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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend prefers porn to sex with me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (24) and I (22) have been together for almost 2 years. I have never liked the fact that he looks at porn and he has cut back for me. Which I really appreciate. But lately I have been begging for sex and he's constantly turning me down- even on my birthday. So I ... (174 words)

Is my fore-skin supposed to get pulled back during sex? It really hurts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - When having sex my foreskin gets pulled back is this meant to happen? why does it hurt soo much ? what is the best solution for this??... (27 words)

Jealous, Insecure, Contolling, Possessive, Clingy Girlfriend (Who I love with everything)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend fight almost every day, and most of the time, its about the smallest little thing. The fights get loud and emotionally charged. We have identified a few of the problems with both of us. One of them is that we both get angry or frustrated very easily, and it ... (167 words)

Five months into the relationship and the passion seems to have died. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - been with my boyfriend now 5 months and he still likes spending time with me but there is no passionate kissing now or fun sex he only seem to like it when i giv him a hand job and he has given up on trying to please me what should i do?... (52 words)

Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of the time trying to be here for ... (659 words)

He wants to kiss with tongues but I'm not sure what to do... !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hii x i am goin 2 alton towers soon with my boy friend ov 10 months ! he told me on msn that he really wants to kiss with toungs or if i am not comfortable with that just 2 snog n stuff well i thort that this wud be the perfect time ! so i need some advice on yhuu no how to s... (86 words)

What if he neglects the baby if I were to tell him? Another girl is already having his child!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd want to thank in advance for any readers and answerers, sorry for the lengthy post. I really don't know what im asking for here. Maybe just for your opinion on my situation, or I just need people to hear me out. I don't really have anybody to talk to so I turn to this. ... (1360 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, but we're not in love. I need to tell him that I need to move on, but I can't.

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 an been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. the problem is that we r not inlove an never have been, we just really care for eachother. i know deep down we would want to be in a relationship where we r inlove with that person. anyway i work in a hairdressers eve... (225 words)

Does he like me for me or for my ethnicity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and at University and there is a guy on my course who fancies me because I am Chinese. I find this rather disconcerting because I am not sure where I stand with him and if he likes me for me or just for my ethnicity. He already has a friend with 'benefits' (not that I ... (117 words)

She isn't ready to move in with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok my situation is this i am with a girl i love dearly and she loves me. I am 24 and she is 19, she is about to move from where we have lived with my dad for 8 months to university. I am willing to move with her and get a place with her but she says she isn't ready for that. ... (199 words)

How is losing my virginity going to feel? And what steps do I take to move it to full on sex?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there im 16 and im gunna have sex with my boyfriend at the weekend, im a virgin and have only ever kissed a guy before. i dont know what to do nd hes really experienced and knows alot bout sex and positions but i know nothing whatso ever, what am i gunna do i want to have ... (128 words)

I've reached a breaking point in my marriage, I know I can leave, but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here is the deal. I met my husband about 5 months ago and we got into a relationship pretty quickly. I fell deeply in love with him and I thought he felt the same for me. A month and a half into the relationship I found out that he was still in contact with his Ex and we ... (649 words)

I have lots of questions about sex and girls.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Several questions from the same poster were combined into one post, as he seems to have many questions about sex.] im a guy, sometime i stick a dildo in my butt, does this mean im gay? what is average size for a 16 year old male?... when should i have sex? i ... (122 words)

I think she wants more, but I don't know if I'm gay and to be honest I wouldn't mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem! well i'm not sure if it is a problem! I have been working with this woman for aobut 3 years! I am like dependant on her for certain reasons. She always want's to be alone with me and she is always hugging me. The work we do this really isn't ... (110 words)

Everything I touch turns to dust! How do I start over without losing anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dnt want to carry on! how do i get away from everything? everything being the situations in life. i really wish that i could start my life over again meet the same people but do different things i know this is impossible so how do i start afresh without loosing anyone i... (393 words)

Is the foreskin supposed to pull back during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - when having sex my foreskin gets pulled back as soon as i insert it, is this meant to happen? I find it very when I start rubbing wot can I do about this? Thank you for your help. ... (42 words)

