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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Starting a new relationship - How slow can it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

- I have always believed that if a romantic relationship is to be formed between two people, it must happen quickly. If things go slowly and drag out, then usually someone ends up "friend-zoned". With this in mind, is it reasonable to expect that I will be able to woo this ... (86 words)

His love for me seems to have faded. Should I pursue him or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just brooked up with my bf of 11 months I knew since the 1st time I saw him that he was the one for me . After failing with all my other relationship I met him in the rite moment in my life. I knew what i was getting my self into when I met him he was a sweetheart such a g... (681 words)

Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is this normal, and can i keep ... (71 words)

Should I wait for my on-again off-again love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - here's the story... this girl like me ever since elementary days. i didn't notice her then and by high school she has moved to sacramento. One summer she comes back home for vacation with her family and we somehow got introduced, i forgot how though. so we had a fling for les ... (187 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to let go of my sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! Right im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for around 8 months, ive nown him since i was around 7. When i was 15 years old i did some bad things, i went on holiday and got in with the wrong crowd, it was 4 weeks of alcohol and boys, i completley regret lettin... (314 words)

My husband has lost his desire for sex with me after one year. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 1 year now and my husband has no desire what-so-ever to have sexual relations with me anymore. I asked him why and he said that it was because it wasn't fun anymore that the new had worn off. What do I do?... (47 words)

Should I let my boyfriend do oral on me if I'm uncomfortable about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have This Problem. My Boyfriend Wants To Lick Me Out. But It Was Hard Enough to let him finger me. I'm not scared of Anything but i don't know if to let him do this? or not. i told him my opinion that i think its horrible and harsh on anyone doing it. but he thinks its ... (105 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend who leaves me stranded at work and is meeting other women on dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He goes out when i am at work and leaves me there stranded ( we only have one vehicle). He is on many dating sites and always changes his password, when he figures i know to much to who (the other women ) he talks to and the... (120 words)

I have an illness that has prevented me from dating but I'd like to give it a try!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have suffered from an illness in which I could not go outside on my own which started when I was a teenager. I had a couple of dates when I was a teenager but never met anyone special. I am now 41 years old and had counselling 5 years ago which helped me with my problem. I ... (176 words)

I'm shy...should I invite her to do something together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and I have a crush on a girl with the same age. I met this girl in the ending of July and I talked with her for three days (long enough to develop my crush). In August, she went on vacation to a far place, but we kept talking by text-messaging each other. Well, she came ... (126 words)

Do jerks ever change and become nice guys to the women they are with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do jerks ever change and become nice guys to the women they are with? Even if you walked out and leave them for their behavior. Do they wake up one day and realize she was the best thing that happenend to him, and he vows to change and be a nice guy? Or this behavior is ingr... (90 words)

Does getting a brazilian wax hurt as much as it looks and does it last longer than shaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - I usually shave all my pubic hair off but it's got to the point that after I've shaved it off, it starts to grow back within a couple of days. I was thinking of maybe getting a brazilian next time and was wanting some information. Do they hurt as much as they look like ... (102 words)

I can't stop these strong feelings of jealousy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i need some help i have a major problem with jealopusy and insecurity, my boyfriuend has a female friend who i personally think is a slut and who flirts with him he says she doesnt but she does, and somefriends have noticed this is how i found out. He tried to stop seeing ... (181 words)

How so females masterbate. I don't know how.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know how to masterbate... (7 words)

I had a mad encounter with this man....he stared at me for 5 whole seconds!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok This is going to sound like a strange question, but today I had a mad encounter with this man, I know him and have done for about a year, but we don’t converse, just say hello. This morning I was going on with my work, and I met someone I also know and we were just having a... (118 words)

I feel like I did something wrong, because he is contacting his ex and won't admit it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend won't admit to trying to contact his ex girlfriend. I have been with him for 3 years, and we just got a house together about 2 weeks ago. I found out about a month and a half ago that he has been trying to contact his ex girlfriend. I first found this out by seei... (296 words)

