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My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told me about the wedding and that ... (143 words

Why can't I get my live-in girlfriend to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for two years and we just got a place together. its only been 2 weeks and its been misery. but i try and leave her and she wont leave ive tried to break it off 4 times but there is no end? why?... (51 words

My friend thinks it's OK to cheat unless you're ready to get married. Is this acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a work partner that love to talk about sex, and relationships,. One day we were talking about relationships and she said that if you are with a guy that you like and enjoy being around, you still should go out with other guys until you meet someone that wants to marrie ... (146 words

Can my girl get pregnant even though I can't ejaculate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hi people, well I am a 13 year old male, and well, I had sex with my girlfriiend, three times to be exact, but in thise three times, I did not where a condom, but I know my body, since I masterbate, I know that I still can't ejaculate, could she still get pregnant, even though ... (74 words

How do I tell my new boyfriend I don't want him seeing his ex?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - elloo aunties n uncles... i just need some advice regarding a recent relationship... i got together with my partner around 2months ago (offically) after being in a so called "open relationship" for 8months... he kept claiming that he wasnt ready, however i recently found o... (293 words

Did I do right with my first kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Yestarday I kissed my boyfriend for the first time. As this was my first time so I dont know whether it was right or not. We had hugged each other real tight and I remember him pressing his mouth into mine. Then I kind of gave him a bite(very soft though) on his lower lips and ... (86 words

How should I hint, ask her out, etc? I never want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I think I am in love with the girl next door. We are both in high school, and neither one of us have had a relationship before. I know her and talk to her and our families know each other too. In fact her brother is my best friend. We've known each other for 8+ years- since ... (205 words

I hate to go out and be seen, since this guy hurt my feelings I just went down the drain...

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23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i know that this is not a relationship question, but i feel that i need all the help that i can get...i have just recently had my feelings hurt very badly by someone who i thought that i could trust. and lately i've been very sad, i do not want to go out. I do not even want ... (136 words

Been together for 3 years now: do I stay and wait for him to be ready or find someone who can commit?

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23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. we really love and care about eachother. i asked him a year ago if he wanted to move in together. he said he wasnt ready. now a year later i asked him if he wanted to and he said he still wasnt ready. i really think he is the ... (107 words

I'm fighting for love but she won't trust me!

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23 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - me an my girlfriend have been dating for about 4 to 5 months now an ived lied in the past about little things an she has had problems trusting me ever since but we have talked about her past an she has been like that with every guy she starts having feelings for the other day ... (120 words

Fainting attacks and dizzy spells: can anyone tell me what this is?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, for the last 8 years, i have had fainting and collapsing attacks or similar. I start to feel dizzy, i start to shake, my heartbeat is really fast and i either end up fainting or i am close to it. This has happened every 3-6 months since i was 11, i am now 19. In the ... (151 words

We are very much in love but I hurt all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 30 yrs. old and recently divorced with 2 wonderful kids. I am also bisexual. When I was 19, I began a 2 1/2 yr. relationship with my first girlfriend and she cheated on me a couple of times. Once we ended it was when I very hastily got married. Even after I was ... (211 words

My parents are so confusing and they shelter me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (? age 26-29 - Ok,I am 13 years old,just of last month.My parents are so overprotective of me.Mostly my dad,but I think my mom feels like she has to agree with everything he says,but she is protective of me sometimes,on her own. For example,one time,during this month,my mom said she was... (499 words

I don't feel the same way I used to when he says he loves me. Should we give it more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was in a long distance relationship for two years with a man I met online. We were extremely close, and planned on getting married. It was the first time I ever felt so strongly about anyone. Unfortunately, the long distance got to be too much, and I was really lonely and ... (839 words

I am very angry since my father abandoned my mother, and the anger is a real problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Three years ago, my father left my mother so he could chase a younger girl. I've never been the same since. Every day I think about what he did and I want to kickbox him until joints break. But since I can't do that, I usually end up hitting myself. This anger has taken ... (127 words

I can't live with my mam and I'm getting depressed. Should I keep trying to get my job back at a holiday park?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i recently worked away at a holiday park for five month and me and my boyfirend packed in because i was getting depressed there, a few weeks later we both decided we wanted to go back as we missed it, we got out jobs back and just before we went back me and my boyfriend split ... (267 words

Seems like anything I say or do irritates him. I love him but this is so painful.

