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How do you french kiss?

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17 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - I av no idea how 2 french kiss, nd i'm scared i'll bite my bf tongue if i do....can u give me some advice? Its urgently needed.... (27 words

The man I love won't leave his fiancee like he said he would, does he really love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F - Hi everybody please dont judge me too soon as i already feel very guilty. I was previously in a relationship and split up since then I have met up with a friend of ours. We are instantly attracted to each other and couldnt help ourselves from having a relationship. We have bee... (472 words

I don't know how to show my ex I still like him without making a fool of myself...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back. Thanks for your help x... (53 words

I'm confused about my sexuality as I have thoughts about kissing a girl and I got bored easily when dating boys...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im confused about my sexuality, i don't know whether i am bi curious bisexual or straight? I've had boyfriends and been on plenty of dates with guys, but i get really bored of them after a little while and end up messing them about un intentionally because one minute i cou... (169 words

How can I find out his blood group? We need to know who our dad is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi, about ten years ago which was two years after my dad died, my mum kept dropping big hints about my dad may not be my real dad, this was a total shock.( i never thought for one second that could ever be as i can see some resemblance) The hints were so big she obviousl... (429 words

Is he serious? Or sparing my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey there dear cupid. My boyfriend and I of a year recently split, okay, he dumped me. I posted another question a while back about if it was best for me to walk away etc. because he's been having such a hard time with finances, work, family and many other things. We decided ... (266 words

I'll never be able to have her out of my life, but to date her would be too inappropriate. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - im 17, there's a friend of mine who's 14 and she admitted she liked me, i like her too, but i keep lying to her and say, dont, because i know it would never work, and i would feel like i'm taking advantage of her and it would be too innapropriate. Before this happened we used ... (139 words

I am jealous of my long-distance BF and fight with him over the phone, how can I change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey people i need your help.am jealous of my boyfriend.we are in a long distance relationship.every weekend he goes out clubbin and i dont like the idea.i just feel jealous since myself i dont go out.so on sundays i just feel i despise him and when we talk ijust start a fight ... (69 words

I do not want him to think I fancy him just because he is (or may become) famous!

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have had a crush on this boy for about a few months i havent been able to do anything or tell him how i feel because i have been busy.i recently found out he is on a very popular singing show and has got through to the "boot camp stage".i dont know if he has got any futher ... (119 words

Stuck between a career or my lover: Do I give him up or go to school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Alrightyz, even if you don't answer, thank you for reading. But i am hoplessly tore between the most horrible decision ever. Ever since i was a little girl i've planned to move to california right after high school to get my degree in aquatic biology. Now I've been friends with ... (197 words

My friend with whom several times I (just) shared the bed does not want to start a relationship until he's made a decision about his life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age - I spent last night in my friend's bed, for about the fifth time since we met. We have a close friendship but he has relationship issues as he is divorced, is struggling financially and trying to change his life somewhat, but seems to have put the marriage breakdown behind him. ... (392 words

Small bump + big baby = CONFUSED!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - heya :) well I'm 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby - a lovely little boy! :D Although everything has gone ok so far my bump is pretty small for the stage I'm at =S...alot of people have commented on how small it is in fact, some saying i will probaly have a small baby...B... (126 words

My friends and boyfriend rarely accept my suggestions and I usually only get to see them on THEIR terms, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I have a problem that is really affecting my whole life and I am not sure how to deal with it anymore. I love going out and enjoying myself and having fun with my friends and boyfriend but no one ever wants to do what I want. I gladly do what they want because I enjoy ... (503 words

His ex was a glamour model I can't compete with; why is he dating me...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have recently started seeing this really fit bloke and I am really happy but I have just found out that he used to date a glamour model and it ended badly between them, anyway, my situation is that I am the most flat chested female ever, and I am like why are you with me as ... (65 words

My BF has baught me lots of bikinis but I am not confident to wear them on a beach! In fact I would prefer not going on a beach holiday, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants us to go on holiday, which there is nothng wrong with, my problem is he has bought me lots of bikinis which he knows I wont wear becuase I sort of hide in big baggy clothes as I have stretch marks etc. and I look awful, how can I find the confidence to wear ... (80 words

Unhappy in this relationship, work it out or take a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for 2 plus yrs lived together for over a yr. The past 5 months, we've been arguing daily about pointless things. He gets so angry and defensive anytime I talk to him or ask him anything! I get frustrated and sad cause he's defensive and ... (435 words

