the house and go back ... (234 words)

He has a girlfriend but acts like he doesn't! Could he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) age 30-35 - ok so i have a really complicated problem... i really really like this guy and i think he likes me too but he has a girlfriend so he cant but he acts like he does so i dont know if he likes me or not :( he might just see me as a mate so i cant tell him cos it would make thing... (180 words)

Can I trust my boyfriend while he's away at the university?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi dearcupid, i'm having a hard time coping with my long-distance boyfriend when he goes off to uni next month. i love him as whole. of course, you have to make the effort but, i still want to keep the relationship strong. i trust him and he trusts me though that thought i'v... (102 words)

Could he have mistaken thrush for chlamydia?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy i had slept with accused me of giving him chlamydia when we had sex last week. he told me he had been checked up and had it..so i went to get checked out, but am still awaiting the results. he told another guy i had slept with that he should get checked out cos i was ... (333 words)

My older boyfriend thinks I'm too young to settle down with, but I wasn't too young for sex. Is that just an excuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always dated older guys but now my family think i should date guys my age. They usually are 10 years older than me. Do you really think age ain't nothing but a number? I'm currently dating a guy that has a girlfriend but now i want more but he thinks i'm not ready to ... (104 words)

I care about him, but his son's mom is controlling him. Should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone!! Well here goes, I have a guy friend and been together for about 5 years.(sex partners/ care about each other) On the other hand, he has a girlfriend/babymom that come in and out of his life and take him through HELL. They planning a wedding which didn't work ... (216 words)

Can a bacterial infection affect the outcome of pregnancy tests?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My period was due almost 2 weeks ago. The last time I had unprotected sex was the day before it was due. I've taken two at home pregnancy tests that both said negative. I also took another test at planned parenthood today that said I was negative. However, the doctor also ... (121 words)

My friend is so stuck on his girl he doesn't have time for his old friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I think that my friend is a little too stuck on his new girlfriend.He used to hang out with us but now he just hangs out with her.... (28 words)

A prior sex attack has me dreaming he'll cheat.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i keep having multiple dreams everynight of my boyfriend cheating on me, with close friends and sometimes total strangers and partys,, Also the thung is, he's going clubbing in broadway like next week;; And ive got a crazy feeling thats when he's gunnah cheat on me.... (274 words)

My ex has moved on but I thought he would come back. Am I settling for too little?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my ex has been broken up for 5months now we where together 3yrs and we brokeup and three days klater he had a new girlfriend lately we have been having sex about twice aweek he calls every three or four days but now he hasnt called in aweek i really want him back i ... (153 words)

Have I miscarried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Im 6 weeks pregant. That is confurmed And last night i had a little blood show, bright pink colour My man look it up on the net and it is comon for pregant women to bleed a bit I asking now cause it now the next night it 4;30am right now and i awoke to go to the toilet and i ... (76 words)

I need tips on how to forgive a boyfriend that's cheated on me multiple times.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help by someone who can give me tips on how to forgive my boyfriend. Hes cheated on me and lied to me multiple times. I dont trust him anywhere he goes and i cant get the picture of him and another girl out of my head. Ive tryed talking to him but it seems to hurt me ... (87 words)

Is he just going out with her to try to get over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - A few years ago i fell for this guy who i have known since primary school. Well we were friends and in my first year ( him 2nd year) of high school is when i fell for him and he started to give me signals that made me think that he likes me. We went on this trip with the ... (286 words)

I have an incontinence problem when I laugh too hard. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - erm hi there. okay this is guna sound random. but like i dont know if its a problem or whatever but... everytime i laugh (Propa giggly laugh) or something happens thats sooo funny i basically wee myself. i cant stop it but its like every time! and i always have to like pul... (79 words)

Have I gone through puberty yet? I think I'm too small.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 11 and im not sure if i should hav gone through puberty yet cuz i dont think i hav yet. My penis is only 3 1/2' hard and 2 1/2' floppy. Is that normal?... (35 words)

My friend like my girlfriend. Should I break up with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend likes my girlfriend and i think it might hurt our friendship.Should I break up with her?... (18 words)

My boyfriend's use of sex toys makes me think I want a girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and I love hime with all my heart! He doesnt want to have sex with me and im fine with that but he does stick dildos up my pussy to get me horny because he knows i like it! He has never shown me his dick or anything and we have been together for 3 years! I ... (129 words)

