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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When will I find a true love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - When will I find a true love?... (7 words)

She says she doesn't want to ruin our friendship my going out with me, what do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - iv been close friends with this girl for a year now, weve been like the best of friends the whole time and nothing has changed, we talk about everything and were always together, but for the last 6 months shes been obsessed with this guy that she's liked for a long time and ... (316 words)

I don't want to be with her anymore, but I also don't want her hurt. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts I really really need your help. I'm 14, and me and this girl are going out and i know she's deeply in love with me and so was i, but now i don't think i love her anymore, and she doesn't have a lot of friends. She defines it as her whole life now revolves aro... (124 words)

I feel I'm going mad ~ scared I'll get into trouble with the law for texting. I have never broken the law, but he did!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age - This time last year my ex partner and i split up. we had lived together almost 6 years but before i met him i owned my own terrace house, no mortgage - silly me sold it and put the money into the joint house. He met someone else and systematically bullied me into leaving. I p... (325 words)

Is that idea a lie? Does that only happen in movies?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

3 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im really worried. I am 15. And all my friends are having sex and bragging about it. I am still a virgin. I really love this girl, so I asked her out. But she said no becuase i was a virgin. She recommended that i go to a prozzie, but i like the idea of my first time beign with... (102 words)

He asks me every now and again if I still fancy him. Can you advise me what to say to him, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and there's a male colleague in my workplace I used to fancy. Our age difference and his bad habits (smoking and drinking) puts me off. I took an interest in him when I started, as he helped me settle in. We got on very well, until recently when my lust faded and I've... (116 words)

I'm a virgin in the classical sense, and I would like my 'initiation' to be done by someone who knows what they're doing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Fifteen, sexually charged, and without a viable outlet. Okay so I'm not the type of girl to deny the fact that I do indeed have needs, I like to explore myself, and there isn't anything wrong with that. Now to my problem. I've never had a boyfriend, and not because I haven't ... (211 words)

He says he hasn't done anything with other girls, yet people are telling me different. Who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing a guy for a while fairly seriously..and then it all went a bit wrong. we are now no longer anything serious but i will occasionally speak to him or see him on a level that is more than just friends. but i know he is no good for me and i really need to pull away ... (218 words)

I just want her to leave him alone and get on with her life and let him with his. How can I make this happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everybody. just wondering if you could help me with something. i recently got together with this guy after alot of grief. he basically wouldnt get together with me as he wasnt ready to let go of his ex yet. he was more than willing to get phyiscal with him, after all that... (324 words)

I can't lose her! I love her more than ever before! Help me get her back, please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been dating my g/f for 4 years before we broke it off. we have a 2 yr old little girl. i have cheated on her alot after the break. my love for her is more than i ever had for her since we met, i cant lose her. Please send me advice to get her back?... (59 words)

Back with my ex after a year apart, is it wise to get myself tested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just got back in touch with an ex and we are back together. Do you think he should get tested before i sleep with him, as i haven't seen him for a year?... (35 words)

Why does he like them and not me? What have they got that I haven't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age - I just cannot understand this man! I havent known him long and we havent had sex. I met him on holiday and of course I understand holiday romances, but it would be so easy for me to see him where he lives as I have a friend who lives not far from him and I often go over there. ... (340 words)

He told me we have to stop sleeping together before somebody finds out! Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age - This is my situaton. I am unhappily married for many years now. My husband and I stopped having sex and both sleep in different bedrooms. I have a high school friend and he is also married. Lately he told me he always wanted me but everytime I was unavailable, either I have a ... (154 words)

What are the chances he does like me for me, or am I just being prudish about his comments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not used to dating, as I married young and I guess never learned stuff that most people do while I was worrying about other things. Last week I had my first date since my divorce. It took me a long time to agree to it (about a year!), but in the end his persistence paid off... (322 words)

