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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I really too clingy or is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i have been going out with this boy for about two months, we knew each other before that though. He came to new york on vacation and it was great, although there were few things i dint like - i got over it. once during sex he told me that he loved me and that he is tota... (131 words)

I'm worried about my ex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been split up with my ex for about 2 months now and she has started seeing someone else but whereas when we split up we talked all the time, now i'm lucky if i get a text replied to. The person she with now has told her not to have any contact with me plus she fell out ... (88 words)

I just don't know how to get him to notice me or even if he's actually interested...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i like this guy where ive been working on and off for about 3 years, ive liked him for about a year now. i just melt when i see him and he just makes me laugh all the time. it seems also that he finds it easy to talk to me and i managed to cheer him up at work a few weeks back... (117 words)

Should I ask my doctor if he's married or let him keep flirting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - To make a long story short. My doctor and I are attracted to one another. I notice everytime he examies me he takes his strong hands and rub up and down my arm four to five times and it feels so damn good. Another thing I notice was the strong eyecontact. He looks at me ... (103 words)

Can he really want me even though I'm fat?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Im 21 and iv got a dilema! Im thinking of loosing my virginity to a person i trust 100% although i trust him i cant help thinking about how turned off he will be when he see's the fat. Yes im a big girl and its not as if he doesnt know but he hasnt seen me with no clothes ... (87 words)

Since the move a week ago we are hardly intimate, I put it down to stress on both sides but I'm becoming insecure about my weight...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, My fiance and I have been together nearly 3 years, have just moved into a new house, got a puppy etc things couldn't seem to be more stable. However, since the move a week ago we are hardly intimate and I've put it down mainly to stress on both sides. Tonight I... (320 words)

When I am without him I am sick over him and when I am with him I hate him - why can't I LEAVE him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have gone out with this guy since I was 18. Like most relationships we started out really happy and so in love. But as time went on I discovered he is bipolar and has a drug problem. He's been in rehabs and stuff and sees a counselor about his issues. ... (293 words)

I realised I was very attracted to another woman; I never felt this with my wife, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have been together a total of 10 years, 8 married. My wife is kind and caring, but we have nothing in common really. She was my second girlfriend. We started living together and seemed to get along good, so I proposed. There was never this moment of firework... (371 words)

My girlfriend suddenly doesn't wanna have sex with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey My gf is 25 and i'm 18. i was a virgin before her but she has slept with men before. We have been together about 6months now and we have been having sex about 5months now. We had our days of constant arguing and at that time she never wanted to have sex with me. Bef... (279 words)

When a woman 'blanks' a guy - how should he react to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. A man and a woman start to engage in an office flirtation after having worked occasionally with each other for 4 years. After 6 months of manoeuvring the woman blatantly comes on to the man and then the man asks the woman out via e-mail the following day. The women then... (192 words)

I'd feel uncomfortable if the school found out my boyfriend is bi...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My current boyfriend is bi-sexual,i don't really care because i know he only loves me... Your going to think this is a stupid question but he has had rumors and the only one that's true it that he's bi. He's also 4 years older than me,and the people that don't know him,go b... (177 words)

What am I?! Am I bi!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am sooo confused about my sexuality. i dont know if im bisexual. i have a boyfriend, but the thought of naked women or being with another girl dosent make me cringe. can anyone help me find out who i am?... (41 words)

What's your view? I don't want to believe I got played...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Kinda long..sorry..I met this really cute guy at a night club. We danced last few songs. Got his number. A few days later I go to his place. We kiss and hug (didn't hit 3rd base), but after we talked and laughed for a few hours. I then saw him again about a week later. Same ... (288 words)

Problems with shaving in the intimate area...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it that after I shave my pubes "down there" and my underarms I get cysts and there are 2-5 hairs coming from the same follicle? its not like that when I shave my legs.... (37 words)

He always seemed to have a very healthy sex drive that gradually disappeared to nothing since the sexual problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been having some sexual problems, but now he seems to be avoiding spending time alone with me. We haven't had penetrative sex for 5 months because I am finding it really painful so I was doing hand jobs on him which he really enjoyed but then he star... (444 words)

Whats the best position to get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what's the best positions to get pregnant?... (7 words)

