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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I move on from him when I'm constantly in tears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend of 2 years and i broke up about three months ago. i have been fine, i suppose. but recently, i have not been able to stop thinking about him!! he is constantly in my thoughts! i think about him basically every minute of the day, i dream about him and think ab... (206 words)

Does my straight friend like me? We act like we are having sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Right, I have a little question: I have this...friend, and I'm sort of infatuated with her (I'm a bi grrl, she identifies as straight). Anyway, I have 2 problems: the first is, does she like me? Whenever she's round, we end up acting out...sex...stuff... I don't know how else ... (202 words)

How do I help my online friend with her abusive ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age - Hey,my friend is currently panicking over her abusive ex bf.I don't know why she still gets messages from him or hasn't blocked him in his msn mail,but anyway when I try to help her online(we're internet friends) by trying to listen to her,she just tells me to go away.These ... (60 words)

Does a blow job involve blowing? I'm confused....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - This may sound stupid but what's a blowjob and how do i do it? I have sucked my man and had him cum in my mouth,is a blow job different? Does it involve blowing? Im so confused! X... (38 words)

Is this doctor "slumming"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help not sure if he is slumming!!. I met a man that I like very much.One problem , he is a doctor who is very busy with work. I am a single mom of 3 .He lives in a gorgeous huge house!!..I live in a 2 family .We have a great time when we are together.but I kinda feel out of h... (100 words)

How can I be more romatic so she thinks that I love her and care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a a girlfriend that I adore but we argue all the time about me yelling at her and that I don't pay attention. How can I be more romatic so she thinks that i love her and care. We have been off and on for a year and i Still don't understand what should I do?... (58 words)

I'm gay and no one has approached me yet. How come I have all the other things but I cannot find love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - So here it goes. I am a single guy with feelings for other guys, but still in the closet and its better that way for me. I am 22 now and I have never been in a relationship before or even had a boyfriend. My life is a bittersweet adventure. I am not your average gay guy. I dont ... (325 words)

Any tips that can help me pass my driving test?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everybody... Okay, I understand that this is a website for relationship troubles [hence 'dearcupid'.com] but this is the ony place i could think of coming for help with a problem that isn't anything to do with a relationship. I have just booked my driving test [for the 29... (82 words)

I want to try doggie style but I don't want him to see my butt hole!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - so my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 and 1/2 years now. were pretty sexually active, but not too much. when we do things in bed, i want them to be good for him, and me too. dont get me wrong, they are good. theyre great. but i just wonder if they could be better. i ... (149 words)

How do I get my life back when these men stole it from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im struggling. Im 18 and a sxual assult victum. Was raped at 6 and touched up by mumz ex at 13 i have been a mess since. I just want my life back. These men stole it from me and they dont get jail time or nufin how is that justice? How can i look a policeman in the eyes now ... (75 words)

In a few days and without any real reason, I have fallen out of love with this person, how come?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - For about the past 2 years, I have been in love with this girl. We started off talking fairly often, and grew to be pretty good friends. I haven't really stopped thinking about her since then. And everytime I thought about her, I would always feel happy and longing for her. ... (233 words)

He crosses the limits and I do not know how to tell him NO!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i think my bf is controlling me because whenever we make out or something he always gets his way. i dont want to break up with him but i dont know how i can say no. i dont mind him touching me over my clothes but sometimes he goes underneath. he doesnt stop asking till i le... (102 words)

I'm confused about who I want to be with... one is my husband and the other guy is an old friend with whom I had an affair...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - First let me give you some history. I have known X since I was 5 yrs old our families were close and all of us kids grew up together there was 8 of us I was the only girl.We were all about the same age give or take a few yrs.I had a crush on X from the beginning but of course ... (623 words)

Do you think my ex is trying to get back in mine and my daughter life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone can help me, what is my baby father up to. cut a long sorry short i had a baby with him 19months ago, his 46 i'm 30, he left to be with a 22yr girl 14months ago now the girl is haveing his baby. after me and my ex broke up there was alot of bitte... (250 words)

My FWB smothers me with love and attention! I'm not sure I want him anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Began as FWB and i was in love with him, i wanted to be with him so bad and this goes on for a very long time. He always stated he didn't want a girlfriend ect. he's been hurt in the past... Then it started to change a bit and now he is turned into wanting to be with me, clin... (156 words)

