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writes:ok so my girlfriend went to a party got drunk and kissed two other girls, i dont know what to do about it, i just want to know what would you do if it was you in this situation ? please help me :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): truthfully, i'd feel lucky to have a girlfriend thats comfortable doing that sort of stuff with another girl, thats a huge turn-on for me... just tell her to let you watch lol its great trust me
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): I kissed a girl in front of my then bf once and he didn't like it either. After talking it out with him afterward, I learned that he felt threatened by it, apparently. Truth was, I hadn't really thought about it that way; it was a dare-type thing gone a little too far perhaps and I will say I wanted to see what it was like. **I** know I would never have left him for a woman, as I don't swing that way, but he still got jealous and we had a fight about it. I never did it again and we broke up later for other reasons.I know many guys who would not have cared at all, though. And I really don't think that it's cheating in the same sense as kissing someone of the gender you're attracted to would be. Maybe if your girlfriend also likes girls you should be concerned about it...but otherwise, I'd write it off as experimentation and move on
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Some people, when they're drunk, do some of the most randomest things and they don't remember anything about it the next day. Just ask those countless of men who have married strange women at Vegas.
So, my guess is that she was too drunk to know what she was doing, so you can't blame too much of this on her. But what I would suggest you to do is just talk to her about this situation and tell her about what she made you feel when she kissed those two girls. She has to know that her actions hurt you and probably next time, she will try to control her drinking.
Good luck with your conversation and I hope she understands.
To anonymous female reader:
What the HELL are you talking about? He's obviously distressed his girlfriend kissed another girl and you tell him that she had every right to do so? and that he's being an ass for getting worried about it? Come on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): It is HER BODY and she has the right to do whar she wants. If you cannot respect that you then you do not deserve her, and if you make a big issue of it then she better moves on and finds another guy who appreciates her. She's a young beautiful queen, so learn to see her that way, and treat her that way.
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (19 August 2008):
 I would do nothing. Girls are generally more comfortable with themselves than guys. They also dont have the big fear factor that guys have with kissing the same sex. It sounds like it was a drunken laugh. So I would think nothing of it, or if you are still unsure just ask her about it.
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (19 August 2008):
 It's become sort of a part of our "party culture" these days. To be open, promiscuous, free spirited.
It probably doesn't mean anything, so I wouldn't worry about it. But if it bothered you, just let her know next time you go out partying. Tell her that it's cool to cut loose and have fun, but to be mindful of how you feel about it. Kissing boys, kissing girls, nonetheless.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (19 August 2008):
 As they are girls and as long as it was a bit of fun then you shouldn't be too worried
She was probable just experimenting but i would talk to her about it and if you really don't like it then tell her not to do it again because you class it as cheating
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