I'm afraid I'm pushing him away because my self-esteem has been damaged by my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been a 3 year relationship with a wonderful man my problem is that all my life i have wanted to be accepted by my father and mother especially my father and every relationship i have been in i looked for father figures in them this relationship i am in has been so great ... (142 words)

Would my social worker be allowed to have a relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I fancy a social worker that has been assigned to myself and my 3 year old daughter, i am single, so is he, we are the same age and he is just the most amazing and intriguing man i have ever met; he is soon to finish on my case and is being moved on so to speak? Would he be ... (77 words)

Mid-life crisis at 28? I feel like life is passing me by!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this isn't really about relationships but you seem like a bunch of sensible people who might be able to help. Basically I'm sitting here in tears for the 6th night running. I'm having some sort of crisis. Like a mid-life one except I'm only 28!! I haven't done ... (863 words)

What happened here? He pays no attention to me unless we're out, and the sex has gone from a lot and good to less and NO foreplay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When me and my bf started dating in the beginning, he would be all over me. Now after 5 months of dating i don't even exist around him, he'd rather just have me in the background while he watches tv, hangs out with his friends etc. As soon as we go out he's veryy ... (152 words)

Is she his girlfriend by now? Should I even bother trying my luck with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago I saw this amazingly gorgeous girl come into where I worked and I didn't get her number, but another dude who works there did. He told me that he intends to make her his girlfriend, therefore I'm not allowed to talk to her if I see her again...yeah, sure, okay. ... (288 words)

I've lost confidence after my experience with losing my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when i lost my virginity i bled alot during the sex the guy i did it with carried on and he didnt use a condom he had blood all over him but he didnt seem phased or bothered at all but i was quite embarassed me and him havent had sex since could this be why? and also when ... (135 words)

I really like this boy and I think he likes me back too, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - right here goes im rele confussed :S I rele like this boy and i think he likes me back hes gotta girlfriend thou and hes been with her a reallly long time. I rele dunno wot to do cos i dnt wanna like come between them. I am really confussed can anyone help me!?.... (57 words)

My ex got married but says he's not in love with her. Why does he want to be my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were still talking after we broke up and was still intimidate and then one day he got married,he then told me and ask to still be my friend but says he's not in love with her but he did what was best for him right now. Is his marriage going to work and why do he ... (83 words)

My husband will get angry over the most trivial things, then won't speak to me for days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age - my husband and i have been married for 24 years. we have had our share of arguing and fighting. in the past 3 years we have started riding motorcycles and hanging out with our friends and this usually involves a couple of drinks, sometimes more. long story short is now and then ... (187 words)

Is it a smart decision to move to another country to get over a heartbreak?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is it a smart move to leave the country to move on from heartbreak and just start life with another country? and is it okay to still make friends to him afterall the lies he had caused me?please advice me... (40 words)

My husband has no desire for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 years. I have been very slim all my life. I have never weighted over 115 lbs. after I got married I gained 15 lbs, my husband was turned off by me completely. So I lost 15 lbs and we started to have sex again. Now I weight 118-120, and we have again stoped having sex. ... (253 words)

Am I too young to have sex? My bf really wants to and I do too.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayy so we both really wanna have sex but we dont know if we should cause were both scared it'll hurt me and we dont kno if were to young. Please help... What should we do?:( ... (38 words)

I am getting very paranoid about my height, I used to shrug off comments, now they are getting to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm being very paranoid about my height i'm 5ft soo very small and alot of people i know call me "umpalumpa" or they make jokes using lord of the rings calling me a "hobbit" i never used to take offence to this but now i am and i feel that whenever i meet someone they will be ... (77 words)

How do I break away from a married man after five years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have dated a married man for five years now and i would like to get over him very much. we have not benn intimate for 9 months now but i feel like i am going to go backwards pleas give me advice on how to get over him.... (50 words)

I love him and he loves me back, but he's going out with my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i love this guy but he's going out with my best friend and he loves me back. What should i do???... (21 words)

