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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend is angry because I'm contacting her ex, who I've known since childhood.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help my i guess x friend got mad at me cause i text her ex boyfriend and i have known him since i was 4 and i really like him as a friend and she is saying i cant worry about him i cant even be his friend but i dont care what they say im still going to talk to him ... (103 words)

I love two boys at once and they both want me?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so distraught about this at the moment. I have loved a boy for about 2 maybe 3 years now and he has had such a massive impact on my life he has loved me too but we have never gone out or anything So i gave up hope of that ever happening and stated seeing another lad th... (264 words)

My girlfriend cheats! How should I react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to take this news, but first i'm going to give a little background story. A girl proper fell for my friend about 3 years ago, and he really liked her too but they never got together. Then i started to feel asthough i was really in love with her this year ... (494 words)

He only wants to spend time with his friends and not with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - all my boyfriend wants to do is go out with his friends....he never wants to spend time with me a little while ago my boyfriend thought i cheated on him and he finally gave up and he forgave me for evrything and said sorry for not believing in me but ever since then he doesnt ... (108 words)

How can one virgin really turn another virgin on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and we plan to have sex soon. We both really want to but I'm sensing he is a bit more nervous than I am (because he says he wants it to be really amazing). Do you have any advice about how I can REALLY turn him on? Any tips (fr... (78 words)

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

21 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont want to have sex with him yet ... (112 words)

What exactly is sexual tension and what's so good about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Seems like a silly question but what exactly is 'Sexual tension'? If I meet a guy I really like I usually struggle to keep my composure and can't hold down a conversation. So basically the conversation is all kind of stilted and goes no-where. This in turn makes him ... (167 words)

Is it illegal? My 16yr old friend wants to move in with her 17yr old boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it illegal?My friend is 16 and she wants to move out with her 17 year old boyfriend and live at her boyfriend's sister house that lives in Fontana,California.... (29 words)

Can I have a relationship with my father's step brother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i know my question is stupid but i can't tell anyone. can i have a relationship with my father's step brother? he's not from our family he's just the son of my grandmother's new husband. we're so attracted to eachother but i don't know.. is he my uncle and i can't have a... (69 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've never been in love, but I care about him. I've recently started to like someone else. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 an been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. the problem is that we r not inlove an never have been, we just really care for eachother. i know deep down we would want to be in a relationship where we r inlove with that person. anyway i work in a hairdressers eve... (235 words)

I've never felt this way about a woman before and I don't know how to deal with it. How do I get her to notice me or tell if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 25-year-old woman who just started graduate school. I have always been straight and only interested in men. I met another girl in my program three weeks ago, and out of nowhere, I've completely fallen for her. She is a very proud lesbian, very active in politics and ... (362 words)

I don't know which to pick, going on holiday for two weeks before I go back to school. Or work experience.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, this isnt really a relationship issue/question, but ive been panicking about this for a while. I'm going into year 11 thhis september, and in october im going on holiday for 2 weeks, and at the same time theres work experience, so I don't get to go. but i really ... (103 words)

I want a divorce but my husband depends on me for so much and really loves me. He has also worked on the relationship after I had an affair. How do I go about it without destroying him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married for 7 years, I had an affair 1.5 yrs ago H found out and we worked on our marriage. In the last few months I have found myself wanting a divorce, I ponder and think of why. I dont come up with any answers. My H loves me very much, always talks about our future. ... (92 words)

He says he wants to be my boyfriend, but he also seems like a bit of a womaniser and treats us more like friends with benefits. What kind of relationship is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im seeing this guy for a month. He is crazy about me, well he sounds like a player, you know those people that fear commitment. I am also not looking for anything serious at the moment as im slowly moving out of a relationship. Well, i never pushed him, nor ask him about where ... (357 words)

Friend's boyfriend ringing me behind her back- what do I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am in a pickle at the moment!!... it started 5 years ago when I met this guy and instantly I liked him, unfortunately for me at this time I was kinda dating someone else (not seriously) so never persued him though also got the feeling he liked me back. A few months... (521 words)