Should I worry that he's always going on about his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have been seeing this guy for a while now and we flirt alot..but sometimes when i am talkin to him, he talks about his ex. this has not happened once or twice but quite a few times. he seems happy with me but he really loved his ex, he had a three year live-in rela... (87 words)

I will not tell her how I feel because I cannot hurt the friendship or her husband; feeling depressed, how do I fall out of love with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im in love with a woman who is 30 years older than me and i need to fall out of love with her. i have worked with her for 5 years and have become very close to her, she is married and her husband is like a father to me and always looking out for me. i cant stop thinking... (137 words)

I always have erections when I'm near my (first) girlfriend, should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm new to tis gf and bf thing I just got a first girlfriend about a week ago and it was thnx to advice from this site but now i have a problem i get really hard around her a lot of time i have to litterarly stop what im doing and think about something to calm me down. this ne... (178 words)

I am fourteen and he's seventeen and he thinks I am too young for him...Is this just an excuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - In early June, I met this guy at a party. At first, I had no interest in him at all. All my friends were triggering the idea with little comments like, "Awh, do you like him?" but I just laughed and said "no!" But by the end of the night, I knew this was the guy, I was going to ... (284 words)

I fooled around just yesterday with my girlfriend and don't remember how "careful" we were. Should we take the emergency pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, yesterday i fooled around with my girlfriend and she doesnt remember if some pre cum landed on her vagina, what do you recomend to do???? please please help i believe im still on time for an emergency pill... (40 words)

I'm Muslim and I think I've fallen for my best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a muslim girl, and i think i have started to fall in love with my best mate. Im totally shocked with how i feel and cannot help it. We see eachother almost everyday, she drives round my house to hang out on lazy days, or were usually out shopping or doing something. When ... (489 words)

During the past week or so, my girlfriend becomes dry during sex. Why? Doesn't she find me attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my problem is that during the past week or so, my girlfriend becomes dry during sex. I asked her why this is happening and she said she doesn't know. She says it isn't me.... but if it is then i doubt she would tell me. Its kind of awkward, I'm really confused, she sa... (120 words)

Will I ever trust again? How do you get on with your life when you are this broken inside? Are there good men who don't cheat and hurt the people they love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend left me for another woman after telling me I was the love of his life. I had finally learned to trust him after another man I was engaged to cheated on me numerous times. I thought this last boyfriend was different and he was so good to me and then left just life ... (94 words)

Why does he ask everyone for marriage? Doesn't he understand love or something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i posted a question about a month ago on here (is he just after a uk passport? - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-just-after-a-uk-passport.html )and our internet stopped working for about a month then he came online when the internet did work declaring he has a new lo... (104 words)

My bf told me he still has strong feelings for his ex, so I worry he will go back to her, please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys i now you are all going to say im stupid but my boyfreind of 6 months told me last night that he still has really strong feelings for his ex the mother of his daughter he says he always has done since school and will always have strong feelings for her, he said that he ... (193 words)

I know it's said that size is not important but how you use "it", so can you give me a pointer or two of what this actually means?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and i am a VIRGIN!!! I know pathetic right. Well anyways I have met this girl and we have been seeing each other for almost 6 monthes and she is starting to pressure me about sex. Everytime we start to do it I get scared and freeze up. I am nervous because she ... (139 words)

The break up came as a surprise as I don't know of his motives. Please help me understand and get over this kick.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have just split up out of the blue after 7 months together. I say it came as a surprise but it shouldn't have done really. The past couple of months he hasn't wanted to touch me and has pushed me away if I have gone to hug him etc. Our sex life had become ... (579 words)

Should I be angry or am I to blame? surely he is at least guilty of giving me mixed messages, so why is he blaming me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I be angry or am I to blame? In the last six months my relationship of over a decade ended - badly. I turned to a friend from my past for solace as he too had just come out of a three year relationship. He had pursued me over a number of years but because I had been in a ... (334 words)