How can I make sure the relationship makes it past her three month mark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have hit the "three month" mark. She said when we first started dating that she always had issues at this point and rarely had a relationship make it past three months. However, she said she's falling for me and she can see and wants me in her future. She ... (215 words)

I need tips on how I can prepare myself for this college and how to make myself a better person!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sick of my friends and everyone. I am going to channel my energy into being able to go to the school of my dreams (F.I.T). Does anybody have any tips on how I can prepare myself for this college?? I've been having problems with so called "friends" and to get through ... (231 words)

A friend of ours asked about our marriage problems, should I be concerned about his motives?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married, but recently have realized that I am not happy with our marriage. I have talked to my husband about it and we are trying to work it out. My question is actually re: a friend. He must have noticed that things were different b/t my husband and I. He asked ne ... (141 words)

Could you give me help with my harsh problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok here goes, i have been with my girlfriend over 8 months now, at the start of the relationship i slept with someone else and also kissed another girl, ii told her about this and we broke up then decided we still wanted to try, then she kissed another boy and told me and i ... (154 words)

How do you get a guy's attention without seeming desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone have any advice on how to get a guys attention without acting desperate?... (15 words)

We work together, he used to come and see me all the time, now he seems to be ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My situation is this, I have never had a boyfriend of any sort and to be honest I have never really been attracted to any lads until about a year ago, when this really nice guy started working for our Company, he seemed just like me - quite shy. Anyway, we started talking ... (124 words)

My boyfriend is somewhat of a control freak. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have LIVED with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I'm almost 22 and he's almost 25. He's somewhat of a control freak I guess you can say. When we first got together everything was good..of course. As I started making friends and those friends wanted to start hanging out, and ... (437 words)

I have this urge to sleep with another guy to show my boyfriend how much it hurts to not be the only person in his life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend "hung out" with two other women when we had started going out. I had told him how much I didn't like him being alone with another woman but he didn't listen. So I have this strange earge to go and sleep with another guy just to make him feel the way I do. I know ... (86 words)

Could you tell me what this word means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ummm i was wondering what bukkake was??? x thanks x... (13 words)

Do you think its possible that she will realize her mistake and come back to me? Or that she will get tired of their bickering over time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me for her old ex. She says she loves both of us and is basically torn between the two of us. She says she needs to be with him because she feels like it, and she wants to understand why she feels that she needs to be with him. She has told me that whe... (190 words)

Why did he say that to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 16 and just need some help understanding this. Me and my best friend who is a guy and we have known each other for 12 years is opening up to me i guess you could say. He is very open about his private areas with me. He always says thing like oh my d*** is nice. But last ... (145 words)

A rhetorical question, in the UK, if two people under 16 consent to sex, is it legal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just a quick question. I know that in the UK the legal age for sex is 16. Does this mean that if 2 people under 16 consent to sex is it legal? I mean, I know that it's illegal when a person above the age of 16 has sex with somebody below the age of 16, but if they're ... (97 words)

Bad choices, either stay with my boyfriend who I care for as a friend or go for the one I really like but who is moving away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I must be confused as on a website asking this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.. Here's the main problem. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years (and have since moved in with) I started dating him after a really bad patch in my life and he was t... (267 words)

Third Wheel: He's having trouble "balancing" us both!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. It is a pretty serious relationship and have both told each other we love one another.He lives and works long hours in the city and I live about a half hour away. Usually during the week I will drive in perhaps once but he works ... (372 words)

I want to get in contact with my ex! How do I go about doing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I want to get in touch with my ex-bf. Bad idea or not, I'm going to do it anyway so I'd like advice to make it go as smoothly as possible. We broke up in June. I'm not gonna talk about getting back together or what happened, I just REALLY want to see him for now. ... (269 words)

Is my girlfriend losing interest and taking me for granted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 1.5 years now. She is 19 and I'm 21. When we first started dating we saw each other quite often- 3-4 times a week, which is expected at the beginning of any relationship. We usually spent some time alone, some with her friends and ... (841 words)

