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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My GF hits me constantly, she told me I'm the only one that makes her mad and her ex's were better!...

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15 August 2008 (M age 16-17 - Ok.. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 months,i love her to death she knows it,BUT She thinks all i want is sex and she tells all her friends... she always hits me approximately she has hit me 7-9 times in the face (closed fist) and when she hits me its always w... (194 words

I have fallen for a girl who is "out of my league" and I think she's having a secret relationship with another girl...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - I have fallen for a girl who is way out of my league and i think she's having a secret relationship with a girl. This girl lives across the road from me, we are the same age but we've never spoken, although her parents and mine talk to eachother. Whenever i see her in the g... (389 words


   

Confused about sexual feelings for older male cousin. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - I recently started dating my cousin [first cousin, once removed. btw], like a little over a month ago. But my problem is that even though he's not around [different state], I feel as though I wanna have sex with him. But even if he was around, we are both Christians and i... (233 words

Why did he ejaculate in seconds after I initiated fellatio?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - Ok so i was giving my boyfriend a bj..and he cummed like after just afew seconds...is there anyway that can stop?... (21 words

My heart is broken, at the very lest I thought we would be friends. Now I don't know what to do???

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15 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - Long story short, I worked with a a young woman for about two years. During that time we fell in love, or maybe just I did. During the time we worked together we would talk online at nights, text each other throughout the day and even a few times a week go out for dinner. ... (217 words

   

I bleed when I shave so are there other techniques?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - okay i know there is another question about shaving but this is a more... weirder question about it... my legs are fine when i shave, but... when i do my underarms and my pubic region, i bleed, and ive tried the creams, and different shavers and waxing, but it doesnt ... (99 words

Will he come back to me so we can spend the rest of our lives as a team?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - ok- so it's kind of a long story- but here it goes... I met my bf almost three years ago when I was visiting another state- looking at moving there. We were both dating other people (neither one exlusive)- but met through a mutual friend and hit it off. He got my phone ... (1093 words

My fiancee is making me sick with anxiety!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - I feel like i want to die, i can't sleep, i can't eat. I regret my abortion now because i only did because i loved my boyfriend and he wasn't ready to be a dad, but it wanted it so much. Now he says he wants time apart, or to stop living together, we don't sleep in the same bed ... (474 words

I have a boyfriend now, but I'm getting love thoughts about this friend who once asked me out.

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - I have this friend, he's 15 last year he asked me out...i had to say 'no' dad would flip out if he knew i had said 'yes'. Months later i met a guy, who is now my boyf. I have talked about my boyf since i joined DearCupid.....Now im getting love thoughts about my friend, maybe ... (91 words

All bets are off now here in suburbia. His porn habit has me contemplating an affair, as I feel worthless and failed as a woman.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - We are a middle class family, living in suburbia. My husband of 5 years watches porn Friday evenings from midnight to about 2-3am. Didnt do it in the beginning but now he says he needs it. From 5pm I see him getting ready for it. Comes home with a bottle of something (rum... (574 words

Anal experience pleasant but SINCE THEN I feel pain while on the toilet, doctor saw no sign of hemorrhoids so what's my problem???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - I hate having to ask this question, but im just so tired of the damn pain I've been having for the past moth, and I won't being see a doctor till wednesday. I have such a hard time going to the bathroom (#2). It hurts me, and I fear when I have to go. I've never had this ... (546 words

He cancelled a date in the last moment without explanation, he doesn't talk to me when others are around... so confused by his inconsequence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I am looking for advice on a guy I work with, we have both worked in the same office for about 3 years, we didn't really speak for the first year and then all of a sudden he started to chat away, we then decided to go to a gig together and at the last minute he sent me a ... (212 words

He was nice to me... but I found out he was extremely mean to my BEST friend...? Any help?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - ok so here is goes... i started school last tuesday... it was going wonderful i met alot of nice guys... and one of them i had a class with and he always sat with me... and i really started likeing him,... and im good friends now with his friends ... but i was telling me frien... (132 words

My husband suddenly asked that I HIT him during intimacy, which to me is unconceivable an act!...

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15 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi I just wanted to ask. The other night my husband and I was in bed and things were heating up ,and the next moment he yelled "hit me in the b*lls, do it now, quick"! I burst out laughing and that was not the right thing to do. Oops. But it came out of nowhere, and rea... (292 words

How can I get my girlfriend's parents to trust me when they think I'm only dating her for sex?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - my girlfriends parents think that im with her just to try and have sex with her, but sex doesnt matter to me in a relationship since we are happy as it is is there any way i can prove to them that im not like other guys and that i truely love and respect their daughter a... (81 words

When I'm finally over the break up, he comes back and breaks my heart again, how can I stop feeling this hurt?

