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What can I do to get the guts to talk to her?

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29 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Alright I know this question has been asked many times, because I've seen but they aren't what I'm looking for. So I'm going to ask anyway! (I'm a freshman in high school; well in ways I hoped that would make it easier to answer my question) I have found this girl that I ... (225 words

We got off on bad terms but I still have to deal with him because of our mutual friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i dont know what to think!..i dont even know how im suppose to feel..oh wow ok real quick..me and my ex broke up on BAD terms..i tried talking to him the other day and he shouted at me..we had a tiff..ended in him threatening to punch me..so i said go ahead..neadless to say it ... (266 words

He likes me, I like him too, but I don't know how to get into a relationship with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so well i reallly like this guy... we are good friends we always sit together at lunch and class... well rumors went aroudn by his ex that we like eachother... jokes on her cause we do... but how do i turn on the flirting and the charm? and how do i fight these over whelming ... (105 words

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know who to choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with a male that we will call ram for just about a year now. We fight we argue and practically tear eachothers heads off. There has been cheating from both sides in the relationship. All of my friends wonder why I am soo crazzy about him and half the time I have to ... (247 words

This guy at work asked me out but I want noting with him. Should I ask him if he wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I'm really confused. I'm married and this guy at work asked me out. I've seen him around for the last few years and we talked occasionally. However, I was really surprised that he asked me out. I rejected his advances and then have been avoiding him ever since. He then pas... (220 words

I have been getting very weird symptoms but I don't know what's happening to me!

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29 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hi everyone I've been feeling kinda sick lately... I'm not too sure how to explain it but I'm going to try. Lately I've felt really tired (school just started bak)and kinda dizzy ... having headaches all day and kinda feeling like I'm going to pass out I went to the doctor... (164 words

I want to keep contact with my dad but it seems that my mom has a different view of him. This is upsetting me and I don't know what to do.

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29 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - For 11 years I've been brought up by just my Mum. With my grandad around too. My dad left when I was 3, I saw him for about six months after my parents split and then that was it. I didn't see him after that. I've been thinking about it recently and I really want to start se... (436 words

My husband has filed for divorce and I don't know what to do!

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 34 years old w/ 3 children -2 boys (16 and 13) and a girl (8). My husband and I became friends first. We talked until all hours of the night (he was still with a girl he had been with through high school- 9 years). We saw each other a few times secretly and then it becam... (456 words

Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - is is possable to be in love with 2 people at the same time? iv been with my boyfriend 2years now and we were best friends years b4, i really think i love him and at the moment i feel like i wont to be with him for ever. But i'm very close to my other best friend who's also a b... (143 words

My boyfriend acts different with everyone else except me, what can I do to change this?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am so confused! I started dating my boyrfiend 6 months ago and im head over heels in love with him. Ive had so many bf's and never fell inlove before. A few months ago i truly felt that he was the one and i wanted everything with him. Marriage, a house, kids. Li... (185 words

I don't understand my boyfriend's behavior. Is he hiding something?

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I am finding it a real struggle. He said from the outset that he liked his own space and didn’t like talking much, but sometimes it gets too much for me. He had said some time ago that he wanted to see me more oft... (515 words

This boy likes me, but I don't! How can I turn him down gently?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im getting so upset lately because im so stressed about two boys. I have meet up with Danny about 4 times, we have never kissed or anything but he told me he likes me on a text and i told him i dont know how i feel yet. But the way we talk you would think i like him. And i di... (220 words

I'm always staying at his house, but he never stays at mine. What can I do to balance this out?

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My fiance and I are in a wonderful relationship. We both live with our parents still as I am still in college, and he's waiting for me to graduate and become financially stable for when we do move in together. We see each other, usually around 4-5 days a week. The problem, ... (547 words

She's texting too much and I think she's cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Well lets see.... I have a girlfriend of two months and am really into her. She seems to be into me by what she says but her actions are leading me to believe otherwise. She knows that when I am with her I hate it when she texts all the time. The other night, she was texti... (153 words

I think that guys don't want me because I'm fat. What can I do to lose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey I Know This Is Pretty Sad But I Havnt Had A Boyfriend Since December And The Day He Dumped Me It WAs Like I Had Been Shot In The Heart. I Havnt Had A Boyfriend Since Then. I've Been Told Im Pretty, Im 5"10, GOt A good Personality. But I Think Its My Body Thats Hasnt GOt The ... (124 words

I don't understand men! Why can't they just make a decision?