How can I gain her trust again when I haven't done anything wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - we broken up a 1 month today and all i have done is think about her, we worked at the same place but i left 3 weeks ago now. i broke up with her thing she was see a friend of hers it seemed she had more time for him than me. i didnt know what i was doing wrong. i found out she ... (203 words)

Why did he even bother to email? He said he just wanted to say hi. Is that the real reason? How can I get him to want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with a man that I dated for like only 3 months. We were very much in love, but at the same time we both had our own issues - nothing that couldn't be worked through. Anyhow, I got upset and broke up with him - he didn't do anything wrong, really, I was just upset. ... (158 words)

Am I being needy or should I speak up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help. I'm often at a loss at the beginning of relationships when and when not to open my mouth and speak up if something bothers me. I know a lot of people will say, "you should always be open with your partner, no matter what." But as a woman, I am highly emotional ... (438 words)

My life is controlled by love, I hate it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 years old, i have been madly in love with somebody for almost three years, they have been the most miserable three years of my life. the Reason for this is because the love is unrequited. He/she is my best friend, we get along perfectly never argue and i couldnt as... (232 words)

I can't have an orgasm after I found my husband looking at porn sites! I'm also pregnant...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past my husband has had no problem making me achieve multiple orgasms. last month I found porn sites on his computer and I am four months pregnant. I cant seem to have an orgasm since, I even had to fake it for the first time in our relationship. I cant seem to get the ... (109 words)

Any ideas on how to distract myself while my boyfriend is away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey (: not a major issue but one i would like some help with if possible, basically my bf is going away for two weeks to america soon, obviously the time difference and what have you will make it hard to keep in contact so i would like some ideas on how to keep distracted and ... (70 words)

I'm in love with a mean, rude boy who does nothing but treat me bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have bet having a problem, I'm in love with the rude,mean boy. He does nothing but treat me bad.I was wondering if I should deny his friendship and leave him alone. He was with my bestfriend in the start , and that how we met. He did nothing but tease me. He even told me ... (220 words)

I met one of my girlfriend's friends and now I sort of want to date her. But if things went wrong, I'd like to go back to my current girlfriend. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. ive been with my gf (im 15 she's 14) for close to 2 mths. yesterday, her school had a pep rally (she lives about a half hour away). I went to hang out with her, but she's a cheerleader, and most of the time i didn't see her. I met two of her friends, and we got pretty close ... (439 words)

I was tired of waiting for commitment so we "took a break". Could there be a "happily ever after" in all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about 8 months now and throughout, he says he wasn't ready for a relationship. I'm kind of tired of waiting so recently we decided to 'take a break' in order for him to figure what he wants. We established that we wont be seeing other people ... (135 words)

I don't have any other symptoms other than being EXTREMELY emotional. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I take birth control, and when I went to refill my Rx, there was a problem with it so i picked it up a few days late. I took two the first day I got it, two the next day. Then I realized I had taken one too many so I didnt take one for a day. Now Im back on track but my bf and ... (100 words)

I don't want to be reponsible for my sister in law's brother, how do I explain this to my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My brother is married to this girl name Meghan. Her parents and my parents have also gotten close. My parents and her parents being close is a good thing since my brother and her are married. Well my parents don't understand that Meghan's little brother is 15 years old and me... (269 words)

I don't want a relationship but at my age (I'm 16, he's 17) is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy are what you'd call "freinds with benefits" We're pretty good freinds, and after we have sex its not like awkward to talk to him or just be his freind. I don't even get jealous when were together and he's desperately flirting with my best freind. We're the ... (110 words)

My online friend said he loves me but I fear his love is only platonic and that he does not understand mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well, I met this guy over the internet who is just a year older than me. We met, chatted and had a laugh as friends. We talk on msn all the time and I love him as more than friend. Recently he told me he loved me but I fear his love is only platonic towards me. ... (103 words)

I like my brother's roommate. How do I tell my brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite complicated. My brother is 20 and is attending a university four hours away from where i live, and where i will go for college. I met his friend, we got along very well, we've been talking on the phone for two months, everyday. Last month, my brother and i went up ... (131 words)