I'm confused as he has not made an effort to speak to me after he became very emotional one day and seemed to want to return me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been going out with my bouyfriend for 3 and a half years, we are both 17 now. Through these years we have been through lots of bumps and finishing each other and cheating, both of us are as bad as each other. But recently i have been going through some realy bad t... (301 words)

He decided to reenlist in the marines, so he said goodbye to me. I can't get over him because I know our relationship was not ready to end!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just recently broke up with me, and I'm having a lot of trouble moving on. We'd only been dating a short time really, but things were so good. He was so sweet and caring, and we fell for eachother fast. But a few days ago, he decided to reenlist in the marin... (324 words)

Husband says he feels "smothered" and does not know what he wants. Should I stick around to see what he decides?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a little over two years. It has been rocky, but I have been committed and trying to do all I can to make the marriage work. Anyway, a few months ago, my husband simply decided he didn't want to be married anymore, which of course devastated me as I had... (105 words)

I fingered her after having touched my penis, could she get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18 and unexperienced, yesterday when i was with my girlfriend fooling around i came all over the place and she's worried some might´ve gotten into her vagina, can she get pregnant if it did??? [Added from the same user] hi, can a girl get pregnant if i fingered her afte... (75 words)

Abused by cousin who now lives in our house! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my sister wer staying at my aunties house each evening after school because she was our baby sitter she had 2 children, my 2 cousins who wer 3 and 4 years older than me. my cousin C was 3 1/2years older than me and she would always bully me and push me around i no we w... (286 words)

I'm heartbroken and a doormat when it comes to my ex. What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont really know where to start, im just heartbroken and I need to talk to someone...so here goes Me and my ex have been on and off for about 10 years (im 28 hes 31), we have had about 4 breakups in that time, mainly because he wants to be single and enjoy singleton...so h... (765 words)

My husband only eats carbs and doesn't care about his health!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband only eats carbs like pizza twice a week, pasta with chicken in red souce, english muffins, chocolates, he only drinks cramberry juice which with a lot of effort I changed him to light cramberry juice no vegetables and no fruits he dosen't want to excersize my husband ... (238 words)

My boyfriend got mad when he discovered my plans to cheat! Should I walk?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy now for a few months. We live together with a third roomate and we all have jobs. I have never cheated on any of my previous boyfriends, but I will admit I was interested in casually dating some guys behind my boyfriends back. My boyfriend himself has ... (275 words)

Why won't by boyfriend tell his ex about us? He got her pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend got his ex girlfriend pregnant while we were together i forgave him his son is now 6 months old and he goes to her house to see him..he says he doesnt want to tell his ex-girlfriend about us because she hates me and wont let him see his son because of me...i dont ... (114 words)

Why do I like my friend when she continues to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok sorry this is quite long and a bit complicated..but here goes! I used to be good friends with a girl two years below me who gets on my bus...let's call her A. A used to hang out with my group of friends last year, as she fell out with some of her friends in her own year ... (400 words)

What do you do when you can't afford a therapist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question, although when it comes down to it, it can be. I can't do this anymore and I just can't afford a therapist. I don't have health insurance and my job doesn't give me enough hours to apply for it. I was wondering if anyone could tell me where to ... (107 words)

I really like him but is he worth all that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help! I have a madly big crush on this lad. And in the past hes a big crush on me. A couple of months ago though, he started going out wth someone else, and ignored me for 5 weeks. Then his gf made up a rumour to make me jealous. and he found out. he was MAD. Now though, he... (106 words)

My boyfriend decided that we take a break since my family does not approve of us dating. I'm so sad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well im back agian. i am actually 16. I am So hurt and just dont know what to do, 2 nights ago me boyfriend came home from the bar and my older brother was there. and he had gotten ahold of my boyfriend and told him he didnt think him being with me was a good idea, Becasue im ... (171 words)