Why do I feel so empty inside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why do i feel empty inside? thers a guy at work that i really really like and he said he like me too but is not ready for a relationship at the moment which i am really cool about coz id rather he was honest with me than not! when it first came out about me liking him so mu... (382 words)

I came home and found my husband in bed with our doctor! What now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My name is Christina and I am a 30-year-old woman, my husband is 32, and we've been together for 10 years, married for the last 5 out of those 10 years together. I came home from work one night about a week ago to find him in bed with our GP/doctor. The two of them were kis... (257 words)

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I do need to tell him he's not relationship potential! How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Two weeks ago i went on a date with a guy i knew on MSN for one and a half years. I'd blocked him for a year because i was not sure about him, but six months ago i unblocked him and we found we had a lot in common. So we became friendlier, then, i agreed to go on a date with ... (255 words)

I am in love with this guy and have been dying to have him back ever since we split. I'm not sure how he feels based on the conversation we had. And insight? I don't know what to do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am 27 yrs old and my BF of 2.5 years broke up with me in June. I decided that if he were really giviing up on our realtiohsip that it would be best that he not contact me ever. We had been having some trouble since the start of the year. Basically he was unsure wh... (747 words)

Double whammy...I need advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help,im almost 16 an my boyfriend is almost 14.We dont go to same school anymore but,we reallyyy like eachother, yet we've been a couple for only a week now.And,he wants to have sex with me badly.I'm not sure if i'm ready an if i am ready,i may not wanna do it first ... (230 words)

How do I get that loving feeling back into my marriage of only 2 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get the dating feeling back into my marriage? I have only been married for 2 months. But I want that loving feeling like what we had when we were dating back. I know things change after you get married but I didn't think it would come down to this. We already don't ... (198 words)

I had encounters, with a man I met on the internet, only for sex, I saw him, in the area where I live, my boyfriend does not know I did this, should I tell him before the internet guy, or someone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - two years ago I met up with someone off the internet for sex. He said he was a virgin and so I agreed to be his first. We met up 4 or 5 times just for sex. I thought nothing more of it until now... My boyfriend and I have recently moved to a small town just outside of London ... (139 words)

Together for seven months, found out he cheated, I love him, took him back, but cannot seem to get over the cheating, it is affecting the relationship, any suggestions on how to forget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my bf have been in a 7 month relationship and i love him so much i ha ve a problem he cheated on me on our 3rd montha nd i didnt find out untill 1 month later when they brook up:_( i loved him so i took him back , not i c a change in him and hes really in love with me ... (99 words)

Is there an age where women enjoy the best sex, also when do men and women lose their desire for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age - At what age do women have the best sex? At what age do men and women stop wanting to have sex?... (21 words)

I have a problem with my lips turning white, when I kiss my girlfriend, could wearing chapstick have anything to do with it, any way to prevent this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, Random question here, Every time I kiss my girlfriend my lips end up turning white in areas. I've figured it's only either dead skin or bacteria being killed(similar as to what happens when drinking vodka and the tongue turns white). I wear chapstick to make my lip... (129 words)

I have become very troubled by my husband actions, he has lied and cheated, I don't love him anymore and want him to leave, he refuses, even threatens to burn the house down with me and the kids inside, what do I do, I am frightened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can any one help me! I have been married for 3 yrs and have 4 children from another relationship. when me and my husband first meet everything was great and he was fine about my children, but since we got married he has changed. he is always picking at my children for no ... (385 words)

I think I am naive and have sort of an inferiority complex, I really like this young lady, how do I get over my complex and approach her more confidently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - am a freshman dude (21yrs) at the university and a few days back I mate a lovely 2nd year colleague (20yrs). i really like her n we get along well. but i have that naive n inferiority attitude that am a freshman though she' a year younger than me. i like her n am ready for ... (59 words)

Two year relationship with a man I care for very much, but who lies and confuses me constanly, what should I do, move on or wait for him to fulfill his many promises, broken many times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age - Two years ago I started a relationship with a man a worked with who I thought I knew. I really, really admired this guy professionally and when he asked me on a date I was over the moon. Within a couple of months he moved in to live with me. I dont know what went wrong, but ... (239 words)