He wanted to leave as friends, but later decided he wanted to give this LDR a try; 5 days later, no words from him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known this man (he's 28), been friends for 3 years. About a year ago he went through a divorce and a couple months later began flirting with me. I didn't play back. He got excepted into this program (he's military), so I thought that we should get some people together ... (198 words)

What is the likelihood of me becoming pregnant from this episode?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay ... after searching the archives, I haven't found anything similar to what I want to ask ... So, last Tuesday (19th August), I gave my boyfriend a hand job in the shower. He came on my legs and belly, and my legs were closed. What is the likelihood of me becoming pregnan... (58 words)

Is it normal to not want to eat after you've been fingered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and was recently fingered since then, i have had no desire to eat its not like im not hungry, coz i am, i just seem to prefer it. i still eat breakfast lunch and dinner its just my portions have less than halved and i dont snack anymore, which i used to do a lot. i kno... (96 words)

I want to write a letter to my boyfriend about his 'bad behavior'. Where do I begin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend 6 yrs now and we have the most adorable son who is 4. the thing is bout yr ago my boyfriend cheated on me with some one i no, i didnt take it so wel but after abit i forgave him(only coz i love him) but i wil neva forget, which i thought, but aftre ... (313 words)

My friend was hurtful to me, and now she's mad at me. Shouldn't it be me who is angry at her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend kept winding me up about supposedly fancying a teacher at our school. I didn't like him as he is probably 4 times my own age and it was beginning to tire. First she text me and said what's his [the teacher's] real name? So I told her his first name. She replie... (274 words)

Is it wrong to date or start seeing my brother in law's cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have no intention on acting on this but this question popped into my head and i i'm jus curious, is it wrong to date or start seeing my brother in law's cousin? he is not related to me in anyway but is related to my brother in law. Thanks for your help... (56 words)

We only have sex when she initiates it and we argue all the time! Does she not want to be with me anymore?

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24 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship with my fiance for a lil over a year now. all of a sudden the sex has become non existent unless she wants it, we constantly argue, she is always at the neighbors house, i would like to know if she really wants to be with me or what i should ... (58 words)

Is the past something you should worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Kay.. I'm 19 and this has been my first real life girlfriend. She's had a rough past. She's really open to talking to me so she's told me a lot of what she's done.. and.. a lot of the things she has done bother me. Yesterday, it hurt a lot when I found out she's made out w... (566 words)

I'm afraid he will think I don't like him because he has no legs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a very nice guy. he is so handsome and successful. his is an amputee. he lost his two legs in the age of 10. now, he likes me and i'm still not sure of my feelings towards him. he told my friend that he really likes me and wants to propose to me if i just give a sign of ... (118 words)

Should I masurbate or will it affect my health?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - HI all, i want ask that can i masturbate ? i'm 22. i masturbate every week after watching some porn. i never had sex with any girl. will this effect my health or not. some time i'm curious. i'm 22 170cm and my weight is 65 KG ? please guide me.... (53 words)

Why does my friend never touch me in bed? Is he the type that waits for the woman to initiate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age - I have known my friend for a year and we have seen each other socially, on and off. On about four different occasions when I stayed over at his place he wanted me to share his bed, but he doesn't kiss me, except lightly on my lips to say goodnight and the last time I was ... (128 words)

What can I do for this guy I like to open up more to me? He is my e-mail friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm friends by email with this guy who btw is military (Air force). We met in person a while back in one of his missions. We flirted and I could sensed he liked me btw he looked at me and flirted with me. We actually treated like if he knew from long time ago. But....h... (247 words)

I'm getting no response from him, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - During university, i had a connection with 1 certain person. we became friends, however, i made sure nothing happened between as i wanted it to mean a lot more as we both knew we had a special connection. anyway, nothing happened, we both left uni. 12 years on, i contacted ... (144 words)

