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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

8 months pregnant and husband has a picture message of a another woman in the shower!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 8 months pregnant and found sexual text messages that my husband was sending to another woman. She had also sent him a picture of her in the shower. What should i do? I don't have enough money to leave him and there isn't anybody else i can stay with.... (52 words)

It's been two years and my boyfriend won't tell me where he's living!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf wont tell me where hes moved to recently?, we have short brakes where he tells me he neads to be sucsefull and he cant do that while living or comitting to me. he tells me hes got a lot of work on, turns off his phone. Then i tell him where through, because i feel hes ... (94 words)

He has not initiated sex in the last 11 years! He likes looking at and talking to other women.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is fond of looking at other women.And he is also interested in talking for hours with other women.Neither of which he does with me.He is not at all interested in having sex with me .There is no one single time that he had asked for sex in the last 11 years. The ... (254 words)

I don't know how to prove my innocence to my husband! He thinks I had an affair, and I was only trying to help friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husbands friend and my best friends husband asked me for advice and help with his marriage to his wife, my best friend. I felt if I helped him I would be helping her. He and I talked by phone about their marriage. I was very close to her and long story short, he moved ... (363 words)

Does anyone know any home remedies to pass an alcohol test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help, my dad has been having court because of a big misunderstanding, a neighber called the cops on him because they heard my parents arguing and when the cops arrived they saw my mom crying and my dad was drunk so now they wanna take my dad away from us but my mom, siblings ... (116 words)

I just found out that my wife has a post office box just for letters from her "friend".

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife said she loves me but is not IN love with me. She said I didn't pay attention to her just after I found out I have MS. Now shes talking to an old lover, but said they are "Just Friends". how should I feel? I had a bad time for about a year or so finding out about the ... (171 words)

His threesomes and foursome in the past bother me, now I feel like I am not what he wants, especially if he brought home a girl for me to be with. !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really hope someone can help me. I have been married for 2 years. Been together 5. My first marrage. He has been married two times before me and I being his 3rd - all I got was the court house. I am 33 and he is 47. When we started seriously seeing each other I asked a... (645 words)

We carry on as if we were a couple, but we're not! And now one of my friends is making a move...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im a 16 year old male with relationship problems! i have this realy close friend of mine, she and i have been friends for over 5 years . we tell eachother everything! we carry on as if we are a couple , but we not! i realy like her, but i'm affraid if i make a move, it ... (108 words)

She's with someone else, but my ex still calls me. Is it possible to remain friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I just got off the phone with my Ex who is sleeping with someone else now. I told her I couldn't speak to her anymore and for a month she obliged me. Then started calling again so we're now "Speaking" I guess. Sometimes I look at her pictures and reminisce about all the ti... (328 words)

I'm nearly 30 and still I don't feel ready for sex. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need to gauge some opinions here please aunties. I'm nearly 30, single, and still a virgin; but this isn't what bothers me, it's the fact that I don't feel ready for sex yet. I have no drive for sex. I see people posting questions on here about how they are desperate for... (122 words)

I'm not sure if he is playing mind games with me. How can I leave him when he has no one else to watch his kids while he works?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sleeping with this guy for almost a year now, and it seems as though at times we can be close, but then he pulls himself away from me, and when I try to pull myself away from him, he pulls me back. I've turned my phone off since yesterday when he has left for two ... (337 words)

I found out my husband has been seeing someone new since I kicked him out. What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out almost a month ago from my husband that he is seeing someone new and apparently has been seeing her since before I kicked him out on May 8th. She has 2 little boys and that is the reason why he has not seen his own 11 year old son in over a month or even been that ... (173 words)

He said he was divorced. Now I know the truth I want to tell his wife. Am I being fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, i was just recently broken hearted by a guy 13 years older than me which i found out later that he's married and with 3 kids. he lied to me, he keeps on telling me that he's divorsed and no kids. i respect him so much and care for a lot. i just cant accept the ... (106 words)