My aunt married his uncle, so we are not blood cousins. Should we feel awkward about dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age - I recently met a man that I like a lot. I believe we are cousins through marriage only. My aunt (my moms sister) married his uncle (His moms brother). There is no blood connection. Should we feel awkward about dating?... (40 words)

Are these side effects from coming off the pill??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I would like some help from women who have been on the Microgynon 30 pill. Ok I started taking the contraceptive pill when I was 10 for my heavy periods. I had started my period when I was 9 (very early bloomer) and was on the pill until I turned 13. I came off the pill... (255 words)

What's wrong with this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age - My man of 9 years left me for this woman he met.He has never done any kind of drugs and is totally against them.He met her the day after she was released from a Federal Pen after doing six years for selling crack coaine and pot to a bus driver that then sold to school ... (178 words)

I keep having dizzy spells....any idea what they could be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since april/may this year, i've started to have these really weird dizzy spells. i've had a few panic attacks aswell. i've just recently done my welsh GCSE's two years early and my parents thought it was something to do with that. we went to the doctors about 3 weeks ago ... (89 words)

I feel like everything is going downhill at the moment...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like everything is going downhill for me at the moment. me and my mum keep falling out, and i mean proper massive arguments about stupid things that i have or havent done. and my love life is even worse. if i'm honest, i'm lonely. i havent had a relationship since ... (208 words)

I'm constipated...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 13 and just lately i have started to feel constipated i've been to the loo and tried but i just don't want to strain myself so i don't get piles i have to sit down otherwise it feels as though it will drop through. I'm really scared. Please Help ... (52 words)

How will I know that I have made the right decision, and hurting him for nothing??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - After a weeks break from my boyfriend, we have now decided to part. The break-up was doing neither of us any good, and was actually tearing us both apart. But i now feel so lost and empty.Ive lost a considerable amount of wight and finding it difficult to sleep. We didnt... (136 words)

Is it possible to train yourself to have multipe orgasms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to train myself to get multiple orgasms? Or is this something that you're born with, either you can get it or you can't. I have no problem getting very intense orgasms, but usually after the initial climax followed by a string of tingling/shuddering feeling, ... (78 words)

Men, how exactly are masturbation and 'the real thing' different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering how different does masturbating feel comparing to real sex for men. I am not talking about the emotional but strictly the physical aspect of it. Such as the difference in sensation between using a hand and thrusting in a vagina and if there is a difference in the ... (156 words)

My boyfriend is trying to hook another girl up with his mate, but I don't like it and I'm feeling jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm with my boyfriend for 7 mounth and we never had problem til now i know he loves me and i love him 2. but i feel like his losing his love for me.and one day i got mad at him for talkin to other girls.and he say'i'm realy sory but this time i cross the line'he was talkin t... (106 words)

Could I still be in love with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been broken up with my ex/first love for about a year, we also dated for a year. My head tells me she's not good enough for me. I mean, she's selfish, self centered, very possibly undiagnosed with a mental disorder, and indulges in alcohol and drugs excessively on a daily ... (206 words)

Is he entitled to know who I was talking to?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - If a guy you are dating calls you when you are already on the other line and you ask him if you can call him right back, is it okay for him to ask you who you are talking to that is more important than him?... (46 words)

I really like a boy in my class, but I'm afraid people will make fun of me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Agony Aunt, I have fallen for a boy in my class. Everyone says he likes me too, but I'm afraid to ask him out because if we do go out, I am afraid people will tease me and tell everyone in school. I have asked a few agony aunts but they hav... (105 words)

I've fallen hard for my ex, but he has a new girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. i really like this lad and i am falling really hard for him. i used to be with him but i had to end it because a lot was goin on at the time and i felt meen on him if i didnt see him and things. i still really liked him but then about a month or two after he got with ano... (260 words)

My fiance's grieving is hurting our relationship. Is it normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, My fiance's dad past away two weeks ago. I have never been through the death of a loved one meanless to say I have no references to help her out. We live in Florida and her dad past away where he lived in California. We flew there together for the first wee... (233 words)