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23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of close to 7 years and I are having problems. We tend to argue over silly things and no matter how many times he tells me not to, I continue to do so. It has gotten worse since I moved away for work...we have been doing the Long Distance relationship thing for ... (222 words

Does every girl masturbate? Any tips without including sex toys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and ive recently been getting sexual desires, the only way to kind of calm it down is to masturbate... but i really dont know how to.. i dont want to use a vibrator or anything like that, i want to use my fingers. how do you do masturbate? is this really ... (64 words

What about losing the "V card" twice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - erm, this is a request from my girlfriend, she has been told by a friend that after a sertain amount of time, you can lose your virginity after losing it once before. is this true? if it is, how long should she wait untill she can lose it again? (as shes got it on her mi... (67 words

I really do not want to lose him as a friend but he is more distance since declaring his feelings for me!

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im a little confused right now, so thank you for taking the time to read this. my best guy friend last night told me that he liked me more than a friend. but the problem is that i dont like him that way, id love to because he's so amazing! but i can't fake the way i feel or ... (163 words

I am worried this boy that seemed to like me has forgotten about me since the beginning of holidays!

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15. Before summer started (beginning of july) i became very friendly with this guy. Talking every day - texting, msn... for hours and we got on soo well. Then during this summer we have been away and not contacted each other and because of this i have started liking him a ... (104 words

If a guy doesn't introduce you to his family does it mean he's not serious about you?

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23 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I would like to know if the guy doesn't introduce you to his family,does it mean that he doesn't want have future with you?I am a mature woman(42) and the person i am involved is 56 years old.I am a bit confused.Give me some advice please.... (46 words

My wife is in contact with her first love and says she loves him. Do I just leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife is still hung up on her first love. She has just had contact with him a little while ago. After that she has been crying and depressed. she says she still loves me, But she loves him too. They have not been together in 20 years. And were together about 2 years. We dated ... (100 words

My BF would like me to use a strap on dildo on him. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have quite an adverterous sex life where we like to try lots of new things . Lately we've been doing a lot of anal play and my boyfriend feels he would really get turned having me f___ him with a strap on dildo. I have no problem with this and think it would ... (138 words

Philosophy does not draw people into a verbal frenzy but I love it! How can I make others interested in it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am a hardcore philosophy geek. Some people have have sports, some people have music, I have philosophy. Whenever I try and get to know someone I lisen to them talk about their hobbies but when whenever I tell them I like philosophy they "Oh that's neat" and they never want ... (114 words

Hot and cold relationship! Is she frightened of commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - For the past year I have had an on/off relationship with a woman aged 42(I am the same age). By on/off what I mean is she blows hot and cold. Whenever she has ended the relationship, saying she just wants to be freinds she has maintained constant contact - telling me she miss... (252 words

Any good ways to tone up my tummy fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - i feel really embarrassed in front of guys about the way my tummy looks. its kinda fat and i wanna get it looking good for summer so i can comfortably wear bikinis, spesh in front of guys. are there any really good ways to tone ur tum fast? thx xxx... (51 words

Is it the search for perfection that makes me confused on who I actually like, my boyfriend or the neighbour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok, i am Soo confused. ive been dating this boy for 2 years now and i love him. but its at the point though where we are so used to each other i dont get like "butterflies" or anything when im with him. i love him though. however my best friend/neighbor who i have known fo... (207 words

Why would he lead me on in a long distance romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy(we'll call him Pete) two months ago at my friend's wedding. We were both staying there the week leading up to it, and hit it off...even though I have a boyfriend. The night before the wedding he kissed me. Nothing else happened because I did not want to physically ... (344 words

He's recovering from prostate cancer, any suggestions on how to please him sexually as he pleases me?