I was drunk and I don't remember... would I have been aware of having sex with this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was recently at a party where I met a guy and we kissed - at least I have no recollection of having gone any further with him. One friend told another that she had caught him with his trousers down and that I had a hole in the crotch area of my tights which really scared me. ... (178 words)

I'm 11 and my girlfriend won't kiss me on her own. Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey im 11 and i have a girlfriend but she wont kiss me on her own. Her friends have to convince her.My best friend's girlfreind will kiss him.I dont know if im doing something wrong.... (35 words)

What sort of flirty but sweet comment can I make to this girl? We're meeting at Fresher's week, but we talk over email right now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm starting in uni in September and have been trying to find new friends (or more) among people going to my uni who are on facebook. I added quite a few to my friends including some very friendly girls some of whom are nervous as they don't know anyone. Anywa... (192 words)

Could my pool-jumping have broke my hymen??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - While I was on holidays last month i did a lot of jumping into the pool and afterwards there was blood on my bikini end .I thought it was my period but that was the only blood there was. I'm a virgin so could I have broke my hyman?... (49 words)

Have I done the right thing by ignoring him all day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here goes...i'm 21 and i've never had a proper boyfriend. Anyway this guy i had been talking to him for a few weeks before he asked for my number (that was on the tuesday and i went on hols for two weeks on the sat and kept texting and stuff) anyway we went on a "date" on ... (158 words)

Why do some guys act weird and strange the day after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone please tell me why that one day a guy(a bf) would pay full interest in you(conversation/sex/foreplay/kissing) and the next day would pay no attention to you at all for no apperent reason? What can be the possible things that can be running through his head?... (47 words)

My dad's fiancee is doing all she can to come between me and my Dad...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My Dad has been with his girlfriend (now fiancee) for just under 18 months. At first things were great, they seemed really happy, and I know my Dad had been really lobely for a while. Me and my sisters have always had a really close relationship with my Dad, he's also our fr... (522 words)

He's really hurt me, can I be happy with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now, we started off as really really good we'd had never felt the same bout someone else like that before. but there was always interuptions, like the world was against us. anyways when it was time for us to be together ever... (192 words)

Once he got sex, he changed, and I feel used

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I became great friends with a man, but he has completely changed when we became sexual. He used to nice, caring and fun to be with. Now it seems he just wants sex and thats it. It also seems like he is using me. How can i get over this? I really miss him the way he used to ... (65 words)

I'm 12, horny and shy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 12 years old and I am very shy around boys! I really dont go far with them but sometimes I get horny and I really want to have sex! What should I do?... (35 words)

I think my penis is too small

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, this is my problem but i think my pennis is to small because its only 15cm's - 16cm's, so what is the average sized pennis... (26 words)

We were very serious, broke up, and now we're back together, can it work moving slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were together for 9 months, we split up at Christmas 2007. We had lived together for 6 of the 9 months we were together, and that was the first time either of us had lived away from home, or with anyone else other than family. We found it easy in the begi... (482 words)

How do I become friends with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and me ex split up just over a year ago, we agreed to stay friends. He started being mean to me and I couldn't stand him any longer so I blocked and deleted his MSN addy, deleted his phone number and threw away his address because I wanted no contact with him at all. ... (164 words)

He says he likes me but has a girlfriend, should I give up on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this boy and i really like him and my friends told him i like him when we went to Colorado for a mission trip, but then he said that he likes me but he as a gf and he loves her more and i was kinda ok so i about to give up on him and i still think that i should i pray ... (96 words)

I feel as if I have come to a stand still with my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as though I have come to a halt in my life where I can't move forward heres the story... My dad's disabled - he has problems with his back. He is also epileptic and suffers from severe arthritis and he has been this way all my live so i'm living with that but...I'... (371 words)

He wants to come on me like they do in porn!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf is my first sex partner and I'm not very experienced. He wants to start cumming on me like they do in the pornos. We always use condoms, so I'm I'm scared I will be grossed out if he takes it off and finishes like that. I've never done that. For the people who do this, is ... (96 words)

How do I know if I still like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question.. How can you tell when you've stopped liking someone? I liked this guy and he liked me back for about 2 months, but we weren't officially going out. and later on the found another girl and made her his girlfriend. I dont yet know if im over him, I havent se... (94 words)

He's maried but living with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age - I am now doing something I thought I would never do. I now live with a married man. When we got together it wasn't suppose to end up like this, it was just for fun because I am 13 years older than him. I was getting a divorce and he wasn't married but living with the mother ... (583 words)