Will our relationship be affected long-term due to early sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I are planning to get back together and although we are 17/18 yrs we discuss our future and getting married.We were together for 3 yrs but broke up for 5 months mutually.We were planning to abstain until marrige but things took a turn and we began having sex.Now I am ... (86 words)

Is he interested in me even though he says "nothing's there"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have this friend, a guy, that I have known for over 2 years now. We are very good friends and get along great. We would hang out and drink and talk and have soooo much fun. He would get a little touchy feely with me, but that was ok. He was sending mixed messages to me. Well, ... (180 words)

How can I get over being depressed about not being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it so hard to get over a love for somone that will never happen. everytime i see people kissing or holding hands it feels like my heart is splitting in two. i know ill never see him again because he lives abroad and he likes my friend. why do i feel so depressed and ho... (75 words)

Am I too young to be in love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i am 12 and i think i may be in love with my boyfriend...am i too young? My friends all think i am. Someone please help!... (27 words)

How long will it take until he trusts me again and is there anything I can do to help the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my bf and then told him about it a week later. We're still together and trying to work things through and for the most part we're better than ever. However he has to be with me everywhere I go, and if he's not there I have to ring him constantly and we argue once ... (127 words)

Was I wrong for getting mad because he didn't take me with him and the other motorcyclists?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately. He's been wanting to go motorcycle riding with his friends he met at work, fine...Well, I WISH I could be fine with it. It's not the point of him going bike riding, it's he wants to go late at night and stays gone for ... (231 words)

My mate has told me the biggest secret any woman can tell another woman. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - right b4 u say it no it is not me..... i have been duped with the biggest secret any woman can tell another woman. basically my mate slept with her ex of 6 yrs ago about a month ago. thats not all.... she is married to my husbands cousin and has been for the last 5 yrs.... (128 words)

Am I stupid for staying? My wife's pregnant, we don't know who is the father, the other guy lives with us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 26 years old I have been married almost 2 years now. well let me start off by telling you my faults so that you might understand her side of it. Before we got married I started talking to a girl from work, but never did anything sexually with her, I was always really ... (204 words)

Why does he tell me he loves me to then only ignore me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres the story, i have been going with this guy for the past 18 months, i very much love him, more than i have loved anybody, but in the past we have both done things 2 hurt each other, we both have cheated on each other, and we split up for about 8 months and just recently ... (272 words)

Is this a sincere apology from someone that's grown up or is he just trying to get me in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My first major boyfriend got back in touch with me the other day and I'm not sure what to do about it. I was completely in love with him but he cheated on me, then after we broke up we just kept hooking up over and over again for about a year until I finally started seeing ... (184 words)

Recently my girl avoids kisses, cuddles and sex. But none of her lies point directly to cheating?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. we were always close and she was always happy and cheery. we had a great sex life and kisses and cuddles were romantic and nice. However recently she has been very snappy with me at the slightest of thing and avoids kisses, cudd... (130 words)

It looks like he's having his cake and eating it, and I just don't know what to do for the best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In March this year I started talking online to a guy. It turned out that he was the year above me at school and lived 2 minutes walk from my house. (he had changed so much I didnt recognise him). We met up a month later and got on like a house on fire. The first week he came ... (246 words)

My boyfriend thinks it's his job to parent me on chores. Is this normal male behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are having some issues. He thinks its his job to parent me on chores. I have been doing better to remind myself to do things since I also have other things I focus on like school, and job hunting. He says I have gotten better then before, yet he gets moods ... (100 words)

He told me months ago that he liked me, could I have upset him now during our msn talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im really confused, and this is kinda botherin me alot, me and this guy have been mates for like 3 years or so, hes 20 now and im 16, we have liked each other, well ive liked him for probably all three years, and he told me about 10 months ago that he liked me, when i found out ... (327 words)

I caught my husband with whom have been married for 1 1/2 years, on a dating site. I know we need counselling, how should I get him involved?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 1 1/2 years. We have been together for 3 years. Just prior to the wedding I found out he had several relations with different girls, had been on dating websites, and still texting and sending provocative pictures to some of the girls. I gathered as much ... (442 words)