Why has my ex made me feel guilty for going on a date, when he has been going on dates for months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do I feel guilty for going on a new date? Me and my ex split about 7 months ago. Its been rocky since, he works with a member of my family, and they go in the pub next door to me after work every day. But ive managed to stay friends with him, apart from occasional bitching ... (743 words)

My husband says his money is his and doesn't give me and the children any. Should I give up on this marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question. My husband works 10 hours a day 6 days a work , he never spends time with me and my children. And to top it off I am home this summer with the kids and no money to go anywere. HE says that the money he makes is his and I cant have any. If he dose give me ... (133 words)

I don't know what to do? I feel I have no friends my age. I am 18.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do? i feel i have no friends my age (18). i live in a small village and i went to the primary school for a few years but halfway through i went to a private school about 20 mins from my village i never really had any friends at my local primary school, ... (262 words)

My husband had an affair - now I'm having fantasies about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband was working overseas for several months. During this time we carried on a healthy phone sex relationship. After he came home, I discovered not only he was having an affair, but that he had sex with her while we were having phone sex. Of course I feel betrayed and ... (73 words)

My boyfriend suffers from depression and is pushing me away. I don't know what to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 2 years suffers from depression when things go wrong. He has recently started a new job after beig made redundant but is not happy there. Last week he told me how much he loved me, glad he had me and thought the world of me. This week something went wrong at ... (165 words)

I'm not feeling my guy loves me like I want him to. Please help..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last time last week.i told called it quits but i never gave my boyfriend real reason behind that. I just told him the spark i used to feel has disappered.But my real reals was i never felt my boo treating me like the girlfriend.he doesnt buy me gift,or call me often.all he told ... (300 words)

I found a very suspicious email... is my wife cheating? She says it's just a joke.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello - I am a married male 41 yrs of age - married 15 yrs now - and recently caught this reply email from my wife's male friend in her hot mail account. I found it by accident one day cleaning out old files on our laptop. Didn't even know she had an email account of her own.... (198 words)

What should I do?! Am I a lesbian or not?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hi i am 13 years old and i get really really horny alot and i think i mihgt like girls but i like guys to idk if its wrong?but i have a older sister who is 16 and ive seen her naked and shes hott! and i like girl a little but idk if i should tell any 1 ... (59 words)

My mum has married the guy who's daughter I have been seeing! We didn't know before the wedding. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a really big problem and i need immediate advice. Okay, a few months ago, my mum announced that she had met a new man (my parents divorced years ago) and i had met a girl recently as well. I was really happy because we were both happy and moving on from a lot of ... (251 words)

Should I say or should I go?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 21, male, not a virgin but I haven't had sex in a couple years. I have been waiting for this girl, who has had a boyfriend for years and she like me for a while but I didn't want to "steal her" or whatnot. Now she's recently single but already fooling around with a ... (92 words)

My fiancee prefers porn over me - I don't feel loved anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and i Have beentogether for 5 years andwhen we first started dating i had no problem with his porn because it wasent a lot of it.then he went nuts with it and he had a gig of it and it hurt so bad because i felt like i wasent hot enough for him.he looks up non nude ... (160 words)

My ex is dating a younger man. I still have feelings for her and I'm concerned about our children. Thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just found out my Ex who is 31 is dating a man 21 years old. We have 2 children that were intruduced to him weeks after we separated. He stays a night over there and I am sure he watches them when she needs free time. I do have concerns since he is a young adult with no ... (318 words)

I am not attracted to my husband anymore, we fight all the time, and I keep thinking about this other man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help with my marriage.. Here's the deal we have 3 kids been married for 7 years and together for 13 years. Things have gradually been getting bad. We barely can open our mouths with out fighting, we are at each others throats all the time. I really feel he is too ... (289 words)

Why am I so miserable and boring around the girl I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - It's crazy, but how can I lighten up around the girl I really like? It seems whenever I'm around her I just transform into some miserable boring git and not my usual self. It's so frustrating! Why can't I be my normal self? Any advice??... (51 words)

How can I prevent myself ejaculating early?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a male virgin, but I want to loose my virginity to someone. I've read numerous books on dating and charisma and conversational skills. I've even read books on sexual techniques. My only concern is lasting a "respectable" time with someone I really like. Is there any way to ... (64 words)