How can I get my brother to leave this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Amazingly enough, this question isn't about me. It's about my brother. He is 20 yers old, and practically my twin. He's been seeing (and living) with this girl for over a year now, and I think my brother is in trouble. She cheated on him just days after their ... (340 words)

I don't feel like I can trust any girl!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm constantly worried my girlfriend is cheating on me. She is not the type but I've been cheated on before and now I can't trust any girl. What can I do?... (31 words)

I'm confused and hurt about a girl my bf flirted with...he says it was a flirt gone wrong...what do I think??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance the flirt last year my fiance had a thing going on with this girl at work... for a while things where horrible and he treated me like crap... anyway it was 3 months down the line b4 i found out or let say had an eye opener... didn't think or expect he would ever hu... (383 words)

Should I stay with a good thing or would it be wise to move on because of the age difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I could really use some good advice. I'm a 24 yr old college student. I've bounced around in a few relationships over the past few years, none of which lasted very long. About a year ago, I hooked up with an older woman (she's 43). I basically did it for sex in the beginning. ... (237 words)

Will he ever trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I gain my boyfriend's trust again? 4 days ago I took $80 out of his account without asking.when he found out he was pissed. He told me that he does not want to talk until I refund his money back.well I explained why I did it he then told me to give him some time. I'm ... (69 words)

I need revenge!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i need advice on the best way to get my revenge on him for putting me in this situation!!!!!me and my boyfriend had been goin out for 3 and a half yrs and have a daughter together, two days ago i answered his fone an a girl answered claiming she is 6months pregnant by him, he ... (84 words)

Problems with erections and I cannot emotionally handle "servicing" her any longer, if I cannot be part of the sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - HI All I am a 30 year old male, good physical condition. When I was 22 I strted having erectile problems, which at the time I assumed to be from cycling. In the past 8 years I have been with about 8 women. Every single time with them I have an erection which lasts a b... (584 words)

16, male, and not gifted in the hair department! Is it OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well im 16 and a male...i need a little help, well ya see, im 16 and i have a good size and all, but not that much in the hair department...like i dont really have all that much leg,armpit, or even pubic hair for that matter. is this normal? are there any other people like ... (59 words)

Accept to stay with him and hardly see him or just dump him as he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i been together nearly 5 months, ghe used to want to spend loads of time with me, we went out to lots of places, now he has 2 jobs and we see each other once a week, i understand he has to work, but now he always wants to do is be with his friends, i've ... (138 words)

Is it unloyal to DRINK at my friend's party despite my boyfriend objecting to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my boyfriend and he doesnt want me to drink when i go to my bestfriend's place tomorrow. But to tell ya all the truth i dont care im going to any way as i hardly get a chance for fun and at the end of the day ill be back with him at home omg im leavin him at 12 pm a... (100 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to say "I miss you". Do men find these things hard to say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i sort of split from my boyf despite being in love with each other because i felt like things were going a bit too fast and we were wanting different things.i tell him i miss him but he doesnt seem to say that but i think maybe he does as he once told me that even tho he doesnt ... (84 words)

My fears are that he is not wanting our relationship to reach that level of intimacy. Or, that there is an issue he has with sex. It's unclear to me why we are waiting. Thus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating someone for almost 3 months. We are both in our early thirties. Things are going very well. We have a lot of laughter together and can honestly say we have built a wonderful friendship. There is definitely mutual physical attraction. We see each other a couple ... (351 words)

I'm in love with my cousin. Should I ask her how she feels about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - help I'm in luv with my cuz. She was born n bought up here in the united states. I came like 5 years ago. I'm insanely in luv with her. I'm not even that close to her. And actually it is allowed in our culture. My other cuz went out wth her sis. Help I don't know how to this. ... (87 words)

I'm not sure whether I had sex or not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i really need some help... im not sure whether i actually had sex or not... i know that this seems weird but im really not sure, ive been with my partner for a year and a half now yet i always vowed that i was gonna stay a virgin till marriage... however last night ... (153 words)

He never says he loves me and I feel stuck in a rut. I don't know where I am with him.