We approached our daughter-in-law, about her children being distressed, over their father's verbal abuse, she distorted the situation, which resulted in a rift with our son, does anyone have any advice to help repair the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age - Almost a year ago, on a visit to our son and his family, his 2 children aged 12 and 13 asked us for help in dealing with their dad. The boy in particular was having a difficult time, being snapped at and criticised relentlessly (we had already seen evidence of this in the ... (489 words)

With my girlfriend for five years, want to marry her, do love her, but total confusion in the relationship, breakdown in communication and other things, need help, whay should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and this year was the year I was going to ask her to marry me, we're both 28. She recently came back from a night out with work and woke me to tell me that she and a guy from work had kissed. We have talked about it and she say... (1357 words)

Should I be worried that my bf spent half an hour on the phone with my sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok recently i found out that my boyfriend had called the house asking for me and because i wasnt there my sister answered. When i returned home she told me that she had talked to him on the phone. I later found out it was for half an hour. I asked her what they were talking ... (81 words)

I have problems with my self-esteem, I don't feel like doing anything with my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with self esteem, I have completed my degree I dnt feel like doing anything with my life. I feel i am incapable of doing it. Someone help me sort myself out. I feel weak. ... (38 words)

I want to have a baby to my boyfriend but I'm scared of how my dad will react

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18 and i really want a baby. The problem is i live in my dads house. My boyfriend of 5 years who is turning 21 in oct wants a baby to me too but is afraid my dad will shoot him and im afraid my dad will hate me. I have even been thinkin of boys or girls names and asking ... (90 words)

Questions on squirting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys! I've been learning to squirt. When i play with toy on my g spot i do feel like pee and just before orgasm i feel like i have to push, i push with my mussels. But no liquid coming out. I do have an orgasm, but no ejaculation. Why is that? And even if I go after to pee ... (83 words)

How can I make my man really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a stay at home mom of a 16 month old and a 5 month old. I have been married for 1 year, I have been with my husband for 2 years but we've known eachother for 8 years. I am 27 and he is 33. I find myself wanting him to be home because I miss him and I really want to have ... (237 words)

Getting very mixed signals from him, I wonder if I should just ignore him all together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been out on a couple of dates with a guy I have known for a very long time. The third date involved him coming to my place for the weekend (he lived 60 miles away). We had a really nice weekend, went to the zoo, romantic dinners etc. As he came to leave I asked to see ... (653 words)

How do I cope with the divorce and the fact that I've had no closure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age - i am very recently divorced. I was married for 16 years and didn't want the divorce. My husband met another woman and let me cite his unreasonable behaviour as I contested the divorce and was advised in the end to stop fighting it. He basically got up one morning and just ... (202 words)

I thought he was untrustworthy. He thought I was too fussy. Who's right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you think is happening in his head? I ended it for good with him at the begining of the year. He wanted to try again but i didn't want to. He had lied a few times and he is one of those guys you find hard to trust because he is quite secretive and thinks if he just doe... (345 words)

There's no spark with my current guy, but my ex turns me on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question. I'm in such a hard spot right now. I been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we should have broken up after the first week. I don't feel attracted to him anymore because he makes me so upset all the time. He is like a friend. He treats me like his budd... (457 words)

Should I keep messaging my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi posted a question a few days ago now about wanting advice about a guy i was seeing who relocated. Basically i spoke to him this week on the pc and he logged off !! He hasnt been back on since what gets me is he seems to have taken what happened with us far to sriously all i ... (134 words)

My ex left me and has moved on, but I want him back.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex left me 2months ago, and he got a new girl friend very soon. After I found out, I tried to confirm with him, he just said not telling me because he doesn't want to hurt me. I know its bullshit! but I still can't help missing him, I tried to save our love, but he said he ... (394 words)

How can I tell if a neighbor boy likes me without having to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and like a boy who lives down the road from me, he doesn't show alot of intrest in me but i see out of the corner of my eye him looking at me, i don't talk to him, but i used to know his sister, he knows that i like him , hes known 4 ages but when my mum and his rela... (100 words)

I want to be a boy toy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've dreamed about a mature older women taking me in as her boy toy for, like, forever. She doesn't have to be rich, per se, but I want her to wear the pants. (I find being dominated totatally sexy) How can I find a woman like this and signal my intentions?... (54 words)