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23 August 2008 (F age - my guy friend had prostrate cancer a year ago and figures he hasn't got feeling back yet the way he's supposed to, but the other night I started giving him head and he almost got an errection, any suggestions to help me please him as much as he pleases me?... (50 words

Do you think worrying about your period coming on late actually makes it late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - well here goes.. ive had my period for 5 years now, i was quite average i think, started at 12 and im now 16 well anyway. at first they were a little out of place as they are.. but over the past 2 years or so, id say they have being pretty much in a routine, wel for the past 18 ... (232 words

He says he loves me and blushes when he sees me! But he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Complicated Problem please Help! Ok first of all. I'm 14 and the guy who im in love with is 15. We have been friends through out primary school and when i started my first year of high school i fell for him. Through out that year he kept giving me signals that made me t... (332 words

Are there "better" ways to express an interest in sex with an older woman? How should the sex be so that she enjoys it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 22 and I have been friends with a beautiful woman who is 38. I think it is time to take our relationship to the next level. We have been friends for a few years. We have done many things together including hiking, cooking, movies, dinners, etc. A few months ago she relo... (360 words

Cannot get over simple fling, although I haven't had real feelings for her. Why??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I have had a bad experience in my long term relationship, right before breaking up i met someone else that where very nice, sweet and seemed genuine, i at the was depressed and in a very bad emotional state, i eventually fell for her after my break up and was messed about... (153 words

She is going back to her ex for the sake of the kids even though she loves me more!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - i have been seeing a girl for the past few months, we have become very close and have fallen in love with each other! she has been getting pressure from her ex to get back together and has been pulling on her heartstrings and saying she should give them another chance for the ... (139 words

He says that he cannot be a friend to me any longer, because he loves me! But I do not reciprocate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - my best friend who is a guy says he has feelings for me. weve been friends for 8 months and we talk and txt all the time. we enjoy each other's company. when he said that he has feelings for me, i thort it would ruin our friendship because his ex is my good friend. (their ... (212 words

I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask my mother why I was like thi... (1486 words

I enjoy deep penetration but my boyfriend is not very gifted lengthwise. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Well one of my favourite things in bed is to be penetrated really deeply... And my boyfriend is, well, not exactly gifted in the size department. I really love him and he is desperate to please me, but the only ways we can do it is if he uses his hand, or if I us... (72 words

He broke up with me at his return from the holiday. I do not understand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles I had a BF of a year and a month. We were absotely happy in our relationship and everything went great. I love him more than anything, and I know for a fact that he never loved anyone as much as he loves me. This year we went seperate vacations. He went... (474 words

My ex moved away and I am astounded he finally replied to a mail. What should my next move be?

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23 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi I have recently split from my bf he relocated to sheffield we always chatted on the pc b4 the split since moving he has come online and has chosen not to im me .The other night i sent him an im he never replied and logged off i had also sent e-mails which i had no reply to ... (141 words

How do I help my boyfriend get through the first anniversary of his last girlfriend's death?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Its me, again. Crickey, my life is really complicated these days! Im not usually like this, just the past few months have been crazy. Well, im happy now, in a relationship with a new man, (the same man of the last post!). However.... next week is the first anniversary of the ... (232 words

Contraceptive implant...are there any age restrictions?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, i was wondering if there is an age restriction on the contraceptive implant for women? thanks xx... (21 words

Does milk serve as a facial care product? What else could I use for this purpose?

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23 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi i was just wondering if u can use milk (like drinking milk) to get rid of or to help reduce the appearance of spots on the face or any other area. i read that u culd on a website but i didnt know if it was true can u let me no if it is or what else is helpful for get... (82 words

She said she cannot commit to a relationship, why then was she flirty? How to progress with this?

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23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been going out with this girl for about three months, although we have kind of paused twice whilst we each went on holiday about a month of that. We are both 33, and it has been a year since we both broke up from long term relationships. We have dated around 8 times, and ... (258 words

Depressed about my acne, am I using the right products to sort this out?

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23 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi so i have spots and i am really depressed by them i hate them i am currently using a moisturizer and clenzer and exfoliator is this the rite thing to do if it is not can u plz tell me wot t do to get rid or help them improve plz help thankz... (73 words

I'm stressing over the smallest things! Please help!

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i seem to have a problem latley......I cannot stop worrying over tiny little things or stressing over things that dont even matter! is there something wrong with me, is there any treatments out there that could help this...Im stressig over tommorow cause i have to travel and i ... (77 words

Is there anyway to get my ex back even though she's dating someone else?