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Been dating a guy for nearly two years, he broke it off twice earlier this year coz he couldn't see us moving on (both married before - him twice, both got kids - mine with me 24/7 his only gets to see once a week). He lives about 8-10 miles from me and used to come round ... (275 words)

Jenna Jameson has stolen my man and I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Jenna Jameson has stolen my man and I want him back! I have been with my boyfriend 4 years and at first we had sex a lot (as you do), we were adventurous, watched porn together, discussed fantasies and had a bloody good time. After a few months things started tailing off (as ... (580 words)

My boss is showing favouritism for someone else. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm volunteering for a new post at work,my problem is that my new boss is showing some favouritism, he always talks about the other team member of mine to other managers and that just fustrate me,don't get me wrong i know that she is clever than me but we always do things ... (131 words)

Sex is starting to slow down. Is this normal so early in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What is normal/average amount of sex in a 5-6 month relationship? I know it depends on situation so here it is... I'm 34 with 9 year old son and he is 26, seperated not devorced with son of 5 years old. we have been together every day since we started going out except for 1-2... (498 words)

Does anyone have any experience of herbal viagra?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age - I have not had regular sex for quite a while and had to resort to masturbating. I now have sex quite often and struggle to keep an erection during intercourse. I wondered if anyone has tried the herbal viagra capsule called golden root that you can buy from vending machines. If ... (64 words)

My best friend is leaving soon. I'm gutted. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My best mate who is male, is leaving soon. Hes going 6-7 hours away for work. At the time I realised he would be leaving, my feelings seemed to become clearer. The threat of losing someone that I have got feelings for is tough to take. We get on great but I am not sure if I... (222 words)

Is it wrong for a 15 year old to like a 18 year old guy who likes her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry its really long..but this has been going on for about 3 years now.. so help me please! hi i'm a 15 year old girl and I go to a christian school, my best friend is a guy and is 18 i've liked him basically for 3 years and we jut now came out about liking eachother, ... (316 words)

Is it normal to be friends with an ex, to send her messages, etc?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be worried or is it nothing, but is it normal to be friends with your ex and when I say friends I don't mean when you see them in the street you just say hi I mean like emailing via msn or texting each other? My boyfriend said he was friends with his ex of like 6 yea... (115 words)

I masturbate too fast and it's taking a toll on my sex life, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - im 24 yrs old, i masturbate too fast and its taking a toll on my sex life what can i do to correct this?... (24 words)

I forgot taking my pills, could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

- Im a bit worried. I am on Marvelon contraceptive pill and i started my new packet on Saturday. Had unprotected sex on Saturday night (because im on the pill, and im seeing this guy), and forgot to take any more pills until this morning. They were at my friends house and i ... (123 words)

Could it be orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There was a time while having sex with my girlfriend when she started trembling hard, calling my name and saying she sees darkness and stuff. Could it be orgasm?... (29 words)

In love with a man who says I'm the best but didn't pick me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at work. I know that was my first mistake. Whe I first saw him, it was an immediate attraction where something in me had to meet this man. He came to me and got my phone # from my files. He was in a higher position. We fist started off as friends. Both coming out ... (585 words)

Should I stay with my (online) boyfriend or be with my friend who lives by me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, well I am in a relationship right now with this guy I met online a while ago... There's this one guy who I am friends with, and I just found out today that he likes me, and I like him as well... I don't know what to do. I can't decide if I should stay with my curr... (189 words)

My question about this girl is how to ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ive known her since 9th grade and now im in 11th i missed 10th grade with her because i was out of state in school we say like hi and bye everytime i see her in the hall i like wave and act like im going to tackle her and she jus laughs and says "hey :)" i wanna ask her out... (72 words)

What should I do this year to get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - BASICALLY; I want my ex back. It wasn't even serious when we went out because we were young and immature and relationships meant nothing. But yeah, now i have a boyfriend and it's all good I guess but this year I'm changing (for my self confidence) so I want to try and catch my ... (149 words)

My boyfriend crossed the line and called me a "dirty whore"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes i dont know what to do. Things just haven't been going my way lately. Me and my boyfriend argue about the simplest things. But today he crossed the line and called me a dirty whore. There was no reaction to that reply i just turned my head away and tried so hard not ... (137 words)

I have a history of mental problems and I'm feeling depressed again. Should I end it with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, please help. My boyfriend and I have been going out for approximately 3 months.. I have a history of mental problems, such as depression, anorexia, emetophobia/severe OCD, and have always had a problem talking to boys. I would not even so much as converse with th... (659 words)