Is it OK to have an affair with a friend who's a hooker even though I have a girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - wow...! this' a little funny, but here it goes. I went to a pub one evening after a tiring day from work, and met a hooker. out of curiosity I thought I could just disturb her a little but without being serious on it. so I bought her a drink. but as I talked to her she looked f... (125 words)

Is it fun to watch a girlfriend have sex with another guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im thinking about asking my girlfriend to have sex with another guy while i watch. is this fun?... (18 words)

My boyfriend likes watching S&M but not doing it. Where's the thrill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is bout my boyfriend. We are both the same age. On the surface he looks just like any other guy, has a job and generally gets on with things. Very outgoing and great with people. Grew up in a normal family that likes each other and still visits. He was married 2x ... (423 words)

I don't love my brothers and sisters!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm the oldest of seven children and I hate it! The last two babies really upset me because I knew my parents would have less time for me (I was right). But I don't want to tell my parents but I really resent that my parents decided to keep cranking out babies. And then I ... (113 words)

She won't kiss me in spite of an on-again off-again romance. SHould I push the issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

- I started dating a colleague of mine in late May. She is in different departments, so we don't really affect each other or see each other much. I had asked her out in October of last year, but she was in a relationship. I May 2008, I found out from a common friend that sh... (668 words)

He says I'm great but he "can't get into it" and won't explain. What does he mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I liked a man for 3 years and we never dare approach each other until 6 months ago, we then saw each other most days, now he says im the nicest girl he ever met, kind, caring and gorgeous but he cant get into it and no longer talks to me other than occasional emails saying i ... (72 words)

If I show interest, guys don't. If I back off, they come on strong. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

- I seem to have a re-occuring problem with all the guys i have dated. 19 years old and so far, all the guys ive dated seem to be so keen in the beguining when im not so sure about them as i am geting to knwo them. Therefore, i am not all over them and feel like i have to talk to ... (270 words)

How do I meet new lads who will be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am bored of being on my own and want to find a boyfriend the lads i hang arond with have all seemed to have slipped into the "friend zone" and i dont think we could go anywhere. how do i get to meet new lads and stop our relationships being just friends? please help th... (58 words)

I was groped by my cousin and now I am scared of being alone and feel really dirty...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i was groped by my cousin at the beginning of this year and it has messed up parts of my life. i find that i cant sleep at night every now and then because im scared of being alone and that a stranger, or my cousin, will come into the room and take advantage of me. how can i... (110 words)

I have these problems after being sexually assaulted by a family member. Please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i was sexually assaulted by my a family member earlier this year and it can really screw me up at times. its not as bad as whatsome people go thru but that doesnt mean it doesnt affect me. i had to explain to my friend today, which im totally fine with, but it sometimes gets to ... (162 words)

He kissed me despite having a long term girlfriend... confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my co worker is a year older, we've only been working together for a couple of months as we're both at uni. He's in a long term relationship and seems very content and happy with his girlfriend when he talks about her etc. We always have a laugh and a casual flirt ... (198 words)

Seeing someone new: every time I touch him he tells me he has a lot on his mind and won't open up to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my husband passed away in december an ive recently started to see someone who is 3 years younger than me but recently every time i touch him he tells me to get off he has said that he has a lot on his mind but he wont talk to me how can i sort this out as i have two young ... (85 words)

I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

- I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the same passion and love there b... (259 words)

Is it worth trying to get into the music industry just to help people? Will I be able to do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I love to sing. I love to make music, compose songs and create lyrics. I'm talented in it. But most of all, what I really want to do, is to help people. I've been through a lot, maybe not enough, but I still am able to empathise with people. I'm not sure if going towards the ... (479 words)

I have no confidence in myself. How do I stop feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate everything about myself and the only thing i do like about myself is my light blue eyes. So i put makeup on my eyes so that people look at them and nothing else it works but i hate feeling like this. Im not fat or nethin but its just i have no confidence... (55 words)