Is he only giving me what he feels will keep me happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years. I have been engaged for 4 years. We got engaged the first time he was sent overseas. We figured by the time I finished school we would get married. Our relationship has been very hard because most of the time... (355 words)

I do not want to lose his friendship. I realise my mistakes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age - How can I get this man back as a friend? met him fairly recently and became friends on holiday-nothing more-unfortunately I started developing feelings for him and told him and of course he has run a mile. I KNOW its all my fault but all my life I have been a loving person ... (136 words)

My ex girlfriend says she will take me back when the time is right. Is she genuine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i recenntly broke up she says she still loves me as a boyfiend and that she will take me back when the time is right but she wants me to see other people and she doesnt want to see any other guys she tells me she loves me from time to time and she says she ... (81 words)

Would backing off make him less scared of me? Frightened I might find out things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age - I cannot understand this man I met quite recently. Ok were only friends although he wanted sex but i normally hold back so did. However although it sounds daft I told him how much I liked him and now he has told me there will be no more future meetings between us. he is ... (334 words)

Can we get married without parental consent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there a way for a couple in the Philippines one being a US citizen and the other a Philippine citizen age 20 and 23 consecutively to get married without parental consent? Our parents do not agree with our marriage but we are both sure that once we are married they will grow ... (56 words)

My parents hate me seeing my boyfriend because of his past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive known my boyfriend for at least 5 years..we fell in love when we were 12 but i was to young so we broke it off and waited..4 years later we went back out and now im turning 18 in just four months he is turning 19 in two months. My parents found out but they really disaprove ... (159 words)

I think I'm in a deep hole with my relationship with a married man. I need advice.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im sleeping with a married man who has an 8 month old son and he lives next door to me. I think i have fallen in love with him and Im really close to his wife. I know its really stupid but i 14 years old. nd before anyone says hes taking advantage of me hes not its my choice ... (72 words)

I want to turn my "booty call" relationship into a friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Any tips/advice, i have a booty call relationship with a guy which has been going on for a year come to think of it and im bored of this and looking for a proper relationship but not nessecerily with this guy. been ignoring him for a bit but he still calls/txts sayin... (93 words)

My boyfriend is giving advice to women on a dating site. I'm worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, In the last month, my boyfriend has started participatin as an advice giver on a dating site. The difference is that one that site everyone has their picture up, they all post several times a day and develop cyber friendships. He has been telling me how m... (280 words)

I need some advice about having sex for the first time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone tell me about their 'first time' at sex? I've been with my boyfriend 3 weeks so i'm not thinking about it soon, i just want to be prepared. I've 'dry humped' before and my last partner tried to finger me but i felt uncomfortable so i stopped it, though part of m... (114 words)

A girl who likes my boyfriend told him I cheated on him, then spread rumours she was having an affair with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked a boy for 3 years, then he asked me out, and we were together for five months. This girl had always liked my boyfriend, and whilt we were dating she decided to tell him I'd cheated on him (which I hadn't) Then, after it had all blown over, she spread rumours that she... (129 words)

Do you think my boyfriend is losing interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 months and he pursued me a lot in the beginning. Everyone told me he really wanted to be with me, a lot of the deep conversations we have about our relationship is my ability to trust guys in general not just him. We recently ... (130 words)

I might be pregnant. I'm looking for herbal ways to induce a miscarriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I recently had unprotected sex and i am 3 days late for my period. I do not know if I am actually pregnant yet, but we can not afford a child or a pregnancy right now. I have been looking on line for herbal ways to induce a misscarriage. I have heard a lot ... (92 words)

We need to focus on school, but should we stay in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey yeah so me and my boyfriend keep having these talks about our relationship because, im starting my junior year, which both of us know is very important, and hes going into his first year of college. and we keep talking about whether or not its a good idea to still be ... (208 words)

Why do I have these feelings for my father-in-law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - For the past few weeks I've noticed myself having sexual feelings towards my father-in-law, I don't know why, but I do have these feelings. I hate myself sometimes for having these feelings. I'm not sexually attracted to any other men apart from him so why am I having thes... (265 words)

She says she is not sure whether I'm "the one".

