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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I stop my obsession with her? I want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm still obsessed with a girl I dated months ago. Things really didn't work out between us, there was an age difference and we had almost nothing in common but for reasons I can't understand I was devastated when it ended. She's moved on now but months later I'm still th... (104 words)

Is it ok to date a friend's ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an old friend that I lost touch with approx 9 years ago (I have to add that we weren’t best friends but hung out occasionally but friends just the same). I recently met a guy and surprisingly enough he is her soon to be ex-husband. I had only met him once before when ... (254 words)

My husband cheated on me and I don't know wha to do. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have been married for 5 yrs now.he had a 2 and half yr long affair that started soon after we got married with a woman he was closely related to and said it was to get back at his uncle (that woman's husband). i forgave him for this and carried on with the ... (284 words)

How can I help my hypochondriac boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i cope? how do i cope my boyfriend is a hypochondriac. For example he has a bump on his head... he thinks its a tumor. He has a cyst in his cheek ... he thinks its a tumor. He has a bowel problem and thought he had cancer. When i get sick he says i might have aids.... (147 words)

I don't understand what he wants and his behavior is hurting me. Is he playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman that cheated the husband for the first time with this guy(36 yrs old) I have been talking to for 7 months. During the 7 months he called me every single day and our conversations lasted more than 1 hour in average. We had sex 3 times and everything seemed ... (294 words)

Does the age difference matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 years old and my sisters best mate keeps flirting with me and tries cuddling me but shes 11 nearly 12, i do have some feelings for her but is the age diffrence a problem?... (36 words)

I hurt the girl I like, I tried to apoligize to her and she just ignored me. I don't know what else to do. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem that I am unsure how to handle. I am 31 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend. I had a close friend in high school and that was about it. I never really was looking for anyone, and was pretty much content on spending my life alone...until. Recently, ... (532 words)

Is it immoral to fall in love with a married woman with children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age - I have been a mentor to a beautiful woman in management. She is an awesome manager now, and married with grown children. We are very good friends only, but we both fell in love with each other, since we both married , we do not have any type of relationship except talk, and... (71 words)

Should I keep waiting for my soul-mate? He needs to get his finances straight to divorce.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, i am 21, not ure normal 21 year old. I dont go out, i stay focused with work and school. I just got out aof a reallly bad relationship. And i was working, and i felt so empty. thats when he walked in, the love of my life. I didnt know him at all, but when he left, he ... (307 words)

I'm 16 and in love with a married man!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 and i joined the police explorers group about a year ago. In like November of 2007, i noticed was growing more and more attracted to the police officer in charge of our group. I had knee surgery that spring, and he saw a picture of my knee and said "o, your leg does ... (293 words)

Do I abandon work and give up my rights to the t-shirt business? And should I confront my business partner and crush about what's in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (?) age 41-50 - M and J are best friends from college who are total opposites. I started dating M nine years ago. My son was 5 when we moved in together. Our relationship was loving but dysfunctional. We could not agree on how to handle my son or our finances. We both agreed to break up, but ... (459 words)

I have a stalker and I need some advice on how to avoid him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a stalker. I am not making this up. For about six months now I have noticed him. I work in the building where he lives, and I never noticed him at first, until he almost knocked me down. Then after that I kept on seeing him. He doesn’t actually converse with me, just... (778 words)

My best friend ever is moving to France and I'm having trouble coping with it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, all of you. I'm really down at the moment because i found out that my best ever friend (Pretty much my only close friend in my class) is moving away to France. They won't come back to our town, or my shcool. She's my first ever best friend thatI've ever really trus... (271 words)

Should I move to Canada with my friend to get over this awful break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

- OK....Well Im kind of in a very hard situation at the mo and need some advice. Im 25 and have only ever been in love with one person. Unfortunately, that 1 person knows it and takes advantage and treats me bad. We got together 3 years ago and I fell for him fast. He dumped me ... (502 words)

I was wondering if these are 'signs' of my period coming? Is there an estimated time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, it has been a year and a couple of months (2-4) since I've started having clear / white discharge in my underwear. I know that this is totally normal. Also my breasts have started to develop since the past 3-5 months, maybe half a year. Once I had a few dots of brown in... (206 words)