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15 August 2008 (F - i got dumped today. I was only seein him for 3 months but he finished it 2day sayin i wasnt the one for him. Ive been out with him before a few years back and he dumped me for someone else, so I shouol of know better and steered clear when he came back into my life again. The ... (189 words

Do you think therapy can help my cheating boyfriend change?

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15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has cheated on me twice now in our relationship. I love him dearly and because of this I forgave him the first time with the understanding that he would never do it again. Now he has. After I found out I immediately broke up with him but he came crawling back tell... (156 words

What is this noise during sex and how to prevent it?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - ahh how embarressing, but i need advice. everytime me and my partner have sex, i keep 'fanny farting' as people call it, and it's so embarressing!! does anyone know how to help prevent it? or tighten up down there? without doing sugery or paying out money? thanks... (60 words

What should I do about shaving?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - hi there this a question to the girls really. erm ive only shaved my legs once as they didnt seem that bad but now the hairs are twice and thick and stand out a lot, i cant keep up with shaving all the time plus my mam dosnt know about this i just took one of the razors f... (86 words

Why won't he tell anyone about me even though we are having sex?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - hey, well this is slightly embarressing i'm 16 years old, and am sleeping with a guy who's 21. he treats me so well and well yeah, you get the jist. we started getting together when i was 15, and he didnt want me to tell anyone because of the age, but now im 16 he still does... (231 words

Do I take a risk and call him even though he has a girlfriend?

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15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - There is a guy,I met him while I was working in England.He was very nice to me,he smiled at me and stared all the time.We talked a few times.When I was leaving England,I asked him for his phone number,he gave it to me willingly.I wrote him a text when I came back to ... (155 words

I want to stay for the kids but she has other things on her mind....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

15 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I don’t have a lot of close friends, and that is why I’m hoping to get an advice that might help me sort through this! I have been married for over 10 years, and have two beautiful kids. My wife and I have been in a great relationship, very close, hardly ar... (243 words

I don't have the confidence to ask him outright if he just wants sex. Do you think he wants to get to know me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I am looking for some advice on a guy. We chat every couple of days, he has never asked me out, however, he is always making comments about coming to my house for a night inn or me staying at his for a night inn. I was just wondering if this guy wants to get me know me ... (101 words

Is this older man just after sex?

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15 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - One year ago I met an older man at a wedding - he's 47, I'm 31 now. He pursued me and we went for coffee...nothing else happened at the time. Two months ago he contacted me and asked me to come to a party he was having (he's quite wealthy, owns lots of companies, and is very ... (513 words

How do I please my family but still have a life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - well i need some advice but where do i start.? i live at home with my mum step dad and brother and sister. sometimes i only just get on with my family, but the majority of the time we're always arguing. my stepdads and alcoholic, he doesnt drink all the time but when he doe... (189 words

Why does my husband want threesomes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together for ten years. He has always wanted to indulge in threesomes and he wants to see me have sex with another guy. I have reluctantly indulged in threesomes with him but never let the guy have sex...just foreplay and all. I am always feeling ... (97 words

I asked a female work colleague out for a drink but she said "no". How do I get things back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - After getting some courage, i asked a female work colleague out for a drink The answer was, sorry, but no Now things seem very strained between us, and that was never my intention. Can we get back to where we were ? ... (47 words

Do I just accept it or play along with it?

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15 August 2008 (M age 16-17 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months. Everything is good but its just lately I have been getting paranoid about jokes that she says when we are with friends. Like my friend gets does something stupid and we shove it in his face and he jokes "F*** me" And my girlfrie... (240 words

Any ideas on how to "let him down easy"?

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15 August 2008 (? age 16-17 - This guy (who I can't stand) keeps asking me out. I'm not use to guys "crushing" on me. I rejected him before but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to his feeling. Any ideas?... (48 words

Body Image: How can I feel better about it?

