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Does he even remotely feel my pain? Do guys hurt like girls in a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been a relationship for 2 years with a guy that I thought I would marry. We have been having alot of problems for the past several months. He continued to push the relationship because he wanted a life with me. We tried to work through things, but something would ... (165 words

Am I too young for Electrolysis?

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10 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I have a problem with facial hair on my upper lip. I was wondering about Electrolysis treatment. Does anyone know anything about it? How much does it cost to get it done in a clinic? I'm only 14, so am I too young for Electrolysis? Any information is great, thanks.... (52 words

What can I send him to get my point across, but not let him know its me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I want to send this guy who played/used me a nasty anonymous text message. He's now "seeing" this other girl even though he's leaving next week and she's moving away. What can I send him to get my point across but not let him know its me?... (48 words

I realized too late what I really had. I want her back so badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - She was crazy about me and wanted to be with me about a year ago and i just wasent ready to be in a relashionship and wasent fully attracted to her apearance. and when i say she wanted to be with me i mean like shed practically stalk me and have our mutual freind always try and ... (952 words

I can't stop thinking about a girl who is half my age.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age - Hi. I am in my early fifties and i am lusting after a girl who is half my age. I am married man, so i feel very guilty about fancying this girl, but i find i cannot stop thinking about her. I am not in the habit of fancying girls of her age and i probably won't again. She li... (462 words

We were starting a relationship and he went back to his ex. Should I stay angry? Or should I move on?

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10 August 2008 (F age - This guy at work liked me and we were starting to develop something between us when his ex came along when she saw what was happening and he went back with her. This happened a few weeks ago and I'm finding it very difficult to be anywhere near him. I can't talk to him, look ... (105 words

What do men really mean when they say they "can't be in a relationship"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (F - A question for men: What do you realy mean when you tell a woman you cant be in a "relationship"?... (23 words

Could he really have got over our relationship so quickly?

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10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi Everyone - I've had some great help from many of you over the past year or so regarding me ending a relationship. To cut a long story short, my ex-partner and I were together for 4 years before I ended things - that was originally in February 2007. He kept texting me ... (326 words

I'm madly in love with him, but I know he doesn't feel the same way

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Theres this boy at school whos 2 years older than me and i never really took any interest in him before but then about 4-5 months ago my mate told him that i fancied him which was a total lie, but i found it really embarrassing! For the next 2 months he was flirting with me a ... (273 words

Married, and thought I was over being bi. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear All A really strange thing happened to me...I used to be bi sexual . .. well umm not exactly. i was just influenced by some lesbian gfs and i got it on with a girl.. Also at that time my parents were very strict and i wasnt allowed to date boys so i took my chances and e... (193 words

Shy, Inexperienced Guy Needs Answers

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old guy, in school, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on date. I'm still a complete virgin, never even had a first kiss yet. I'm normal and intelligent. The thing is I am just really shy and nervous, especially around girls. I really hate it ... (234 words

We've been through so much but now she's gone and I'm a mess.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have a very complex situation…in 2004 I met a woman at work. I was 21 and she was 27. I was so attracted to her and although I already had a girlfriend, I had to have her. I approached her and she told me that she had a boyfriend that she lived with, so she couldn’t go any ... (1058 words

I want a time line or garuntee that I'm not hanging around for nothing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. Our relationship has had it ups and downs, but I feel that every day we get stronger and have truly grown up together. I only have one problem, I don't see our present changing into a future. I can't see us ever ... (516 words

We broke up--can I get him back or do I move on?

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10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Myself and my ex have gotten bACK TOGETHER NOW AND THINGS HAVE BEEN GOING ON FOR OVER A YEAR. WE SPLIT UP DUE TO him being in a funny place but i know he loves me. he told me recently that he doesnt want to see me as he knows he wouldnt be able to stay away and that wouldnt be ... (133 words

My husband cheated--is there any hope for us to move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me. I am heartbroken, but still in love with him. He loves me too, I know this for certain. Has anyone out there had a spouse cheat, then eventually move forward into a loving and faithful relationship with that spouse? I need some hope right now...... (51 words