She thinks me telling her I loved her was "drunk talk"! What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm absolutely in love with this girl i know, but she only sees me as a friend. We were at a party a few weeks ago and whilst i was drunk i toldher that i loved her but now she dosent believe it, thinking it was just drunk talk. We are really good friends, but I dont know how ... (82 words)

He's a virgin, I'm not. How can I make it meaningful for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing this guy for a while. I had known him before, but now we are really connected. So we went out last night to chat under the stars, and I ended up finding out he was a virgin. I was shocked but totally cool with it. I'm pretty sure I'm going to be the one who ... (111 words)

Why can't I be a normal, decent person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there... you see, this problem is not about appeareances like most of the post with that title could possibly be. I'm not a good, decent person. I shout at other people (including my family members) i sneer every cristmas/birthday/whatever gift i get from them (or any ot... (298 words)

My fiance will not accept responsibility for his share of the bills! Now what?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age - My fiance will not accept responsibility for his share of the household bills; he argues with me every time bills are due. Even though he agrees to pay it is nearly impossible to get the money from him. I have told him if he doesnt pay willingly he has to move out. He refuses. ... (56 words)

Am I still a virgin if I was given oral sex from a female?

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22 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Am i still a virgin technically speaking, if i've never had sex but have received oral from a girl when i was 15-16. I wished it was more but that was my last encounter with someone else sexually.... (38 words)

I'm 100% totally and completely terrified to have sex!! Is there something wrong with me?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..so, hi! i'm 15 years old and kinda depressed. all of my female friends are having sex and i feel totally left out. i'm not saying that i'm just going to go do it for the hell of it, but still..it bothers me that i feel like i can't talk to them about it anymore. i am 100% ... (166 words)

My family tells me to stay away from him or they won't help me but I still love him!

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, im a 28/f. I was in a bad relationship, he hurt me physically and emtionally, and took over my money. We broke up , but we have a child together and i still love him and want to chat, but my family tells me to stay away from him, and they threaten me if i go back with him ... (108 words)

Do my dreams of him cheating on me mean that he actually is?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a dream that my boyfriend of 15 months cheats on me, i have had this dream 3 times now, the las dream was that i was hanging out with him, we were sitting down and this girl sat next to us and kept coming close to us until he put his arm around her and i got so ad that i ... (130 words)

I think I may be resentful of my boyfriend and his life. Am I selfish?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all- I have a problem. I have realized recently that I think I may be resentful of my boyfriend and his life. I have been dating my guy for almost two years and he's a really great man. But as of lately, I've noticed that he has the life that I have always wanted. H... (423 words)

We made out and then he disappeared and made me cry! I want him back...

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked this guy so much weve known each other for about 5 months i met him in my neighbhourhood.we started hanging out a lot more. and then what happend was our first kiss we wernt even going out tho thats the thing we were just making out alot and none of our friends knew ... (153 words)

Could I still be falling for my ex even though I have a new boyfriend?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago i started dating this guy A month or two later he dumped me saying he didn’t feel the same When in fact he did He just got scared Now i am dating this other guy (one of his good friends who also liked me when we met and i rele liked him too)and i cant un... (175 words)

I'm into animal erotica. Can anyone answer questions on "fish" sex?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, Im kind of new with this.So anyway, Im a 39 year old female, Im overweight, lonley, and I need to get my freak on, Im so used to my 9-5 shifts anyway Laitly Ive been turned on by animal erotica, I had a moment when I was 10 with a dog that Ill never forget. anyway Ive ... (184 words)

How do you mend a broken heart after marriage fails?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is to all those going through divorce or separation. How do you mend a broken heart?? I love my husband bvery much. We have been together for six years. Just last year we got married, and now living separately which eventually will be divorce. We moved becaus... (299 words)

My best friend got a boyfriend who took over and got obsessive! How should I handle this?

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22 August 2008 (F)

- I need help. My best friend and i used to spend every day with eachother until he got a boyfriend who took over and became obsessive. I never seen my best friend because he spent all the time with his boyfriend. This really upset me. My best friend said to me that he misses me, ... (250 words)

She keeps leaving me to go out and I'm tired of arguing with her! Should I finish with her or what?