Is it normal to want kids, but not want the sex or the husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to want kids, but not want the sex or the husband? People say i'll grow out of this feeling but i am not sure whether i will. I would love to be a mother but a sex slaving wife, no thanks. Is what i am feeling normal as i am not a child no longer nor have i had any ... (70 words)

Can a virgin have a smear test done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am near reaching an age where the doctors start to suggest smear tests. A thought occurred to me the other day and got me wondering whether female virgins get smear tested because wouldn't it break their hymen?? Can't spell. Unless humen already broken via bikin... (80 words)

A friend of mine has complained about sex with her husband, whata dvice do I give her next time she mentions this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age - A girl friend has hinted a few times about not enjoying sex with her husband. That he is not a good lover and he wants it too often. I get the feeling that it may only be once a month if he is lucky. What advice or where would you direct her for help the next tine she brings ... (71 words)

Why wont my boyfriend kiss me when I go to visit him in Prison?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 + my boyfriend is 17, he's still a virgin. Its not that which i am confused about. He's in prison + when i go to see him + ask him for a kiss he simply laughs + tells me that im not gettin 1. He's only ever kissed 1 girl. Why doesnt he want to kiss me? Please help, ... (67 words)

I can't remember what I did with my tampon at my friend's house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Argh!!! I had a blank spot and I took out my tampon at my friends house and I can't remember what I did with it!!! They didn't have a bin and it's really bugging me that I flushed it down the loo, coz, though I'm not sure, it could get stuck. even worse I might have left it ... (117 words)

I'm stressed, and sexually weak. I never used to be like this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 22 yrs old male.i am felling some sexual weak ness from last 3 months.sometime my penis doesnot erect some times it erect,and it's losing it's length, i am feeling very stressed.i don't what should i do,my physical condition is very good. i was very gud in sex but i don,t ... (68 words)

Am I moving too fast?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 14 ,15 in december and i had sex wif my girl friend i have only been goin out wif her 4 2 weeks am i movin 2 fast... (30 words)

I'm in love with a teacher. Will these feelings go away?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've been in love with this teacher for 2 years now. At first it was obsession. I know so much about him because he's my cousin's best friend. So its like he's a part of the family. Always at family parties and stuff. But anyway it really developed into somethin... (195 words)

How do I get his mum to forgive my cheating on him?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i was with my boyfriend for just over one year, but i cheated on him a few times when i was drunk. i told him this and he was willing to forgive me, but i broke up with him because i felt guilty, since him i have had a new relationship which ended after a... (310 words)

I want to break up with him in a way that lets him know I am not willing to be ignored like this, how can I make him want me again?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 18 months has changed. He doesnt call when he says he will, he stands me up and I feel ignored. I want to break up with him in a way that lets him know I am not willing to be treated this way but I do still want him to know that I love him. I will only have him ... (102 words)

When my wife and I make love she just lays there, I am so sexually frustrated, we talked about this but nothing changes!...

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What do you think about this? I've been married for 9 years and we have four kids. My wife is a stay at home Mom which I give her alot of credit for. My Question is this...She has really never been into French kissing, Initiating Sex, Giving Oral or even a Handjob. I am ... (206 words)

I want to break up with my boyfriend who helped and supported me through my breakdown...

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right, well... i sent a question a few hours ago, explaining that i had a nervous breakdown wen i had a miscarrige, n that resulted in me breaking up with my boyfriend, and i got back with my ex who helped me through the breakdown... but after bout a year with my curran... (410 words)

When I met my ex he didn't have a job / career, and hasn't progressed much since. Should I try and work things out with him after a failed relationship with another?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have had quite a rocky two years. Two years ago i was in a relationship which my parents didnt approve of coz the man had no job and no career and wasnt making any money. I loved him tho so i made the decision to be with him and decided to give him a chance to build hims... (521 words)

How do you get the trust back without checking up all the time?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age - My husband looks at alot of porn and has had inappropriate text conversations with other women. One such relationship started 4 months after we were married and carried on for another four months. I discovered the conversations by accident from the phone bill.Initially I ... (113 words)

After the break up I met someone else, now both men are interested in me and I don't know who to choose...