I miss him when he's gone, but don't like living with him--help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - help i'm troubled, everyone normally turns to me for help, i dont know why, as i cant help myself lol..anyway's i've been with my partner seriously on and off for nearly 4 yrs, and we cant seem to get it together..when i'm with him, he eventually bugs me just his negeativity ... (192 words

We had no-strings sex, but now I'm confused what is going on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hello, Need some advice please. Been friends with a colleague at work for 3 years, getting along well and a little v. innocent flirting within strict boundaries since both in long-term relationships. Both relationships finished - his 18 months ago and mine earlier this yea... (282 words

Should I ask her to wait for the wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - So My fiance is probably pregnant as you probably heard in the last question, sorry if i bug you guys. But she says that if shes pregnant she wants to get married before we have the baby. I would marry her tommorow if i could, but id rathernot have her pregnant when we get ... (95 words

Will I not enjoy it because they're big?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hiya everyone I know this is a really random question but i would like some advice please. I have pretty big breast (34ff), and i have heard someone that the bigger they are the less feeling you will have due to nerves or something. I was wondering if this is true. I have a ... (88 words

Is it worth finishing a degree?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Not a relationship question sorry but a life decision question. Is it worth completing a degree? Does having one actually change people's lives that much? Just in a quandry about whether to finish it. Thanks... (49 words

She made me get rid of my photos, but is holding on to hers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - My wife made me destroy all the pictures I had of all former women, just friends also. Recently I just found pictures of some of her old boyfriends also (one of whom she has his name and hers tattooed on her leg)when we were going through some old boxes. me thinking logically ... (105 words

We were just a fling--is it still just physical for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey i need some help and im hoping someone can advise me about my situation... i recently got together with this guy after a being unoffical with him for 8 months... we started off just as a fling, just fooling around and enjoying each others company, i had fallen for him s... (268 words

He tells me their affair has ended, can I believe him? Why are they still talking??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband had an affair. We have been married for almost 13 years. He has apologized and said that he would not cheat again, and that he wanted to close the door to that part of his life. He said he wants to work things out with me. For the last month things have been goin... (339 words

Even though I'm in a happy relationsship I cannot stop thinking about my friend... help me forget her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - Im in serious need of help/advice, im love two women. The one is my current girlfriend going on 5 years now, we have a great relationsship. The other is my friend, who ive known for about 7 years. She has never been a close/best friend but since she started dating my all-time... (216 words

Is it possible that I did not feel when I squirted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend last night - wasn't our first itme or anything but I apparently did something i've never done before. Since we've started having sex he's been determined to make me cum because I've never cum during sex - I can only cum on my own. Anyways so we're ... (138 words

Should I tell his family my version of the story if it will assist me in getting over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been in an 8 year relationship with a man and he has dumped me over and over again so he could go sit out at the lake all summer without feeling guilty.He has promised me twice that we would move in together, then has literally put me and my kids in a position with ... (428 words

I felt sick, nervous, angry and upset because he texted his ex in my presence!...

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, I've been in several relationships, of which I have been cheated on and pretty much all of them were long, drawn out break ups that included another girl and now I get really worried about little things that my current boyfriend does. I was with him yesterday and I ... (435 words

Why does he lie about who sends him messges? What should I do?

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10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfreind to whom i am pregnant lies to me, he always lies over who is texting him and who has sent him mail, it is sometimes girls who text or mail him and i do not have a prob with that but as he lies and i know he does it makes me wonder why? what is he hiding? I find i... (133 words

Me and my fiance are both bisexual... and afraid of our parents' reaction...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my fiance are both bisexual and have an extremely well working relationship, we love each other to no bounds and the sex is absolutely amazing. We are both extremely loyal and would never dream of cheating on each other. But the question is how do we tell our pare... (104 words

He seems so into me, but I do not have that spark for him. Can love grow from friendship?

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10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am confused, i don't know wether i want to be in a relationship or not. Its a long story... I was with a guy for 7 years and he left me for someone else.. broke my heart. Then 6 weeks later i got with a guy i thought was perfect he was crazy outgoing, amazing in bed, funny ... (384 words

My girlfriend is away on holiday for 2 weeks and I'm finding it hard to cope with the distance!