My boyfriend cheated, I forgave him, I didn't cheat but he's split up with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A little while ago i asked for help because my boyfriend got another girl pregnant and didnt want to tell him that we were together well he did tell the girl but now we are arguing he found some messages that i have been writing to my ex but they werent anything serious were ... (172 words)

We broke up and he's changed for the better but has someone new. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 1/2 years 2 months ago because I was tired of him not having any goals (no GED, dead-end job) and he was never affectionate towards me. Once we broke up we still talked about he was affectionate but it felt so forced. 1 month after we broke up ... (202 words)

What should I do about my sister watching lesbian porn?!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1714 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Many times i have caught my sister watching porn and kind of grinding to a stack of pillows (the way a man would to a woman). anyway, it was lesbian porn and shes 12 years old. i didnt tell her i knew in case of embarrassment. but i dont know if its normal for a 12 year old ... (99 words)

Sex seems to be causing trouble since our pregnancy scare....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend, have sex quite alot, and its great! we had this one experiance that we thought i wos pregenent. it wos quite a scare and i cried to him, and he did the same back, not becos of the situation buh becos it scared us. he said he wonted to slow down and ... (133 words)

Wonderful but noncomittal boyfriend - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at a loss of what to do now, as my heart is in it. I've been dating this guy for since the beg. of january, and we are still not in a committed relationship. I know he's not dating other people, and currently, neither am I. We have awesome chemistry, and only have fights ... (207 words)

My trust in my long-distance girlfriend is fading away. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well ive been in a long distance relationship for 7 months and we hae been friends for 3 years but we see each other at least once every 2 weeks. she never showed any sign of cheating on me if i texted she would always text back always flashed my phone never changed her voice ... (445 words)

I'm confused - my friend is sending me mixed signals.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm bisexual and I've been friends with this guy for ages. Ever since I met him I've been very sexually attracted to him. During the course of our friendship I disclosed that I was bisexual to him, he was surprised but never brought it up again or made an issue of it or me. ... (485 words)

How can I convince her that I am a nice guy?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey I am a 15 year old male and I am feeling really low because i really like this girl but she will not go out with me, because i have ony had 2 other girlfriends. What can i do to make her see that im a nice guy even though i have not had much experiance?... (63 words)

I'm paranoid my boyfriend will break his promise - help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend took cocaine infront of me and i can't get over it. Me and my boyfriend have been together over 8 months now and we have spent almost everyday together, we never really argue and were like best friends. One weekend we was at his mates house and i walked in ... (281 words)

I think I still like my boyfriend - but its affecting my life - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old gal....its almost 3 months since my breakup...my problem is very strange i can't really express it but still I'll try my best in explaining it....sometimes i feel that i love him still...i can't live without him nor am i able to concentrate on my studies... ... (191 words)

I'm getting mixed signals...what does he want from me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy I like, same age but he is my teacher and soon ex teacher, he likes to stare at any chance he gets, he uses the word beautiful very often in my company while looking at me. I run into him frequently and im begining to think he is stalking me, well it feels ... (177 words)

I'm ready to leave him but I still love him! I can't trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man cheats on his girlfriend when she is pregnant and you stay with him can you trust he will never do it again? Also if a man doesnt help out around the house or with the kids can he ever change? I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and when I was 3 months pregnan... (175 words)

I'm feeling insecure about my boyfriend - please advise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've a question on cheating by text. I am with someone 10 years. Up till now the relationship has been good. He goes away a lot for international sports competitions. At the last one (June) he mentioned he gave advice to a fellow sportsperson and that they became frie... (220 words)

How should I greet my boyfriend when I get back from travelling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hello, im about to turn 16 in a month. but anyways, this is kinda stupid but you see im traveling at right now and though i know it wasnt the best idea i got back together with my boyfriend while ive been away. thing is last time we were together we didnt get that far, like we ... (106 words)

I have discovered I am bisexual. It's confusing, and I am unable to tell my wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age - I have discovered that late in life that I am Bi sexual! I am married to a wonderful lady but I do have a regular male partner and soon we are going to have a threesome with another guy that I know and trust! I am scared of the intensity of my feelings and yet afterwards I feel ... (126 words)