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I dont understand men. Why do they say one thing an then do the complete opposite. For example my guy an me broke up an then we take some time apart an after awile we begin talking again. When i went away we talked lots. He told me he wanted to get his life back on track be... (136 words

My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but he told me he loved me and w... (381 words

I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 22-25 - okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused... (43 words

Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. What I mean is that whenever sh... (152 words

I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before marriage (wrong and sin) I don,t ... (94 words

I'm finally with a nice man but I'm not sexually attracted to him, why?

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was a single mom of two boys when I met "Bob". My previous relationship lasted 8 years and was very violent ending in CPS taking one of my children because of the abuse. It was either my ex or my boys and I picked my boys and currently have sole custody of both boys. My ... (177 words

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex either of us ever had, she even ... (158 words

I don't want someone nasty like her in my life! So, did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well, I was friends with this girl called Helen. But when we fell out, she would really say some nasty things and really mess with your head so you always felt that you were in the wrong. You never really knew when she would blow up and get majorly angry so it was difficult to ... (404 words

He stubbornly insists we should be friends but I know he's much more than that to me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - What do you do when you and a man just CANNOT be anything but significant others? There is no "friends" step where we are concerned. It is all or nothing. He wants to build a relationship with me again, but he says he doesn't want to jump right into it. He wants to stay fr... (192 words

I'm having problems with my partner's daughter from his first marriage, any suggestions?

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - where to start, ok ive been with my partner for 6 years we have two young children and he has 2 daughters from a previous marriage.who are 15 and 17. i have always gotten on well the the girls and never had a problem before. The youngest has recently started to go out and get ... (381 words

How do I escape from my abusive boyfriend?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have been living together for 1 year everynight is the same story i end up in bed crying my eyes out, he constantly accuses of me of infidelity and being places i have never heard of, hes always putting me down calling me a slag, ... (190 words

How can I deal with my younger brother's destructive ways?

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29 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm literally at the end of my rope with my younger brother, and I'm looking for some advice on what I can actually do about it. He's always been louder, more social and more physically fit than me. In a lot of ways, he's the brawn and I'm the brain. He's always working o... (732 words

How do you make a guy happy?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - How do you make a guy happy? Why do guys prefer tv to time with their children or otha halfz? When is the right time to ask your guy to do sumthin nice for you. Because i feel the answer to these are. Dont bother im happy with a beer and tv. Dont bag out tv. Shut up the tv.... (60 words

Will there be much contraversy if I want to spend my life with my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - my question is simple. my cousins mom starts to suspect about us and its posible that she knows about us already, i feel like i really love this girl and plan to have a family with her and spend the rest of my life with her. we have been together like this for 2 years and wanna ... (80 words

Is this Turkish guy being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I live in england. I met this guy in June in Turkey. he lives there (and is turkish). We had a great time together..kissed a few times nothing more. We exchanged numbers and email addresses and speak a fair bit. The thing is he doesnt ring me alot, he asks me to ring him and he ... (225 words

Do guys prefer anal sex over vaginal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Last night my husband and I were drunk, and we did anal sex. He seemed to really get into it, he came in less than a minute. It didn't hurt because I was drunk but I don't want to do it again. My butt is bleeding a little too. My fear is that now he will want anal sex all the ... (146 words

I've been celibate for 5 years and I'm wondering why I can't attract men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been celibate for 5 years and I have been trying like mad to figure out why I can no longer attract men! I never used to have this problem - I had plenty of boyfriends and relationships throughout my 20's. I broke up with a long term partner in 2001 and tried to get back ... (455 words

Should I ask out my coworker? If he turns me down I'll still have to work with him every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - This guy recently started working at my job. While he was training I noticed him watching me when I'd walk by. I few days later he yelled to me and asked me which department I worked in. I answered and introduced myself...he introduced himself as well. In the days and weeks ... (520 words