I'm not sure how I feel about losing my virginity! I had been planning to wait...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys just want an opinion on something so here goes... i always vowed that im gnna stay a virgin untill i get married and vowed that it will only be for my husband... however recently i found the perfect man... i love being around him and want to be with him all the time... (204 words)

I'm not paying attention in class because my teacher is so beautiful!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My teacher is stunningly beautiful. To make matters worse she wears revealing clothes and does sexy things with her hair. It's so hard to pay attention in class cause I get lost looking at her... what can I do?... (39 words)

Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!... (30 words)

My brother has romantic feelings for my girlfriend of 3 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a younger brother he is 16 and im 18. i have been been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and always noticed that my brother acted weird around her and would always bring her up in conversation. Last weekthat he has always had feelings for her and he ... (118 words)

We're both shy, what could we talk about when we call each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, ok well theres this boy i like a lot well actully love.and when i talk to him i dont know what to say. like everytime we talk on the phone it always quiet. he told me that he nervous to talk to me and a little shy and i am too. and i need ideas to start a interest... (66 words)

How do I stay gone from him once I'm gone?? I keep coming back to him as I miss the good things that have been.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an mostly emotional- sometimes physically abusive relationship for 7 years. We have 3 kids together- I have left this man at least once a year b/c I get to the point where I am so sick of being called a b____ and fat____ or dumb or other put downs. The problem ... (118 words)

Can my ex just throw him out?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a mother of 3 children - 1 boy 15 who has lived with his father for the past 12 months, and 2 daughters age 12 and 6. My son who lives with father has thrown him out and now wants to live with us but unfortunately there is no bedroom space and when he did live with us he ... (86 words)

What romantic things can we get up to now that neither of us have our own place where we live alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is mainly addressed to folk who have been at university. I'm about to start at university in September after taking a year out. I've got my accomodation sorted staying in halls of residence in a pretty nice room with an ensuite bathroom and a bath and everything. My ... (126 words)

Why does everyone condemn FWB? We are just doing something we both enjoy...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had sex with this guy a couple of times now. It is not very serious, but whenever we have had it has been great. Well he is really a f**k buddy. I have never ever had one before. I know most people think it is wrong to have a f**k buddy but then I thought who cares ho... (262 words)

What do guys expect on the first couple of dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do guys expect on the first couple of dates? and how long should you wait before doing anything? ... (20 words)

I don't want to have sex ever, which is making her mad at me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 August 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I've been with her for 4 years already, and I'm 29, and she's 27. She and I love each other really really much. She's mad at me for not making love with her. She thinks she's not beautiful for me. I keep on telling her she's the most beautiful and sweetest girl in the world. I ... (102 words)

He wants "a bit of fun" now and then but I've never interacted with a bloke before and am worried it shows!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I am imterested in this guy at work who has told me he just wants a bit of fun now and again, the problem is I have never had any interaction with a bloke and I don't want him to know, how can I become more confident or come across more confident without him guessing that I ... (64 words)

I'm so sick of all the 'getting drunk and having sex' situations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how can I handle this? Last night, i went out with my boyfriend and a girl friend. We were just trying to help her because she just broke up with her boyfriend and she wanted to have sex. By the way, her boyfriend was always hitting on me, and I always ignored him. ... (220 words)

What should I do about my cheating husband? We have 2 kids together...

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my partner have been together for nearly 9 years i have 2 children with him and we got married 2 weeks ago but in 2005 when i found i was expecting our first child he said we needed a break that was fine then this girl started to work with him ive heard diffrent stuff ... (116 words)

I'm haunted by things that have happened to me and now my mind is totally confused! Can someone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a total confused situation. I have been through a lot of problems, still it seems that my mind never learns from my experiences.... I guess my story is gonna be a bit long and boring but am gonna tell u my problems My father had always been very strict with us and ... (1444 words)

How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?... (51 words)

What is this going to look like to people when he comes back to me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - A few years back I had a relationship with an ex teacher of mine, which eventually we called off. we still talk to each other at least twice a week, and sometimes meet up. Anyway, today he visited me, and one thing led to another, and we had sex. Only after we had sex did I ... (176 words)