Is this really love or do I just pity her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love with my gf of two years now but I can't forget her past. She told me that she has 20+ partners before me. Worst I know some details of her past. It really bothers me a lot, thinking how many dicks have fucked her. When we got arguments, I always bring out her past life ... (135 words)

How can I tell if my wife is sincere when she avoids intimate times with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife left me, along with her she took another man. well, a couple of months later she is back and with plenty of patiance from me we are attempteing to work things out. my question is how can i tell she is sincere especially when she seems to avoid intimate times with me ? ... (76 words)

Forgiven him too many times for sending flirty texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now. There have been about 6 incidents where I've been looking at his phone and finding he has been texting a number of girls, sending flirty texts lik "would you be up for fun?" (he means sexual fun bdw) and he c... (113 words)

How can I be happy when my boyfriend messes with my mind?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of 4 years has adhd. I am already in a hard situation as i have grown up with violence my whole life. My boyfriend will go off at the most pathetic thing if i dont do what he wants he hurts me he wants me to constantly have what he wants on a platter. I have asked ... (102 words)

Will he be put off by my telling him I am a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am seeing this guy, he is my first proper boyfriend and we have decided to have sex, should I tell him I am a virgin, or do you think this might put him off. He has had a lot of experience and I am scared incase he will be able to tell because I wont be very confident.... (60 words)

Why does this fit, talented bloke want to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing this really fit bloke who is outgoing, talented and really good looking, my problem is I don't know why he wants to go out with me, as I am shy, a bit boring and very preditable which he doesn't like. I know I am not his usual type, is he just interested in ... (108 words)

He felt 'overwhelmed' by my strong personality and the only thing to do was to split up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Seeking support after boyfriend of 2 years ended it rather callously. I was working in a foreign country for 6 weeks to regain my confidence after a horrid time in my previous job. 3 weeks in I called him to express how I was feeling frustrated with my life and how I wanted him ... (693 words)

My husband wants divorce, our problems started a couple of months ago with drinking and his making new friends, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i are having problems he has stated that he wants a divorce and has fallen out of love with me we have been together 14 years. He has ask for time to get feelings back. He hasnt made effort to leave and i have told him i am done trying that is up to him told him ... (113 words)

Should he wear a condom during fellatio or a hand job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job or a hand job and I was just wondering should he wear a condom and what happens when he cums, do I stop and let him take over, I am a little unsure as I have never done his before. Thank you.... (53 words)

We've been dating 2 months and now it's over! Should I wait around or find a rebound guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - he is away and can't talk much ... i told him i wanted a break through voicemail ... then he wouldn't talk to me so i took it back ... and days went by and he texted me he wanted a break and we needed to decide if we could "handle this" meaning the relationship ... we have only ... (137 words)

Does he want space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and me boyfriend we been together for only 2 months now but we been talking for about 6 months and knew each other for 7 years finally were in a relationship he's also my first. But we only see each other like every other week but when I text him he text me later on or not ... (66 words)

I have fallen in love with my married boss and now I'm expecting his child!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I have been having a sexual relationship with my married boss on and off since January, we have always been very close and sexually compatible (we slept together briefly 2 years ago but it was purely a lust thing) but very recently things changed...the re... (134 words)

She has been in an abusive relationship and says is not ready for the next, is it wrong to maintain hopes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, i'll try and make this as brief as possible. I'm 21 and have never been in a real relationship. Last year i found out a friend from work liked me, which was a real suprise becus i have always liked her, but thought she was out of my league to even try. It took a while ... (341 words)

He says he has been with no girls since me but wants a FWB relationship now. Go back or walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - A little over a year ago I met this guy. We hit it off imediately. for 5months we could not b seperated, we either saw or called each other everyday. Then when i moved aa hour away from him to go to college we stayd in a long distance relationship. I caught him being with ... (294 words)

I feel there's no point dieting anymore because I am missing a special night out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I feel i have nothing to live for, i am so bored, i have been trying to loose weight for the past few weeks for an event next week where i'm going to see the guy i like but dont know him yet so my friend said she would introduce us, but i cant go to the event anymore because i ... (202 words)