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15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I have just started seeing this guy, we have been out a few times however everytime he goes to touch me I always find my self pulling away, I have a big issue with the way I look, I'm not overweight but I am no oil painting either, just a normal female but because this is ... (116 words

Very nervous about meeting my girlfriend's mum! Any advice?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - why am i so nervous to meet my gf's mother!! need answers asap its tonight!!!!... (16 words

Should I get out of my marriage now or does it stand a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - my husband and i have been married 16 years. He has 3 children 2 boys and 1 girl. I have 1 child a girl. His daughter has been the worst experience of my life. everyday is a constant battle, the kids are all grown now but she continues to cause trouble for my whole family. She ... (223 words

Guys! Does the head of your penis feel uncomfortable when touched?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - Question for the guys: I know that the head of a penis is very sensitive. But, when touched, rubbed, licked, or otherwise, does anybody else feel an uncomfortable sensation? Last night when my partner performed oral sex on me, the "head" area felt like it was being tickled mo... (95 words

It seems as if everytime I have sex, I squirt. How can I control this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi there i wanted to know if its possible to control squirting cause like every time i have sex with my guy when were done the sheets are soaked but sometimes i dont even feel that ive squirted is there any thing i can do??? please help??... (47 words

I don't know if I have been dumped. Please help.

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15 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am hurting so much and so confused. And I feel a fool because I should be old enough not to let this get to me. I met up with a young male I knew, after not seeing him for four years. He is only 18 - the last time I saw him he was at school and I was working there for six ... (1683 words

I've never had a boyfriend but I've fallen for this guy at work. I need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 244 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am a 25 year old female who has never had a boyfriend and who I suppose if I'm honest I'm a bit uptight when it comes to opposite sex due to my upbringing. I have fallen for this guy at work who seems interested in me but I don't think he wants a relationship, he is the Navy ... (141 words

Is sex with a comdon safe if I'm not on the pill as well?

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i slept together last night, we used a condom but i am not on the pill, can i feel ok about not being pregnant?... (27 words

She dries up completely in a matter of seconds. What's wrong?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - hey , well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months, and having sex reguarly for about 4. but over the last week or two , she gets moist just before sex, but literally just as i am about to go in, she dries up complelty, in a matter of seconds, she says she ... (81 words

I don't know what to do with my life

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - hello, well this is going to sound really random. but im scared with what to do with my life. im going into my last two years of high school and im taking my GCSEs pretty soon. Ive always liked the ideas of writing books, i have good ideas but then i basically cant be bothered... (174 words

Can anyone give me some tips about makeup?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - hiya erm this is just basically and ordianry girly question but i when i wear make-up i wear mascara and blusher and thats about it i dont really think i need foundation plus its a faff on. but my main problem is eye-liner, other girls where it and there eyes look really g... (122 words

His friends say he likes me but I am still unsure of whether they are all having a bit of laddish fun at my expense...

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hi, I'm 15 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago and went on a gap year and we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. His friends also message me and they keep saying t... (154 words

I'm in love with my second cousin. Do we tell our families?

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15 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - im in love with my second cousin and he feels the same we have both had bad relationships i have 7 children and my cousin has 1 i tried telling my eldest daughter last night and now she isnt speakn to me my family is old fashiond im now scared to tell any 1 else and ... (152 words

I discovered my fiance's posts on a dating site and my trust in him has gone; we have a home together so decisions are hard to make...

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15 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, Im in such a state. I found out yesterday that my fiance had goined up to a casual relashionship site and a dogging site, but not just to look at, I found an email sent to a young lady saying he was availiable today and what he would do to her, but he had no reply and he ... (427 words

My husband got a girl pregnant, and now I'm pregnant after a one-night stand with someone else. I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - so me and my husband have been together for 5 years and we just got married in jan.. he gets deployed when i get a phone call stating he got another army girl preganat .. well this being said i ask him about it.. well got in this huge fight because i was so hurt and we decided ... (177 words

My boyfriend called me by his ex's name. Would you tolerate it?

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15 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Would you tolerate the person in your life,your loved one,to by mistake call you by a ex's name?My fiance was married to a Liezel for thirteen years and my name is Lizel.Is it just because both start wit and L and am I just making too much of this?It truely bugs the living s... ... (57 words

Should I give my boyfriend more space?

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for approx. 6 months and we used to spend a lot of time together, but I've been getting a lot of hints from him recently telling me to give him space - well at least I think it's "space" and not a "break". Whenever I get around him, he ... (266 words

Late for my period, but getting discharge. I'm really worried.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 466 days ago

15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hello im 17 and me and my bf have sex regulary but we use a condom every time but im a few days late for my period. He didnt come anywhere near my virgina and we had intercorse with a condom and it 100% didnt break and didnt come off. Im now getting alot of discharge when i ... (70 words

Am I being harsh to dump a liar like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

15 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend of two years finally admitted that she lied about another man who was pursuing her. I had heard rumors that it was happening and when I asked who this person was, she replied that she had never heard of him for months. Finally when I broke it off, she confessed ... (99 words

How do I find out if she likes me, and will my parents let me have a girlfriend?