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20 August 2008 (F)

age - I am separated with 2 small children and just started dating a man for the last 5 months. We had very romantic dates and passionate sex every Sat. night...until he announced that he wanted to have dinner with an ex-girlfriend who just came back into town after being away for 2 ... (332 words)

I want to have children but we never have sex anymore as he has performance issues due to his drinking, I feel my time is running...

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a high functioning alcoholic, who only drinks on the weekends, but his drinking is starting to affect our relationship, emotionally and sexually, and his health. He has never been violent but is becoming more accident prone due to alcohol. I want to have ... (89 words)

He WANTS me to initialise sex and I have a hard time doing so due to my experience of having been rejected in the past...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married to a man that I loved very much, but when it came to sex, he would always reject me if I initiated sexual moves towards him. I am now engaged to a wonderful guy, but when it comes to sex, he WANTS me to initialize sex and I have a hard time doing so due to my past... (221 words)

Problems maintaining erection, I don't know if it is because I'm anxious or uncomfortable being with a new girl, or something else! Help!

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got with a new girlfriend, and I'm having trouble staying erect after I start having sex. I have no trouble at all staying erect during oral, or even coming, but after a few minutes of actual intercourse, I begin to go soft. I dont know if this is because I'm anxi... (72 words)

After two years of relationship love does not feel the same from either side!

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boy friend for over 2 years and I'm feling like my relationship is not as it was before. My love isn't the same and I feel that he doesn't love me that much as he used to before. I feel lonely and get tensed. Can you please help me? What should I do?... (58 words)

Heartache from a guy at work, and blackmail from another guy. I hate going to work now.

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i really like him! thers a guy at work that i really like and the feelings are mutual or so he says but he says he is not ready for a relationship at the min! we shared a kiss when on a work night out but thts as far as it went. we text each other like 30 + times a day even ... (330 words)

I'm 23 and have never had a relationship. Help!

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, first time speaking out about all this, here goes: I'm 23 and a virgin, never been in a relationship/kissed/etc. I'm a college graduate, starting up grad school soon. I have a few female friends, but they're either in relationships or 'just friends'. one in particula... (406 words)

I lost the promise ring my boyfriend gave to me! Do I tell him or just buy another one?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all help two days ago i lot my promise ring that my boyfriend gave me , i havent told him as i dont know how to , should i tell him or should i go and buy another ring help ... (47 words)

She said the age gap was to small - what's a 'proper' age gap for couples?

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend met two years back and i had to leave my country a week after we met for studies an stuff. We had a really good connection since then, we trusted and respected each other. We had a short holiday 3 months ago which i decided to spend it at my home country. ... (230 words)

Am I being unreasonable by wanting to leave my house to my children rather than my husband?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age - Hi. I have been with my husband for two years. He moved into the house that I own from proceeds of a settlement from a previous relationship that produced children.. he came with basically nothing just a good wage. Since we were married my mortgage has gone up by $40K. some ... (149 words)

The less time my boyfriend spends with me, the more time I spend with my ex, and all the old feelings are coming back...

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, in advance i am thankful for any advice given to me. well the thing is, i went out with this guy for about 6months. then i was wiv another guy for 2years, but we broke up wen i had a miscaridge n had a mental breakdown. now i am back with the first guy, and we ... (324 words)

Why did my girlfriend over-react to an innocent comment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, i'm 17 yet this relationship progressed alot and we were close together. Me and my girlfriend got drunk yesterday (I know, i'm underage) and I felt it in quite a bad way. I was with my girlfriend and two friends who were... (220 words)

We became very close, but now it's all gone complicated. How can I get things back to how they were?