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a brain twister here - I have a gf for two years now - she comes from a strick Armenian Family - my dad is muslism but i am not , my mom is Christian - she says she has serious issues with that - over the past 2 years we broke up three times, the longest was 1... (366 words)

I'm worried about what happens when I have sexual thoughts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - When i think about things like, 'kissing' my crush and sexual thoughts and things like that, white gew comes out of my vagina. I am very worried about this and I havn't started my periods, am i abnormal? HELP ME! Jessica xxxxxxx... (44 words)

I've always been more attractive than my little sister and now she's acting resentful and wild. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well my sister is 3 years younger then me and i think she always kind of looked up to me. i had a lot of boyfriends, she didnt have many and i was generally the one that got noticed. Anyway a couple of months ago her first ever boyfriend tried it on with me (i gave him a good ... (261 words)

Is sex between siblings incest?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a student of human psychology. I have a question. Is sex between siblings incest? I mean I have read it somewhere that it happens more often than we think. Has anybody had sex with their own brother or sister?... (42 words)

Is he still attracted to me even though he and I have different views on porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I share a computer with my bf. He left the computer on one day, and when I got home decided I would go on and check my email... I looked in the search bar and saw he was looking up porn. (He forgot to delete the search bar.) I felt insecure like im sure most woman do, I ... (309 words)

I'm being teased and I'm angry can you help me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have 2 questions really, i just thought it would be quick to do it at once. 1. At the moment, i am feeling depressed and et angry easily. No-one really dare talk to me sometimes because i can scream at the drop of a hat! What'swrong with me?! 2. I fancie, like, 5 bo... (146 words)

Do you think we can last forever? We are too young to get together but he's an awesome guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going into Middle school. I have this awesome guy friend. He is no pervert, no idiot, he is sweet, kind, and a lot of fun. He is in all of my classes, and lunch breaks. So we made a schedual... We get to hang out for at least 30 minutes each day when we have our Hour long ... (85 words)

I always thought I'd get married, have kids etc. Now I'm not so sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, I'm having a bit of confusion here. I always thought I'd get married. Have kids, raise a family, be happy. My boyfriend always tells me how much he loves and how he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, after we graduate. I thought this was what I ... (341 words)

We went out. We made out. He ran out. Weird or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F) - Easy Question Hard Answer? What to do! I met this guy he called me and we went out, had a great time. Then he never calls again? Saying he has to go out of town in a couple weeks and will be gone for 3 weeks an maybe we will hang out when he gets back. Thats it? I loved hi... (103 words)

I just feel plain, dull, bored and boring. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I've been feeling dull lately. These last few weeks, when I wake up, I'm like "bleh". I don't get excited about life. It bores me, the routine, or I don't know. But I don't wake up feeling like I want to seize the day (like most of the time). I think about too many things.... (247 words)

What noises should I make during sex??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well im going to be losing my virginity soon as me and my boyfriend are ready for sex. but im really worried about how itll feel like but most of all what kind of noises to make. i mean, just soft moans or screams? what should i be saying?? what do guys expect??... (53 words)

I'm too scared to talk to my mum about periods/boobs and so on. Help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 11, and 2 of my friends have started ther periods, the say that they asked their mum's about gettin boob's, problems 'down below' and all that.. but i feel i cant! I want to ask her about why I fancie like 5 boys in my class, and about periods and what words meen, i really ... (82 words)

How do I get over my ex who thinks he can treat me really badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ano i am still young but when i was in 1st year i me this guy and i didnt like him atal but he liked me and asked me out.I felt bad and thought he was cute so i thought why not so i did but i then realised i dont want this i am too young so i dumped him the week after.Then the ... (696 words)

This girl keeps undermineing everything I say even when I know I'm 100% right...what do I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl on my course who always seems to undermine me, no matter what I do. At first I thought maybe she was just irreverent with everybody but now I feel convinced that everytime we have a friendly conversation she picks at what I say, whether its a detail I've got ... (314 words)

