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Should I have put up more of a fight? Will I lose him to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (? age 36-40 - I have been seeing a 29 yr old guy for about a month. When he moved here to Boston from NYC for an 8 month freelance job, his girlfriend of 2 yrs broke up with him because of the distance, although "she would feel more comfortable with it if they were married." He does not know ... (391 words

Help! I think my boyfriend might cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi. Im 13 nd im im a relationship. Im scared that my boyfriend is going to dump me because on bebo he is calling other girls fit and sexy. I love him to bits but my friend was txtin him asking him why he said that to then girls and he turned it round on me. I dont want to break ... (109 words

Should I be considering divorce? I'm at a loss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - how would you describe a woman, married for 10 years,hasn't wanted sex for the past 2, only likes to watch t.v, only participates if coerced but never initiates plans, is cheerful when people are around but when we are alone, barely wants conversation. I ask because I'm cons... (178 words

Was she lying about him molesting her or was she just cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I would like to find out what you would do my girlfriend called me up 1 day saying a guy(her friend) tried to molest her when he invited her to go out because it was the last day he was in town. She gave me his number to call him up. Then he told me he didnt try to moleste ... (193 words

Can you get an STD from giving oral?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Can you contract an STD by giving a blow job?? ... (10 words

How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before the second date, he emailed ... (186 words

Why all this HATE towards me and show of temper?

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30 August 2008 (F age - I met a guy a few months ago whilst on vacation and became friends-he wanted more but I held back because he was quite good at telling everyone in the hotel things and I did not want that spread around. he also got very angry in front of everyone belittling me becasue I hadnt ... (549 words

General question about breaking up/ getting back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - what do you guys think...Someone once told me that if you break up with someone even if you come back together...things are never the same...and the same problems are gonna surface....I know that even if my ex asked me back...now id be kinda afraid of giving my feelings to him ... (121 words

What are some household items I can use as lube? I don't want to go to a sex shop.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - What are some everyday things that can be found in a house that can be used as lube and dildo.I don't have the courage to go in to a sex shop.I'm a guy so it would look weird,btw I live in an apartment so I can't really hide it from my parents.I want to masturbate anally but I ... (65 words

My friend is seriously depressed! How can I help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is a very complicated problem, but I'll try to be as concise as I can. My best friend has been very depressed recently--to the point of severe depression, and I don't know what to do. The cause of her depression is the fear of change and feeling that everyone is mov... (458 words

Should I be more understanding and patient or should I break it off?

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30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a great guy of 2 years...great personality, intelligent, attractive, and attentive (affectionate)...he is everything that I have been searching for. But I have been very patient with him (cause we aren't having sex...trust me I want to but he is paranoid about pregnancy ... (188 words

Is she interested or just being friendly

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30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I don't normally ask for advice but i'm pretty confused about my situation. I started volunteering at a place a couple months ago and there is this one girl who drew my attention. I want to ask her out but don't know if she's interested in me, and since I have to work with ... (407 words

How can I make him understand that I'm not easy? He even used the 'S' word...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is very unfair, I believe... Well, I'll start with some background. My boyfriend of two years has problems with my past. Especially because when I was single, on two ocassions, I made out with strangers at the bar after half an hour of having met. I never saw them a... (491 words

Any ideas for spicing up sex during pregnancy? Also, how can I feel sexy or romantic again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Does anybody have any ideas for spicing up sex during pregnancy? My fiance and I still have a very active sex life but im 37 weeks along and most positions are getting very difficult or impossible. Also, I don't feel sexy or romantic so does anybody have any ideas on that as ... (53 words

Right now I need to focus on me, and not the recent break up, and recover from being emotional needy and clingy. Any help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do i let go of hope, hope the phone will ring, hope ill get a text message etc.. hope hope hope.. its because the last thing he said was "Im sure well see each other again one day" and " I just dont want anyone right now but we can talk" I would love to retry the ... (146 words