I don't let him return oral as I like to be the one in control and he's starting to get annoyed...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I need some advice, I have been seeing this guy for a while and I give him oral all the time and it doesn't bother me, however, when he wants to return the favour I wont let him as I don't really like it and I think he is starting to get annoyed with me, I just don't feel ... (75 words

What's wrong with my sister? She's left home to be with a man who hits her and is very possessive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My sister has depression and she's missing. My mother left to go to meet her boyfriend in Chicago and she was gone for an entire month, she didn't leave us with anything to help pay the rent or the phone bill, cable bill etc. My sister kinda picked up the slack and then a week ... (186 words

What should I say when my friend introduces us??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi guys and girls, well i need help on chatting up a guy theres an age difference of about 6 years im 18 and hes 24, im going to a party and my friend said she would introduce us, so when i meet him i dont know what to say? i think he has a job but will we get on as theres an ... (95 words

As a result of his divorce he is losing his home. He has become distant towards me, I'm worried not knowing if it is the stress or his being interested in someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Meet this guy last year. We both were newly single and dating other people. After three months we decided to only date each other. We were together every night. He text me and couldnt wait until I would get to his house at night. He told me everyday how much he missed ... (300 words

Does anyone think maybe I married the wrong man? I just don't know anymore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 21 and have been married for 3 years. I had only been out of high school for a month when I got married. At the time I loved my husband but now I'm not so sure getting married was a smart idea. He hasn't had a steady job the whole time we've been married. He works ... (428 words

I kissed a girl because I was drunk and I'm so ashamed to tell my gir;friemd, I feel awful!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey, i just cheated on my absolutely perfect girlfriend, i kissed a girl in a night-club. so guilty. i broke up with her cause i couldn`t bear to look at her trusting face. i feel like a complete scumbag. i didnt tell her what i did i said i just needed some space..i just cant ... (118 words

His wall of silence is hurting me. I'm thinking of ending it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am very confused. I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year. He mentioned to me several months ago that he wanted us to see each other mid-week as well as at the weekends now that I am able to drive and haven't got to be so reliant on ... (308 words

All I said was "why are guys I meet out of my league?" and he stopped talking. Why? Anyway, he has a girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Bottom line: There is this guy who has a girlfriend...(just figure out the rest) During this past summer I was at a summer program and had a laptop with me. The computer had msn messenger so I randomly went on it to see who I had in my friend list for the past 5 years. Since I ... (734 words

I made a huge mistake going back to my ex. Now it's over, I don't know how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F - I made a huge mistake of going back to my ex, falling in love with him again and getting dumped by him again. It all started 3 years ago when he dumped me for someone else. It was heartbreaking and it took 18 months until I was fully over it. Then earlier this year he and this ... (394 words

He doesn't know I have anorexia. Should I tell him and risk losing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - So I've been going out with this guy for about 10 months now. He is wonderful---never pressures me to do anything I don't want to do, telling me how he loves just being with me, he's sweet, incredibly attractive, adorably shy, and always tells me how I can tell him ... (311 words

I just got the job of my dreams but I'm still madly in love with my ex.!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just got the job of my dreams but I'm still madly in love with my ex. He has been txting me and recently sent me one saying he was thinking about me. I also recently found out he spoke to a friend of mine and told her that if the woman he loves came to him and wanted things ... (203 words

Why wont he talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've known this guy since i started my secondary school but he's never really spoken to me. I've tried talking to him soooo many times but he just ignores me. he talks to my friends but ignores me. but i keep catching him looking at me. Whats goin on? why wont he talk to me... (67 words

Can some one give me a clear description of what the "first time" pain is like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i'm 19, and frickin scared of my first time. Could someone please try to explain the pain, relate it to something? and this is for the people that it really did hurt for?... (34 words

Contraceptive injection-how long it takes for the body to get back to normal??