The only way my wife can climax is by "woman on top" or by touching herself, a problem she had in her previous marriage. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and i have a great sex life and we realy enjoy trying new positions. The one thing is that i am unable to make my wife cum whether it be lying on top / using my fingers or oraly. The only way she can cum is if she is on top of me and sometimes if she touches her self. W... (110 words)

My husband has become more and more withdrawn with the passing years. Now the kids are grown ups, is it worth me staying? How can I make him change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age - I've been married for 26 years and for about 6 or 7 years my husband has got more and more withdrawn - we exchange information but don't really talk, we haven't had sex in that time and he goes to the pub every night (he says its only for the last half an hour so that's ok!). ... (82 words)

He called me his sex buddy and that he would tell me in case he sleeps with other women!! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy a month ago but the night we met he went on holiday the next day, when he came home he asked to meet me so i went round to his and we ended up having sex, a week later (friday just gone) he asked to go and see him again this time he was being very sweet and kept ... (172 words)

My girlfriend is very easily aroused and it's a problem to our sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I have a slight problem with my girlfriend. The situation is this, she is very easily turned on and when I go down on her she has normally already come and I don't just mean a little, I mean a lot, I love her to bits but I can't stand, you know, before I have done ... (76 words)

What does "easy going" mean? My friends say he's just playing with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently started seeing a guy but I'm abit confused about what he wants. Both of us have had a long term relationship where we were very deeply hurt and in his case it was a matter of the girl leaving him not because she had to but she was forced too. It's been two years ... (828 words)

Nasty boyfriend, very selfish and only wants to do things his way. Can't be with him but can't be without him either!

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been with my boyfriend 4 nearly 4 years now, we've always had ups and downs like most relationships but recently i strayed slightly and he knows everything and keeps throwin it back at me even after hes forgiven me and taken me back. he is selfish and only wants to do what ... (126 words)

With all I saw I am almost certain she was cheating, what do you think? Our relationship is now over.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We really clicked. Soon after we started having a relationship and were both very smitten. After six months some cracks appeared and I suspected her though dismissed this to prior relationships going bad and me expecting the ... (295 words)

Is it unreasonable for me to be angry and feel insulted when my boyfriend occasionally fails to orgasm after an hour of sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it unreasonable for me to be angry and feel insulted when my boyfriend fails to orgasm after an hour of sex because he is tired or his back hurts? This happens to us almost half the time. I'm certain he is not cheating on me. I want to tell him how I feel but am afraid that ... (78 words)

I love my boyfriend AND HIS FRIEND! I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I love him very much. In the past few months I have developed very strong feelings for one of his friends who I have known for as long as my boyfriend (2 years). Even though I really care about my boyfriend I can't stop thi... (70 words)

Desperately in love with a man whose daughter hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend's daughter, 23 years old, "daddy's girl" hates me. I have tried everyhing to be "win her over". Despite this, she talks so mean to me. She is jealous since she does not have a boyfriend, coupled with this, she is completely dependent on her father. She has no r... (117 words)

Is there a "right" way to ask out a married woman at work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! My question is slightly controversial (so humble apologies in advance!). Is there a 'right way' to ask out a married woman at work? Is the protocol different vs asking out single women at work? I know I should really consider married women to be 'off limits' but then the ... (140 words)

He has told me he would come to me if I was interested and I am but my conscience says no because he's married. Any views?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age - I am very recently divorced. I was devastated by this , my husband left me and the children for another woman. For 25 years and long before I was married I knew this other man. I always liked him but sadly chose my ex husband over him and he then went on to marry someone el... (164 words)

Is it okay to have sex with my clerk?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a married man 35yrs and am attracted to my female office clerk aged 22 yrs who is married for the last one year.we both are together in office for 8 hrs. is it okk to have sex with her regularly and how to attract towards me. pls advice.... (50 words)

I'm crushing on this guy who is married and I'm married too but I'm a little confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm crushing on this guy who is married and I'm married too but I'm a little confused. He said that he was married and he didn't think he could ever do anything like that. He did give me a hug and a kiss after we talked about all the little flirty things he thought was cute and ... (213 words)