How do you challenge someone on an emotional level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So my previous stories tell how my ex and I got to this point. I met up with her a few weeks ago and we talked and had a pretty nice time it was a little awkward but it was ok. We got to talking and she expressed she was still angry with me for lying to her and breaking her ... (400 words)

How do you officially break up with someone and should I in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I've been with the same guy for a year and we've gone thru a lot...i stuck by his side even wen he claimed he wasnt over his ex, i stayed with him when he told me he wants to live with his ENTIRE FAMILY after marriage (3 bros, a sis, a bros wife, 2 kids, his mom an... (211 words)

I'm close to menopause and my libido is higher than ever at this point, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age - late sex lover i am 49 years old, about to menopause...i wonder why at this point in my life i'm so hot and always want to have sex with my husband....before i'm afraid of having sex always due to unwanted pregnancy but now we have sex every other day and still longing fo... (77 words)

After 2 years, she confesses to me she has cheated with her step-brother. I feel the whole time together was a lie now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with a women for almost two years and finely after almost to years she has came out with the truth. that the first month we got together she had cheated on me with her step brother. i think its wrong i mean step brother or not they lived together sens they were ... (169 words)

I don't want to hurt the guy that I'm with but I think I still love the ex that broke my heart. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - last year,i was with this guy that i really loved..he broke my heart,it was hard forgetting him even that i've never forgot him!but it took me a lot of time to get used to the idea that it was over between us..every guy i met was like an enemy to me..at last i met a perfect guy ... (113 words)

How can I help him see how he is ruining not only his life by using and dealing drugs, but how he is also destroying our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now. he has started dealing drugs which doesnt bother me but he is also using. he has got himself into alot of debt and he is so stressed and angry and i feel like he is pushing me away. he keeps apoligising for it, but says he ... (163 words)

I have 4 children but want more, my hubby's done a vasectomy, please help me accept this, and my saddness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 4 children and in my heart I still want more. My husband had a vasectomy nearly 2 years ago as he doesn't want any more. I haven't been able to get past this and our relationship is about to end. Can anyone help me find a way to accept and be ok with the saddness I am ... (60 words)

Girlfriend wants kids but I don't, as I already have 2. I'm afraid she will leave me as warned.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a divorced father of two children, 11 and 9 years old. My current girlfriend has never been married and would like to have children. She has pretty much given me an ultimatum, "have another child with me or our relationship is over." Quite honestly I do not want more ... (90 words)

She doesn't love me any more and she's doesn't even feel guilty about her behavior! How do I get revenge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit of a lengthy story, but I think the context of it all is important. My girlfriend and I just broke up this last Sunday. We've been living together for over a year and a half and things were great until about 2 months ago... I had introduced her to an online... (1511 words)

I am afraid of losing my position in school due to lack of concentration...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in a real trouble of studying.i afraid not to loss my possition.actually i am among the top scorer of the school.but even if this is so but i have concentration problem while i study.now i am grade 12.if i continue like this i afraid not to miss my position. [M... (65 words)

He claims his love for this other woman is just a friendship..I'm very confused...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married to my husband now for 10 years. I recently found out on the day of my 10 year wedding anniversary my husband was in love with another women. I found the message on his phone that said "i love you lots" now when i asked him about this sms, he said not to ... (379 words)

How come I am not as hurt by his horrible behaviour as I thought I would be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) age 36-40 - a guy who has lied to you and lead you on for almost a year..has used you to get over someone else only to get back with that person. and then throw it in your face after wards..and talk about you badly to his associates when you've done nothing but try and be there for him. N... (88 words)

My partner's way of kissing could suffer improvement, how to tell him without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi My problem is that my partner like licking my lips when he kisses me. I like the tongue action to be inside my mouth and I dont like this slobbering. I end up with a wet mouth and chapped lips! Everything else is great. He obviously thinks that what he is doing i... (93 words)

I am not sure whether I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life, I am also very worried I won't find someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do anymore. I have been with my girlfriend for a 1 year and 8 months now. When we first started going out she told me about her past some parts of it I wasnt to happy hearing about and from that time on wards it has been affecting me like i get vis... (301 words)