How can I deal with and get over all of this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I've been in a relationship for 4,5 years and it was the love of my life. Apart from great sex we could talk and hug for hours and were helping and supporting each other. We had problems... but I believed our love can make up for it. I was desparate to get married... (191 words)

I have feelings for a guy who is a real pervert and a jerk! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...I have these random feeling for this random guy, he is the biggest pervert and jerk anyone could ever be. He freakin humps everything! Wut do I do?... (29 words)

I'm worried his family are too dependent on him and won't want to let him go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I met a wonderful man in January. I'm 35yr old single parent of two teenagers, never been married. My partner is 39yr old and never had a long standing serious relationship or had any children or brought a woman home to meet his parents before. I've also met th... (345 words)

Is it me or him who has the problem? And what is the best way to deal with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so here's my story. My and my friend Jim have hung out for years, we've both been singletons all this time, and always made time for each other and kind of were there for each other when goings were hard. This year we both started our Masters courses and got girlfriends. ... (416 words)

Was my wife really a virgin, if she almost had complete intercourse, but not quite?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've never obsessed over my wive's past before. She was a virgin (so she said) when we got engaged and moved in together. I knew of a few past boyfriends where they did some 'heavy petting', but that's it. This past weekend, we had a romantic night, and finished off a b... (293 words)

I had a piercing done 3 days ago, how long do I have to clean it, days, weeks, months or forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a piercing done 3 days ago i am wondering how long do i have to keep cleaning it for? is it days, weeks, months or all the time cheers x... (33 words)

I slept with my ex and now I am very confused, don't want him to think I only want sex, I think I still love him, how should I go about fixing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with my ex and now im confused again about us. I dont know if I want something more than that or whether it was a mistake. We are always in contact since we broke up but now im afraid he'll think im a sex mad girl who is just after one thing. Im really not like that at ... (97 words)

Could she be pregnant?? I didn't orgasm inside her...I'm really scared for her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im in such an emotional nd very scary time my gf nd i were havin oral sex we den kinda had sex however i was only in her three time i did not örgasm inside her so i dnt know whats goin on shes very late in her period can she be pregnant im terrified nd i dnt care bo... (100 words)

I'm in love with a girl but she only likes me as a mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this girl i met a few months ago which i really like. We are the same age. I havent seen her for like 4 Months and i am mad about her. She has been in a relationship since last week when her boyfriend split up with her. When she was with him she said that she ... (224 words)

My long distance girlfriend left me hanging for two months, came back around, but I think I want to end the relationship, although I love her, why shouldn't I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl miki, For about a year now It's a rather long distance relationship. I'm 16, and shes 22. We only sadly saw each other once a month maybe twice. We always kept in touch, On phone, Text, Msn or just email. We talked everynight, Just like if we... (305 words)

My insecurities are causing him to pull away, what can I do to stop acting this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello.I am in danger of ruining a really good relationship if I do not chill out a bit. I really am trying and I have started seeing a counsellor to help with issues from my childhood but I am so scared it is too late. He seems to have got to the point with me where maybe he... (439 words)

Monthly bill obligations...he's not fullfilling his end of the deal. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I think perhaps i already know the answer to my question but need to hear it from others too, this month my live in partner has decided he can only pay one quarter of our shared bills instead of the usual half, he says he cant afford to give me more as he needs the money to go ... (196 words)

Is being this horny, all the time....normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I'm 15 and I'm always horny. Whenever i get an erection and I'm alone i tend to masturbate and its quite annoying because if i dont masturbate then I'm very horny through out the day..is there anything that i can do too not be as horny? Or is this normal. Also about a month ... (95 words)

Did I hurt his feelings, by telling him, that we both need to wait before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for over a month now and we are very close. We can talk about anything without awkwardness or embarrassment. Just a few days ago however, we were at his house and his family was out. So we were kissing and getting very intimate together, when ... (154 words)

I was going to meet an online guy for sex and I think my boyfriend is controlling!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,i need help. my bf is jealous and controling. For over one year he is constantly finding my dating profiles and complains. He has given me an ultimatum,which i find petty. All i do is have sexy chats and send each other pics. I was going to meet a guy to have sex with so i ... (108 words)