I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and when I notice that, sometimes ... (79 words)

My parents are against my boyfriend and will disown me if I don't listen to them...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 24 years old and very soon will be 25. i love my b/f and wants to marry him. But my parents are against it and they wil disown me if i go aginst them. i m in dilemma what should i do? let me explain in detail. we are in relatinship for last 6 years. he was always clear... (422 words)

I'm over it, why is my ex acting so horrible? It is unfathomable to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice. There is a guy I had a short relationship with last year. He got scared, backed away, was really hurtful and rude. Okay,I got over it. Since then his behaviour has been really weird and it is bothering me. It's been eight months... what's going on? He and ... (370 words)

What does it mean when a man says he is still attracted to you...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

age - Okay what does it mean when a man says he is still attracted to you? Does that mean he still loves you? ... (22 words)

Everyone thinks I'm gay because I got an erection while changing in the locker room.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - alright well i have a gf and have never thought about sex with men before but i was changing out in the locker room and got an erection so now every1 thinks im gay what do i do?... (38 words)

I feel awkward to meet old school friends, most are married while I don't even have a boyfriend. Will I ever find someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

- Over the past few weeks i have met up with loads of old school friends and its got me thinking. They are all married with kids now and im feeling really down. I haven't even got a boyfriend. They all seem so happy and im wondering if ill ever find someone for me. I thought my ... (80 words)

How could I bring up the subject of sex to her and get her feelings? Any tips about sex with a deaf partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had a long time friend who is a beautiful deaf woman. Despite being deaf she still looks normal and works at a professional job. We have been dating for a little while. We enjoy spending time together and doing things like watching movies with subtitles, walki... (511 words)

I will accept her invitation, so how can I tell her that I want to have sex with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Not too long ago after graduating from college I went to spend a vacation at a resort. It was planned to be a trip that a few of us were going to do together. In the end none of the others made it. I went alone to the resort. I thought it still would be ok not to ment... (498 words)

I am totally in love with this guy and he says he cant go out with me again because he see's me as a sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 August 2008 (F)

- I am totally in love with this guy and he says he cant go out with me again because he see's me as a sister. Our families have been friends for about 20years, almost my whole life. I have grown up with them and i can see his point but thought it would be great to date someone ... (79 words)

Am I scared of loving?

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24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres this girl, and she is totaly in love with me, and we dated for less than half a month, Ive been overseas for 2 months before that, and we met 2 days before I left. she broke up with her BF to be with me. we have had sex in many ocations, and I realy liked her, but now, I ... (259 words)

How do I get to spend time with her away from the conference?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I have a sexual fantasy that I would like to live out. Perhaps you can tell me how. As part of my job I go to many conferences in different cities. These conferences last for a few days to a week. At these conference I often see a beautiful woman that I would like to ta... (101 words)

Did I miss out on the opportunity for sex? How can I bring this chance again?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - The other day my neighbor asked if I could help her select an outfit for a business evening dinner she was going to. After talking in her living room she called me back to her walk-in closet in her bedroom. I should say that I think that she is hot. She said that she had to ... (207 words)

Would calling it making love rather than sex be better?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I found your website while surfing the net. I understand that you give advice regarding sexuality. I am in college and my parents have a cabin by a lake. Last summer I spent the break there. My mum also invited a friend. This friend was going to spend a week. I have n... (845 words)

My husband basically called me mental and said please get help from a counselor

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24 August 2008 (F)

age - My husband basically called me mental ad said please get help from a counselor.He also told me I am incompeteny. I have childhood issues about not being smart but I know from I.Q. testing I am way above average.What do I say as a boundary and how do I have him not speak to ... (70 words)

Now he wants to take photos of us during sex. I think it will be fun and sexy. How can we do this?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I find each other attractive. He has taken photos of me in the nude and I have taken photos of him naked as well. Now he wants to take photos of us during sex. I think it will be fun and sexy. How can we do this? What advice do you have? ... (62 words)

What advance positions would you recommend that we may have not tried yet?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I enjoy sex very much. We are experimenting with new positions. I have heard about positions known as The Brazilian Bed Lock and the Robin's Nest. Do you have information about how to do them? What are some of the benefits of them? I really enjoy posit... (122 words)

I'm not sure that I want to break up with him yet, I'm still thinking about it but I need your advice on what to do??