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10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend has gone on holiday recently and shes gone for 2 weeks but shes only been gone for 4 days and i am finding it hard to cope i dont know what to do does any one have any suggestions? ... (41 words

I took precautions, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey. Just needed some advice on something. I've had protected sex a couple of times in the last few weeks but I'm now late on my period by almost a week and I've had what feels like something hammering in my head for the last few days,I still have my appetite and my breasts ... (66 words

I need to find the courage to leave my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I need to find the courage to leave my boyfriend. Can anybody out there relate? We've been together 5 years and lived together for 3. I know I sound absolutely awful, but I keep thinking about how awkward the whole thing will be. We live together and we've signed a lease t... (158 words

I'm worried I've damaged myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just read about a girl on this that stuck a hairbrush into her vagina.. And other people saying she could turn sterile etc and its really worrying me as about a year and a half ago i read that you should practise sex with a carrot so that sex would be less painful but ever ... (160 words

Is it possible I might have a std? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - hey everyone yeah i have a question yeah i went to the pediatrition on friday and i was reading a booklet thing for the gardisil shot thing and it said tht if someone has the hpv virus it is an std but it said it does not have to include sexual intercourse but it could be by ... (123 words

How do I get to meet boys when I have no friends living close?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - hi there, okay so i am a 15yr old girl. I havnt had a boyfriend or even been kissed yet :( Like you watch films and read books and that with romance and whatever in it, and it just makes you feel you want to have a boyfriend - however sad that soundsI dont get out much coz all... (98 words

Where is it best to find bisexual women for intimate encounters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have always been bi-curious and have always wanted to experiment sexually with women. Experimenting with female friends or friends of friends is out of the question as I would like to do this in secret without all the unnecessary judgment and gossips and what not. What is the ... (97 words

Have I ruined it for me and him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - well ive known this boy for around 4 years and he is like my best friend and always calls me names messing about teases me and we have a good laugh. and the other day someone told him how i feel about him and since then the teasing has gone down and he is being a lot nicer an... (114 words

I'm losing touch with reality, help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 16, but for some reason I always feel like I've lost touch with reality, or like I'm in a dream? Does anyone think this is because I've been having sleeping problems for about a month or so, but just recently, I just feel like nothing is real anymore. Is this normal for a ... (66 words

How can I get my wife to use this sex toy with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - How do I ask my wife to use a strap-on dildo on me? I brought one for her and she didn't get it and I was afraid to tell he I wanted her to use it on me. PLease help.... (42 words

I need help to cope with my confusing friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friends too confusing. Ive been good friends with my friend for around three years. Recently we have got loads closer and was seeing eachother/phoning/texting each other loads. There wasn't a day go by without half a dozen texts from her or a 2 hour phone call, and i was st... (457 words

I feel lonely and depressed and my daughter is also miserable because she's 100% daddy's girl and can't stand to be away from him. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been with Lance for 5 years, we have a 3 year old daughter together but never married. Things were good the first couple of years but I need a change. After I finished college I started my career and gained more independence. I met someone else and thought I was in love, ... (232 words

Is there a second chance if you know you've changed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (? age 41-50 - I've been married to my wife for nearly two years, however 3 weeks ago she told me that she can no longer keep trying and that it is over. I pleaded with her to give me another chance, wrote her a letter, sent her flowers and went and stayed at a friend's for a few days, ... (350 words

He's mean to me for a joke, but it's hurtful. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just wondered if you could help me. My boyfriend is mean to me, for a joke, but it's hurtfull. I haven't talked to him about this because i dont want to upset him. Please help. Many thanks x... (41 words

His girlfriend is prioritised everytime, and it shows little regard for his mates.