I am straight but have sexual feelings for my male best friend .What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship-wise, or should I a... (66 words)

Gf is having difficulty with bowel movements after anal...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - we had anal and now my gf is having a hard time passing a bowel movement, she said that everytime she feels like she has to go, nothing comes out but air... shes been like this ever since we did it and that was like 4 days ago, she doesnt feel any pain, but she feels like her ... (84 words)

Jealousy: I feel ugly in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and a month now and i am the most jealous girl ever so jealous that when ever we go places we both look down im mean he is jealous to but not as bad as me he...but wut i LOVE about him is that he wont look cuz he respects that im ... (174 words)

I don't want romance to include waiting by the phone in disappointment! Is that too much to ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have recently come out of a boring loveless marriage. I have been seeing my new girlfriend for a a few months now and when we are together we get on great. We have spent every weekend together and always have lots of fun and do some really great things. I have noticed however ... (339 words)

My ass crack gets raw and bleeds since I started my period...what's wrong?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - okay look this is very embarrising but i really dont care at this point but uhm sence i started my period my ass crack has gotten really raw and bumpy and it hurts ive never really noticed it like this b4 cuz it was just around where the blood came oout and b4 my period when ... (88 words)

Could I be pregnant? I have symptoms but negative tests...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I came of my period Saturday 26th July, On Monday 4th August and throughout that week I had unprotected sex. I'm due on Monday 25th, roughly then. All last week I began to get symptoms of pregnancy 1: Increased urination 2: Bloating 3: Cramps 4: Tiredness 5: an... (194 words)

Can someone help me sort out some dating issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a few issues on my mind currently, i'll put them in one lot and make it brief so i may get answers. a)My ex, who now has a girlfriend, decided to message me saying he still loves me, and when him+his gf split, would i take him back? (i told him he was being unfaithful... (231 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend for a summer fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (?) age 13-15 - I feel bad coz I have a boyfriend which is avoiding me but when I went on holliday I fell in love with a guy that likes me but does'nt want a girlfriend until future. We'v been flirting alot and I even have his no. but we'r not offically going out or doing anything about our ... (72 words)

Should I lie about my age to this older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - i met this AMAZING girl about a week ago but theres a little problem,actually it's pretty big see i found out she was 20 and i know that somewhere along the line she's gonna ask my age im only 13(i know it's bad but i mean im very tall and i got a deep voice and im pretty... (141 words)

Am I justified in my actions? Why does he treat me this way if he still cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i'm not sure if my heart is hurting or if it just needed to be done.-long epic on and off relationship i've worked with me ex boyfriend for over 2.5 years. we were friends for 6 months before we started dating. we dated for 'bout 3 months when he broke up with me. it is a... (489 words)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', 'whats up' but i dont get ... (156 words)

How do I convince my boyfriend that being friendly doesn't mean "cheating" on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (?) age 13-15 - hello, i am a 14 year old and am in love with a 15 year old boy ... but the prpblem is that as am very friendly with most of the guys, and he doesn't like it. i just don't know how to make him understand as am quite open minded and don't mind him speaking or being with g... (208 words)

I'm completely confused! I ended it with him and now he needs space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I ended things with him and now he tells me he needs space to sort his head out!? Simple story, we dated (casually to start with but then I realised I wanted more), he didnt seem to feel the same. In fact, he hooked up with his ex. So, that was it. He wanted to stay on touch bu... (124 words)

The pain! How can I get over what she did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Sir/Madam, I bring to your attention with regards to my problem of my girlfriend. We have a long distance love affair and met her only in YM. We are now one year relationship and continue our communication through chating. We really love each other ... (487 words)

I am 20 and he is 16 is this ok???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, so im nearly 20 and i was wondering if it was wrong for me to date a guy that is 16 who will be turning 17 in december?(i live in california).... (32 words)

What do women find attractive in a man???