I'm jealous and guilty what should I do???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im sleeping with a married man and Im 14 years old. Ive fallen in love with him but recently he's been really really close to his wife in front of me and i just feel jealous and guilty. help?? what should i do??... (43 words)

Can a relationship work even though I cheated on a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age - Can a relationship work even though i cheated on a guy i have been seeing for about 4 weeks, we were going through a patch when he wasn't replying to my messages so i assumed he wasn't interested, he then contacted me and wasn't aware that i thought it was over, i came clean ... (212 words)

Is she hinting she wants to get back with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I ring my ex girlfirend (we have been broken up for just over a month we were together for a year and a half we broke up because I got drunk at her prom and embrassed her and we had a huge arguement). Well after txting her loads asking her to get bk with me (her response being ... (214 words)

Is it ok to be engaged before divorce is finalised?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am 41 and in a relationship for over three years with an Irish man who is legally separated. He will be separated 4 years at the end of this year and will be applying for his divorce at that time, as is the Irish Law. I myself am divorced with 10 years from a marriage in ... (108 words)

I don't know what else to do to make him realise I'm not like all the relationships hes had before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im 25, a year and a half ago i seperated from my abbusive, cheating husband after an 8 year relationship. i thought that id never meet someone i could trust or want to commit to, but at the begining of this year i found my self falling inlove with my partner (23). i have two ... (259 words)

I'm 13 and scared that I might be pregnant...I know I shouldn't had sex...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - help,im a 13 year old girl,i no i shouldn't of had sex but i did, and i just hate my self for it , me and my boyfriend had sex on the 15th of july ,and i was due on my period on the 27th of july but have'nt come on and i no im not late because i never had been late since i ... (148 words)

Everytime my bf touches my clit it gets sore and inflamed...why is this??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya Im really worried, everytime my boyfriends pokes me my clit and surroundings get sore and inflamed!! Why is this? it hurts for about a day after. Ahhhh!Please help me! Thankyou!!!... (40 words)

How do you get over having your heart broken by someone who you know you will always love no matter what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you get over having your heart broken by someone who you know you will always love no matter what? She said she doesn't think she is in love with me any more. I have loved her for almost 6 years. I know I always will. To be blunt. it's sh*t.... (55 words)

Is it possible that someone could hack into my email...and then call my gf??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it possible or likely that someone could hack my email and call my girlfriend? ... (18 words)

I have sexual feelings towards my cousin...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

5 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - me and my cousin are the same age (just 4-6 weeks apart) and are really close. Ive been having sexual feelings for her for some time now and i'm not shure whether she has the same. i have thought up a tactic to say someting like -please excuse me if i'm not allowed to say this ... (121 words)

Pain while urinating since I first slept with my boyfriend (I wasn't a virgin) - what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I slept with my boyfriend of 2 years on friday 1st august. It wasnt my first time. But since then when i go to the toilet it hurts a bit whilst i pee, is this normal? i dont no what to do, and i dont want to tell my mum about it. I dont want to go to the doctors on my own ... (73 words)

"Should I marry my Northern Monkey?"

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey to all, I am 26 and getting married next year (apparently)! My fiance is a very good man, he is two years older than me, a sober, clean living, intelligant, funny and caring person. He of course has his negatives, stubbon, petty, bit of a verbal bully a times an... (264 words)

How I am going to manage on my own, who will employ a pregnant person?...

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i really need some help and advise. i am currently travelling in australia. meet a guy who i have been friends for a few months and starting sleeping together a few weeks ago. i found out i am pregnant. he said he will help me whatever i decide but wants me to have an ... (144 words)

My boyfriend told me he dislikes me talking to an ex and now I am tempted to remind him of things from the past that have bothered me.

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend went away for the weekend, when he returned he admitted he had an issue with me speaking with an ex of mine ( he speaks regulary to a few of his exs, and this ex of mine is the only one ive maintained contact with we were good friends prior to us seeing each ... (244 words)

We're both ready mentally, but can't psycally have sex. She says the pain is too much...