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10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have this problem with people flaking on me. Especially, when it comes to their boyfriends/girlfriends wanting to meet them last minute. For instance, I arranged to meet up with my mate Sam, this is after a long speech where he made it clear how we don't hang out toge... (334 words

How do I know if he does decide to settle with me that he'll stay faithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok for a long while my cousin has tried to get me with her bf of two years' ((who I went to school with)) brother....and about a month and a half ago they introduced us. Turns out I went to school with the brother too. He had just dissappeared after a year and I never really ... (365 words

Old age, love and incest, is that so wrong?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

10 August 2008 (M age - Hello...My name is Leonard I am 80 years old been carrying on a relationship with my 66 year old married sister. I to am married, but we're in love. We have had sex together and will more, when we can. We both are in unhappy marrages and we live far apart, so we don't get toge... (91 words

We're having problems - as in, there is one rule for him and one rule for me.

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for the past 16 months. we are very serious about each other, but we are both at university and he wants to have his fun, go out clubbing which i dont mind, but he hates the thought of me going on nights out as he thinks i will get hit on etc. We... (108 words

I HAVE to get over my ex, but I just don't know how. Please help?

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10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well, the problem is, I am still truly in love with my ex, but he feels nothing more for me, I think. We still remain quite close friends, but I can't help but still look at him in that way. He didn't treat me exactly great in the relationship, but I used to glimpse this ... (237 words

Ever left your partner for someone else and had it work out?

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10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just wanted to ask...if anyone has ever left their partner for another and had it work out fine and been together for a long time? Cos all this gossipping and doubt from other people is making me paranoid. I left my boyfriend (of 3 1/2 years) for another guy who is absol... (261 words

He is constantly thinking I am cheating or lying! When I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I would really like some answers on why my boyfriend of over a year, constantly thinks that I am seeing someone behind his back or talking to someone, when I have never given him any reason to think those things.... (40 words

The guy I was dating went AWOL. I'm hurt, angry, and annoyed with MYSELF.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, Please help...I feel really bad. This guy I was dating went awol. This left me feelings hurt and upset. But the worse was after I tried to call him several times to no avail without a response. I sent him an insulting text. The point is this is not in my nature but... (286 words

I don't know what my ex is playing at. I can't be messed about like this any more, can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F - I have written on here previously about my issues with my ex boyfriend. but this weekend it has all come to a head.... I had to text him on friday (6th august~) about work related issues. Then from nowhere he tells starts texting me about what hes doing and that hes bored. ... (423 words

I'm in love and in a relationship with a 56 year old married man. I don't want to be in love with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. im 18 and have been in a relastionship for 2 years with a 56 year old married man who ive known for 6 years. i cant have any other relastionships because im so in love with him. but i dont want 2 be in love with him. it just makes me want to curl up in a hole and die....any ... (66 words

My man was sleeping with other women, and then he told me to stay away from him. Is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age - To make long story short I was sleeping with a man for 5 yrs found out that he was sleeping with other women went to his job when I knew he would be getting off to speak to him got cursed out and was told to leave him alone and to stay awya from him etc.. So after a month of ... (216 words

I need help to get over my past

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hmm.. well ive had a really bad past. from when i was like 9, i made the wrong friends, started taking drugs and drinking alcohol, had too many boyfriends though im still a virgin, i moved out of home for about 1 and a half years and i have been to juvy before. i have kinda l... (170 words

What can I do to forget my ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about five months ago, shortly before our first anniversary. He did it over text, saying that part of him wanted to break up with me while the other thought he'd regret it for the rest of his life, then eventually finished by saying that he'd been ... (392 words

My online friend is 18 and I'm 15. It seems be really cares for me but I'm confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok well i started talking to this guy on the net, we have been talking for a while and ow were going out. long distance relationship isnt really my thing but he keeps telling me his moving here soon. i do believe him but i do have my doubts. his also 18 and im 15 so im really ... (80 words

Why do my boyfriends always stop calling and leave me?