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - What do women find atractive in a man? I want your opinion, thanks to those of you who answer, its well appreciated.... (22 words)

Can I trust him not to go back to this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfirend and I have been together for 7 years. We have a little girl who is 4. I moved to the UK 3 years ago to go to university and we have had arguments about me being here. I visit as much as I can, and he has cheated on me a few times while being here. Well after th... (249 words)

Is it safe to use baby oil as lube?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, this is quite embarrasing but i need to know the answer so any info would be great. Me and my boyfriend love to massage each other as a build up to sex, we use baby oil and as you can imagine the oil kind of gets used as lube, but i dont know if this is safe? Anyone k... (71 words)

I want sex, just not with my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im a 24 year old female, who LOVES sex, but recently i have lost my sex drive with my boyfriend of 3 years, i dont understand it. I still want sex and have fantasies but when it comes down to it, i can take it or leave it (sometimes i think its troublesome, even though ive ... (121 words)

Does he still want me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

- I need help please this is really upsetting me. My best friend (male) has a boyfriend (also male). My best friend began to tell me a few days ago that he missed me and regretted leaving me because things were going bad with him and his boyfriend. He began to get bored and feel ... (251 words)

He divorced me because, he says, I was controlling. Was I???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has recently divorced me very much against my will. He told me it was because I was controlling. I never asked him where he was or what he was doing , what time he would be home or anything. I felt I was only controlling in the fact that I would always choose where ... (86 words)

Help me understand why he keeps coming and going...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so were do i start i want to know why he does what he does we have been together 8 years when ever a argument happens he packs and leaves for a few weeks its always over stupid things ie washing up or someother trivial thing i have stood by him through everything he is an ... (200 words)

Should I just forget her because she lies to me with such ease and doesn't care about me...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i have this really pretty mate but she is already taken but she confides in me and i know that her relationship is on the rocks. I have had a crush on her since day 1 but never told her but now i feel that i should make my move but my mates tell me to stay away from her because ... (176 words)

He's 19 years older! I know I've "my whole life ahead of me" and someone else could come along but I love this man! What to do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Im in love with an older man,we have recently decided to split as we want different things at the moment but one evening a few weeks ago he said i was the one for him,he wants a future with me,wanted to make me his wife and is "waiting for the kids to come along" i told him i ... (158 words)

I was seeing someone else during our break, but never told my BF when we got back together and had this guy over to our place as a friend... my BF is now bothered by this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and i have been together off and on for about two years now, about 2 months ago he decided i was the one, we couldn't stay away from each other, it was amazing, it was all so clear where our relationship was going. One night after we were out together he dropped me ... (195 words)

Since we live far from each other, she doesn't mention sex as she used to. Has she lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever my gf talks to me, 3 out of 5 times, she will talk about sex. The way she likes to do it and showed related porn to me. It has been months she stopped talking about those. I thought she is having problem or depression. But, she doesn't. I think woman views sex d... (152 words)

Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am two weeks late. i should have gotten my period on the first of Aug. and now its the 16. i have been having dull cramping and i keep thinking that my period is coming but it hasnt. i dont have any other symptoms of pregnancy though.... i stopped the pill 2 months ago but i... (84 words)

My friend says he does not want to be boyfriend/girlfriend yet., but we're intimate. I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - he does not want to be boyfriend/girlfriend yet, wants to get to know each other. i dont know if the problem is that i'm (almost)29 and he is 22. he is very affectionate towards me, he introduced me to his friends. he brought me to his new house. he does all the things i... (108 words)

Our love is fading. I just want to make things right.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im so tired of him thinking that he is the only one that has to go through things. Maybe it's time for him to start thinking about others rather than himself. It hurts when he denies my love. He believes that im cheating on him, which is surely not the case. I dont want to ... (136 words)

Why do adults always focus on mistakes their children make?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - wy do adults always focus on the mistakes theri children do? why do they always get angry when we don't always agree with them? i know their looking out for us but isn't it a bit too suffocating?... (38 words)

My husband is a wonderful man but I think of him as a best friend or a brother, should I give up on my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been married for a year and a half. My husband is a wonderful man and would do anything for me. The problem is, I think of him more as a best friend/brother than my husband. We share everything but I have to admit that I have no physical attraction to him anymore. We ... (137 words)

Even though he's really good, it's very rare for me to climax, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Here's the thing. My boyfriend and I please each other with foreplay and dry humping. I've gone down on him, he's gone down on me. Stuff like that. What I've noticed is even though he's really good, it's very rare for me to climax, and I don't know why. Everytime we go and have ... (91 words)