I'm straight but attracted to gay men...I don't know what to do

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm only 16 and I'm straight,but the thing is i'm extremely attracted to gay men.I don't just mean there attitudes.The biggest turn on for me is watching two guys going at it,I feel like such a freak!I tried to tell my friend she said it was weird and unatural.Sometimes I ... (165 words)

This guy is pressuring me to take my clothes off....what do I do??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

- Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and he keeps trying to pressure me into taking my clothes off. I keep saying no because Im not comfortable with that yet as its too soon. But I do like him. Anyway, today he said something to me which really offended me. H... (166 words)

If a guy adds girls from myspace who look like they have nothing on....what does it say about him as a person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

- Has anyone ever seen those girls on myspace which get random adds from people all over the world? You know, with the really big boobs and barely any clothes on? Well they have g-string/thong but you cant even see the string bit, so it looks liek they have nothing on? Well m... (131 words)

I love someone else and am scared I will lose her if I don't act quick (I'm unhappily married)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for about 11 years and not satisfied or happy. Pretty lonely actually. My wife has no desire to do anything, including sex which we may have had 2 or 3 times in the last 3 years. I feel like I have to drag her along and we don't talk or have any similiar ... (207 words)

I'm scared he might use me again or want to see me for all the wrong reasons!...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there's this dude that always trys to hook up with me but we did some stuff in his room once but it was a one time thing i thought that he was into me and he would ask me out well the next day he didnt say anything to me and asked another girl out! after what we did the day ... (130 words)

He has been looking up his ex from 10 years ago. He says she was the last person he loved. Opinions please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need your opinion please. I have dated my partner for 9 months.6 months ago i went into my computer history to click on a previous link and discovered that he had looked up his ex girlfriend from 10 years ago. I spoke to him and he said he did not know why he had done it but ... (281 words)

I've had enough with my abusive boyfriend of six years. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am still with my boyfreind after 6 years..however I still have not met his parents, he has been abusive towards me and I have seen a girl come out of his house twice he says she come to get somthing but I dont beleive that. He doesnt work and I pay for eveything? what do you ... (66 words)

I'm obesessed with calories and even stopped eatting to loose weight.Do I have an eating disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do i have an eating disorder? I have always been thin, but when i started my period (quite late, last year), i did put a few pounds on, i went from being size 6/8 to a 10/12. It didnt seem to bother me while i was at school though and i was happy to eat whatever i wante... (385 words)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfriend and the only reason they are... (202 words)

I always have bad luck with teachers. How can I build up a friendship with them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do u build a friendship with a teacher can u please just answer the question and not come back with questions like why, weres ya own frends ect... i just always have bad luck with teachers, they always seem to not like me..maybe coz im witty. i dano. thanks!... (59 words)

I'm 21 weeks pregnant, but everything is going down hill with the father. Should I try and make it work for the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21 weeks pregnant and still with the father of the baby. we have been dating for just under a year now and everything just feels like its going down hill. he is alot older then me therefore he should be more responsible than i am about this. all we do is fight and argue and ... (132 words)

Should I accept that he sleeps with other girls -What Does he Mean By I want "more"?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age - Recently having met a new man he seems fairly interested BUT he says he doesnt want a relationship and he has also said he "fears" I want "more" because he mentioned someone he was flirting with and I said it wasnt nice when he had invited me out for a meal to be talking about ... (209 words)

I'm not sure if my patrner is serious about me. He also smokes, drinks and does drugs. Should I break up with him?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for over two years. He is sixteen years old than me and has two children, the youngest of whom is fifteen. He says‘I don’t do marriage’, and that he will never marry me. He refuses to meet my family [I only see them a few times a year but he will not ... (184 words)

I've recnetly got together with the girl of my dreams, but I'm worried about my inexperience in bed.