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10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a very hardworking and independent lady. I always go out of my way for my boyfriends. The main thing is every thing seems fine and then all of a sudden ,they just stop calling. I'm not sure why because they never say why. I really need to get this in check...Any ... (108 words

My friend-with-benefits said he doesn't have feelings for me. Is it just that he doesn't want to tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - This guy and I have had a friends with benefits relationship for the past 6 months, and he said that he didn't really want to hookup anymore, and that he still loved his ex (He has had feelings for his ex the entire time we've been together. He's called things off between us ... (245 words

I suspect he is cheating; but why would he then still want to hang out with me without being intimate and why would he talk about our future?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy on a dating site about four months ago. After seeing each other for awhile, we also became intimate. I usually went to his place every other day and stayed over. We usually watched movies together; had dinner; had great sex; etc. I am moving to the East Coast soon ... (378 words

I can't be as rough as she needs, and I'm not into blood and vampirism. Any advice?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've just found an amazing partner who's local to me. We're very open and communicate well. Problem is, she has a blood fettish, and is into biting my neck and having me perform oral on her on her period, as well as biting my lips, having me bite hers and biting necks. It's a ... (111 words

I suffer from depression and anxiety, what can I do to make him want to support me again and not just see me as a burden?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I suffer from depression and anxiety. I regularly talk to my boyfriend and he has been supportive although he does not completley understand. Latley i feel that he is becoming frustrated with my constant " need to talk things through" We are both in our 20's and when we go out ... (210 words

He didn't break my hymen. Am I still a virgin?

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10 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - juss wanted 2 kno if im still a virgin cuz i let my boyfriend enter me but he didnt break my hymen or pop my cherry ? ... (27 words

I was so ready to forgive and take back my ex, now I am sad and angry because his new girlfriend visited him at the hospital...

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10 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I am separated from my ex-husband 9 month ago. We had 2 kids, 3 and 1 y old. He hit me once and that was enough for me...that was so sad...I really would give anything to make that moment erased and continuous to live as anything had happened....but the reality.. I ... (703 words

Will the stretch mark on my stomach accentuate in case of a second birth? Would my partner care? I try to hide it...

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10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi..i am a mother of 5yrs old child. I dont understand why the stretch mark on my stomach is still there and i am very shy to show that to my husband. I am afraid this could turn him off. I try to use lotion everynight but i dont see any improvment. I am a tiny woman and very ... (151 words

I am upset with my legs, cannot wear any mini-skirt or bikini.. please help!

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10 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Friends, I always feel unhappy when looking at nice mini skirt, bikini...I can never weare one because i don't have beautiful legs and some more, i have a lot of scars on them. I am thinking of going for cosmetic surgery (scar romoval), but i am worried that i w... (80 words

We always end up fighting because he doesn't believe ANYTHING I say...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been with each other for about 7 months. In a past relationship he was cheated on and never expected it. Now he won't trust me and says it will be a while before he does. We work together, and if I say one word to another guy, he gets upset. He does... (155 words

Is my long-distance boyfriend cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

10 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey i would love if you'd help me out...I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4month now, the past several days while he's talking to me he's also talking to his friends but i overherd..this is what he said -Friend, "So are you goin to meet (female name)? If you do are you ... (167 words

I wanted to be more than friends, but it turned into a very awkward friendship.

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I decided that I may want to be more than friends with one of my very close friends about five months ago and he didn't know what he wanted because he was hung up on an ex girlfriend who kept him waiting. I didn't know about that. I just didn't want to lose him, so I told him ... (249 words

Is my friend jealous that her boyfriend called me gorgeous?

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have this friend and I recently met her boyfriend. He was nice and even told his gf "You said she was cute, but she is GORGEOUS!" when he met me. He even said that I could get any guy I wanted and wanted to set me up with his friends. My friend said she'd call me so we can ... (84 words

We want children although we are teen children ourselves, is this wrong?

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10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - is it wrong that me and my fiance are happy that she is almost definitely pregnant when she is 17 and i just turned 18? We are all the other has and are teen children ourselves. we have been together for a year now and were very close friends for 2 years before that and have... (89 words

I'm 17, she's 14, is this legal?

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10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok i have a few questions im 17 and i was at this small party the other day and i met a girl there and i kinda like her but i dunno some stuff like... how do i tell her i like her, how can i ask her out, and a big question is: im 17 shes 14, is this legal? i really like her... (80 words

She drives and I can't. What do I do if I were to ask her out for a first date?

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10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok she is 17 is around the same age as me but is about 7-8 months older than me. We are both senior highschool students this year. I don't really mind if she's older than me with a gap that small. I send at least 1 txt a day just to keep contact. Her brother hogs the computer ... (255 words

Does my teacher like me? I think he's sending signals.