My hubby's contacting his ex via mail, should I tell him or wait to see what happens?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a married women married for 6 years and my husband just starting contacting his ex-girlfriend who lives out west. Have had some issues in the past with him emailing another female friend behind my back. I don't want him to know I'm checking his emails. What should I do, ... (67 words)

I find my sex drive to be extreme, my partner at times finds my enthusiasm off putting, how to handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel like sex ALL the time and find it is causing me nothing but trouble. I lead a very healthy lifestyle and find my sex drive to be extreme and I don't know how to handle it. My partner most certainly isn't interested often enough and at times finds my enthusiasm off p... (96 words)

I constantly chase her and am the only one with initiatives, which makes me feel unwanted, unprioritised. How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a girl i care very much about. I believe she cares about me as she has told me but she is totally oblivious to making any effort in the relationship where it really counts and believes that just by turning up at the weekend (the only time we get to ... (222 words)

I like him but he has still has a gf and I didnt want to mess things up! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy i know through an orchestra, iv only really know him prperly for 1 year. but ove that year weve become so close, and i now consider him by far one of my best friends. I never find it akward around him and we can always find somethin to talk/argue about. He has ... (380 words)

I don't think I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. But I don't want to break up with him because I want to love him again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't think I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. I frequently feel very miserable about no logical reason. I've sought professional help for it before, though no-one really takes this problem seriously, I don't think. Anyway, I was feeling down and my boyfriend as he ... (304 words)

Starting to feel we are ready to getting more intimate, but how to communicate this to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Iv been going out with my bf for just over 2 months. We've always gto on really well even before going out and have been really close. I am now starting to feel we are ready to starting gettng more intimate. The over day i was round his and we were laid down on... (139 words)

I don't know if he's just a bad kisser or if there is a problem with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay iv been going out with this guy for just under 4 months, i think hes a really amazing guy and love him to bits. however i find kissing him a realy turn-off. He is my first proper boy friend, and i felt even the first time we kissed he dived straight in with full on tounges ... (119 words)

My fiance went out on her "hen night" and denies giving oral to this bloke, as I was told. I can't tell if I want to continue to be with her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I hop you can help as I dont know what to do. I'm about to get married next month but my fiance did something horrible to me and i just cant tell if i even want to be with her anymore. She went on her hen night last week and her and her mates got a lift with a couple of bloke... (193 words)

I'm worried I might be infertile because unprotected sex did not lead to pregnancy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me, i didn't get pregnant which was a good thing but now it's got me wondering how come? and is it because i might be infertile? im so paranoid, please help... (45 words)

Pressured to a have child or lose my partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 7 years since we were just teenagers. He has recently told me that he wants marriage and children within the next 2 or 3 years but I am not sure I do. Its not a flat no from my side but I just dont know (if ever) that I will be ready in that ... (236 words)

He tells me he doesn't like relationships, then continues to flirt intensively; I don't know how to read this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok last night i was hanging out on my porch with my "the boy next door crush" There was alot of flirting, touching,cuddling kind of stuff going on. I mean we were like hanging out for like an hour and a half and it was like non stop flirting. Well somewhere in the middle of... (207 words)

My best friend went behind my back and got together with the boy she knew I liked, am I in the wrong to feel betrayed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to have this best friend who was practically the second half of me coz we were that close and stuff. We just clicked and got on sooooo well. We both drifted apart a little bit wen we both got into relatioships tho but we still practically lived in each others pockets. ... (463 words)

I'm worried that my depression and anxiety issues keep guys at distance. How can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a 16 year old girl who suffers from anxiety, panic attacks and a very mild depression. Although its a nuisance and very annoying I have gradually got used to that being a part of me. However, I always feel like a burden to people and feel that it is getting in the w... (138 words)

I poured my frustration out on my LD boyfriend and he left me, is this repairable and what would be the best action to take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - been with my now ex boyfriend for about 5 years.. he lives in Canada and me in the states a long distance relationship. He is 29 and I am 27 We had an overall close relationship and i even lived with him for a year and it was the best experience we both enjoyed each othe... (405 words)