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17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was on the contraceptive injection from December 2007 to April 2008, I still haven't started my periods again after 4 months, do you know how long it takes for the body to get back to normal??... (37 words

What does he really think of me?-I need all the advice I can get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi well heres the thing its a long story but im going to give you a brief outline A Month ago i slept with a guy who iv been on a date with well 2 nights together ,[didnt do nothing]. Anyway he dumped me cus his head was a bit fucked up anyway a month ago i saw him... (462 words

If I give him hand relief once will he insist that I do it all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi i think me and my boyfriend mite be getting close to some heavy petting, like handjobs. the only thing i'm scared of is, once i give him a handjob, will it just be expected to be done frequently after that??... (41 words

Want to go a bit farther, but where could we do it in privacy??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey i'm 17 (almost 18) and have been going out with my guy for about 4 months. So far we've kissed, made out, caressed each other's upper bodies through clothes and under clothes(though I had a bra on)..and now I feel we're ready for he and/or I to take our shirts off and/or ... (200 words

I would like to ask her out, is it too soon after her recent split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am 18, and never had a real girlfriend, however, Ive have secretly fancied my step couson.(no blood relation) When we first met we were like two peas in a pod but me being me i was too shy to take it any further. quite a while after she got a boyfriend, they split up about a ... (87 words

He flirts with me and tells me he wants to be with me but when I say lets be together he says nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - please help!recently i started talking to my very first boyfriend.im talkin high school sweetheart.the thing is i still have very strong feelings for him.i told him but he didnt realy say much.he flirts with me and tells me he wants to be with me but when i say lets be together ... (95 words

Ex has not mentioned new Guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (M - Hi My ex of four months has stayed in touch and we are now friends. We catch up every few weeks. However, she has a new guy but I only know this because a mutual friend told me. She hasn't mentioned it. Likewise, she hasn't asked if I have met anyone? I thought we were ... (71 words

Will dwarfism and lack of confidence make me less appealing to boys in middle school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - So, I know I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I'm going into middle school. Now, I've heard this is where, some boys actually FINALLY like girls. And we're being combined with another school. So MORE BOYS!! Yay. But I have a disease, with dwarfism, and I can't find good clothes ... (149 words

Is my MM still interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - he is married,dumped me once and we went back together,he had bn seeing my colleagues but dint have time to confront him,i met him a day before he left for vacation and had sex with him,he was away for two weeks and came to aparty,he saw me dancing with another guy,i sensed ... (166 words

I kept a secret and he found out, now he can't trust me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have recently spilt from my husband of 4 years after i kept a secret from him and he found out.. he said that i should be able to tell him anything and that he now doesnt believe a word i say and has lost all feelings for me... i love my husband with all my heart and really ... (85 words

I don't know who to trust or believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

17 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - hi! me and my guy both are schooling but not in the same one. we came in touch through a common friend of ours. we have feelings towards each for the last three months and i have not known him for more than even a month before dating him. everybody around consider me to be... (184 words

Can I still exercise with a healed hemorrhoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - Quick question, health related, a bit embarrasing, but I had a small external hemorrhoid that is healing naturally, it doesn't hurt but what I want to know is, can I still go to gym and do my normal excerise, running cycling weights etc, or will it aggravate it, or should I ... (64 words

The condom came off inside me, no leaks, but am I at risk of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had sex last night, (we use condoms) and when he pulled out, the condom stayed in side me. There didn't seem to be any leakage, it was all in the bototm of the condom where it should be, and I didn't appear to have any sperm inside me...But is there a chance ... (181 words

My nearly-ex husband is taking money I put into the joint account to pay the bills. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my husband are in the middle of seperating .He is still in the house at the moment ,but i have seperated my wage and his wage into our own accounts on the understanding that we both put money in to our joint accout to pay the bills.But he is taking money out of the ... (70 words

I want someone I know I can't have...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

17 August 2008 (F - Well i guess i'm writing here for advice on how to get over someone i haven't even been out with... I've been good friends with a guy i work with for nearly 3 years...i'd always assumed we were friends but recently through one reason or another i have questioned the n... (176 words

I can't give myself an orgasm...Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 16 years old, and I have tried masturbating before, but i have never orgasmed from it I had sex not to long ago, and I still didn't orgasm. Could u help me like tell me how to masturbate?... (42 words

Please help- I don't want to go back to school to probably get beaten up and be hated!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Im 14 and i have problems at school and someone told my mate that they were fighting and so i was like Oh My God! So i went into school and asked the people they were ''fighting'' with and they didnt know anything bout it and i said to the person, '' please dont tell anyone ... (224 words