I'm too shy to go on top. My boyfriend keeps asking me to. Tonight I'm going to try. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im quite a shy girl, and tonight i'm going on top for the 1st time. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend im with now. That was about two weeks ago. And he has asked me to go on top several times. And i say next time alot. Or i dont want to. He asked me why, because you dont know ... (136 words)

We want to go out somewhere different but we don't have much money. Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is taking me out tomorrow night. But he always puts me first, so said its up to me. I dont have a clue. Lol. Tbh, he's money might be a bit tight because he's got to pay out for a new engine for his moped as it blew up. He has appolagised many times about the ... (142 words)

Is he taking advantage of me?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this taking advantage? I have lent someone money, they are my best friend and he needed help, and the deal was to pay back once a month but this month he couldn't afford it so I said it was ok to miss this month and he was very grateful but now he said that he is going... (83 words)

I can't seem to orgasm - is there something wrong with me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sixteen years old. My boyfriend and I have had sex over sixty times, and I've never orgasmed once! Sometimes it feels better then other times.. but I can never actually GET there. Is something wrong with me!? I need tips.... (48 words)

I was going to visit my love and he said "I'm not going to be there cuz I don't want to meet you". Was he joking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i need some advice. there is this guy i m in luv with and he loves me too..i recently told him that i wud be visiting his town soon,and he said..i wanna tell u that i m not gonna be there...cuz i dont want to meet u... i was shocked and said "of course i understand... (158 words)

All the answers for "I don't know what to do when I'm on top".... Well they're not working for me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

- Okay, I know there's loads of questions from girls out there asking "I don't know what to do when I'm on top", and theoretically the answers are pretty good. But they don't seem to be working for me. My boyfriend doesn't really mind, but he still ends up doing all the work even ... (148 words)

I've had this crush for a long time, should I give up on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a crush on this guy since March 2008, and it wasn't just the puppy-love kind. I felt really attracted to him. He was younger than me, but I felt it didn't matter, because he was still my classmate. Anyway, I gave up on him a week after I fell in love with him, thinking ... (203 words)

How do I move on from this relationship but remain friends with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has recently broken up with me and no i do not want to get back with her, but i do want to remain friends but i dont know what steps to take to make that happen because now she happens to be dating my best friend and every time i see them the hurt just comes back ... (73 words)

How do I start to get to know this girl better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Stuff about me is I'm 16, I'm pretty slim cuz of the high metabolism and good looking. I'm on the computer like 75% of the time but am willing to go out anywhere and anytime. I have goals to go to college and get a good job. And like most gentleman I have good manners when I'm ... (658 words)

I really want to feel chemistry again but it's not happened since I was in high school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. here it goes. i'm an eighteen-year-old female. when i was a freshman in high school, i developed this horrible, unreciprocated crush on this older guy, a bass player i knew. it was one of those butterflies-in-the-stomach, obsessively-checking-my-phone, classic crush ki... (443 words)

Our relationship has gone long distance.. will it work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Due to working, I moved to another place which is far from my gf. We can no longer meet each other. The next time I meet her will be end of next year. It becomes a distance relationship. It has been few months now. Everything is doing great. My gf is going to work soon. She h... (323 words)

I get pre-ejaculation when we are just hanging out or talking - can I control this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys! Uhm I have a question.. Well I had my other one answered but its not solved.. So me and my girlfriend had sex and its great and all but like I said, what I hate is that sometimes when were just talking or just hanging out doing nothing sexual..I get whts called "... (76 words)

Can one take a fertility test to see who is the father during pregnancy?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I has sex today and my boyfriend came over and I decided to take a pregnancy test like an hour or two after the test and it came back positive. I am late on my period and I keep getting ill and my boobs are hurting. I don't want to go to the doctor unless I really have to and ... (145 words)

I love my boyfriend, but he does not want to work, or go to school, he plays xbox 360 all day long, I am 18, he is 20, what can I say to motivate him to do something with his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 18 and i have a bf thats 20.I love him alot but the thing is that he doesnt work and doesnt wanna go to school or like basically do anything..All he does is play on xbox 360 the whole day.. 1.How should I tell him to do something with his life? ... (58 words)

I had a great husband of thirty years who passed away, now I just left an eight month relationship, where my boyfriend lied, cheated and watched porn, others have been just as bad, what has happened to men, I am losing faith in them, can anyone expla