I think my family hate me, I don't want to stop visiting them, but I don't want to see them either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my family hate me. I've been through years if abuse from my mum. It got worse on my 17th birthday, which was last December and I didn't expect to wake up from it. I was meant to go into care at 12, but they somehow managed to stop it. I got a job in a hospital and I n... (204 words)

I want to move abroad with my new girlfriend and see the kids during school holidays. Should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I cant stand my ex girlfriend anymore. We were together 10 years and have two children together. I cheated on her whilst she was pregnant with our second child and I am not proud about that. I am still with the girl I had the affair on her with. We have only decided to make our ... (232 words)

He always makes the first move and we end up together but this time he is ignoring me. What's he thinking??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I work with a guy, who i was dating briefly a few months ago (ended cause he still had feelings for ex)...we have meet up socially a few times within a group and always sort of end up together, it just happens naturally but he always makes the first move...like do you want to ... (165 words)

I don't feel "that" special person is my ex, as she has emotional baggage and I am not ready for an exlusive relationship just yet. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm seeing this woman who's a bit older than me (I'm 24 she's 31) and she's also my ex. Things seemed to be going well enough, until she revealed to me that she's looking for an exclusive (as well as sexual) relationship with me, something I'm not ready to get involved ... (146 words)

Think I'm in love with my best friend... and I heard him saying he doesn't want to be single anymore. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known a boy since the first day of high school and he is now pretty much my best friend. For a long time during high school I had a huge crush on him but never really did anything about it. We weren't so close back then but now we are - I see him almost every day and I ... (188 words)

First meeting after I declared my feelings for her and she rejected me politely, any advice for me?

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I got to meet this great girl. However she left the class only after one meeting. Lucky thing is she gave me her no. and I felt a bit pushy or desperate and told her my feelings. I just could not stop thinking of her. Well her birthday is coming up and she rejected... (110 words)

Don't want her back, after she refused my invitation because she was "busy", when in reality she was seeing someone else at her home. Who is to blame?

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - To give you the stroy so far.... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/some-cracks-have-appeared-in-our-relationshipis-she.html (... I knocked on the door and when she answered a few minutes later she was very harsh towards me and in her pj‘s. I noticed the bedroom door had bee... (453 words)

I accused my boyfriend unjustly and he has forgiven me, but his mother has not. Should I stay with him after this?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to be the most stupidest person in the world, well not stupid gulible. I accused my bf of kissing a member of his family (well his cousin to be exact) cause someone told me and I believed it so when I accused him it came out as if it was something I just thought up. ... (238 words)

"It's not a good time for me and you"?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can some one please tell me what it means when a man i have been seeing tells me" SORRY ,ITS NOT A GOOD TIME FOR ME AND YOU" AFTER I ASKED HIM IF HE WAS STIL INTERESTED IN ME... (40 words)

My online friend cut contact with me, then I got a message from her boyfriend calling me a stalker, what now?

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've felt alone my whole life. I'm shy. I never had very many friends. I was bullied constantly in school every year. After a while, I started to feel like I was worthless and wondered if there was really such a thing as true happiness. Then, from out from out of nowhere, I st... (435 words)

My whole body and mind are crying out for sex but my gay boyfriend seems to have lost interest!

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27 August 2008 (M)

- I am gay and have been with my boyfriend for a number of years. The last few years have been a real emotional struggle for me trying to deal with his decreased interest in anything even remotely connected to sex. Talking seems to be pointless as he doesn't seem to see wher... (236 words)

Why do I have such a high libido?

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27 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - it took my boyfriend 5days to try anyhing sexual with me...Anyway, i've never been extreemly horny in my life, after 5days of Vincent no trying anything i went nuts, yeah we had sex but he leaves me wanting more! i dont understand, Why am i like this? I just want moe and more, ... (57 words)

10 years later, I think of my FWB and wonder why we couldn't have a full relationship...

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a woman for four years and we were living together. She did not want to be in a relationship but we were very good friends and were having sex. We would go on holidays together, shop together, etc but she did not want a steady relationship. I was madly in love with ... (217 words)

Not really physically attracted to him anymore!! Help!