We were together for ages is she really over me or just saying it because I ruined her prom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my ex girlfriend we're together for a year and a half and we weren't just boyfriend girlfriend we were also best friends and I miss her everyday. Whilst we were broken up she saw a pic of me on facebook talking to another girl and she got really angry and said we'd never ... (391 words

I am shocked that my husband had a bisexual encounter 8 years ago!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband told me last night that he experimented a few times with another guy. He said that it was when he was in his early 20's (about 7 or 8 years ago). I am totally weirded out and don't know what to do. He said he might do it again if I was there as a threesome type ... (105 words

Is it ok to date your ex bf's acquaintance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F - Is it ok to date your ex bf's acquaintance? My ex bf broke up with me about 5 months ago. Recently this guy who is an acquaintance of my ex asked me out on a date. I knew this guy before I went out with my ex but we were never really friends or really close. So I am ... (301 words

He is pushing me away and I need help! thank you.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and hope to move in together in the next year or so (we did at university and it worked great). He used to be so sensitive, sweet almost too good to be true and we got on so well. Being in a long distance relationship means ... (136 words

I just want some advice from some ladies that know what to do and help me get round these problems with my gf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I have a chat moment with my girlfriend coming up. Its something not good. Shes getting frustrated with me. I got her upset about a board game time. I have a thing called Asbergers syndrome and she knows it. I don't think she knows everything about it. I know it ... (541 words

My boyfriend looks a gay porn! Does that mean he's bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, we are very much in love and talking about marrage and children etc. My problem is i recently found out that he's been looking up gay porn on the internet. When i confronted him about it he said it was nothing for ... (185 words

She says I'm a nice guy and would hate to hurt me. Is it wrong to still have feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, i'll try and make this as brief as possible. I'm 21 and have never been in a real relationship. Last year i found out a friend from work liked me, which was a real suprise becus i have always liked her, but thought she was out of my league to even try. It took a while ... (426 words

I can't trust him! I'm convinced he goes out with girls when he's with his friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F - My long distance bf went out with his friend tonight and had not called me yet. His guy friend is spending the weekend over at his place; they went out at 9 pm at night and it is 4:00 am and he has not called me. I called hime, but didn't answer. The problem is that I don't ... (170 words

Am I paranoid about having a crush on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I don't even know her name.. I'm only 15 and know that it will take some time to figure out my true sexuality- but its darn annoying!! i go to a all girls school and i have a -what i think is a crush? I feel like a see this girl everywhere i go and every time i see he... (273 words

I don't want to tell him I have feelings and risk making a fool of myself and ruining our friendship. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Btw, I'm only writing anonymous, because I don't want anyone from school to see this. Obviously, there is this guy i like. I've been friends with him for almost a year. I've only recently started to actually realise i have feelings for him. It looks like he's interested in... (121 words

Do I stay with my boyfriend? What about this older kid I used to have a "thing" with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - alright so i have a boyfriend. we're really close but we fight a lot. and we've been trying so hard to make it work. well tonight i get a text from this older kid that i kind of use to have a "thing" with. he had a girlfriend when i was talking to him but that didn't stop him. ... (275 words

I lose it when she is on top. How can I fix that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am having a huge problem. I have been with this girl for a while, and we are very close. However, lately sometimes when we have sex, it only works when I am on top of her. When she gets on to of me, I lose it sometimes. This doesn't happen all the time, but often enough that ... (134 words

I met a woman 3 years ago and we haven't even kissed yet

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17 August 2008 (M age - I have meet a women 3 years ago, I enjoy being with her, but we have not even kissed yet, she knows (atleast I think she does) I feel about her. Her past ex left her with really bad feelings, she's has told me very little, but he did sexual abuse her. How do I get her to eve... (67 words

My boyfriend constantly checks out other girls online

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend constantly checks out other girls pictures and blogs online and deletes away the browser history. Previously, I have caught him watching porn, he confessed and told me since that incident he did not surf for porn. But now, he checks out other girls even thou... (144 words

He said that there are no rules to breaks. but I always thought there was?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend and i are on a break for a little bit, yeah i already know the chances of us breaking up already but we really do love eachother, this break is just so we can focus on school for a bit. and we act like we're not even on a break, except the fact we dont talk ... (175 words