Should I chase her or just get over her? I need an outside perspective!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - my ex broke up with me about 4 months ago and i still cant get over her. heres a little history about us. we where together for 4 years. she cheated on me 3 times and broke up with me a few times cause her parents made her. i left her once to be with another girl and that was a ... (161 words

How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular group things and I don't think m... (104 words

Is he cheating? Or what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and boyfriend have been together for about a year! things were great for about 6 months and now things are changing. he doesnt come to see me anymore even though im a 6 minute drive away. i ask him if i can go to his and he just says no and to leave him alone, and when i a... (235 words

I clearly prefer sex with a girl but I can't see me in a relationship with one, so am I lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - For some reason when i have sex with a guy...it does not feel good...but when i do with a girl i like it mor...am finding myself looking at girls now and feel more attarcted to them...but at the same time to see me in a realtionship with a girl....i cannot..... Am i a lesbian... (57 words

I have mentioned we should get together but how do I officially ask her out on a date?

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30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey all, well here is my problem. At uni last year I met one of the most attractive girls I have ever seen. At first I was a bit shy to talk to her but she spoke to me one day and we got on great. We ended up working as lab partners for the whole year and spent a lot of time ... (389 words

I want to be able to see my daughter because I have quit on drugs, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - my exhusband has not let me see our daughter in almost 5 years because of my past drug use i now have been clean and sober for 5 years what should i do and coull you show me some web sites on how this effects my daughter to not see her mom... (52 words

My father could be more discrete with masturbating, I'm starting do think he does it intentionally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - First, I need to give some background information. I am 25 years old, in grad school, and living at home with my parents to keep my expenses down until I graduate this year. My mother is a flight attendant and she flies three day trips once or twice a week. I have frequently ... (180 words

I cannot understand why he wants to keep me in the background when he preferred his wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age - Ok, I'm back with another question...how do I get him to stop calling and texting me without changing my number. I accepted the fact that he went back to his wife and am glad he did so because that's not what I want. I'm trying to move on again and find someone for me but I ... (139 words

Why would my friend not mention his family anymore while deployed? Should I ask if his family's OK? I'm worried about them.

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30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a friend who's military, He's on assignment away from home (here in the US but far from his current base). I asked him if his countdown for going home started since he's finishing the time assigned. He said that his duty is indeed coming to an end but he's making t... (183 words

I am really tired of investing in friendships that pan out to nothing. What can I do to stop trusting people so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am really tired of investing in friendships that pan out to nothing. It is like I keep thinking I am making a new/close friend and then for whatever reason, I eventually end up never hearing from them again and I am left wondering what the heck I did wrong. What can I do to ... (82 words

I don't know whether I go out with him or not. He did ask me out didn't he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - A few nights ago I was talking to a very good friend of mine, we were both just talking about how we were single and He said " so your single then?" and I said "yes" then he said "well i could fill that gap for you" I said "if you want to then you can" so basically he asked me ... (95 words

Do teenagers need to be accompanied by an adult to have an abortion done? What is the cost of an abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I think im pregnant, but the signs of me coming on my period are hear. My boyfriend and i dont like using condoms, and he aparently came a litlle bit. I feel really sick asif im car sick and dizzy alot, but my boobs are very sensative and a few spots have come out on my face ... (97 words

Should I tell her I love her online or to her face?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, i know a girl for 3 weeks and she lives near my house, i had a long conversation through one night and i got out with her one time and we walked through the city, i gave her flowers and she said that is very kind of you and she huged me. but i liked and loved her... (129 words

My family have chosen my ex wife side over mine in matters concerning my son...

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30 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - my family has chosen my ex wife side over mine in matters concerning my son and she always tries to cause trouble between my new wife and me what to do... (31 words

Did we make out for too long? Or is it the wearing of the condom for the first time that's generated the erection problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Okay so I've been seeing my girlfriend for about four months, we met at the start of summer this year. Both of us are still virgins and right now would have been the second time that we have tried to have sex. The first time was a few weeks back at my house, she asked if I ... (187 words

I'm not sure if my boyfriend just wants me for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - i've been with this boy for 3 months now. He is like so obessed with sex but we havent done it. Now im not sure if he likes me for who i am or what he can get from me. what should i do?... (44 words

My family prefer my ex to my new wife.