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. and i guess it's been pretty serious. in the past, i've been in many relationships, that were almost pointless. but my boyfriend and i are really close. i've never been like this with any of my boyfriends and i ... (158 words)

What do I say to my 10 year-old son after he saw us having sex?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I was having sex with my neighbour and my 10 year old son walked in and saw us. It kind of spoiled the mood just as we were getting into it. I have taught my son to always knock and wait for someone to answer before entering a room.I am a single mother and think that I am ... (217 words)

I am debating as to whether or not it would be ok to have sex with this younger man-any advice?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Some background may help. I am a woman in my early 40’s. My former husband and I were high school sweethearts and married. He and I had one son. About six years ago just before my husband died unexpectedly we adopted two children. After the death of my husband our son became an ... (502 words)

How do I ask her what noises she makes without being crude?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I know this very beautiful woman. I would like to have sex with her at some point. However, I don't think it is going to happen now. I am courious as to the sounds she makes when receiveing sexual pleasure, during the sex act, during intercourse, and as well as during a... (99 words)

How could I let her know of my interest in sex with her without putting her on the spot?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving and I we have remained friends which is cool. From dating my ex- girlfriend I have gotten to know her mom well. She is a very nice woman and very attractive. The other night I gave her a rub down. It was kind ... (536 words)

How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I have a question about arousal. How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused? Is this something that you can tell when a woman is fully clothed or is this only noted when she is in the nude? At this point is she ready for intercourse or is foreplay necessary? W... (101 words)

Every bit of me wants to leave and be with him but then I think of my children and that my husband does love me?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age - My husband has been extremely hard to live with for the past few years. He has wanted to control every aspect of our lives. If I let the cats out there would be a big upset that lasted hours until the cats were home again. He made me feel unattractive and unsure of myself. ... (209 words)

What advice/information do you have about a nooner?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 41-50 - My long time boyfriend and I are interested in having a nooner. What advice/information do you have about them? Could we have it in an office or is it better to come home for it? ... (45 words)

What are some things to consider when thinking about this?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I will give some background. I am a single parent and my son has just finished college. From my son attending college I have gotten to know his roommate. He is also from a single parent family. Over the four years his roommate and I have become closer. He first started to think ... (238 words)

Do you have some advice for knowing when he is ready for intercourse?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are into each other and have been dating. I am 18 and he will soon turn 18. Both myself or my boyfriend has had sex. However, we both have said that we want to and want it to be special. We have talked about it and decided that it should be with someone ... (251 words)

Any information about finding a place and time for sex?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend Joe is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later Joe's parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. After some searching they ended ... (754 words)

Can you give me advice as to how make this fantasy come true for him?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Lately my lover and I have been talking about our sexual fantasies. This has led to exploration of our fantasies. Lately he has been fulfilling my sexual fantasies. Having said that I want to fulfil one of his sex fantasies. One of his desires is to have sex with me in a ... (203 words)

What are some activities/ways of making love that we can do that don't involve intercourse?

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24 August 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be nothing better for him than to see me ... (197 words)

Any chance I could have sex with her on the night of the reunion?

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24 August 2008 (M) age 41-50 - My situation involves my old high school sweetheart. In jr. high school I met her and thought she was cute. We became friends and had a lot fun. In high school we dated. I went to the high school prom with her and we had a fun time. We wanted to take our relationship further, ... (313 words)

Should I be worried that something is going behind my back?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 year now, since high school. we were eachothers first everything. I know that he loves me, and I know that he always will. He still tells me that he wants to marry me and wants to have kids with me. I believe him. However, he hasnt had a cell ... (195 words)

My Fiancee doesn't want to have sex with me!