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15 August 2008 (M age 13-15 - im a 13 year old boy. I hav a crush on someone and i am really desperate for a girlfriend. I dont know if she likes me because sometimes shes sending me lots of texts and laughs at my jokes but sometimes she completely ignores me. How do i find out if she likes me and how will ... (69 words

Why do I still find it so hard to trust my long-distance girlfriend?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - So, to be able to answer this question, you need to know the situation (obviously). There is a girl I love, and had a long distance relationship with her. I, my self, live in Canada, am 17, and I'm quite mature. She, lives in America, Wisconsin, is 16, and is a bit... (1060 words

Can anyone give me a suggestion on a good place to meet guys?

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15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - I feel kind of silly asking this, but could anyone give me a suggestion on a good place to meet guys? I don't go to school anymore, and I don't work in an environment in which I'd meet anyone that I'd want to date. Guys in bars and clubs seem to only be looking for that... (122 words

Do you guys know when there is sperm about to come out or not?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - Ok heres my problem me and my boyfriend have been in a 7 month relationship and i think he the one..so i gave it up to him, but here the thing he did the poke-meaning he went in and then out in and then out we didnt have a condom so iam worryed.But we didnt do like the whole 30 ... (101 words

I said we should have a break, but now he wont talk to me.

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - he is at band camp and can't talk to me very much but i wait on his calls (once a day maybe) and so i suggested through voicemail a break until he gets home ... that was two days ago... now he won't talk to me ... what do i do? what are the rules for a break? i left him a ... (218 words

He seemed keen and now he doesn't. What is going on do you think?

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15 August 2008 (F - This guy was texting me non stop before. Last week weekend we went out on our first date. It all went well I think as he texted me the next day saying he thought I was beautiful. He had been texting me non stop after the date until wed, i never heard from him so i sent a ... (126 words

Was it all my fault this relationship didn't work?

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15 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need to know if i am all to blame for a relationship break up. I was with someone 18 months and at the start thought he was real nice. I believe everything people say til they prove otherwise! Quite quickly he lied about hearing from his ex, saying it was someone else. After ... (716 words

How can I orgasm easier?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - i cant orgasm when my boyfriend fingers me. when hes fingering me he does it rapidly and hard and i like it, but i just cant seem to orgasm. it feels good when he eats me out too, but not even close to an orgasm. Any tips on how he can eat me out so and finger me so ill be more ... (65 words

Sex, sex and more sex. Is it a bad thing?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - hey. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for mmm six months and well we have sex alot. and i mean alot. but it seems thats all we do when we're alone, we dont just hangout you know. i mean we do sometimes....but it leads to sex. and its like either one or the other has the ... (71 words

The amazingly handsome piano playing Seventh Day Adventist - how do I talk to him?

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - At the beginning of summer, this guy named Luke came back from college for the summer holiday. The first time I saw him, he played the piano for the special music piece. At this time, I felt my heart beat in my chest and my stomach did flip flops. I've seen him a couple times ... (151 words

Am I so selfish as to want both of them?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - What can I do? I'm so confused... This year is off to a horrible start. My boyfriend and I aren't riding the same bus this year. I'm having strong feelings for my best friend who goes to a different school that I wanted to go to for a very long time. I went to bed... (661 words

I'm a clingy person and I tend to be obsessive, need advice please?

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15 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi i need serious help. i'm clingy person and i tend to be obsessive. plus i'm a totaly failure at realtionships. this year i have gone through 10 different guys and then i become obsessive then they break up w/ me. i dont no why i'm like tat. i just get really lonely. living ... (162 words

Cant get it out of my head, its hurting me! Why do I feel like this?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - its my birthday today. This girl i really like, well for her birthday i spent over £20 and she appreciated it. We are really friends but haven't spoken unless i ring her. She saw me out with friends and found out from them its my bday. I was so depressed that she didn't e... (92 words

How do I tell my gf I like men more?