Should I ask him if he feels the same way about me?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm scared because I never felt this feeling. I've had boyfriends in the past and I think I loved them. It's just that with this guy it's different. Whenever I'm with him I get this funny feeling in my stomach. It's like I'm at peace when I'm by his side. That's a feeling ... (285 words

Do you think I made the right decision on backing down in the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok so me and this guy are in a relationship, both of us are with other people as well. My guy just found out that his mom has cancer so I thought the best thing for our relationship would be for me to back down. He is all his mother has and with all the stress he is under ... (82 words

I think there's something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend!

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I seriously think something wrong with me because am 21 and never had a boyfriend abd I know am not an ugly girl. Im confident about the way I look but at the same time I do find guys that talk to me but they are not my type usually they are ghetto and am preppy am not ... (121 words

Should I have sex with my friend?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good! Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our underweaar and we both flirt so mu... (182 words

What did he mean when he said this?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok this has confused me abit. Well before i start i'd like you to know that this bullying is mroe or less over but i'm still wondering about this. Basically afew members of the group suddenly took a disliking to me, never found out why or anything. Anyway before this we all g... (346 words

What can I do? I don't want him to think I'm following him, it's all coincidenses!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age - This is all TRUE on my life. A few months ago I met a man in a hotel whilst in Spain we were friends but thats all! He told me where he lived and by pure coincidence I own a flat very nearby him-which I rent out and live 100 miles away. However for the last 15 years I ... (610 words

Am I being spiteful by wanting more of his attention, or am I right by saying I'm coming second best?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Lately, i've noticed that my boyfriend is more interested in ebay. He's always been interested in selling and has a good eye for a bargain and has his own business in selling things! But recently, whenever i go round his house or he comes round mine, he always just sits at ... (177 words

My boyfriend treats me really bad... will he change someday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I apologize if this is long but it wil help u understand, I think neway. He has ben my boyfriend 4 almost 2yrs now. There have been sum issues but it seems 2 b getin worse. Here is sum backgrnd info on him tht mite help. ill try 2make this short. His homelife is very bad... (234 words

I don't know how to treat him after the break up, how often I should contact him, etc.

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - If my boyfriend broke up with me about 4 years or so LDR, and yes it was your fault, you would love to reconcile with him but your working on yourself so you can be who you are, and maybe one day hell take notice. What do you do when your both online " he had said we could stil... (204 words

I'm married and beginning to like a co-worker. Do I accept his invitation to lunch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - i'm married and just started a new job few months ago. i'm beginning to like my colleague and it seems mutual as he initiated to ask me if we can have lunch together so he can get to know me. i don't like this as i know it is very wrong. should i talk to him about this?... (58 words

I think my girlfriend was not a virgin when I had sex with her and I don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend was having two boy friends at her past . i think she must have sex wih them because when i had sex with her there was no bleeding and my penis got easily entered her vagina and i hav heared that for the first time sex its just imposible.this thing is herting me ... (66 words

The problem is that he has told me numerous times that he loves me but wishes he didn't!...

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for the past 6 months. For the most part, things are great. He treats me well and we really get along. The problem is that he has told me numerous time that he loves me but that he hates that he loves me and wishes he didn't. I don't know if I ... (174 words

If a girl says she will always regard you as a good friend, is there any hope for a change?

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29 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, My question here is...if a girl tells you that she will always regard you as a good friend, does it mean that it is doomsday for the guy? Totally no hope of becoming something more? So what are the steps a guy should take to avoid the 'good friend' zone? All a... (70 words

He is 30 and I am only 17, his ex has tried to split us up and once she succeded, any advice?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im a bit wooried about my boyfreind he seems to be very getting very freindly with his ex they have a daughter together but she has stopped him seeing her before and has not been nice to him at all since they split up surely he should hate her? but she has tried to split us up ... (133 words

My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawky and terrified of sex. I though... (226 words

A nasty girl told the boy I like that I was ugly and I think that put him off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello i am 15 and had a crush on this boy for a while he is attractive and has other girls after him. we have spoke on msn a few times but that was a while ago.he is freinds with most of my freinds and when i was about to add him on myspace his dp pic had another girl in ... (136 words

I'm crushing on my (ex's) friend but my life is under a microscope. How do I break out of this rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (? age 41-50 - I just broke up with my long-time boyfriend. I was always checking out other guys and I realized that we were just incompatible or I wouldn't be doing that. I'm actually painfully shy and not the type to objectify men. Anyway, we both knew it wasn't right, so we're both okay ... (312 words

Can this medicine used for the relief of nausea affect the effectiveness of the contraceptive pill?