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30 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - my family dont seem to like my new wife and they still talk to my ex wife and go around me to her about things they would like to do with my son my wife is mad and rightly so what can i do... (44 words

I'm too shy to talk to this boy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - i like this boy but i am to shy to talk to him any where. please help. i have talked to him before and he likes me. but that time i screwed it.... (33 words

We had a good initial chat, but now she's "too busy" to go out with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey all, i knew a girl that lives beside our house, the first day i met her we talked for more than 3 hours and in the next day i asked her to go to a trip in the city and she accpeted that and every thing went ok, after a week i tried to invite her to go out but she s... (139 words

I'm 17 and need some sex advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello, im 17. i wanted to know what oral sex is and how it can help me get towards anual sex. and what is the diffrence between them, do you need a comdon. and does it hurt. i have tried to finger myself but icant evry time i get turned on i go in the bathroom and try to finger ... (113 words

Does this white discharge indicate an infection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Lately I've been finding I've been getting a lot of discharge on my knickers. I know they say if it's a yellowish colour, then you mhgit have in infection, but this is pure white. There's no smell either. Am worried by how much of it there is. Is this normal? ... (54 words

What is my boyfriend trying to say to me by saying nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age - i have been in a loveless marriage for 5 years. He has been dating other women and i began dating a man 2 years ago. We stay living together only for convenience and we are working on separating sometime next year. anyway, I am totally in love with the man i have been seeing... (603 words

Can I fit in at university even if I don't "party hearty"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. Im due to start university next month and am getting a bit worried. I took a year out before going to university to basically do some work. During that year I feel I have grown up a lot, met a new group of friends, my interests have changed ,and although I am excited ... (188 words

What is my boyfriend up to with this "friend" of his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs 8 months now and we are in a long distace relationship.i notice a co worker of his calls him often. one day while we were out driving she called because she wanted to check up on him (he did go to work that day because i was there ... (400 words

My boyfriend is behaving badly, but how can I tell for sure if this other boy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Well, my life is a mess right now...Again. First, my boyfriend, who I've been talking about being wonderful, is driving me NUTS. He has only given me a hug, ONCE. Except, like, if I hurt myself, but all my friends do too. But, he doesn't touch me. Once. He doesn't hold my hand.... (420 words

How should I deal with this guy from work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - This guy recently started working at my job. While he was training I noticed him watching me when I'd walk by. I few days later he yelled to me and asked me which department I worked in. I answered and introduced myself...he introduced himself as well. In the days and weeks ... (574 words

How often should I see my long distance boyfriend? I don't feel bad when I miss a weekend, should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend (of 3 months) lives about 2 hours from me so its not that difficult for us to see each other, but we can only visit at weekends cos we both work full time. However, he wants to see me pretty much every weekend. I.e. alternating visits. But every say, 1 weekend i... (221 words

I can't ask a girl out.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - No matter how hard I try, I can't ask out to any girls I like much less talk to them... My friends say the nervousness never goes away but still, I think mine is different..... (35 words

Had to break up with her because I had mixed feelings when I asked her out; I still want to be friends, what should I say when she calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok where to begin i was going out with this girl a wile ago we were in love. then i broke up with her because she started to ignore me for about 2 weeks. she kept saying how she loved ect (she wouldnt let me go) and i really did love her but then she went out with another guy ... (327 words

My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions about himself. he always a... (276 words

My boyfrind just broke up with me due to his family issues. Should I contact him or wait until he contacts me? Confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - So,My Bf just broke up with me ... due to his family issues (they didn't like where I was from or what religion I was ...etc) ... When he left he told me, he will think about it again and he will get back to me, but for now, he needs to be alone and focus on himself. It has ... (265 words