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, so this has been troubling me and my girlfriend for some time now. I have had sex with one girl before. and she's a virgin. We're both 16, and have been dating for a half year now, and we just can't have sex. When we were dating for 2 months, we tried, and failed. Let... (341 words)

Crush on much older woman!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I becanme friends with a woman twice my age. She's an artist and so am I, and although very different, we have a lot in common. She's supposed to be straight. She's divorced. But I feel there's a common affection, that is very strong. On my part, there's even the... (263 words)

I need to be inspired out of my general apathy!

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would just like some inspiration advice please. Over the period of a few years, I have just become very lazy...sleeping all day, doing nothing when I'm actually up, and am thinking about jacking in my degree. I have no girlfriend, and haven't had one for many years. ... (119 words)

Married but still in love with my ex!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and have been for 3 years. I'm in love with my husband, and he is in love with me. But I'm also still in love with my ex-boyfriend of 5 years ago. I didn't realize my feelings until I started talking to him again. I don't know what to do. I have 4 boys as well. ... (74 words)

My bf seems to have issues with my sexuality what can I do?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Normally I can usually use reason and level-headed thinking when I talk to my boyfriend, but at this point I'm not sure what to do. Straight out- I'm bisexual. I know this (duh), my close friends know this, my boyfriends know this. My parents don't, but that's an... (299 words)

Is it normal to worry about this stuff when I'm still so young?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i'm fourteen and i worry all the time about if i will ever get married or have kid's, or get a job, and what kind of job i want. and i worry about if i will ever find someone that loves me, which is werid cause even though i'm still very young, i know that my job will be a ... (88 words)

Is anal sex always painful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have a great sex life, however in the 4 years that I've known we've only had anal intercourse, successfully, twice. I consider myself sexually adventurous, but I am absolutely terrified about this for 2 reasons. M husband is VERY well endowed, long AND thick, ... (116 words)

Lately hes been distant, doesn't seem to care about anything, and can have a huge attitude with me -what's going on?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18 ,my boyfriend is 16. weve been together 3 1/2 months. i love him alot.it was good at the beginning. i cheated on him a month ago, he choose to stay with me and said he still loves me, and he forgives me. lately hes been distant, doesnt seem to care about anything, and ... (114 words)

I feel so ugly and alone!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - All of my friends have boyfriends and/or talking to someone. And no one really talks to me, i feel so ugly and alone. Alot of my friends are guys and i flirt with all of them but they would cringe to the thought of being my boyfriend. What do i do? I can be a good girlfriend i ... (75 words)

Blood in my underwear after sex, but not my period???

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive had sex before but the last time i did i had little drops of blood in my underwear. this has only happened once and im not on my period. is this normal? what should i think?... (41 words)

We have been breaking up and making up for four years but I have had enough..help!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating my boyfriend for four years. We have had a lot of trust issues in the past. The other day i hung out with an old guy friend of mine, i got really drunk. Apparently while intoxicated i spoke to my boyfriend on the phone and told him i was hangin... (248 words)

Can you lose your virginity masturbating?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I only have this question, does masturbation take your virginity?... (10 words)

BF constantly asks 4 money. What should I do?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been dating my current boyfriend going on three years. He's 37 i'm 24. When i first met things were nice...he seemed to be all about me. I dont know how it started with him asking for money but its turned into an everyday thing. He has no shame in his game. I wont even be ... (356 words)

My man has erctile dysfunction, any tips?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age - My man is 49 he can not stay hard for more than a minute... (14 words)

Going on date with a guy this weekend, but he knows my ex bf who has anger issues with me..