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just have a simple question: I started taking birth control pills recently accompanied by moderate nausea in the mornings. If I take some pepto-bismol, will it help? Can it affect the effectiveness of the pill? ... (40 words

I trust him, it's his ex that I can't stand or trust. Should I feel worried? He never mentions her now or keeps contact...

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and two months so far.He stays in northern cali and I stay in southern cali.We plan on him coming down when my family gets situated and theres a possibility of him moving in. Its been hard at first with us beca... (283 words

When I masturbate the day I have sex, I have erection problems. Is this bizarre?

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29 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - does masterbation normally make a man not be able to get erect? i ask this because when i masterbate every day and have sex i cant seem to keep it up but when i dont masterbate a tall it seems to be fine infact its a lot harder so im not sure if i have some bizzare freaky ... (68 words

Why can't I explain very well why I love my BF?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend a lot... sometimes I ask myself why and my answer is bcuz I love him and I know he loves me... There's no other answer... as far as him helping me financially and being there when I need him as far as needing a ride or something simple... But... (94 words

I'm 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, im 17, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he was talking about the next level and by the next level i mean sex and im only 17 am i ready and he says that he got lots comdoms but never used one, how do i know if he has never used one and if not does he ... (80 words

He fell in love with a prostitute but seems repentant about the cheating, how do I know it won't happen again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi well a year ago my partner of 22 years came clean about sleeping with prostitutes he has slept with 3 in 2 years the only reason i know about these is he fell in love with the last one and came clean to me but didnt tell me about the other ones she told me he had told her ... (199 words

Should I tell him that I was dating/sleeping with someone else in the earliest stage of our relationship? I did tell both at then our relationship was casual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - After a long dry spell, I decided that I should start looking for my 'special someone'. I met two great guys and decided to date them both for a while to see which one was a better match. In the beginning it was very casual - I would see each man maybe once a week or so and ... (204 words

My girlfriend is going to college so I feel very lonely and sad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok here's the deal. My girlfriend is going 2 college and seriously I don't know what to do I am depressed, I don't sleep at night,I cry a lot,and all I do is just think of her she's the best thing that has ever happend to me.. When I was young I went through a lot of abuse and... (151 words

I don't disagree to porn watching, what disturbs me is that when he watches it, he stops making love to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Am I not as good as porn? My Boyfried doesn't realise that I know that he stays up late so that he can look at porn - he don't have an addition to it, but when he watches it, he stops making love to me. We've just had a fantastic fortnight where his attentions were just on ... (123 words

Is my sexual appetite just a sign I'm a healthy young man or is this excessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

29 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I was wondering whether I have a problem. The issue is that I always feel like sex and when I have sex I feel like it again afterwards or at the most the next morning. Is this just a sign I'm a healthy young man or is this excessive? I could easily have sex a few times a day, ... (66 words

Is it normal for a man who has a healthy sex life to watch porn?

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other very much and have a healthy sex life. I found out today that he watches porn sometimes. He told me without hesitation and I did not ask. We some how got on the topic of porn. He said ever since we have bee... (271 words

He wants me to give him an incredible orgasm, but I have to put my finger in a certain place...