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15 August 2008 (M age 13-15 - Hi i an 13 and i an bi i like men more than women and i also have a girlfriend. how do i tell this to her without her breaking up with me or her feelings getting hurt?... (38 words

Sex god or good guy?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - SO: i am a 15 (almost 16) girl. there are two guys that are really into me-both are about my age. the first one is rly into sex-he's no virgin, and is rly bold. the second is a little more laid back, and idk weither he's had sex before, although i know he's revieved hed. which ... (72 words

I have a couple questions for the guys!

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - i have a couple questions for the guys! they would help me a bunch! 1) what turns you onto a women most? 2) do guys check out there closest friends that re girls, and if so, how often? 3) do you have anything you would suggest that turns you off from girls? thanks for ... (66 words

I like my aunt very much, and would like to do something with her. What should I do??

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - The thing is, I'm starting to want to have sex with her, I can't resist it, shes gorgeous and sexy. I have spent time alone with her when I got to visit, and we have stayed talking for a time.I have helped some times in her house, too. I also have noticed that she watches me ... (124 words

I am so shy I can't even respond to him on msn!

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - I like this guy since May..he was in my class, we didn't really talk so i don't know why i just started liking him..thing is i ended up telling him and he said he has a girlfriend..but after he told me that; he would stare at me all the time then he would look away when i catch ... (141 words

She wants us to have a baby and settle down but I'm not sure-help!

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15 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - i dont know what to do with my girlfriend, i do love her, but i enjoy spending time alone, i do have attractions for other woman, but i dont go looking for them. my girlfriend wants to have a family with me, but i dont want to, she knows i dont want to have kids, and i li... (241 words

Should I meet him offline?

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15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy on the net but i never met him in real life we talk yeah he wants me to get with him What do i do.....???? =[... (31 words

Ingrown hairs down below, what do I do?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - my question is about in grown hairs on my vagina. are they serious? or am i in need of medical attention, or what can i do to stop it? - note: i do shave down there.... (36 words

Stepsister confusion? Does she like me? Should I go with her?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - Well I'm think I'm falling for my future step sister (not related) which I will call Miss X. Well me and miss x are always talking on msn till late in the mornings (from 12am-6am) when she's allowed. We have a lot in common, we talk about random stuff, she randomly insults... (90 words

His mom caught us having sex and now she wants him to break off with me!

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15 August 2008 (? age 18-21 - Is Just2love again...I was at my Boyfriends house, we had sex that lasted oh i dont know about 20mins maybe-we forgot lock the front door, his mom came over we didnt even know she was there until she came through the bedroom door. We had to think fast but it was to late.Now she ... (102 words

How can I get my husband to stop ignoring me?

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - My husband and I have been married for a year and 5 months. We are very young and have a 9 month old daughter. We were very much in love when we got married, but it has gone downhill quite a bit since then .I understand that it could be stress, work and baby and all that, and i ... (184 words

He's ALWAYS been a major flirt with all the girls.Should I cope or leave?

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15 August 2008 (F - I need some help. Im 19 years old and I have started dating this guy who I went to school with. The thing is though hes ALWAYS been a major flirt with all the girls. Hes overly friendly, overly confident and overly flirty to most girls. But when hes with me, hes the complete... (264 words

My husband went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have discovered all kinds of things on Facebook from his 18 yo 'friend.' Guess where he went away.

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15 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I have been having some marriage troubles...he went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have recently gone onto Facebook and he is on there too. I have discovered all these sexy, love, suggestive bumper stickers from this 18 year old ... (242 words

I can't seem to stop flirting with other men, and I sometimes question my love for him!

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - I have been with my bofriend (i'm gay by the way) for 10 months now, and I love him to bits, but despite this, I cannot help but flirt with other men and I cant seem to stop it, i dont know what it is whether I just like the attention (I suffered from a severve lack of ... (111 words

My online boyfriend isn't talking to me that often, help!

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - I'm very troubled...My online 14yo boyfriend of almost 4months isnt talking to me that often...I couldnt tell you how many times i have tried to contact him, only 1ce in the past week he's said something to me. I dont know if he is avoiding me, lost interest, or if im being to ... (77 words

Can lupus be passed on during pregnancy?

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15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - I m still not sure if I have lupus because I haven t been tested yet, but I m in the process of renewing my insurance. When I was 7 months pregnant I started to get this funny skin rash or something, it didn t itch but it would come and go.....always showing up on different ... (260 words

How do you prefer a girl "maintain" herself "down there?"

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - This question is directed towards teenage males (: How do you prefer a girl "maintain" herself "down there?"... (21 words

What's the best wax to use for 'down there'.