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age - i just came out of a relationship of 8 months, I have found the man i liked , likes porn, also cheats, and lies,I couldn't trust him at all. I have also found this in lots of other men, What is my problem, or what is their problem i am turning against men. And that bothers me. ... (87 words)

My true love and first boyfriend, and I just broke up and I am devastated, the pain is so great, I feel so empty, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My first boyfriend and true love just broke up with me. He said he can't stand me, that he hates me. But I love him so much and can't believe this, I'm so hurt right now and desperate. This same man told me a few days ago that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me! I ... (119 words)

I am dating my best friend, who started to be with me before she broke up with her last boyfriend, I have trust issues here, she is a "friendly" girl, do I try to have her draw the line with her male friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi just started dating my best friend. We've been friends since her last relationship and well she's a really "friendly" person. I know cause when we were friends she kinda cheated of her bf. We nvr did anything that's considered cheating but with things we said and all the ... (140 words)

We have been together for four years, married one, lately I have become dissatisfied with our sex life, I want more with intensity, he cannot last long enough to satisfy me, I love him, he is caring, but I need more from him, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 22 years old. i met my husband when i was 18 and he was 27. he was my first in everything. we've been together for 4 years and married 1 out of those 4yrs. i love him with all my heart, but lately i started noticing changes in myself. it's kind of embarrassing to talk ... (251 words)

We agreed to an open relationship, now I have changed my mind, not in love, but I care about him and want him to understand my feelings, how can I get him to listen to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for about 7 months now. We agreed to an open relationship. He still sees his ex-wife also. To begin with I was ok with all of this. Now, it bothers me. He talks to me about what they do and tells me where they go but he doesn't tell her what we ... (141 words)

What do you do after a "cool off" period, I am at a loss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what's the best thing to do after a "cool-off"?... (9 words)

My girlfriend enjoys oral sex, but her pubic hair is a turnoff for me, I've talked to her about it, but so far it is still the same, what do I do now?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl says she really enjoys guys giving her oral sex. I really want to but im put off by her pubes. I don't want her pubes in my mouth. I've talked to her about it and she says she might get it waxed but that was months ago and still the bush remains. What do i do?... (58 words)

I am 16, when I masturbate, one-quarter of the time, no semen comes out, and when it does, it comes out without force, why, is there a problem here?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it that 25% of the time I masturbate, no cum comes out? And why doesn't it 'shoot' out when I cum? I could understand if I was younger but I'm 16!... (33 words)

After seven plus years of marriage, my husband cheated, I don't know for how long, no details, I am deeply hurt, but still love him, he wants to repair the damage, I don't know that we can, what should I do?

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8 August 2008 (F) age 41-50 - we've been together for almost 8 years, i can't believe that he can do that to me... he cheated, i don't know how long because until now he can't explain, he can't detail what happened and why he did it, i love him... very much and trusted him... but i don't know if i can still ... (128 words)

I care about this girl who is the girfriend of one of my friends, I find myself liking her more and more, but I am trying to annoy her so that nothing happens, is this the right thing to do?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I’m not sure exactly what to do, in regards a friend. Although I think that I originally made a mistake when I decided to be friends with her and nothing more, I don’t fancy this girl. But I do find myself really caring about her. Nothing could ever happen with her (as she ... (222 words)

If you have sex in a pool, without ejaculation, can you still get a girl pregnant?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is it possible when having sex in a pool and not coming, to still get the girl pregnant?... (18 words)

I hate my life, my family is poor, I broke out the windows at school, when I was drunk, told my best friend, she told the principal, now I have to pay for the windows, why did my friend tell on me?

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8 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I hate my life (all the teachers hate at my school my guts) . My family is poor (we don't have a lot things). One night I got so drunk that I broke most of the windows at my school with baseball bat. I can barely remember it. When told one of friends Hannah (not her real na... (95 words)

I have a co-worker, he's 30, I'm 19, he flirts with me all the time, he has told me about his girlfriend, I don't know how to act around him, I don't want to have an affair, but how should I behave?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think this guy that I work with likes me. I am 19 and he is 30. He is always staring at me and trying to be funny around me and make me laugh. He constanly is hanging around me whenever he can and is always asking me questions about stuff about me. I think he's nice looking ... (149 words)