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my bf now for about 5 years. We both really love each other and he is a great guy. However, lately I've been feelin like he's not very good-looking. My bf is about 5'7 and very skinny. Also he's only 25 and he has a receding hairlin... (224 words)

Tell me...why does he run off to the bathroom after a handjob?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been giving my boyfriend handjobs for his pleasure. I noticed that recently after I stop moving my hands. He ends up running to the bathroom? Did I do something wrong? I always ask him if I'm hurting him or not while giving a handjob, but he always says that he's fine. ... (64 words)

Should I wait for guy 1 or go for guy 2? What do you think?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, i really two guys. they are both really amazing guys, and there is a few problems. first off, i have like guy 1 for a long time, and hes one of my best friends. but he is dating this girl, who lies, makes him jealous on purpose, and does stuff behind his back. He likes ... (156 words)

I am addicted to looking at perfect men, and can't stop fantasizing! It's upsetting my boyfriend, how do I stop?.

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem.. I cant seem to stop checking out other men... whenever a handsome man enters my field of vision I am transfixed. I love the look of a strong toned torso, muscular arms, a nice butt, and a handsome face... I am like a drug addict looking for more, I have ... (358 words)

The differences between us are causing doubts to creep into my mind and poison my feelings about this relationship. Any advice?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there, I've been dating a great man for 2 years now but as my other friends are getting married (and I have no intention of doing so anytime soon) I wonder if my guy proposed what would I say...And it would probably be no, and I'd be off running. It doesn't say much... (316 words)

How do I get over someone that I have to talk to every day on the phone for work purposes?

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Long distance relationships don't work. I know that. I have to talk to this woman daily for work purposes but it got personal after hours about 2 months ago. We have very little in common yet get along great. Until about 2 weeks ago. The phone calls have gotten pretty ... (170 words)

I went off my medication and now I can't orgasm. Has this ever happened to anyone?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on paxil CR 12.5 mg for 4 days before I stopped taking them. I was on it for mild anxiety. My boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. I had no problems having an orgasm every time we had sex (with the exception of those 1 -5 times I just didn't have the ene... (134 words)

His porn watching is affecting our relationship...

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, and for at least 7 or 8 months he has been sneaking watching free internet porn. some real raunchy stuff. I realized it when i would walk inthe room and he would always shut the screen down. When I would ask waht he was doing ... (138 words)

How do women discover how to integrate a certain way of communicating into a man's thinking and behavior? How I can open up and express how I feel AND get positive results?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for almost 2 years. We never had "the talk" about where we stand in our relationship. I'm confuse and slightly unhappy. So, I'm trying to open up and express how I'm feeling about our relationship. I did some reading about how common females feels this ... (205 words)

I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, any opinions?

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well i am i junior and i havent had a gf since i was in the 7th grade. my last gf turned lesbian a few months after we went out. but she went out with other guys after me so im pretty sure it was me. i get compliments on my eyes like hourly. and i wear nice clothes. like ... (129 words)

Did he use swapping as an excuse to get with that woman?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always insisted on threesomes with another male. I never liked it but since it was his passion, I thought a couple would be more appropriate. The idea was not to have swinging or swapping and I made it very clear to my husband and he communicated it to the other ... (536 words)

I've just started high school and I'm worried about potential boy drama. Any advice?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i just started high school as a freshmen and well i have not been the most confident person and also around guys i feel they do not like me more then a friend but since now iam in high school i really am more confident but i would get more with the guys but i am worried ... (114 words)

Why do I still miss my ex boyfriend and his abuse?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age - I though as you get older that you become wiser, well that is not always the case. I did not date for a few years. I had the stomach surgery that helped me to lose over 100 pounds. I met the most handsome man at the dance and he was attracted to me. We dated for two years. ... (148 words)

Sex has faded in our marriage so what is really going on?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I just turned 41 and my husband just turned 37. We used to engage in sex alot but now there always seems to be something in the way. I love him to death and soetimes I just wanna give him oral pleasure just to make him happy but he rarely takes me up on that offer. i just love ... (135 words)

My friend is in trouble. I'm lost and don't know what to do... Please help!