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and have been with my fiance for 4 years. My Fiance doesnt want to ever have sex with me. and I feel like he always has excuses. like: too tierd, legs hurt...ect. I think its all BS. Yes we both work a lot at our age but I'm so depressed. I feel like its point less ... (124 words)

If a guy has a girlfriend, and dumps her, comes back and kisses you, and then returns to his girlfriend, what does this all mean, I am totally confused?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - If a boy tells u he likes you but has a girlfriend and then dumps her comes and kisses u passionatly then gets back with his girlfriend days later but still tells u he likes u what does that mean.? I Am really really confussed anyone with some good advice pleaseee replyy.... (55 words)

If you have sex once, and your hymen is not completely torn, will it heal with time?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was wondering if it's possible for like, if you have sex once, and maybe don't tear the hymen completely...after time and time goes by, can the hymen heal??... (30 words)

I met this guy that I like on vacation, we call each other and e-mail long distance, how do I keep his interest, as I would like to have a relationship in the future?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well two years ago I met Jonathon on vacation we hung out a lot at the hotel and all. Nothing happened and he gave me his e mail,cell,and house phone number. It was sad for me though because he is from England and I'm from America. I know we may never meet again until we... (317 words)

I just got my period, and for three nights prior to that, I had intense sexual dreams, I get turned on during the day by anything, is this a part of PMS, and will this continue, it is embarrassing?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay kind of an embarrassing question but... I just got my first-ever period yesterday and for three nights beforehand, I was having intense sex dreams and I'd get turned on during the day by just about anything. Lol is that like part of PMS? Is it going to happen every tim... (60 words)

I have lost my best friend by listening to lies other people told me, I am sad all the time over this, what can I do to feel better, and also not feel so insecure?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - it hurts me that an ex bestfriend didn't say happy birthday to me. We were best friends, almost like sisters for 5 years and every time on our birthdays we went out both our families together at this reasturant. This year nothing happened and I wished that maybe atleast she ... (694 words)

My girfriend and I broke up, she is coming over to get her things, how can I get her back?

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24 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey well my gf broke up with me and she is coming in 3 days to pick up her clothes she left at my house. What can I do so I can get her back? ... (36 words)

I have a new boyfriend, who is great, but I keep thinking about my ex, who was always fighting with me and making me cry, but I am confused about who I should be with, please help?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well i had a boyfriend in highschool for over three years. we were so happy at the beginning of our relationship. things went downhill quickly and we were always fighting and i was always crying. i tried talking to other guys so i could move on but i only wanted my ... (236 words)

Is there some way, that I can get my wife to squirt when she has an orgasm, this turns me on?

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24 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was wondering what i can do to my wife to get her to squirt when she has an orgasim that is a major turn on for me and would like her to be able to do it... (38 words)

Once a man choses one of two women and has a sexual relationship with her, why does he keep flirting with the other one, and getting jealous over her?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age - I have a question especially for all you guys out there (gals can answer as well). When a guy chooses one woman over the other and starts a sexual relationship with her, why on earth does he keep flirting with the one he didn't choose? And why would he be jealous when she ... (59 words)

My girlfriend pays me no attention, we only have sex, if she wants to, what do I do about this?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My girl wont pay me ant attention, she only have sex with me if she feels like it what should I do?... (22 words)

We have started to talk again, after two or three years ago when we dated, I think I am falling for him again, but don't want to mess things up, what should I do?

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24 August 2008 (F)

- so me and this guy dated like 2 or 3 years ago and we recently started talking and i think im falling for him again but i dont know if i should tell him because i dont want to ruin anything what should i do?... (46 words)

Should we end this relationship, because we are cousins, we are in love, but don't know what to do, please help?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well here's the deal. I never had contact with my father's family until this summer, in other words i never met them before. After 3 weeks spending everyday with my aunt(my father's sister), his husband and my two cousins, my cousin and i found ourselves madly in love and ... (173 words)

Can you love someone, even though they don't know that you like them more than just as a friend?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you love someone even though they don't know you like them more than a friend.... (16 words)

I was in a three year relationship, and the way it was ended, I don't feel I have closure, what can I do with this terrible pain?