Can you get pregnant on your week break from the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi all is it true that in the seven pill free days that your waiting for your period that if you have sex you wont be pregnant because you taken the pill even if you have sex when your on your period ??... (45 words

It hurts me that my BF wouldn't have accompanied me to do the abortion in case I was pregnant, should I continue to stay with him, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi all my bf and i had a pregnacy scare a few days ago i thought i might be pregnant i was terrified although im 27 i still live at home and have a job as a nursery nurse and love this . and my folks told me from a young age if i was ever pregnant they would kick me ... (252 words

I have been seeing someone for a year now and I love him but he isn't nice to me anymore and I feel I have had enough!

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30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I dont know what to do anymore, ive just had enough. Ive been seeing someone for a year now and i love him with all my heart but i dont think he loves me anymore and he isnt very nice to me - not like it was. I just feel so down right down, i gave up alcohol 4 months ago coz i... (127 words

If I am like a brother to her then why is she interested in hearing all my sex stories??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - well, I am 23 year old male who is in deep friendship with a women who is married and elder than me and leading a bad relation with her husband. she is too open to me and keep saying to me always as you are my Best friend and if i start to say something hot she will say that... (201 words

Which boy should I go for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hello, rather basic question here: I currently have a rather embarrising crush on too great boys - one in the year above me and one of my friends mates who is just going into sixth form who i have known since year 2. I really REALLY like my friend's mate, and I got an ok f... (133 words

I'm caught under my dads pressure, what can I do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 August 2008 (? age 41-50 - School starts up again soon and I was planning to try my best for A-level. I haven't been working for a while so I thought it would be easy to get back into it. The only thing is, last year my Dad continously blackmailed me with chucking me out of the school, and I thought th... (148 words

How should I behave in the office now that this new woman is changing everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - HI, My problem is related to my professional relations. Actually Im with my company from past 7 years and worked a lot here with full honesty and more than my profile. My bosses used to appreciate in front of me for my work and behave. We had a very formal environment here. so ... (168 words

How can I get more info on this teacher to aid in my fantasies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - How can I find out information about my TAFE teacher in order to better enjoy my sexual fantasies? I am studying part-time at TAFE (Technical and Further Education - look it up if you don't understand) and working full-time. I am 22 years old and one of my TAFE teachers ... (251 words

Did I just get a version of the "let's just be friends" talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I was going through a very rough patch in my marriage. my wife suddenly wanted a divorce and while I resisted it at first, I eventually decided it was probably worth going through with. during this time I spent a lot of time talking to a female friend of mine who I had known ... (404 words

Can I fall back in love with my wife or have I just wasted the last 7yrs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been married for several years. Its been tough - i was stuck in a job where I was underpaid and couldn't quit due to visa problems but I managed to double my salary by investing. While it wasn't a perfect marriege, it was still good and we traveled to over a dozen ... (323 words

Did this boyfriend steal my 10yr old daughter's phone?

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30 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Met a guy, few weeks later he took me and my kids out for the day in his sisters car (she was away on business) My 10 yr old daughter took her phone, decided before we got there she didn't want to carry it round so i put it in the glove box. Forgot about it, txt him that nig... (229 words

I cancelled the wedding because I don't think we know each other enough., but he ended up heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i was going to get marry in july and I cancelled everything becuase i wasnt sure about getting marry and my boyfriend is always blaming me, he said that I hurted him alot. what should i do? i met my boyfriend by myspace we got engangage by the internet, iknow sounds weird, bu... (134 words

He has turned from Prince Charming to a big jerk. What should I do about this

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30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a single mother of 3 and I met a guy who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. He was a complete gentlemen and took me out and treated me like a princess. Well, 2 months have gone by and he has become a total jerk. He made my 8 yr. old son cry because ... (321 words