I can't deep throat likew his ex did. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok this is sorta embarrassing but i give my boyfriend blowjobs alot right, but like i cant completely have his penis in my mouth...i can deepthroat, but it'll make me want to vomit if i do. but me and my boyfriend were talking about what he did with his ex and he said that she ... (110 words

Is it ok for us to masturbate together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I've been wandering whether it would be alright for me(male and my cousin(female) to masturbate together? We're both the same age and are really close. Please reply, Thanks... (39 words

It was the last proper day with my boyfriend for a while, and he didn't seem to think it was anything special

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i dont know this isnt anything big, but like today was kinda the last day of summer with my boyfriend, i mean ill see him again for sure but not get to spend a whole day with him, because hes going to college and im going to my junior year. but like today was suppose to be ... (132 words

Are there any natural alternatives to viagra?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

17 August 2008 (M age - Hi i have been taken viagra to help me achive and maintain a good size erection. the viagra works but the side effect are a massive head arce for 24 hours after are there any natural ways to achive the same result. my blood pressure is normal, i dodn't use salt, i exe... (104 words

Preteen girl troubles

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17 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm twelve years old. Six months ago I saw one most beatiful and intelligent girls on earth. She is(in my opinion) out of my league. It got to the point that I paid some of my friends to convince her that I was a good choice for her. During summer break, I just happened to ... (165 words

Why do males climax quicker than females?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am really curious of this, but why does it take a women so much to climax, but for a guy, it doesn't take that much work? Am I right or wrong?... (32 words

Does the running-your-fingers-up-his-spine-during-orgasm technique sound familiar?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi so I read once (I really can't remember where), that gently running your fingers up a guy's spine(starting at lower back) as he orgasms heightens the experience for him. Does this sound familiar to anyone? I mean, me and my bf we heavily making out the other day, and just ... (130 words

What do people think about 3rd cousins dating or sleeping together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been talking to my third cousin who lives in a different state. He is coming to my state here in a week or so and we have been talking about spending time together and maybe going on some dates when he is here and who knows what else... My question is what do people ... (100 words

I'm a very insecure man and I lied to her about really stupid stuff. Do I have a chance with her?

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17 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have worked with this woman for two years. We finally met in April and immediatly started to date. I am a very, very insecure man and I lied about some really stupid stuff. She found out one by one (there were three) and each time I told here there were no more lies. I ... (90 words

My girlfriend is sending me mixed signals, and I don't know if she wants sex or not, and I don't want to pressure her, please give me some advice?

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17 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey Dear Cupid I have been going out with this girl for 2 months and she makes me go crazy for her. I love this girl. Lately I have been wanting sex... I don't know what to do because we would be making out and she just takes her top off and bra off and thats as far as it gets ... (123 words

Cheating: It just happened so what do I do?

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17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have just recently found out my boyfriend has cheated on me.We have split up but i really want him back.He says that he doesn't know who he loves me or her.I know im acting stupid and should try and forget about him but i cant.I think i love this man and i just cant get him ... (104 words

My boyfriend hangs out with MY best friend more than me! Is this a big deal?

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. we were close before that so we're even closer now. but he hangs out with MY best friend (shes a girl) more than me. and it really bothers me. they live close to eachother but when they hang out they're usually with one ... (143 words

Is he controlling or is this just how guys are?

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17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - When my boyfriend gets mad at me for something, whether it was something I said or the way I said it (tone wise) He gets really upset with me. He doesnt want me around him, wont talk to me if I try talking to him and goes to the point of talking about breaking it off with me if ... (182 words

I'm down about not having much of a sex life recently...any suggestions?

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, this is probably going to sound ridiculous.. But I keep getting really down about the fact I've not had much of a sex life recently. I last had sex/got intimate with someone in March, and last had sex with someone I loved a year ago.. And it's getting me seriously do... (180 words

Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace?

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17 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace? My bf has a band and he's the admin of their Myspace. He got a friend request from one of these stripper types, you know, those girls that have Myspace pages where they're almos naked, they're hot, etc. They show off all their asses ... (269 words

Do I ride out the storm of this sexless relationship or do I finish it?

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17 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - ok, I have been in the same relationship for nearly 10 years and have been completely faithful throughout. My problem is, my partner and i have not had sex for nearly 6 months she is under a lot of pressure from work and with ill parents. I understand that this is what has ... (144 words

Are there any natural remedies for depression?