I have been seeing my boyfirend for six months, I have financial problems, I needed expensive medical help, he did not even ask if I needed help, never tries to come to see me, should I confront him about the situation?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He knows I barely survive and have hard times to fill up gas in my car, even though I face that situation, I always make the effort to see him at his place, because as he does not have a car he never visits me at mine, besides my place ... (184 words)

I have a boyfriend but having feelings for someone else, what should I do?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i don't know where to start but i'll try my best. i met and fell in love with this guy a couple of years back but we were nothing ever more than friends (who sometimes were intimate... but not sex or anything like that). we started at the same college in september but ha... (366 words)

I would like to give my girl oral but not sure how to do it?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm an 18 year old guy and i'm in a serious relationship. Me and my girlfriend are really comfortable with sex and foreplay, but there is one thing i am a bit unsure about. My girlfriend gives me amazing blowjobs and handjobs all the time. As far as i know she reall... (181 words)

My girlfriends like a lot of sex but I am getting bored, what can I do?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi... uhm... i have a problem. I have a girlfriend that... realy likes sex, we do it about every other day. And it gets pretty boring... i mean, in, out, in, out, cum. And afterwards i feel like an idiot that only does what my brain says. Ive tried oralsex a coupple of times ... (77 words)

My girl has an odor down there, is it normal?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, uhm, this a kind of embaressing question, or rather problem. When i lick her "you know what/where" it kinda smells, realy bad, its a kinda anticlimax and sometimes i cant stand it. I have seen porn videos with guys licking girls without problems! And in movies, guys often ... (107 words)

I am worried for my mom. She wants a divorce.

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my mom wants to get a divorce from my dad but my mom cant afford a house for me, my brother, and her and we can't move into an apartment because we have a german shepard who is as big as a horse and she is the sweetest dog ever and we can't leave her. So my mom doesn't kno what ... (65 words)

I'm cheating and feel stuck in this situation, what should I do?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age - First of all, I know that it is wrong for a spouse to cheat. But that is what I am doing. I feel bad but I also feel that the person that I have met is more like me. He is 10 years younger than I and I thought it would be a problem to really be with a person that was younger ... (229 words)

I need help sorting out my friends and life

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi my name is tom and i have started hanging about with this boy i know and he does care bout me and i thought he was my mate but i have true mates but i need help sorting my life out and i let my true mates go what do i do help me please ... (56 words)

There's a boy I like but I think he hates me, what should I do?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - he hates me and doesn't trust me or want to be with me anymore. He change his school schedule around just so he doesnt have to see me what should i do... (32 words)

I'm falling for an online guy, but I am worried

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have found a man on the internet that is what seems to be the 'perfect match' for me. We have all the same things in common and we have sat and spoke for twelve hours at a time. I am completely falling for him and we're meant to be meeting in a couple of weeks. Last night ... (325 words)

I'm a teen girl, how can I feel better about my body?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this isnt a relationship question but im a 16 year old, im not exactly slim, im a size 14/16 clothes, im a 38D bra, although i am happy with my body, do get attention from boys etc, im not comfortable with my boobs, they arent small, well they arent big, theyre average ... (166 words)

There is an age difference between me and the boy I like, does it matter?

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8 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 15 almost Sixteen. He's just turned 17. He's starting his senior year. I'm starting my Softmore. I like him... alot ... and he seems to like me. but I think the age and grade diffrence may be in the way. do guys really care about that ??? ... (50 words)

I'm having a hard time getting over my ex, what can I do?

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8 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been a solid 6 months since the last time I wrote here, and unfortunately, I still have the same problem. and yes, I see it as a problem. I am still not over my first love. I admit that its not as bad as it used to be anymore, yes. I find myself being able to smile an... (262 words)

I'm in a troubled relationship - please help.

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing some guy and then we broke it off basically..seeing each other occassionally. but then i slept with another guy and he found out, going mad at me and saying he didnt sleep with another girl the whole time. i really don't understand why he was saying all this and ... (369 words)

Why can't I come during oral or full sex and what can I do to change this?

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8 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i got with my new boyfriend , i was a virgin untill i got with him, we have had sex loads of times, but when we have oral or full sex i can never come no matter what, is there something wrong with me, my boyfriend gets upset coz he cant make me, that makes me feel bad, why... (65 words)