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've (very) recently got together with the absolute girl of my dreams. I thought this would make me happy, but the fact is that sex is a problem. She's very experienced, while the last time I was with a girl was well over two years ago. In fact, none of my experiences with ... (187 words)

I broke up with my bf as I fell for my best friend...but he likes someone else...

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my boyfriend because i fell for my bestfriend. but my bestfriend likes someone else. should i tell my bestfriend how i feel about him?... (28 words)

We're about to get married but he does not kiss me or hold me, he says it's became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn! Help!

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my bf for 4years now sex was never really a big part of our relationship but things are now so bad he dosnt even kiss me or hold me he says its became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn i'm a very good looking gal never short of attention from... (196 words)

She doesn't know if she wants to stay with me and I suspect she is suffering from depression, advise please!

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my partner have been together for over 3 years, everything was going great, we spent 2 weeks on holiday in florida in april, and spoke about going futher into the relationship, marrage, moving in and so on. We also run owr own mobile disco business, 2 weeks ago we ... (224 words)

Will I ever fall in love with him or am I just waiting around for nothing?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now.For the 1st couple of months our relationship was wonderful but somewhere along the line he started putting me down an disrespecting me.But lately things have gotten better.So my question is will I ever fall in ... (62 words)

How much time does a guy need when they say "I need time"?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey ya... I am in need of some advice... I broke up with him as he had others on the side and I made contact with him a couple of weeks ago and he said he wants to be friends n need time. He hasn't contacted me so far and his b'day is coming up next week. Do u think ... (124 words)

What are the best ways to move on and get over it or just embrace being on your own again?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have just broken up with my partner. we didnt break up because the we dont love each other anymore or because the relationship was going bad. he is moving to america and he is not sure if he wants me to go with him. its so hard, in the past i have been able to mov... (135 words)

She's back; a royal pain in my butt...and I can't shake it!

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Lately, I've been sort of dating a woman who I used to date a couple of years ago, but it didn't work out. In fact, she proved to be one of the worst dates I've ever had. So why are we together again? Well, it's a matter of she's my best friend's sister in law, so I kin... (286 words)

I don't want to break up just I want to be able to be okay with him being so far away.-Any tips?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to hear some advice. I am 20 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Lately i have been pushing him away, i think it is because he is about to leave for college, he has been attending a community college up untill now. I trust him completly, its ... (217 words)

I need to forget my ex and everything he did but I can't stop thinking about it!

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I broke up with my ex last december because he treated me like dirt and now I am with this great guy who I love so much and our relationship could possibly lead to getting married in the distant future. And even though I'm with ... (162 words)

Do I have a right to feel hurt by what he said cos he also said it werent my looks hes attracted to just my personality?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - iv been seeing my partener for 8 months i asked him what he found attractive about me and he said my personality a few minuties later i asked what he found attractive about the ceebrate he like he then replied he finds her really attractive wit a smile on his face. do i have a ... (77 words)

A complicated 8 years...when is it time to throw in the towel?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm writing in search of advice for my present situation. I am 26 years old and have been living with my boyfriend for the past 8 years. Both of our families consider this more like a marriage, which I agree with because things have gotten so complicated and I feel as if I am ... (302 words)

How can I get my ex back?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - After 6 months, i broke up with my boyfriend. He was immature, and a little emberrassing, it was driving me crazy. But now he has matured and i find him so much more attractive than ever. He knows i like him, but he doesnt want me to like him because he will think it will ruin ... (137 words)

Are East Indian girls typically "tighter" than white women?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a white female, height 5'7", weight 115 lbs., dating a white man whose last girlfriend was East Indian. He has not slept with anyone since her, and, since my last boyfriend told me that the (East) Asian girls he had slept with were "tighter" than white girls he'd slept ... (216 words)

She says she wants God in her life more than me and that her "prophet" told her that I will destroy her! What do I do?