One of my closest friends changed suddenly and I don't know if I'm to blame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok, sorry if this is really long..... its kinda hard to explain I have a friend named Nate, we have been friends for over 5 years, we have dated before for about a month but it was really ockward so we decided to remain friends. My boyfriend and I have a rocky relationsh... (542 words

I still can't get over him, even after 2 years. I feel like I got the sour end of the break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Please, Please read this.. It would mean a lot to me to get your opinion. In the summer before 10th grade(June 13th,2006), I got my first boyfriend, "Stephen". It was all so new to me because I had never had anyone really give me that kind of attention. It was scary to me.... (1028 words

I have fallen out of love with him but I don't know if I should continue to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am married to a man who is a wonderful provider for me and my children, but I feel that I'm falling out of love with him. He's just two years older than me and he acts so settled down and old all the time. I like to get out and do things, but the only thing he can find ... (167 words

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for a little over 6. He had a daught... (1187 words

I'm 10 days late but the tests came negative. Am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 10 days late, i was supposed to start on the 20th but didn't. i had sex on the 15th. i took two pregnancy test(cheap kind $1)they both showed negative. could i be pregnant?... (34 words

My lover doesn't enjoy sex!

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30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Yesterday I asked a question about whether it was healthy/normal to want sex all the time and the answers were basically yes and enjoy it... problem is I'm in a relationship with a great man who doesn't want to enjoy it. I just go longing. What then?... (47 words

I over-reacted and now he has been ignoring me! What should I do? I don't want to lose him!

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i dated for two months, talked for three months before that, and have been close friends for three years, he sent me a text saying we need a break after i acted a little crazy (he went away to camp and i was having a hard time not being able to talk to him so i ... (522 words

He's married and attracted to me but afraid to make any move. What's happening with him?

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30 August 2008 (F age - I am 52, in a relationship but single. Not married. My married friend that I have known for over 30 years is unhappily married. We were thrown together for job reasons. Have had to have meetings, We were in high school together. I don't know what is going on but when we sit for ... (99 words

Does bleeding mean you broke your hymen?

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I think i lost my hymen because i bleeded when i made out with my boyfriend, i don't know if he did enter me all the way through or not but since i bleeded this means that i lost my hymen right ? ... (43 words

Sexual crush on my cousin! I'm tempted to try something,,,advice needed!..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've had a sexual crush on my cousin, I would always get a "hard on" when I thought about her. Then one night, 2 yrs ago, we slept in the same bed, since she usually slept with my lil sisters, but she didnt like them. I found out she was a REALLY deep sleeper. While she was ... (104 words

Whats the difference between french kissing and making out... and how do you make out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i really like this guy and im 14... he said he likes me too... and we are great friends....him and his gf broke up a few days ago and shes so mad that shes spreading about me to everyone... i dont really care cause (lets call him daniel) daniel told her to back off and leave me ... (197 words

Found his ex gf's phone number...I think he still loves her

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30 August 2008 (F - Found a phone number among my b/f's things that belongs to his ex from 4 years ago. It's a recent number because I purged all of her numbers from his belongings when we moved in together. He took forever to get over her. Why does he have her phone number now? Don't know ... (137 words

She says she still loves me but wants to be single. Is there someone else?

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30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, ok so 6 weeks ago i went to see my girlfriend and were havin a cuddle and a little talk and i say to her " your my best friend" and she sortof says like thats sweet, and then she says that im her best friend but she says it in that way that you no theres a underlyi... (347 words

My boyfriend won't french kiss me! He says it leads to sex.

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30 August 2008 (F age - My boyfriend says the reason he won't french kiss me is because it always leads to sex and he has no desire for sex. He has ED. but I think french kissing is not just for sex. We've only been together 2 months and I 'm not ready for sex but I am ready for kissing intimately. ... (75 words

My fiance doesn't love me like she used to...she wants to see other people?

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30 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - My fiance told me she doesent love me like she did. She came over on sunday and texted me before she came over that we needed to talk. It bothered me so much, she was going to wait until after dinner, but i begged her and she said, I think we should see other people, i just ... (362 words

I'm depressed! Does he have a penchant for older women?