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24 August 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a relationship or when to let t... (1382 words)

I get butterflies in my stomach, when I am with him, and I think about him all the time, when we are apart, but I cannot say "I love You", what is the problem?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've met this great guy and whenever I'm near him and we're together talking, I get butterflies in my stomach and my heart beats faster. He says the most poetic things that takes my breath away. When we're apart I'm always constantly thinking about him and the things ... (205 words)

I hav been chatting with this guy and would like to meet him, but I am wondering, if my financial status would make a difference in whether he would like me or not, what do you think?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i just would like to ask a general question and get some input of what other people think.when you are getting to know someone,how important do you think financial status is in deciding whether to seriously date that person? i live in a poor area,but i have a steady job,a ho... (221 words)

I am afraid that I am gay, I like to watch porn movies, could I be gay or what?

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24 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 14(male} am i worried that im gay i get erections both sides mainly the women but that still doesent convince me because when i watch porn i like a certain type of porn(blowjob) i know you dont want to hear this but im scared.. and i cant watch it if its got a small ... (58 words)

My parents won't let me date at 16. How can I get them to loosen up?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, Im sixteen but I cannot date. So do any of you guys have a idea of what I could say to persuade my parents otherwise?... (26 words)

My friend saw me kissing my boyfriend at the bus stop last night ... but I was at my sister's house all night. Could he be cheating?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Well..!! basicly! im mega mega pissed off with my so called boyfriend and really dont know what to do! right so last night i was stayin at my sisters and my boyfriend phoned me askin if i wanted to go n meet him so i said i couldnt cos i was spendin time wi ma sister! n ... (272 words)

A younger boy thinks I'm his girlfriend. How can I set him straight without hurting him?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 15 in may their is this guy in my neibgorhood he is 11 12 soon i kinda like him i we snuggle alot and i know he rlly like me (he told my bff) One day we were playing truth or dare and i got dared to kiss him on the check i said ok so i leaned in to do it and he moved ... (109 words)

I like him, but I'm holding back because I don't want to get hurt again.

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and a good friend of mine recently admitted to having feelings for one another... again. He's hurt me before, and kind of scared me... so I'm being extra cautious. His relationships also have the tendency to be very short. But I can't help liking him... We hung out today, ... (122 words)

I can't trust my fiance because he lied to me about his porn habit and masturbation.

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had what I thought was a happy relationship and a satifying one, until I found a porn magazine in the bathroom. Then my Fiance' lied about it and said a friend gave it to him when he really bought it, then I found out that he was looking at dirty U tube videos online and ... (127 words)

I met a perfect guy, and he's nice, but there's no spark.

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking to this boy on myspace, we both liked each other so we met up. Hes PERFECT, good looking, great personality, same interests. and i had a great time. Although there is no spark!! Ive met him like 4 times since then and still no chemisty/spark and weve been cuddling... (185 words)

What should an 11 year old say when his girl says she loves him?

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24 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend just told me the other day that she loves me. I had no f***ing idea what to say. We have a date on monday, what should I do if she says it again... (35 words)

I can't keep up with my boyfriend in the bedroom.

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - soo me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 year now and to be honest hes SEX CRAZY we have sex 26 days of the month! we only dont for 4 because its my time of the month, weve been secually active for about 8 months now! and yeah its great, but i cant keep up ... (102 words)

I'm getting brown spots on my forehead. What could they be?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate it if any specialists or dermatologists can help with this one. I am really desperate. Please help. I am an attractive young girl aged 31, and up until 3 years ago I had perfect, flawless skin. Now, over the last year I developed these ugly brown spots on my ... (163 words)

My best friend wants a guy just to keep me from having him. Should I date him even though she will no longer be my friend?

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24 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ill try to make it as less complicated as i can! i went to a party last night, my best friend (sarah)s 17th and there was this guy there! james, sooon as i saw him i thought *wow he looks gorgeous tonight!* (we had met before, and id liked him before) so anyway, after a ... (438 words)