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5 August 2008 (F)

- I am supposed to be going on this date with a guy this weekend, but the thing is he knows my ex bf. They were kind of friends I guess you could say. So I am wondering if you think that he would mind that my ex is one of his "friends". Im not sure if he knwos because I never ... (231 words)

I am going to an 80's theme party, I have no idea what to wear, as I was barely born in the eighties, does anyone have any good suggestions to help me?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so this question is not very important but i do need help... Ok so im supposed 2 be goin 2 this party and its 80's theme..and i have no idea what 2 wear seein as how i was barely born in the 80's lol so i missed that whole era...so i was wonderin if maybe anybody had any ... (62 words)

Can a girl get pregnant with the withdrawal method?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I recently had sex with an older guy. I know pulling out is not good so we used a condom. Can a girl get pregnant if he takes it off at the end and lets his sperm out on her stomach? This is what he did with me. I'm pretty sure none of it got in the wrong place. Should I be ... (69 words)

We are teenagers, we are in love, and we want to have sex, would someone please give us a few tips about this?

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i am 14 and my gf is 16. we r in love. we both want to have sex. r there any tips out there plz. thank u... (28 words)

He wants to have sex, I want to wait until I marry, he said he will wait as well, I am wondering if his desires should take precedent over mine, will he dump me because of this, please help me?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 yrs..we have talked about sex...i told him i want to wait until i am married...he said that he will wait with me then...but i can tell he wants to but i am only 16 and i don't. I want my first time to be with my husband. Does it ... (109 words)

I am only fifteen, but I worry about a lot of things, what kind of major should I pursue, what kind of career would be good for me, should I become a doctor, wouldl that impact my family life, if I marry, please help, I am stressed?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in highschool and i am trying to get an idea of what i might want to major in. I really want to do something that helps other people...i am considering alot of things..like...physcology, social work, nurse,lawyer, and doctor. The one that sticks out in my mind is a doctor. ... (111 words)

I'm falling for my mates ex-girlfriend!

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm falling for my mates ex-girlfriend, they aren't together as such anymore but they still hook up. Me and the girl have history that goes back before my mate came along yet nothing ever happened although we both wanted it. Three years down the track I find whenever I go out ... (168 words)

He want's me to have sex with others as he watches:

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating the same guy for 3 years. Over all it's been fantastic and unlike many of girlfriends I feel sexually I have it made! He's a great lover in "size", caring and making sure that I stay sexually satisfied. I'm so into him on most every level. Everyone... (408 words)

I am pregnant with his baby, there are rumors that he is going to marry someone else, he says, it is not true, I am so confused, I really love him, but this is making me crazy, what should I do?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex dated for almost three years. He broke up with me because he thought I cheated on him. When he broke up with me I was 4 months pregnant. The day he dumped me he started going out with another girl. There were rumors that he was cheating on me with her when we were ... (218 words)

If I see someone cute, that I am attracted too, my face turns beet red, is there a way to stop blushing, it is embarrassing?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my problem is that I blush too much..I can't stand it.This one time my teacher was helping me on my homework and this guy that I thought was cute was standing by her to ask her a question well my face started to turn red,my heart was beating so fast,and my voice got so ... (103 words)

For four months, I have been involved with a man who is wonderful, but who does not want to have a relationship, but will not let me go on my way to find someone else, I am tired of the yes, no, maybe so, what should I do?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I have been dating this amazing guy for four months and he is everything I could possibly want in a man; however, he has issues with relationships. He has been hurt a lot before and tells me that "relationships are just exhausting" to him right now. I have tried to... (107 words)

My problem is, that my mouth is too small to successfully give me boyfriend oral sex, is there any answer to this problem?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, The problem I am having is a first for me, so I'm stumped. My new boyfriend, while not large in stature, is well-endowed. I happen to be on the smaller size in stature. Our problem is not with intercourse, but with oral sex. My mouth is too small to fit him... (118 words)

My sometime boyfriend, is a serial cheater, but I like him, should I waste my time being with him?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this guy worth my time? This guy i like and have known for over a year can be described like this. He is very smart and mysterious, but has a charm about him. Last summer, he broke up with his girlfriend and then started seeing me. All the time, he was talking with another ... (161 words)