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - What's the best wax to use for your vaginal area and armpits? like store-bought. I have a bad reaction to shaving.... (25 words

What do the doctors check during a physical for sports for 7th grade girls?

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - What do the doctors check during a physical for sports for 7th grade girls?... (14 words

I just seem to think I'm not going to find anyone until I'm like 19-20.

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey, Okay. Long story short. I'm 16, I dated this guy for about 3 months who I really liked and he claimed to really like me back. It WASN'T official, we were not in a proper relationship. We didn't kiss or anything and I recently had an injury and he found someone else to ... (287 words

Please awnser this question, are ghosts real or fake?

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15 August 2008 (M age 16-17 - Look i know this aint a love question, but i want your opinion on something. Ghosts, are they real or fake? i want to know what you think, as personally i think they are real. please awnser this question with your honest opinion, i will apreciate it ... (47 words

I really don't like who she is now, what do I do?

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15 August 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hello, My GF and i started dating about a week ago, and we hung out like 4 times before becoming official, and it was so much fun, we laughed alot and i really liked who she was alot. But mysteriously she changed as soon as we started dating, now she worries if i thi... (111 words

I should tell him that my suggestion about having sex was a bad idea?

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15 August 2008 (F age - Please HELP!! I suggested to my b/f that we should have sex, then he acted different towards me like he was pulling away. Several weeks later he's with another girl and having sex with her. For the purpose of bringing closure for myself, and because I feel like such a fool... (93 words

My boyfriend wants to post naked pictures of me on the net!

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15 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Need your help... My boyfriend took a lot pictures of me naked and want to post on the internet. Dont really know if is going to be alright. The pictures dont show my face but shows everything else...I still not sure if is going to ok after we post... Give me some advice... ... (54 words

How can I show my boyfriend that I am committed and faithful?

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - well my boyfriend and i live together, and we are talking about getting married. of course i am so happy but he told me he was "uncertain about my commitment". how can i show him that i love him and will be faithful to him?... (45 words

My period is a week late and now I can't get the feeling out of my mind that I'm pregnant. HELP!

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15 August 2008 (F age 13-15 - i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few weeks ago and i was due for my period a week ago btu havn't yet came on,, i can be irregular but what should i do?,, we did use protection but i can't get the feeling out of my head that i could be pregnant,, please help ... (62 words

Could I be pregnant, or are my hormones still messed up?

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15 August 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hello, i have a problem, i was on the birth control ingection for 5 years non stop. My ginacologist told me i must go of for a while, to make a long story short. My hormones are very unstable and my period was also unregular. Now its totaly gone. About 3 weeks ago i had ... (126 words

Everything is great in my new relationship but there's no spark. Is it possible to get one?

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15 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been friends with the women im with from when we were 14 years of age we both have been married so now after all this time we descided to date...here is the issue we have no spark but every thing else is great.. how do i get the spark for her and i any help would be ... (61 words

Sexually Frustrated With My Man

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15 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - THe problome is that my boy friend and I vave been together for only nine months, however he has become entirely uninterested in sex with me. In fact he hardly wants to kiss me or evan touch me, he sais that he loves me but I seriously have my doubts. How could he not be ... (72 words

Uncaring or thoughtless about drugs?

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15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - My ex boyfriend was a huge druggie and drinker and it has had a huge impact on how I now react to drugs and drink. My partner of 2 years is aware of this. I think I am quite tolerant - he drinks around 3 ciders a night minimum and on weekends 2 bottles wouldnt even see him ... (213 words

What do I do about my insensitive, copy-cat sister? Am I making too much of a fuss?

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15 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am really angry with my sister. She copies everything I do to a sinister level. If she knows I am getting friendly with someone, she will swoop in when my back is turned and ‘poach’ them from me for want of a better word. For example, I started to become friendly with this ... (837 words

What does it mean when a guy talks to your mum on the phone? Is he sucking up?

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15 August 2008 (F age 16-17 - when a guy talks to your mom on the phone just to see how she is does that mean he is sucking up to your mom and wants to date u or does it mean something else? ... (37 words

Is my Boyfriend on the Downlow? (secretly gay).

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15 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hello My name is Natasha and i wanted to know if my boyfriend was on the Downlow? We dated for six months and he waited until i was ready to have sex. Which is Rare in men but we had sex and it was good. What makes me think hes on a Downlow hes always checking out guys star... (179 words

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