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22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey iv been with my girfriend for nearly 2 years i love her very much and she feels the same way about me. we spend alot of time together however we still make time for hobbies lk i got to the gym 5 times a week n she does her own thing with her friends. but we always meet up ... (407 words)

Heavy period after unprotected sex- is this normal?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 21 with one child and my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex 1 week before my normal period and then I started on schedule like normal, but then now 2 weeks later I just started again and its kind of heavy, is something wrong with me?... (47 words)

Will your nipples look different if you breast feed? What about using a pump...does that help?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If you have a baby and decide to breast feed but you don't want your boobs to start sagging or your nipples to look funny, can you just use a breast pump, will that prevent your nipples from looking so different??... (41 words)

My man is a people pleaser. How do I approach solving this?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is a wonderful man however I have realised he is a people pleaser. In saying this he will go out of his way to do things for me or buy me things however I feel his resentment when we have a discussion and he throws all this back in my face. I am a very fair person ... (115 words)

Is her new relationship a mistake? She doesn't know he is a lying cheater!

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need opinions on a new relationship a friend has gotten into! She is starting to date this guy from work since the very end of July, however, she doesnt know that he is a lying cheating type, but I do. He has had at least 5 other women in the last 9 months (I was one of th... (143 words)

I want to get back in touch with him without looking like a stalker! Any suggestions?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, here's my problem: A few years ago I went to school with this guy I had a huge crush on, and on the last day he admitted he liked me too but for some reason I never got his phone number or email or gave him mine. Recently I ran into him but we only spoke for a... (151 words)

I cry every night not knowing what he wants!

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need help! big time!! Do u ever wander if u aren't the only one in his life? I do... I don't think I belong in his arms... I think He thinks I'm not that cute.. I don't know what he wants. I...I think I'm kinda pretty.. just alittle.. for him I want to be everything ... (158 words)

Why is "I Love You" so scary to say?

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22 August 2008 (M)

age - There’s a new term of affection out there in case you haven’t noticed. It’s a phrase rooted most likely in some rap song… I would appreciate it if someone could reference the first use if it, I know I am curious about it. Well the term is “Show Some Love.” Because the wo... (857 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want me to have contact with my ex, or with guys on line.

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 5 months, he doesn't like me to have any contact with my ex, even texting because his ex cheated on him with her ex. I don't talk to my ex very often, he text me once in a while to see how I'm doing and that's the end of it. Is my boyfriend being ... (117 words)

Both my new guy and I like to be sexually dominant.

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When I have sex I like to dominate. This used to make my ex go crazy (in a good way), but it doesnt turn my new guy on at all, he prefers me to be the submissive one. What do I do? He is perfect in every way apart from this, but the sex just isn't doing it for me. Help!... (61 words)

My partner is undermining my self confidence. Can he possibly love me?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I'm lacking in self confidence and my partner has started making me even more insecure about myself. When we first met over 4 1/2 years ago, I was a size 10/12 ,my hair was shoulder length and I wore glasses and at the time felt quite confident within myself. Fast f... (309 words)

I'm afraid I'll do something wrong kissing a boy who likes me.

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and all my friends are going out the last time before school and supposedly, we might play seven minutes in heaven. I've never made out with a guy before and I have a feeling I'm gunna get paired up with this guy that supposedly likes me. If we do end up kiising, I'm ... (77 words)

Can I succeed in life even if I don't totally complete school?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - iM A graduating at the end of the year and most likly wont get all my senoir point on my certificate. Im stressing so much that i will never be anything or wont get anywhere. Has anyone else failed grade twelve but still become something great? I am losing sleep over ... (54 words)

My ex says her explicit text messages to a former lover were just jokes. Should I keep trying to mend things with her?

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22 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, this might be a long one, but any help will be vastly appreciated. I was in a relationship up until about a day ago with a wonderful woman. We had met under social circumstances and everything seemed to fall into place. After being casual and sexual with e... (601 words)

My cervix feels a bit off center. Is this normal?

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22 August 2008 (F)

- when i put my fingers in my vagina i can feel my cervix. Its not directly in the middle its more towards the left if i reach in. Is this normal? thanks... (32 words)

My cheating ex compares me to his other women. Should I walk away from him?

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22 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been four months since finding out that my partner had been cheating on me with numerous different women. At the point of finding out I was relieved I wasn't going crazy because I had suspected he had been up to no good for sometime but couldn't prove it. I decided to give ... (275 words)

How can I get over an obsession with a long distance love I probably can never get together with?

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22 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't want to sound like a creep, but... well... here goes. I'm 18 years old, and I fell in love with a girl about two years ago after only having met her a couple of times. I can't explain what it was about her--- you know the feeling... The thing is that we live really q... (390 words)