Why are these woman so interested to pass information about my ex to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age - last week i ran into a friend/co worker, which have not seen in years, since she works wirth my ex-gf, of 4 years ago. we exchange info about our life, etc. i told her that i was happy in my current relationship of alnmost 4 years, to which she just answer that my ex has not ... (339 words)

Is my girlfriend just playing me? Is she still cheating, or was it a drunken one-off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend cheated on me at a party when she was drunk and said she was goin to finish me to this guy for him. i forgave her for that because i love her but then i caught her outside her house with this lad in the car, she said they were just talking and i think i believe ... (84 words)

How do I stop being jealous of my girlfriend's past lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have the most amazing girlfriend in the world,we have been together a year and a half and i love her to bits but lately her past lovers is getting to me, when i met her i had very little sexual experience, she has lots, she has had a relationship before and the thought of ... (131 words)

I let him enjoy porn--why does he have a problem when I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is that when my boyfriend watches porn, im supposed to be ok with it, but when I want to have my own me-time its totally wrong? I've never had a problem with a little porn for him, ever since we moved in together he'll watch it when im on my period and oral isn't enoug... (324 words)

My mom thinks I'm useless--what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have this problem with my mum. Ok, it started like this, i went out with my friends, she gave me 40 dollars. I was thinking of buying books but hesitated but when i got home, i found out that i dropped 10 dollars at the mall. I told her sincerely what had happ... (88 words)

Should I try again with my not-great ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i broke up with him because things were really bad between us but i still like him. but i also like another guy at the same time. should i get over my ex or should i give him a try??? please help... (42 words)

How do I make our first night together perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I will be spending a first night sleep over with my boyfriend, the thing is i'm looking for some romantic idea's on how to make it a perfect night ever please.and dont get me wrong i'm not a virgin i just want it to be perfectcause i love him so much and its going to be our ... (66 words)

He doesn't want to commit--should I stay with him?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for 6 months, he is 36 and i'm 32. When we first got together, he said he had issues with the whole 'girlfriend/boyfriend thing, and that he believed in us both being free to see other people if we wish. I am not that sort of person, and if i'm in a... (525 words)

I think I'm in love with my wife!

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all, This is in response to the many posts I have read about people who are in love/lust with a forbidden fruit such as sister in law. I think Im in love with my wife, we have known each other for 3 years and been married for one but I still cant stop thinking about... (166 words)

I've never broken up with anyone so how should I handle this?

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21 August 2008 (M)

- It has been the hardest choice I've ever had to make in my life but have decided for my own happiness I need to break up with my boyfriend of four years. We have a great relationship but there have been intimacy issues for three years and I just can't take it anymore. I could... (216 words)

He is talking to his "friend" all the time--is she really just a friend?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay im new to this just needed everybody else point of view.......cuz he thinks im crazy!....... We started dating in high School. Out of nowhere his suppose "best freind" girl freind started feeling something just when i came up. she always wanted to seperate us the ... (333 words)

Why do girls "settle" in relationships?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've never quite understood why some people seem to settle for certain relationships....case in point: one of my best friends is in a relationship in which her bf was caught almost going across the country to meet up with his ex...he didn't tell her ahead of time, of course,... (337 words)

If he didn't care, why the such strong feeling of hatred?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok hi will someone please help..it wont be long..me and my ex broke up and 6 months after he was still tellin people he hated me etc..i see him in the pub tonite and asked him to talk..he said argh stop following me! bare in mind we havnt spoken in ages! so no im not stalki... (219 words)

How do I convince my girlfriend I won't cheat on her? I want to propose next year!

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21 August 2008 (M) age 36-40 - How do I convince my girlfriend that I don't want to cheat on her? We've been together 4 years and in the past I have done things that caused her to lose trust in me. I lied and hid things to do with other girls, but they were all innocent, I just didn't tell her so she ... (358 words)

Am I wrong to tell me wife she shouldn't have our 3rd child? Times are tough.

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my wife just told me she is pregant with our third.I told her a dont want her to have it because bringing another child into the world is alot of money and other things intrest rate ect. Times are harder,I know it takes two to have a baby not making it her fault. I just ... (77 words)

As a man I just can't resist all these beautiful ladies! Which one do I choose?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I started dating a co-teacher at my school 3 months ago, I seduced her the first time we went out and started making trips back to my house with her even during working hours. The thing is that I already had a girl friend working in a nearby city who I'd been with for almost 2 ... (454 words)

Male Opinions: He worshipped me and now avoids me!