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30 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I get very depressed sometimes and alot of the time I have no idea how to express what I'm feeling to my partner for fear of feeling insecure. I have a very loving relationship but at times we fight - and when we do it's absolutely awful. His last relationship before me was ... (486 words

I'm a young, gay male who is heart broken over a married man!

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30 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - i am a 28 year old gay male i have been in a relationship with the same guy for 10 years we live together things are ok our sex life kinda faded out and is rare if ever i think we are both in it for convienience... i met the man of my dreams my soulmate we click on every level ... (345 words

I've been kicked out of the university for not dedicating myself properly!

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30 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - ive been kicked out of uni for not dedicating my self properly-theres no chance of me getting back in-all this is due to personal health reasons which i have seen a docter about. For the last fornight since i found out- i have not slept or ate properly-i feel sick to the ... (137 words

He just proposed to me except I don't know what to do?

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we've been datieing for such a long time. Sense the 7th grade...... and we graduate this year. We both plan on going to college. And he just proposed to me. That changed everything. I havent said yes or no, but im just not ready for marriage. Although I'm ... (153 words

This text would be a window of opportunity if he is still holding on to me, should I do it?

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30 August 2008 (F - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a relationship or when to let t... (1449 words

My depression broke her heart. Could get a second chance?

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30 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - This story is somewhat complicated but I will do my best do explain it. Basically, I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl. She was really in love with me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I was up at college, and was going through a life-changing bout of depression. I ... (1196 words

My girlfriend's past is causing me pain!

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30 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm currently involved in a serious relationship with someone.. I just can't seem to get over her past. It bothers me even more that i know every guy she's been with and see them around my town every once in a while.. It eats away at me and i'm not sure what to do. I want to ... (109 words

I don't stay erect for too long during sex

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30 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - i seem not to be able to stay erect very long during sex, i only last for about 5 minutes or less, when i dont have sex i masterbate at least 3 times a day, what could the problem be??... (40 words

If she had wanted to hit me with the bottle, she would have... right?

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - was at the pub meeting my friends n i bumped into this boy who is gorgeous..we hugged said hello..he introduced me to his friend etc..anyway bit of history..he is kinda mates with my ex..he stares at me and litrally turnt his head as far as it would turn to look at me when i ... (225 words

What kind of conversations are most likely to attract a woman?

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30 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi. There is this babe where I work who is really hot (or perhaps she just cycled into work that particular day!). She works off the next corridor. I've seen certain guys hanging around her alot. She laughs at their jokes and seems to like them. I like her too. Trouble i... (185 words

My shy boyfriend is starting to worry me

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 16 too, he is my first boyfriend and i am his first girlfriend too. we've been together for 1-2 months but ive known him for years (but we werent really friends for that time). i asked him out in germany and he seemed really excited about it but ... (329 words

Should I stop masturbating?

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30 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - Masterbation is the best, but my girlfriend told me to stop because she said that it is like killing millions of babies, and one that could have had a chance to live, should I stop, or should I keep masterbating. she said she would dump me if I would.... (49 words

She took my dog away from me!

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30 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - I've had my dog, Benji she is a chow. Anyway i've had her for 9 years since before my mommy past away so benji kinda all i have left my mom. My dad remarried months after her death. Anyways a few nights ago my step-mother ask how i felt i she got rid of MY dog! oooh i was so ... (123 words

I thought he liked me, but stopped texting and has been asking abou my friend. Does he like her?

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30 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i dont understand blokes..how can you tell if a boy likes you?? been friends with this boy for a while..recently started hanging out..he started coming out by himself with me n sometimes my mates..he usually texts me everyday but last two days he hasnt..he flirts n that..i ... (122 words

I'm 35 years old and never been in love. Is there still hope for me?

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30 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - i am nearly 35 and have still never been in love. Im getting very anxious that i will never find love and have children. Is it ever going to happen to me or am i too late ?... (38 words

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