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello i'm 17 and the girl ive been talking to for about 4 months is same age. when we meet we hit it off so well, everything was so perfect for months. we both really like each other but wanted to focuse more on college. shes going to a christaion college in oklahoma and im ... (254 words)

Should I have a baby with a married man who is my best friend?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts Hello everyone my situation is rather difficult but yet could be reduced down quite simply so I am going to try and keep this as short as possiable. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I know what I am doing is not the best moral decision... (377 words)

I'm married but lonely! What should I do?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to me (most times) but just sho... (483 words)

After several, awful relationships, I met and moved in with a very nice, caring, wealthy man, but he has changed, no sex drive, no romantic overtures, I am unhappy, but with four kids, I can't leave, what do I do, he tries to change but then reverts,

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved in with my partner last year and since living together, he has changed from someone who was romantic affectionate to someone who sleeps and has a low sex drive. My past relationships were awful, i was married for 13 years to a man who always had affairs, we had 4 ... (410 words)

We met once in person, became long distance friends, we flirt, and kid, he has never inquired about my marital status or anything, why not, what do you think he is looking for and is it worth my time?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've being friends with this guy since a year and 1/2. We met in person b/c of business but we never talked about marital status. He had to split due other businesses far away, but I manage to contacted him short after that.He replied and we started to keep in touch. We do ... (216 words)

Ten years of a sexless marriage, we are basically roommates, I care for him, but I am considering an affair, would I be wrong?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 19 years. And for the past 10 years me and my husband stopped having sex. I have tolerated this sad condition all these years. I just do it myself whenever I want a release. Our relationship has deduced to a roommate status. He doesn't sleep w/ me ... (126 words)

Not sure if I could have gotten pregnant, should I resort to plan B?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am 16, and i was fooling around with my boyfriend, as far as i know he did not bust. He was about to put his penis in my, and it was about a few cm in, is there any chance that i could have gotten pregnant? should i take plan b?... (54 words)

I don't want to ruin his family life, he does not want to let me go, or his family, how do I end this relationship?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with a married man for about a year. Initially, I rejected him few times but due to his persistent pursue on me had made me feel touched and I fell for him in just months. I was a very conservative person. The thought of havin... (392 words)

My girlfriend accuses me of cheating, I haven't, I just flirt, how do I get her to trust me?

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3 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my girlfriend thinks 'I'm cheating which I'm not (also because its wrong) all because most of my friend are girls. I admit we can get a little flirty. But I'm trying to tune that down a bit. Why doesn't she trust me? I'm a not a two timer.... (48 words)

He said find someone else, as he didn't like long distance relationships, I did, now he's upset, but keeps flirting, what do I do?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have liked this guy for like 3 years and he likes me too.and we talked about dating but he said that he doesnt like long distance relationships and i should find a guy thats closer.so i did but when he found out he acted mad and hurt.so i told him that hes the one who said he ... (93 words)

I just want to say 'hey' and sorry for not dating him, but he ignores my myspace messages and comments! What to do?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright this has been on my mind sort of like crazy, but before i started dating my boyfriend there was this guy that i was really good friends with and he liked me. but when i started dating my boyfriend he really didnt like the fact i talked to someone who likes me, and when ... (138 words)

I lied about living in the US, now she wants my mobile number!

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - alright people so im in america at the moment and i met this really AMAZING girl problem is i told here i lived in america too (i don't know why) and now she wants my mobile number so since i live in england i think she'll notice that i don't live in america by the number.what ... (71 words)

How do I get out of this very long, very comfortable relationship safely?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help!!! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years and I love him. I am not in love with him though, this I know. It's not that he is a bad person, he's generally good. One thing though, I'm afraid of what his reaction will be if I try to get out of the ... (80 words)

Health question: Cyst/ovary pain. What should I do?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles, I come with a question mainly for the females and anyone else who, well, has ovaries! Since I was 18 (gonna be 27 next month), I have had moderate to severe pain in my left ovary. I had gone to the emergency room at least twice a year (nearly every ye... (202 words)

I'm wondering, is there such a thing as love at first sight?