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello i'm in a bit of a predicament. This is of coarse one of those teacher student situations. I know so many people on here are in these, more girls than boys. And i'm sorry to put you through the same old question, and yes. OK my name's Ashleigh, and i'm 15yrs old. ANd I... (490 words

How do I steal him away from her?

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10 August 2008 (F age - I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. How do I steal him away from her?... (20 words

I am really depressed because I feel that my husbandIs not attracted to me like before

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10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Before I had the baby(6 months ago) I gained about 100 lbs. When we first met I was a real hottie every were I went - heads turned. Now I dont feel attractive like I was, and my husband sure aint helping me feel sexy. hes not comming on to me for sex. He looks at other wome... (66 words

I need some advice to help me get him out of the picture.

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I am in love with my current boyfriend, well my ex boyfriend is my current boyfriend's friend. my ex doesnt know that 'm with him. My whole point is that I still can't get over him till this day. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months, but during that ... (105 words

I just got played like a fiddle where my young daughter is concerned. Now what do I tell her?

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10 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ooops i just got played like a fiddle where my young daughter is concerned. Split from someone some time ago. My choice. We have just managed, months later to be ok with each other as mates. My daughter adored his daughter, but they havent seen each other for a couple of ... (286 words

I'm 99.99% sure that she is lying. What can I do about it?

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10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok well my problem is that i left to go overseas for four months. now she told me that she had something to say that would bring me home, but i didn't want to hear it because i have important things to do right now. through friends i found out that she was pregnant, but i didn... (143 words

A golden shower? Is this normal?

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10 August 2008 (F age - My partner wants me to urninate on him while we are having sex. He also wants me to urinate on him. What does this mean? Is this normal? I have never heard of this activity? sincerely... (41 words

She told my friend's wife that she did it to make me happy. I'm just really hurt and want some answers...help please!

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10 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - ok so i know you all have prob about had enough of my questions, but i have one last one. my wife and i got together for about 5 days, it was all great and infact the last day she went and got us wedding rings. i was soo happy i figured we were getting back together. we talk... (388 words

Did I lose out for all time on the prettiest girl I've ever seen in my life?

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10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Awwwwww, I totally missed out today! At my job this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him! Now I'm here wallowing in regret! After he got her number sudd... (152 words

What's the best way to end this relationship? It's been 4 years.

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10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Thinking about ending a long relationship, and moving away. We've been together for 4 years, which was started in high school. Everything was good, but I'm no longer convinced she's the one I want to be with. I've been bruting about this for almost a year now, trying to figure ... (292 words

15 months without sex! What am I doing wrong, and how can I shorten my wait for sex???

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10 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - It's been a year and months since I last had sex. To start I wanna make it clear that sex isn't the ONLY thing I'm looking for. A relationship would be nice, but lets just say that a one night stand is something I would definitely consider doing. Would you say that I'm be... (186 words

Did I get taken advantage of and have a right to be mad at my friend or am I just a slut?

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok long story but please I really need help!! I am in college and a few months ago I went to this house with my friend. We were the only girls there and there were like 5 guys. I was upset that my "boyfriend" or whatever he is went to a party and didnt invite me and didnt ... (360 words

I don't get it. If he likes me, then why doesn't he return my calls or messages?

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10 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - An old friend of mine (I'm 17), "Brian" (who's 19), has been acting strange lately. I've known him since I was 8,he was my first kiss,we used to be best buds until middle school rolled around and we drifted in and out of eachothers lives. We reconnected this year after almos... (171 words

She has herpes I need advice and reassurance please.

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10 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - The woman I love has herpes. She takes zyrtec or whatever those pills are called. She tells me with the pills its virtually not there, just outbreaks occur then she takes the pills and it goes away, she was honest and told me at the start of the relation so I was aware, she ... (112 words

If I let go of my ex and just wait will he come back?

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10 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just wondering do u guys believe in the sayin "if u love something let it go and it comes back blah blah"?? Is it really true?? I mean if it was real love why would they have left in the first place? Deep down i sort of want it 2 be true, seein as how i still love my ex. But im ... (77 words

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