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Why does his liking for younger women arouse me?

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Question - (19 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2008)
A female Philippines age , anonymous writes:

I feel I have a problem. I'm not normal anymore and it started after knowing that my boyfriend had sexual affair with a very young woman. He was 47 and the girl was 21, I hate him so much after he told me. On the other hand it aroused me imagining how was it when they were together since they worked in the same company and for sure they went somewhere else after work hours. I couldnt resist the feeling then I would start masturbating. I had once consulted a psychologist but he wasnt able to help me. Has it something to do that I believe he is still interested with very young women for I caught him lot of times exchanging emails and saw phone numbers of women? Please help me...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008):

hi.first of all, getting aroused at the thought of your man with a younger woman is not as abnormal as you might think. My man is in his 60's,I'm in my late 30's, we're both attractive but before we got together we had numerous affairs because of our previous unhappy marriages. Yes, the thought of him with another woman, especially younger, made me jealous, even though it was before me, but you have no idea how much it spices up our sex life.you could use this to your advanage. In fact I am getting aroused as I'm sending this mail, thinking of him with a young girl :) The difference with our situations however is that my man won't cheat on me. He cheated on his first wife because he was bitterly unhappy, she was also messing around and they let it drag on for too long. I was in the same situation before I met him, so when we met each other 3 years ago we made a vow to be faithful and not to repeat the same mistakes we both made in our previous marriages. He knows he can be open with ALL his fantasies with me and vice versa (we never had this before), and both of us don't have reason to cheat. We are very sexually fullfilled. I think your man might be turned on knowing that you get aroused, might you must confront him about being in touch with other women. That is a big no-no.Good luck!

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