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - we've know each other for like 10 months. Before that, once in awhile we will hang out together with some other friends.I never taught of liking her and stuff like that but at 3 weeks back, we are getting closer, sometimes she asked me out, sometimes i will asked her out. S... (212 words)

I have lost my husband's trust, how can I 'learn my lesson' so he stays happy?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, so I have contentiously messed up in my marriage and my husband no longer trust me! Its not an affair but he seems to think it is pretty close. I basically took on the responsibility of a kid after I told him I did not want kids right now, and since this kid is 26 he has ... (155 words)

How can I get my ex to at least talk to me?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i broke up three days ago through text message ... he is really laid back and doesn't like drama or fights or anything ... im sure he really cared ... but we broke up because i left him a voicemail telling him we needed a break but it came out all wrong th... (287 words)

I'm in love with two guys, help me!

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem: I have a boyfriend of one year and I love him very much, over the past four months I have fallen in love with one of his friends. We are all in school together. I know I am young, but I know that I love both of them equally. I don't know what to do be... (123 words)

She has made it clear that she is not interested in dating. Do I persevere anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

20 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i met a lady through online dating and we hit it off went out on roughly 4 dates and she indicated she was interested in me. She then rang and told me that her old boyfreind had contacted her and she was going to try again with him. this rather upset me and in an email I told ... (297 words)

I caught my mother cheating on my father, she also lies on my father, I love her as she is my mom, but I have hateful feelings towards her, how can I change this?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a real big problem with my mother ever since i caught her cheating on my father that was when i was twelve and now im 18. The thing is she will lie to any one that will listen. She says my dad used to beat her. He would never ever hurt a woman. He didnt even hit me ... (129 words)

My 13 Year Old Friend Is Pregnant,...

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do? my 13 year old friend went away to camp, met a guy , lost her virginity , and now thinks she pregnant. She feels like an idiot . I tryed to help her , and im still trying , . Were buying the test soon to see if she pregnant or not . But what does she do if she is ... (120 words)

Any unique positions you enjoy?

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Wanna here from differnt viewers regarding my question. What kind of sexual position would your partner prefer on, to get them cum? I give a little info.That my partner is 25 prefer the position of "|Union in Godess" a position were both of you set on the bed, shes... (146 words)

I'm 15, and never had a girlfriend, been kissed or even held hands with a girl?

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and never had a girlfriend, been kissed or even held hands with a girl. Am I doing someting wrong? Whenever I think a girl likes me it always turns out that they were just being friendly. My brother is 2 years older than me but has had at least 10 girlfriends. He gets ... (124 words)

I feel so bad about my looks!

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well iam sometimes feel that i care way to much about other people and other things then i do myself,but time to time i do think about myself but usally i feel bad about myself like iam fat or ungly,what should i do about this?... (45 words)

He all but ignores me at work-why?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a tour guide and last year I met a guy working in one of the places I visit regularly. He is a very friendly person anyway but always made a big fuss of me, giving me a big welcome whenever I showed up, which my clients liked very much. We became friends, seeing each ... (298 words)

French kissing- Any tips?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This will probably sound pretty crazy to most but... I am 26 and have no idea how to french kiss. When I try it just seems so unnatural. Thoughts? Advice? Thank you!... (35 words)

How do I give away my identity to a mature, strong lady?

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I want to give away my identity to mature, strong lady. How do I find that kind of woman and signify my willingness?... (26 words)

Is this real love?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im only 13 and i really like this 17 year old. we dated for about 2 weeks then we broke up cause we didnt want to get in trouble and i thought i was ok with it until i seen him then i realized i still like him and hes my next door neighbor and everytime i c him ou... (215 words)

Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv? I am so sick of it! It is on from the minute he gets home, until he finally falls asleep! We used to have fun together, but now I stay in the living room, on my computer and he stays in the bedroom and watches mindless hours of ... (70 words)

Is he lying to me when he tells me he likes me?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy that i have been talking to for a while...at the beginning of the summer we really liked each other, or so he told me, and then didnt talk to me for a month. then one day we started talking again... when i told him how i felt about him, he told me that he ... (163 words)