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23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - My ex girl and I dated for about 7 1/2 yrs. We have been broken up for about 10 months. The first couple of months I tried to get back. she said NO!! i wne t on dated, she found out so I stoped talking to that girl and started talking again with my ex. We were not dating but ... (114 words

I want to get him a special gift for our 1-year anniversary, but I am short of money! Any ideas?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. we arnet engaged or anything but it is pretty serious. its coming up to out 1 year anniversary so i wanted to get him something special,, only thing is i have financial prblems and so dont really have a penny to my name to buy ... (73 words

The girl next door is one of my best friends and like a sister to me, only recently I've developed feelings for her, what to do?

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23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - well i live next door to this girl whos a little younger than me weve lived next door to eachother for our whole lives, shes one of my best friends and like a sister to me and recently ive developed feelings for her ive thought about it and me and her have alot in common ... (75 words

I just wish he'd wake up one day and tell himself, I was the one he wanted, and not his girlfriend.

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy recently. It didn't take long before the innocent talks became outrageously flirtacious. I am totally into this guy, and I know he would definetly go for it, if he was single.. I don't know much about the two of them together, except that theyve had a good f... (290 words

21 years old and worried the size of my penis won't satisfy my new girlfriend.

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23 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Im a 21 yd old guy im a virgin and im really embarrassed my penis is very small just 2.5 inches when erect ive been seeing a girl for about 4 months shes my first gilrfriend and im too embarrassed to show her my penis im worried she will laugh at me what can i do how can i in... (69 words

We weren't in a proper realtionship, only confessed we liked each other, but he met another during his holiday and now I don't know what to say to him!

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, well a few months ago I started seeing a friend of a friend who is a little younger than me (he's 18, Im 20), I'll call him Joe for the purpose of writing this. Anyway we weren't together properly because we both have busy lives and found it difficult to see each other ... (541 words

My best friend is jealous because the guy we both like seems to notice me more...

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23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay its about friendship. But let me describe myself. I would say i'm rather good looking, reasonable fashion sense, quite intelligent and quite popular. So here's the problem. My best friend zoey(not her real name)has a crush on the same guy as me. Recently, i.ve been getting ... (172 words

I'm in love with two people, one of them is my boyfriend! I see them both frequently and do not know how to deal.

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 3 years and once we broke up because I thought I should just give up on account of there is no trust and well also I liked my friend. So we broke up but nothing ever happened with the guy but I never did know how he felt abou... (160 words

Are there possibilities of pregnancy with the withdrawal method?

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23 August 2008 (F - If you have unprotected sex can you get pregnant if the guy stops before he comes. I did and we were disturbed so stopped before he did but i have skipped a period. Is it my imagination or is it possible... (41 words

I don't feel like he has given me any alternative about flying to see him and I think he is being cold and cruel... any thoughts?

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23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi - my problem is that my boyfriend that I love went to live in New Zealand 5 months ago now to work his brother also lives there. He loves it there and has no plans at the moment to come back to England. He wants me to visit and stay for several months but timing is bad w... (308 words

We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?

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23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my plan was to wait till were ... (80 words

I tell my fiancee I may move away and she breaks up with me. Do I assume she is not in love?

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23 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am a young man (22) whos' life's path may lead to moving across country. I tell my finance of two and a half years and she breaks the engagement up. How do I take this? Do I assume she isn't in love with me (which she constantly tells me she does) or is this sounding like the ... (62 words

By the time I figure out a girl wants me, they've moved on or lost interest. Why are girls so hard to read?

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23 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - True story: I knew "Ashley" for four years in high school, and then the day before we graduate I found out she's had a crush on me the whole time! If I had known about it sooner, I would have asked her out (she's pretty, smart, the whole package); but of course she didn't tell ... (126 words

I'm in love with a married girl at work!

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23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm very lost now...I'm in love with a girl in my work place, but shes already been married. I dunno what to do now.. do you think its possible between me and her? We are considered very close friends but I never told her/anyone how I feel towards her. What should i do? I... (77 words

I like to tease, and now he won't respond!

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23 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - Its been 4 days since my boyfriend has tried to take my bra off, finger me or even tried to have sex with me. I know its 4 days but he would try every night and he hasn't. Maybe a little odd but I like it when he would try, and I've been horny for the past several hours. How ... (121 words

How do I live with my boyfriend and avoid sex?