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question. Is there a such thing as love at first sight? I never really believed in it but three weeks ago at a party i met this cute girl and we've been dating since. Im 15, she's 14 turning 15 and she lives quite a while away, but it feels like i've known her my whole ... (124 words)

What does it feel like when your about to sperm?

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - What does it feel like when your about to sperm?... (10 words)

My daughter's father--my ex--gets on my nerves.

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3 August 2008 (F)

age - hello my daughters father my ex gets on my nerves showing up at inapproiate times he has a girlfriend we lived together 9 months I find out the hard way how cold he is he is all abouthavig sex most times he visits sometimes I dont let him in like today he got mad left, ... (206 words)

My girlfriend ended things with me because she's ill, I'm worried that she won't come back to me when she's feeling better!

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I broke up the other night. She says she does still love me, and her feelings for me have not changed at all. She has a very serious medical condition, and at the minute she is very ill. She does not have the energy for a relationship at the moment, and need... (234 words)

I had to open my big mouth, now I don't know if he's losing interest!

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3 August 2008 (?) age 26-29 - hello, i know this is lond and im sorry but ur advice is greatly needed and thanked! i have a question about this guy we will call him "jay"! well hes my ex boyfriend but im still in love with him and he says he feels the same way but i feel like he is loosing intrest.... (260 words)

After I dumped her, she said that having sex with me is a bad idea and I couldn't handle her anyway. What do I believe?

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3 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend told me she wanted to have sex with me several weeks ago. I ended up dumping her for another girl that I like but still like my other girlfriend. Now she says to me that having sex with me is a bad idea and I couldn't handle her anyway. So now what should I ... (77 words)

I've been dialing my ex's new girlfriend while drunk and leaving nasty messages about him cheating on her with me!

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing my ex boyfriend in september, we finally tied the knot in october and lasted until may, that was when we both finally had enough. It was a long and hard eight months to get through. All though we've been through alot of ups and downs in our relationship. We ... (261 words)

Teacher help--does he fancy me too?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya guys! a year ago now a teacher joined my school. (not teaching me though) as soon as we got talking we automatically had some heat between us. i know girl's have crushes on teachers all the time. but he is differnt. everything we say turns into flirting. he gives me such ... (238 words)

I want to try and salvage my relatioship. But I'm finding it hard to stay with him. I think I may have commitment issues.

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having doubts about my future with my partner. I have real trouble adjusting from the honeymoon phase of a relationship so none of my relationships have lasted more than a year but I really want this one to work. However, I am beginning to think I have commitment ... (847 words)

How can I get over the physical and mental abuse of my last boyfriend?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My last boyfriend abused me. He was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. If i did not want to have sex he kicked me in the chest. Because of that abuse I am having lumps show up in my breast. I am seeing a doctor about the phycially symtoms, how do I get over the ... (97 words)

I told my boyfriend I didn't feel the spark I used to. I said it to scare him, but it's gone wrong. How can I fix this?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people i truly need ur help. I have messed my relationship. Well today i did tell my boyfriend that i no longer feel the spark i used to feel but i still love him. I didnt tell him my reason behind it. Well my issue is this my boyfriend he is in campus studying he doesnt ... (135 words)

Do me and my best mate fancy eachother?

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do me and my best mate fancy eachother? im confused and embarrassed at the fact that i think i fancy my bestmate. i think about her most of the time, we are constantly texting eachother through the day, and on a night we talk for hours online. She's always online before me ... (169 words)

I hate myself for being so thin. I try to out on weight but I just get angry. It's affecting my moods and there for, my relationship. HELP!

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3 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hie, i am a 20 year old girl and i hate myself. i am a size 6 and i know some women would love to be but i hate it. i never diet or starve myself i just wont grow. this has resulted in my having a short temper and pushing away my boyfriend who i have been with since high ... (93 words)