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me if I ever wanted to try anal sex. I'm not interested in puttig anything up my hiney. Exit only please! He mentioned that one of the biggest and best orgasms he ever had was with an ex who fingered him in the anus during sex. I'm not too crazy about the ... (104 words

I don't know if should stay or just leave him. I don't trust him anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ive known my husband for 15 yrs and married for 6. He went to Ohio 2 weeks ago for work. I knew something was different when I talked to him. He came home told me he didnt love me, wanted to be alone, etc. I was in shock it came out of no where. I checked his cell phone - ... (199 words

Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has never been through enough s... (590 words

I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't love my husband, and I want a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband says he loves me, I believed him. I thought I felt the same. When I got pregnant with our child thats when he proposed to me. I said yes. I was going to wait till after the baby was born to get married but everybody kept asking me why wait? so we got married when I ... (312 words

My boyfriend has changed, he is not as loving as he had been, I want my old boyfriend back, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - After telling my boyfriend about my lack of selfesteem things haven't been the same... he's not affectionate when he texts me or talks 2 me on the phone... Things dnt seem the same and I miss us and my heart is beakin apart... I love him so much and he knows dat and he kno... (114 words

What are the chances of me being pregnant?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Alright. So me and my boyfirend (long term) have been havign sex, everything is fine. But i think i may have gotten pregnant. We had sex the past 3 days a few times he finished off inside me. And a few times we used a condom and then after we used a condom like an hr. later we ... (124 words

Does My Teacher Like Me Back?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm not his student anymore but he comes and helps out at my high school in the summer sometimes and I see him there. Anyways I've liked him since I met him which was 6 years ago. I found myself staring at him when he was around and a lot of the time I'd look at him until he... (161 words

Am I being too hard on my boyfriend?

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello I need some help here. I have been with this guy for around 6 months, we get along really well, and he does everything to please me, he is a wonderfull guy. We are exclusive, and we have strong feelings for each other. When we started dating I was living in the suburbs ... (289 words

You can add Dear Cupid on your Facebook!

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, it's not a question but it's just to tell everyone that if they have facebook, they can add themselves to the dear cupid group through the link below! :) Would be good to see you on there! :) http://www.facebook.com/pages/DearCupid/19602428432?ref=nf See yaaa xx ... (53 words

He told me I was boring! Should I continue with this relationship?

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29 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We don't see each other too often because we both have busy schedules, when we do, however, it'r very great and fun. But sometimes we talk on msn. The problem is, he gets bored and usually leaves and gets mad because he g... (255 words

"Stand By Your Man" should also apply for women!

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I really need to know if I'm right in this case because if not, I do want to apologize to my husband and his friend. Basically, his best friend, we'll call him D, lived with us when we were first married. Actually, my husband owned the house and he shared it with D, and D di... (311 words

I don't know if I should wait for him or move on when he goes to the air force...

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29 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok so here is the dilema: I have been recently talkin 2 a guy and we haven't made anything official but i know were headed there. Earlier on he had mentioned goin 2 the air force and we discussed that if things got serious with us then we will find a way 2 work it out. So now... (201 words

We spend less time with each other because of our jobs. What can I do?

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Me and my fiance for 8 months have not left each other side.. but maybe for 4 hours a day.. Now i have a job that is 9 to 5 like he wanted and he works nights for about 5 hours. We see each other for about 3 hours a night.. Now he's lonely during the day is always mad it seems ... (113 words

Our lack of intimacy is putting a strain in our relationship

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29 August 2008 (M - Hi, It's really hard for me to admit it, but i really don't know what i should be doing in my relationship. I've been seeing my girlfriend for 6months and it's my first ever serious relationship. I'm 22 and she's 19. We are both virgins and I really don't want to talk ... (245 words

Does this mean that he still wants to be with me?

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi please can someone help me to understand. I have broken up with my ex about 6 weeks ago. The reason he gave me was that his feeling for me have changed. I was a little confused as he told me that he was happy being with me. I gave back all the presents as i only wanted him ... (79 words

I feel he has taken her away from us! What can I do?

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29 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i know this isnt really a relationship problem, but it kinda is.. Ever since my father passed away in feb of 2006 me and my mum have become very close, i was 13 and had no brothers or sisters but my mum was 34 and pregnant. i think because my dad wasnt there for her during t... (878 words

Why do I always pee after sex?

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29 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I pee every after sex. What about you gals? Is it normal? Please help me to understand why i pee after sex. Thanks! ... (29 words

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