I plan to relocate to be near him even though he just wants a sexual relationship for now. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am getting a divorce because it was aweful marrage. I also reunited with a old flame from 12 years ago. he has had 3 really bad marriage and wants to take it slow with me and make sure that our kids get along his family loves me and has known me all my life. He is real hesit... (95 words)

Weight Issue: I want to be as good to her as I can be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, I'm new here, but I have a question that has bugged me for some time. I am a younger male, and have been in a relationship for 17 months. My problem is not the relationship itself; I love my girlfriend just how she is and we get along so well that we don't even fight... (287 words)

I need advice on jealousy and suspicion!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupid, My boyfriend of 8 months has a tendency to not communicate with me for days on end after weeks of intimate behaviour where he tells me that I don't realise how much he loves me and that every other girl is inadequate. It eats me up so badly because there is... (206 words)

How should we handle her chocolate obsession?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - every time my mom invites her friend angela to family parties she brings hefty amounts of chocolate (crackel in proticual) and ends up scarfin down the whole supply her self. when asked for chocolate she kindly directs us to other desserts. we think this is unfair to the ... (62 words)

Any tips for this woman at my job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

16 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I'm seeking any tips on a certain problem. Well today at work, this one woman returned from taking off on most of summer. Well, I have a huge crush on her that I can no longer deny. She's absolutely beautiful, and very sweet. The thing is though, that I couldn't even ... (266 words)

Why do his parents change their mind so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ok well i really need help!!! ive been dating my boyfriend for 1 yr 5 months and his parents didnt like me since day one. they always tell him what to do and they just strangle him around like a rag doll and they never make their mind about liking me or not. they dont even ... (197 words)

Am I being irrational thinking I may have gotten my one night stand pregnant? We didn't use protection!

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16 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I had a one night stand last night. We didn't use protection and now I find that I am unable to sleep because I'm worried that their may be consequences for my foolish actions. I met a woman in a club, we danced and had a great time. When I went to the gents, the condo... (249 words)

What if you like a barista?

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16 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl who works in my local coffee shop. I have some sort acquitance with her, just saying hi by name and short chats about weather, etc. I find it odd to talk with her more at her work place, because she's quite busy... anyway, long story short, flirting and ... (208 words)

Why do I miss her so much when she misses me so little?

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16 August 2008 (M) age 22-25 - We broke up, and she is the love of my life. I miss her so much every day. Always i look at pictures of us together and just want this pain to end. When i asked her how she felt she said the love had faded...she said that when looking at pictures of me she doesnt miss me. Why ... (197 words)

How can I make him realize I love him? I think we should get back together!

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Basically. My guy split with me, and I am still desperately in love with him. But he keeps avoiding me and I need to speak to himm. He needs to realise how desperately in love with him I am! I actually need himmm more than anythingg. Anyway I need advice on trying to make him ... (71 words)

Am I a stalker?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a 5 yr relationship with an unavailable guy which recently ended. I called him several times in 1 week,went by his work to talk to him and went over to his house but i did not threaten him. am I a stalker? After these 3 incidences in the last month am I a stalker? I also ... (73 words)

I'm at a loss for words, what's going on? Is he not happy anymore?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I met my husband he had two children.we've been together for nine yrs and married for six yrs.I am pregnant with our third child my husband told me that if I have this baby it will make our relationship bad. he told me the way we intrepid the bible is all wrong. he says ... (230 words)

What makes a player fall for a girl and stop playing the game? And do they ever feel guilty or even have a heart?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What makes a player fall for a girl and stop playing the game? I recently ran into a guy I thought was sweet..then red flags came up to show that he was playing games with me. I started liking him, but because of his behavior (it's not consistent with his word). I ended i... (117 words)

Should I tell him that while I love him, I'm not IN love with him. He's in Iraq and I'm pregnant...

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend is in Iraq. I am 5 1/2 months pregnant. We got together while we were AIT. I love him, but I have come to realize that I am not in love with him. How do I tell him that I love him, but I'm not in love with him? And should I even tell him?... (57 words)

I am so angry at my husband about the way he is with MONEY!