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I think I may be suffering depression. I feel like there is a constant black cloud over my head. Most of the time I feel down, tired and tearful for no reason. I no longer have any desire to go out, like I once did. I just want to stay in bed all day. Ive had these feeling ... (107 words

I'm on my placebo week and still show no signs of a normal cycle. Is this weird?

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I've been on Microgynon 30 for 7 seven months now. Have not missed a pill, taking it at my usual time. My boyfriend and I of 11 months had stopped using condoms 4 months ago (both clean no worries). During, my placebook week I usually (always) have a withdrawal bleed... (133 words

Help - I'm falling in love with my best friend!

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17 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hey, I would never normally contact this website about anythin like this, i normally keep this for more deeper things that i feel alone with but this has gotten out of my feelings and strength and i just cant stand it anymore and i need advice. Basically im falling in love wit... (231 words

Are there men out there who are okay with girls who don't wax their pubes?

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17 August 2008 (? age 36-40 - just a question for men: Are there men out there who are ok with girls who don't wax their pubes? I waxed and it was so painful that I decided never again! Also, as alternative, I tried Veet, but that gives me rash, and makes me feel itchy. So now I have decided: bugger ... (128 words

I'm seriously in love but depression wrecked our relationship! Now I'm depressed I can't get her back...

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17 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I was with this girl for about a year, in a long distance relationship. I was up at school, she was back in my hometown. She was so, so good to me. However, I was going through a really tough bout of depression during our time together. I hated my life, I hated myself, and I ... (1344 words

Should I tell him I want to have a relationship and risk scaring him off? I want to know where I stand!

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17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am casually seeing a man who I have developed strong feelings for. Because we began as friends, rather than officially dating, I'm confused as to where I stand with him. He has been over to my house a few times, and we've flirted, kissed and cuddled. The last time we were ... (174 words

Masturbation: There's got to be more to it than this!

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17 August 2008 (? age 36-40 - I need a bit of advice regarding masturbation. I stared masturbating about 5 years ago, and I do not have a problem in reaching a climax. However, when I reach that point when my body starts shaking and my toes tingling, I don't know what to do from there. Feeling out of ... (131 words

My new guy babysits his ex's cat! Are they too close or what?

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17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have started dating this guy and its been going great. He seems very interested in me, but the problem is he is still very close with his ex. He has told me its totally over but she is his first love. He is always on her facebook, shes on the top of his buddy list, and they ... (68 words

I can't get deep enough into his life to see where I stand! How can I get some real answers here?

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17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and all of a sudden i feel insecure about our relationship. It's all because it's hard to know what he is doing on a day to day basis-not 24.7. but anything. We live together and he never tells me where he is going-when I ask ... (127 words

My future boyfriend's close girlfriend makes me uncomfortable! Will he cheat again?

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend cheated on me, and a couple years later we are thinking of getting back together again. we never were able to stop caring about each other completely though we had other relationships. i trust him. when girls flirt, i dont get upset, just jealous. i ju... (284 words

Respect: Is there hope for improving our relationship?

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17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Why does he treat me badly and what can be done to improve our relationship?  My boyfriend of over 2 years is treating me unkindly. He has a very short temper with me, calls me bad names -jokingly he sais- and does not seem to trust me. I have told him to stop calling me names, ... (236 words

How do I get a withdrawn man to open up to me in a LDR?

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17 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year in a long distance relationship. I am finding it a real struggle lately, and am not sure where I stand with him. He was open with me from the beginning and told me that he finds things difficult to talk about (although I ... (697 words

I have new feelings lurking inside me for my boyfriend's friend!

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have just started a relationship with this guy and we have been dating for about a month. on the second day that we were dating i met his best friend "nick". as soon as i laid eyes on him i knew i was in trouble. i felt this immediate connection and was drawn to him. well in ... (131 words

He cheats and I don't trust him but should we get back together? Will I be hurt again?

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17 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - me and my ex have been texting and meeting for about a year and only recently we've got together, we were together a week then broke up, i finished it because we argue way to much and its complicated between us. i havent seen or thought of him since and i seen him couple of ... (132 words

Should I tell him my feelings before he becomes famous?

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17 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have had a crush on this boy for about a few months i havent been able to do anything or tell him how i feel because i have been busy.i recently found out he is on a very popular singing show and has got through to the "boot camp stage".i dont know if he has got any futher in ... (105 words

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