His friends are sending me mail, saying this guy that I like, loves me, as if it is from him, should I confront them or just ignore them?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi through past couple of months i've had serious issues wit boys and its not my fault...but any way this kid that i really really LIKED he sent me an im saying iloveyou and then he signed off you know normally you would think this is a good but its not him and his friends do ... (87 words)

I have filed for divorce, now I find out I have to split my assets with him and he has to do the same, I have $100K, he has $4K, I will be able to keep the house, but only if I buy him out, this will ruin me financially, does anyone have any remedies

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5 August 2008 (F)

age - I am a 48 year old woman with two kids ages 11 and 15. I live in Massachusetts. After 17 years of marriage I filed for divorce. I was in a marriage where I was doing everything by myself so it became emotionally draining. Husband refused to get counseling to make the ... (289 words)

He doesn't know I love him. What should I do? He has a girlfriend.

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am love with my friend and i dont know how to tell him. we already have a sexual relationship, but he has a girlfriend. What should i do about this? i am single and we have been seeing each other for about 3 years.... (45 words)

Is it weird that I fantasize about my best friends cousin who I don't 'like'?

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I liked this girl in primary/junior school for about two years. It just so happens that I became best friends with her cousin (a boy) by pure coinsidence a few years back and still are. Now, I stayed around his house last night where she also lives. Me and her started ... (93 words)

Will I ever have good sex ever again? None of my other lovers have stacked up to him!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I ever have really good sex again? I had sex with a younger guy I was 29 he was 18 and we would have wild sex for 2 or 3 hours each night. It was the most physical connection I ever felt with a man but we weren't dating. Just having sex every day. He had a huge package a... (188 words)

She keeps taking her friend's advice, what should I do?

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girl friend have been friends for like 3 months before we got together. When we got together we were really happy until she told her friend about us, an she kept on talkin about our problems. My girl never came to me with any of the questions an she kept on taki... (95 words)

I've been seeing a married man for 6 years and I think he's talking to other girls online!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age - Hi: I have been seeing a married man for 6 years now, he tells me he loves me but he keeps chatting with women on line and wanting to get to know them better. When I ask him about he says it is not true but I know otherwise, what should I do?... (57 words)

I've cheated on my wife three times. I haven't told her and I feel terrible. Help!

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a up and down marriage for about 5 years. We have 2 young children. We have tried counseling, only has helped some. Over the 5 years, I have had 3 one-night stands due to a lack of physicalness from my partner. I have not told her...Im trully remorseful and beat ... (73 words)

My aunt got my crush's number for herself, after I told her I liked him!!

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been crushing over this guy that i work with and told my aunt, and she went to him and got his number for herself! That really made me mad, what should i do?... (35 words)

Am I still a virgin after like 'semi' sex?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me an my boyfriend had like semi sex, he didnt get far really, but he was in far enough to break my hymen. am i still a virgin?... (28 words)

How do you convince someone you're being honest if they refuse to believe it?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - So i split from someone months ago, my choice. Wasn't working, very dysfuncional relationship, split, get back together, split get back together, you get the picture. Anyway, been a bit of a struggle since, but managed to keep it on civil terms, and on a friends basis, he has ... (522 words)

Does it mean that he really wants to let me go if it didnt bother him that I was going on a date with a guy?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm Desperate for advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 8 months. Lately we have been arguing and I dont have sex with him very much anymore, and It has kinda gotten to the point where I want to start talking about a future but he is only 21 (same as ... (380 words)

How do I find out if she likes me?

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We have a lot in common,music,sports,general hobbies. she gives me harmless insults randomly, she plays catch with me a lot with a tennis ball.She's always talking to me on MSN till late/early morning on the phone thing .I don't want to ask her out though..I need to know if he ... (67 words)

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

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5 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says missionary but he said he likes it ... (75 words)

I have no luck with females. What do I do in the future?

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5 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi People say I am very good looking. I don't seem to have any luck with females. I have asked two girls out and got rejected. I am quite shy infront of girls. Girls seem to notice the more confident lads, when we're in clubs or groups. I try to flirt but I'm too calm and lai... (108 words)