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 35 and have been in a relationship for a year with a 39 y/o man. I believed was my soul mate. Alex also felt the same way about me. We have known each other for 2 years prior to our relationship ever beginning. We had coffee one day and out of the blue he just said...''I'm ... (480 words)

She says she has strong feelings for me but that I can do much better? How can I fix this?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I have been going out with a girl for two months. These few days she has been iffy if she wants to continue and doesn't know if she can. She finally told me what she thinks. Heres what she said in a facebook message "Okay scratch what I just said... I still have... (246 words)

How do I confront my ex who is stealing money from me?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After I broke up with my ex, I discovered on my bank statement that he used my ATM card to withdrawal cash without my permission (he knew my pin cause I lost my ID and would send him to get beer/cigarettes sometimes). There are about 3 occasions where I do not recall asking him ... (243 words)

I have a lot of trauma from my last abusive relationship even though I've tried my best to recover. Any suggestions?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I came on here before and got some good balanced advice which was really helpful so I've come back again to ask about a problem. I feel really stuck ... in February my partner of 5 years walked out on me whilst I was unwell (it since transpired that i might have eithe... (619 words)

Did I lose my erection over the stress to impress?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hey there i am out of a bad relationship for three months now and a month ago i got a new girlfreind who i have wanted for quite some time.shes hot,cool and got her life together.im intimated by her for some god forsaken reason ha ha and when drunk lose my erection after a few ... (76 words)

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's getting married!

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,i'm 18 and I have been obssessed with my ex-boyfriend, I'm afraid that this has been effecting my life, personal and professional. I haven't seen him in over 5 months. It was a long distance relationship, But we finally called it quits about a month ago. When we were ... (128 words)

I lost my best friend because I started to date her ex-boyfriend, now I am so sad, and I think I want to break up with my boyfriend to regain her friendship, should I?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - my best friends and i have been friends for 2.5 years. we have done alot of things together and gone through alot. we even live under the same apartment. her very first love, i was the cupid who match made them. both of them lasted for about 11months? and they broke up this ... (366 words)

We are gay and we wanted a child, we found a sperm donor, and used a syringe to get pregnant, does anyone know if there is a chance our baby will have a disability, because of how we impregnated the mother?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, im a 27 year old woman and im lesbain. Ive been with my girlfriend for 8 years. We both decided that we would like to have a baby. We got a friend of ours who is a man to put his sperm in a cup then with a needleless syringe i sucked up the sperm and within 2 minutes i ... (131 words)

Does anyone have any ideas as to how to manage time effectively, combat stress and balance out my studies at school?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately school has been getting really tough. It's my last year of high school and I'm trying to do my best to get accepted into a good college, but my grades are slowly slipping down because of all the stress. What are some ways to find time to study and have some time to ... (60 words)

I seem to have dreams, that come true , but to other people around me, is this a coincidence or what, can somebody help?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this may sound wierd, but can someone help me.??? I always have dreams about things that always occur in my future. I once had a dream that I was pregnant and it felt so real but I awoke from it and fortunately it wasn't...but a week later I found out that a few of my ... (104 words)

I felt we didn't have closure, I still have questions, haven't talked or seen them in two years, should I leave it alone, or try to find "closure"?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Would it be better to seek closure with someone? or just continue to stay apart completely? We haven't seen or talked to each other in about 2-3 years, but I never really felt we had a clean break from each other, things just got awkward. There's still some things I wanted ... (223 words)

I am best friends of a sort, with this girl, I give her advice, which she seems to forget, that I helped her, I feel used, should I tell her how I feel?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I know a girl.. And apperently I'm one of her best friends, however she has 5 other best friends 2 of which r boys, she used to tell me everything but now all she does is ask for their help and is so grateful and public about the help she recieves but when I help her she ... (102 words)