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do when my husband has money in his pocket from his paycheck but uses the money from my paycheck to by things or to eat out from our joint account. This Iritates me to no end. I have already told him that it bothers me but still he does it anyway. Like just now I ... (151 words)

My clitoris itches unbearably after sex. Why?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Recently, my boyfriend of 5 months and i have started having sex. My question is though every time we are done. My clitoris really starts to itch like unbarely. To the point of i can't stand it. Can someone tell me why this is?... (44 words)

Is he covering up a 'want' to cheat?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently, my fiance and me went to his bestfriends moms house to swim. My fiance finally got in the pool and started dunking his bestfriends mom. She was wrapping her legs around him as if he was picking her up underwater. Their privates were so touching. I was upset cause ... (207 words)

I really need some advice about my husband who has not worked in a almost a year.

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some advice about my husband who has not worked in a almost a year. i met him in august 2006 and we got married december 2007 after he lost all his money in the stock market. he inherited his money from his mother who passed away when he was 30. he has no family ... (356 words)

I have a question for guys!

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a question for guys! what do u like in a girl???? or what is the "perfect date"... (25 words)

Go to counseling, deal with it or run?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - So, I've been with my now fiance for 2 yrs we've lived 2gthr 4 a while. He's caring and says that he wouldn't leave me and hasn't cheated. Problem is recently I found out he was dating his ex two months after we were "offical"! We went through the long distance t... (383 words)

I'm insanely physically attracted to this guy, but not emotionally attracted, but I also have feelings for my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i love him to death..however when recently i decided that i needed a break just to enjoy the single life for awhile and to give the relationship some breathing room (my physical attraction to him had died off somewhat)..in ... (174 words)

I thought he was rude to ask me to swallow so soon!

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i just started dating this 23 year old guy about a month ago..I'm 20..we became physical fairly quickly, but no sex...however the 2nd time i gave him oral sex he asked me to swallow...i thought that was very rude and being a big mouthed girl i backed off and acted offended, ... (71 words)

I really would like to go a little further now, but I don't want to push her and possibly lose her!

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16 August 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey People! Okay well here's the thing. I've been dating my girlfriend now for almost 2 months, we've been good friends now for about a year or more. We kiss every chance we get and she allows me to grab her butt when we're making out but the thing is i want to go a little ... (144 words)

I always stop before I cum when masturbating, anyone else have this?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 16, i'm a virgin and I like to masturbate, I know theres nothing wrong with it. But I just used my hands because I dont have toys. I usually dont finger myself, I jus rub my clit slowly and gently and mostly when watching porn, because I get horny when I see it and I ima... (144 words)

I'm so scared that I have lost all my family. What can I do?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well to make it short im 17 and my dad left when i was nine my mum was great through it all but after 3 months of her and my dad spliting up she got pregnant with twins well me and my dad didnt speak for 6 years and i have just become in contact with him (met him twice s... (236 words)

He is 39 and I am 19... the problem is that I don't know how to tell my family and friends about us.

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16 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - It's a long story really, and its really getting me down because i dont know what route to take or how to approach the problem and just kind of want other peoples point of views. So basically I'm a guy and I met a really nice guy.. one night while out, he is so kind and real... (177 words)

Do my parents have a right to dictate what are healthy/unhealthy boundaries between myself and someone I'm dating?

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16 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - About 10 weeks ago I met a woman through a mutual friend. We've officially been dating for about 8 weeks now. Averaging around 1.7 dates per week. We talk on the phone quite regularly. I'm 25 years old, responsible, and feel fortunate to meet this gal. Due to some fami... (188 words)

Every time my girlfriend tries to give me a blowjob I feel sick!

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16 August 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hi , everytime my girlfriends goes to give me a bj i feel sick. Other things we do im fine i have slept with her and i feel comfortable. she really wants to do it but i cant because i feel sick can anyone tell me why or help me ???... (52 words)

Do we have a chance? And do you have any thoughts on his behavior?

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16 August 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i was seeing some guy..not going out..just meeting up and stuff but we werent serious. he found out i slept with someone else and went mad and wouldnt speak to me. i went to see him for the first time since this all happened last night and we were talking about what had ... (281 words)