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writes: I am to scared to get excited. My boyfriend when I was 16 to 19 is coming to visit.We both have been married and lived and enjoyed life. However, we stayed in contact over the years. The odd phone call for a birthday or if something happened in either family. Like when his parents passed away or when my husband died. Just very much old family friends.Of recent he has been phoning and texting me a lot and lately almost every day. Long conversations. We are living far from each other but he is coming to visit me next week. We are both looking forward to it. It will be great to chat and catch up on all the news, but I am nervous. Can anything come from this? After all these years?Just some background on situation.When we were young both families believed we would get married. Well we did not do what everybody expected. The families were very dissapointed but we both moved on. I must admit, I often wondered how life would have been if we did get married? But I was young and stubborn and wanted to enjoy being young instead of settling down and getting married. He is ten years older then me and was ready to settle down and get married. But now after all these years!(LOL) What do you think?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Cool!
Been in a similar situ myself last year. I got married at 18 and divorced by the time i was 22. 16 yrs later after we split, we met up again (last yr) we both had this fairytale image that we had got with other people, had children, it hadn't worked and fate had bought us back together. We had been in touch a couple of times over the years but never met up. Anyway, it didn't turn into a fairytale, and he was still a nightmare immature piss head he was all those yrs ago! lol so nothing relationship wise came of it, but we do still keep in touch and he is with someone off n on, in a turbulant relationship now, and i was only txting him earlier today as it happens to check that he is ok.
So maybe nothing will come of it with you guys, maybe it will. Dont get too excited and go with the flow getting to know they guy again, because you will probably both of changed over the yrs! But dont go thinking this means you will get back together, because it doesn't really matter does it, just being mates will be cool after all this time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): I'm here to tell ya, anything is possible!
What an exciting thing for you. I hope that it is a wonderful meeting. I'm sure you will enjoy chatting, and that is a good, safe focus. Who knows, maybe things will just keep blooming from there, but you just won't know until you get there!
Have fun, but be safe, take some time to get to know each other again if everything seems positive.
It's all good!
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