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried about my friend. Only a few hours ago she told me she tried weed over the summer. She told me that it was no big deal, it was only once, and that she didn't even like it. But it is a big deal! At least to me. Drugs aren't a game. I'm scared for her. ... (199 words)

How will I know when I man is in love with me and not just trying to get into my pants?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For the men out there (and women who've had men crazy in love with them), how will I know when a man is truly in love with me, and not just telling me "sweet nothings" to get me in to bed with him? I'm a believer of taking things super slow - to see how he acts. Well, just ... (74 words)

How do I get over a break up?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! Have any good ideas on how to get over someone I broke up with? I broke it off with him. I now need to get over him...but I still love him. So, got any good tips? I'm trying to date others...... (47 words)

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar with bad teeth. What do I do?!

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 2 major problems with my boyfriend of 7 years and need to vent. he is a LIAR. He lies about everything from stupid to serious. He'll tell me that a friend's video game system broke and i'll find out a few weeks later that it didn't and by then it seems worthless to ... (582 words)

I'm unsure about my relationship, I feel like I don't deserve her.

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27 August 2008 (M)

I feel like I didn't flirt enough and missed my chance, help!

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know i ask alot of ?'s and im sry but this is reallllly bothering me... ok so i liked this guy... he was a big flirt, and sat with me at lunch and we would chat alot and stuff and text and i thought wow this is great and i was thrilled then he started telling me about th... (208 words)

I just don't think we are right for each other.

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just do not think we are right for each other. I try; i think he tries. But we have conflict most of the time. we have three kids and are NOT married... thank goodness. I just want the picture perfect home and family. He IS the dad. I do Like him, but just am not sure about ... (74 words)

Is there any way to increase my sex drive?

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I was wondering if anyone had any tips or ways to improve sex drive, i'm only 20, i've been with my boyfriend 10 months and we arn't having that much sex. At the beginning i couldn't keep my hands off him, and he is still as horny as ever. But, sometimes i just feel like i ... (76 words)

My fiance was in bed with another woman... he says she was for me because I'm bi! I said no, he went to bed with her anyway. Do I forgive him?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know how to trust a man again after he has lied to me. I live with my fiance for months and I came home early to find out that he was in the bed with another woman telling me he was bringing her home to me ---because I am bisexual. After I told him I did not want her ... (90 words)

She's taken my best friend away from me...

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and one of my best friends are not talking right now. There was this girl who I was very close 2... she humiliated me and made me feel like crap... I stopped speaking 2 her and until this day I remember what she used to say 2 me/... She used 2 say things like ur a nobo... (184 words)

I am afraid of jepordising the relationship because of my jealousy/insecurity issues over the amount of partners she's had

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, im a 19 year old guy just about to head off to uni in a couple of weeks, and after having thought that id remain single during my gap year after some very negative experiences (including a split in a long term relationship, some mistakes with -now sadly- exfriends ... (451 words)

Can getting a piercing help a woman who has never climaxed during sex?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can getting a piercing help a woman who has never climaxed during sex?... (13 words)

I feel confused, lost and alone

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27 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 23, and have been with my fiance for 2 and a quarter years, we met in my workplace when I was 20 and she was my first girlfriend, being overweight, and a bit of a reclusive person I had, and still have almost no self esteem. Due to this I never socialised through... (993 words)

Lack of self esteem is causing problems for me.

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just told my boyfriend about my lack of self esteem and why I tend to push people away including him... and why I'm constantly crying... he said we'll talk more about it... What should I be expecting from him... as far as treating me right and things being the same... and ... (71 words)

Just how much should I shave off...?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out that my bf wants to move onto the next step in our realationship. But honestly I'm afraid of what he'll think about my pussy. I know he likes them shaved but I don't know how much. I'd prefer not to ask him though. How much should I shave? Any suggestions?... (55 words)

He didn't write my name on the card and it hurt me... Am I being overly sensitive here?

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27 August 2008 (F)

age - I have been in relationship for nearly four years now but have only earlier this year met my boyfriend's mother and family and have been to quite a few family gatherings now and seem to be well accepted. We went to a family party this weekend and it is his mothers birthday ... (373 words)