I do not understand my husband's obsession with me adding his name to my will, I am not going to, is he trying to get over on me or what?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband stoped showing me love and affection once he realized that I was't going to put his name on a Will that I had before we got married. I have some special people in my life that were there for me when times were tough and I will always be so grateful. We have been... (241 words)

I like this girl very much, but she has a boyfriend, and she says she only likes me as a friend, what do I do now?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok here goes.. I absolutely love this girl and were r really close.. But the problem is she has a boyfriend.. Ive told her how I feel, and she says its cute but she doesnt like me in the same way... She has told me things she has never told anyone and vice versa.. And I dont ... (92 words)

Multiple family and financial problems, I want out of this, what do I do?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's dad and I have been having problems. We've been through some crazy situations. We are getting ready to have a second child together(two kids from his first marriage which totals to four kids). We are not married, we use to live together but I left him because ... (318 words)

We have know each other for four years and have set a wedding date, but we argue all the time now, he acts immature, and I am confused, should I move on, or try harder, to get him to change?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my fiance since highschool, so for about four years now. but it seems as though since we set our wedding date that we just get into constant arguements. i work so hard everyday at work to save and it seems like he rather be at home playing games or with his ... (173 words)

My boyfriend and I agreed to a break, to meet new people, he got angry when I talked to a guy, I am confused, please help?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are on a break for 2 weeks now and he said no one can get mad if we meet new people. but he overreacted when i started talking to this guy? that i just met. he said he doesnt want to worry when hes in college. does that mean he doesnt want to be on a break or ... (63 words)

Will someone tell me, what physically happens, when you have an orgasm?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 19 and i dont think i have ever had a orgasm but i have had that feeling where you wanna pee and my legs often shake after sex also i have had muscle contractions in my vagina but people say you no when you have had one but i dont, and i have heard that you cum aswell so ... (74 words)

I was with a man I truly cared for, but he was verbally abusive, we split up, now my confidence level is basically non-existence, I need advice on how to recover from the damage done to my pysche?

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21 August 2008 (F)

Is my friend making a mistake with her new relationship?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like an opinion on a new relationship a friend has gotten into She is starting to date this guy from work since the beginning of August, however, she doesnt know that he is a lying cheating type. He has had at least 5 other women in the last 9 months and he is going ... (133 words)

Is my ex boyfriend trying to make me jealous about his new girlfriend?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy who i am really close friends with, and we both like each other as more than friends has a new gf and im really starting think that he wants me to be jealous of him and his new gf as he seems to be rubbing it in my face, so could u tell me what u think? because its real... (378 words)

I feel sad. Am I depressed?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - huhh latley i have been sad and not been able to sleep or not wanting to eat and well sad am i depressed oh yea for a really long time i feel llike im goiing to cry but hold it in so like am i? cuz school is soon to start and i dont wanna be sad... (60 words)

My dad's texting makes me uncomfortable. Is he cheating?

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21 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im in a situation were im not comfortable and i dont no what to do! my dad has become very protective of his phone. he will always text at night and when im in another room he will text to this anonymous person or persons. and when he does it, its very desecrate. he wo... (254 words)

I'm caught between my cousin and my best friend.

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well once all my freinds and my cousins who live not that far we all decided to hang out then i saw my cousin and my best freind flirting it botherd me quite a bit so went to him and asked him whats up with that and he said he was doing it just for some harmless fun so i went ... (183 words)

Is my boyfriend likely to spread rumors that I gave him chlamydia?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - before you read this please don't judge me as i know i have made a mistake and am trying to fix it. i slept with a guy and he found out that right before that i slept with someone else. he is now saying i gave him chlamydia! i know he has slept with other people but he cl... (194 words)

I need to know more about masturbation

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK this question is a little embarressing...I'm only 16 and i defeinitely want to wait to have sex till i'm married but i want to try masturbating..is that bad? Do girls my age do that? Is that normal? Also what about vibrators?..i dont know much about them..am i to young to ... (67 words)

Should I try to interest an instructor 13 years older than me?

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21 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really fallen for a friend of a few friends, and also just recently my current private lesson instructor. I don't know what to do, I don't think I should make any moves at all since I am still underage for another year. I know he is single, and really don't think he has ... (138 words)