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23 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I want to live with my boyfriend. How can I avoid sex before marriage? What excuse should I give when he asks for that? ... (28 words

I'm shy and want to fit in at school!

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey aunties, uncles, or who ever reads this: I'm a 15 year old girl who's just moved and I just started this new school. Problem is that I'm super shy with people I don't really know (familiarity is where I'm most comfortable)but I'm really outgoing once I know someone a l... (144 words

How do I masturbate for my boyfriend?

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23 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - my boyfriend wants me to masturbate for him but I'm not sure how I should do it! Please help.... (20 words

I think I want to leave my wife!

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23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for the past 14 years. We were both 19, pregnant, and pressured into this marriage. Not an excuse, just a back story. Now I am having several thoughts of leaving my wife. I have had a couple of little flings in the past three years, not proud, but ... (204 words

How do I avoid hurting feelings if I don't go out with him?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do! My question is very confusing but... here goes. I moved to Spain a while back and anyway, I've been here 3 years now. I'm 14 and tonight this 14 old boy asked me out and I said yes,... now I don't want to go out with him and he really likes me... (97 words

Why are people so stressed and miserable?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Why is everybody I see always so stressed and miserable? You only get one life,and its way too short to be anything but happy.why dont people realize this?... (28 words

I've fallen for my best friend, but he gives me nothing in return.

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have known my Best Friend for over three years now.Over the past year i have fallen for him.He was my first for everything and we are extremly close.I have always given him my all,put him infront of me,and always have tried to make him happy.I get Nothing in return.He has ... (216 words

I broke up with my best friend, and I miss him, but I won't be the first to call.

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Two weeks and one day ago I "broke up" with my best guy friend.We had been friends with benefits in the past,but he lost his virginity to some girl he doesnt even know or care about and i've secretly loved him.I have given him my heart and always put him first in my life,and he ... (180 words

I'm in love with our best friend, but I don't want to hurt my husband or break up our friend's marriage.

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23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay here it is.about three years ago i started sleeping with my husband and mine's bestfriend. but I fell inlove with him .i told him i was inlove he said he loved me too.he's also married with 3 kids.he is not happy in his marriage but feels his family cant servive without ... (189 words

I don't know how to act around guys

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23 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I don't know when i'm acting over the top around guys, i want to look funny and sweet.. but i think i might look demented. I don't think i look nice, i tell friends that i look fat when i'm skinny as a stick. It's hard to say that i like them, and it's hard to say a 'y... (79 words

He seems to have lost interest since he found out I wasn't pregnant.

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23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - How after 2 yrs of dating can a guy just not love someone? Months before the break up we thought I was prego and he told his family and closest friend he was excited, then found I wasnt he seemed bummed. Now he wont talk to any of his close family but his parents who dont like ... (175 words

She is meeting her ex husband to discuss the debt. Should I have a problem with this?

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23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been dating my girffriend for 2 months things progressed very quickly. We are going start living together when she comes home from her trip. She has a ex husband that stuck her with a large debt. My question is she told me he was going to take care of it but he wants to ... (71 words

I'd really like to go to her forbidden place...any opinions??

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23 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am looking for opinions here. I have been with my wife for 10 years, total. I have always wanted to have anal sex with her, but she has said only on one condition: She wants to do me first with a strap on dildo. She thinks the idea of a guy pounding my ass is a big turn on. ... (144 words

I don't want to come between he and his girlfriend...help!

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23 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Righttt, theres this boy and i like him he told me he liked me back but he has a girlfriend. Im really confussed, bcause a couple of weeks ago he broke up with her and we had a little kiss and cuddle but a few days later they got back together. And to be honest it did ma... (130 words

What is a vagina suppose to look like?

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23 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just turned 18, and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. Recently we have began to get really touchy and and intimate, but I haven't had sex im still a vigin and so is he. I've never seen his "penis" and he's never seen my "vagina" nor has he felt it, just on the outside ... (416 words

I never told my boyfriend about the guy pinning me down making me do sexual things! I feel like I'm dying inside because of it.

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23 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My heart is breaking into a million pieces, and its all my fault. i have been with my bf for over 4 yrs, and jus over a month ago i made the biggest mistake of my life. i cant eat, i cant sleep, i jus feel like dying. i work with the same company my bf does. and i love it, we ... (653 words

Any stories about losing your virginity??

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