House Trouble: How do I not be the bad guy?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and me and my bofriend just bought a house together 3 months ago, now his friend got kicked out of his house and my boyfriend said he could live with us without asking me. I feel like my privacy will be taken away what should I do and say without feeling like the bad ... (58 words)

I'm a young guy with sexual problems. My girlfriend is getting frustrated. How do I fix this

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20 August 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I've been having sexual problems lately. I've been with this woman for 4 years and never had anything like this happen, but for the past two or three months or so I've been going soft during sex and sometimes we have to stop altogether because I can't get it going again. It's ... (250 words)

Is anyone else just as afraid to be alone?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Here I am again - I thought I was making progress and I know that the boyfriend is NO GOOD for me and I deserve better so why do I still want to get attention from him? He makes me sick! Like last night he said he would call back and he didnt then I sent a txt this morning... (224 words)

I'm more attracted to her mentally than sexually... I love a different girl!

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - ok so ive been in love with this amazing girl since 2 years ago. ive never gotten over her and i have never wanted to. i mean i want to have kids with this girl and marry her! i love her more than anything. now at the beginning of this most recent summer i started dating ... (145 words)

My wife cheated on me while I was in Iraq... Is she always going to be a cheater?

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20 August 2008 (?) age 36-40 - 5 years ago while i was in Iraq My wife (18years old) cheated on me and had a guy live with her while I was away. I too cheated out of resentment when I got back but have learned from my mistakes and never want to hurt her again (I admit I have screwed up plenty). Now 5 years ... (193 words)

He kidnapped me and now talks in terms of marriage. Should I tell him I don't want to?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I recently met this guy, he seemed so nice and sweet and now we are living together. He's 25 and he has a good job and a girlfriend but he tells me he doesn't love her. I used to live at home but like the knight he is, he rescued me from that. IN legal terms I was ... (187 words)

How common is it for girls to experiment with other girls? I'm not attracted to them but I like sex with them.

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How common is it for girls to experiment with other girls?? i am not attracted to other girls but like sex with them . am i alone in this?? my first sexual experiences were with girls when i was young(about 9 or 10) me and my best friend would always give each other back rubs ... (227 words)

What should you do if you love your uncle?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what should you do if you love your uncle? if you know its true love and you alredy tried to back away but you just cant because you know its true love but forbidden what are the consequenses for this act? and can you like be together? and if you know or have any sugg... (70 words)

My older boyfriend doesn't know if he wants a relationship?

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so im 21 years old and have been seeing this guy who is actually alot older then me he is 38, it started out just hanging out and having alot of fun well now we are sleeping together and i stay at his house alot. Well i really really like him now and would like to start a ... (110 words)

How can I cut free my widowed mother's apron strings?!

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i'm 26 and i want to move away with my boyfriend down south, to grad school, but i daren't tell my widowed mother whom i currently still live with. all of our family live in the same village and always have. mum and dad stayed near their parents too. my boyfriend (whom ... (649 words)

Why do guys make jokes about this? Do they want girls to think they are studs or are they really sleeping around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

20 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quite a few of the guys I have been with have joked about not making marks on them incase the other girls see. Why do guys make jokes about this? Is it a case of they want us girls to think they are studs and that lots of girls want them or are they genuinally sleeping ... (59 words)

I want to be a companion for lonely women. Any advice on finding clients?

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20 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I want to become a companion for lonely women. I've heard that older women want more than sex (they want someone to have fun with, talk to). Well I'm good at that and I'm reasonably attractive too. Money is not an issue...if women pay me 8 bucks an hour I'll be ... (70 words)

Obama for president?

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20 August 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I am with Barrak Obamha ... (117 words)

Is this true love or infatuation? We are both married.

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - When we first met and sat down for conversation at work, we both seemed shy and uneasy. But as the days went by we found each other sharing about what we wanted in life with our other halves. We both are married but not happily. One day we found each other in each other's ... (380 words)

My son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend!

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20 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my son is bullying his pregnant girlfriend, she is always upset because of what he is doing, i dont know what to do, i was with his abusive father for 2o years and my own head is messed up. my son always said he would never be like his father but it is happening and i really ... (116 words)